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Dealing with Noisy Neighbours

By: Jeff Durham - Updated: 1 Jun 2017 | comments*Discuss
 
Dealing With Noisy Neighbours

Some of us will have had to deal with noisy neighbours at one time or another. Often, this might be simply because of the types of personality they have and not because they want to be disruptive.

Remember, we’re not all the same ‘types’ of people. You might prefer the quiet life or you’d much rather enjoy doing all of your socialising down at the pub. Others, however, might enjoy socialising at home and having parties, they might be DIY enthusiasts, or have a small tribe of children and we’re all aware of how much noise a group of kids can generate.

The problems arise when the noise becomes excessive and it can escalate even further over time if ignored. It can cause stress to those it affects as well as inflicting sleepless nights and can, in effect, completely ruin your enjoyment of your own life in your own home. However, you might be surprised to discover that many people who are considered ‘noisy’ and disruptive are often totally unaware of the effects they are having on others, and a simple polite conversation will often resolve the issue.

Speaking to your Neighbour First

No one should have to tolerate Excessive Noise Pollution, but it's not very neighbouring if you immediately call the police or your local Environmental Health Department at the first sign of any loud noise. Many noisy neighbours might consider this to be a bit like ‘going behind their back’ instead of speaking to them first and, if a complaint is made anonymously, it can often cause an even deeper sense of resentment. They may then become suspicious of everybody in their immediate neighbourhood, and their mistrust can sometimes lead to them becoming even more disruptive.

That doesn’t mean you, as the person under sufferance, should have to put up with their behaviour, but talking to them first about the situation can often nip in the bud a potential long-term noise problem. What is important, however, is the way in which you choose to speak to them and, quite often, the timing.

Choosing the Right Moment

Even if you’ve been tearing your hair out, it’s important that when you go to speak to your neighbour, you stay calm and remain polite. Simply point out to them what effects their behaviour has had on you and your family. You can be firm and get your point across in a polite manner. Most neighbours should be reasonable enough to understand and to take your views on board which should keep things harmonious between you, and also should ensure that they do not repeat the same mistake again.

If you’ve hardly spoken to them previously, you’ll naturally feel a little apprehensive about doing this, but it’s usually the best solution and stops the problem from escalating. However, the other crucial issue is the timing and not simply what you say and how you say it. A house party is a good example.

The Right Timing

If a party is in full swing yet the noise is excessive, it’ll be no doubt very tempting to go and confront your neighbours there and then. The best advice would be to leave it until the following day, as they may have had a few drinks too many and be right in the party spirit. So, if you confront them when the party’s in full flow, they may simply see you as a ‘killjoy’ and/or will simply not be in the frame of mind to give any thought to how their behaviour is affecting you. So, whether it’s a party or a DIY project that’s giving you grief, you’re much more likely to get your points across and produce the desired result if you wait a day or so.

The fact is that most excessive noise problems with neighbours can often be better resolved between neighbours themselves. Sometimes it’s even more effective if a few neighbours who have been affected go round together and state their case, as nobody likes to feel a social outcast within their own neighbourhood.

This all said, however, there may be several reasons why you might not wish to have a chat with your neighbour first to try to resolve matters. Perhaps they are renowned for making people’s lives difficult, or they might want to provoke you into a confrontation that might get out of hand. So, it may be a ‘judgement call’ depending upon the ‘personalities’ involved.

However, no one has the legal right to make someone else’s life a misery through excessive noise, so don't feel guilty about Contacting Your Local Environmental Health Department or even the police, if you strongly suspect that by confronting the issue directly yourself, you could be putting yourself at risk of harm in any way.

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Could anyone tell me how many decimal is noise nuisance. My neighbour use the kitchen which is close to my bedrooms during the night with loud kitchen noises. Is this legal?
tweetybird - 1-Jun-17 @ 3:10 PM
F1Fan37 - Your Question:
I have lived in my flat since September 2016, during which time I have undergone major surgery and I'm still trying to recover. I am unable to leave the house much and my neighbours are making my life a misery. A few weeks ago, a mysterious humming/whirring/vibrating sound began.It goes on 24 hours a day. I can't get away from it anywhere in the flat. If I try and go to sleep in my bed, I can feel the bed shaking. If I sit on the sofa in the living room its the same. I can even hear it in the bathroom. I have tried earplugs but they don't block out the high pitched humming at all. I was driving myself crazy trying to work out what it was, and were it was coming from. I had plumbers, electricians and gas engineers round to see if anything was wrong. It wasn't, I've had my hearing checked for tinnitus and it wasn't that. I asked all the neighbours below, and opposite me in my block and they don't know anything about what it is. So I reasoned it must be coming from the adjoining block.Not knowing what the noise was or what was causing it, I put a polite note on the entrance door of the next block asking them if they could move the offending object or turn it off at night so I could get some sleep. This was ignored.I worked out eventually where the noise had to be coming from and reported it to my landlord and they said they would write to them. I don't know wether they did and have just been ignored or wether they just haven't contacted them at all, but the noise still continued. So in desperation I contacted environmental health, who sent someone around quite quickly, and she heard the noise, and said they would contact them promptly.The problem is she said that as the noise isn't what you would call a traditional nuisance, it may be hard to deal with. That was last Thursday and the noise is still continuing.I haven't slept more than an hour a night since the 4th of April and I am at my wits end. I am trying to heal from surgery and get much needed rest but can't. Has anyone else experienced anything similar? And if so did you manage to resolve it? Many thanks

Our Response:
It does sound as though Environmental Health are doing whatever they can at this stage. Unfortunately, these things are not easy to resolve quickly, so you may need to be patient. Do keep in touch with them to make sure they are progessing with your case.
ProblemNeighbours - 18-May-17 @ 10:34 AM
I have lived in my flat since September 2016, during which time i have undergone major surgery and I'm still trying to recover. I am unable to leave the house much and my neighbours are making my life a misery. A few weeks ago, a mysterious humming/whirring/vibrating sound began.It goes on 24 hours a day. I can't get away from it anywhere in the flat. If i try and go to sleep in my bed, i can feel the bed shaking. If i sit on the sofa in the living room its the same. I can even hear it in the bathroom. I have tried earplugs but they don't block out the high pitched humming at all. I was driving myself crazy trying to work out what it was, and were it was coming from. I had plumbers, electricians and gas engineers round to see if anything was wrong. It wasn't, I've had my hearing checked for tinnitus and it wasn't that. I asked all the neighbours below, and opposite me in my block and they don't know anything about what it is. So i reasoned it must be coming from the adjoining block. Not knowing what the noise was or what was causing it, i put a polite note on the entrance door of the next block asking them if they could move the offending object or turn it off at night so i could get some sleep. This was ignored. I worked out eventually where the noise had to be coming from and reported it to my landlord and they said they would write to them. I don't know wether they did and have just been ignored or wether they just haven't contacted them at all, but the noise still continued. So in desperation I contacted environmental health, who sent someone around quite quickly, and she heard the noise, and said they would contact them promptly.The problem is she said that as the noise isn't what you would call a traditional nuisance, it may be hard to deal with. That was last Thursday and the noise is still continuing. I haven't slept more than an hour a night since the 4th of April and I am at my wits end. I am trying to heal from surgery and get much needed rest but can't. Has anyone else experienced anything similar? And if so did you manage to resolve it? Many thanks
F1Fan37 - 17-May-17 @ 1:13 AM
Lou- Your Question:
My neighbour above flat has party's nearly every weekend and bank holidays they all are noisy I live with my partner and little daughter we can't stand noise and nuisance when the neighbour has people there they through the rubbish and cigarette tips in our back garden we keep our back garden clean and tidy we have the right to peace and quiet in our home and the neighbour dogs bark all hours when I found out that not suppose to have dogs in flats because of shared garden just because her and her girlfriend work in the week got to have party nearly every weekend and bank holidays and the other neighbours are quite

Our Response:
Complain to their landlord first of all. Their tenancy agreement will undoubtedly have a clause about noise/disturbance to others and whether dogs are allowed. The landlord should be able to enforce this. If it's unsuccessful then of course Environmental health is your next port of call.
ProblemNeighbours - 2-May-17 @ 11:14 AM
My neighbour above flat has party's nearly every weekend and bank holidays they all are noisy I live with my partner and little daughter we can't stand noise and nuisance when the neighbour has people there they through the rubbish and cigarette tips in our back garden we keep our back garden clean and tidy we have the right to peace and quiet in our home and the neighbour dogs bark all hours when I found out that not suppose to have dogs in flats because of shared garden just because her and her girlfriend work in the week got to have party nearly every weekend and bank holidays and the other neighbours are quite
Lou - 1-May-17 @ 12:52 AM
My neighbour above is a nuisance she and her girlfriend have party nearly every weekend noisy people who don't live there kids trow rubbish in our back garden dogs Barking a lot just because they both work in the week we live in flat housing asociations but lately noisy and last Saturday I was on my way out the neighbour thrown water over me she was cleaning her windows had pan of water lucky my little girl wasn't outside at the time my clothes was wet I had to go and change my clothes she is unbelievable she breaking her tenancy agreement but she special treatment from coastal housing not suppose to have party and dogs in flat
Lou - 14-Apr-17 @ 12:38 AM
tweetybird - Your Question:
Hi there, I have suffered my neighbour a care home noises for years. After they installed an extractor fan, the council refused to investigate any more, they only replied to me we have fully investigated. During the night the staffs use the kitchen with noises and turn on machines which affected our sleep. During the day they turn on kitchen machines with constantly loud kitchen noises. We cannot open our patio door and use the garden. The machine was turned on from 7am to 7pm or later.Are these called nuisance? How can I show the evidence to the court, as the council won't give the evidence and they did not monitor the loud machines' noises.

Our Response:
If you were to take your own legal action you could consider hiring a device? A solicitor might be able to advise. The problem may be that the council have already monitored the noise and clearly the levels do not exceed the statutory limits or they would have taken further action.
ProblemNeighbours - 4-Apr-17 @ 10:59 AM
Hi there, I have suffered my neighbour a care home noises for years. After they installed an extractor fan, the council refused to investigate any more, they only replied to me we have fully investigated. During the night the staffs use the kitchen with noises and turn on machines which affected our sleep. During the day they turn on kitchen machines with constantly loud kitchen noises. We cannot open our patio door and use the garden. The machine was turned on from 7am to 7pm or later. Are these called nuisance? How can I show the evidence to the court, as the council won't give the evidence and they did not monitor the loud machines' noises.
tweetybird - 3-Apr-17 @ 9:56 AM
The person below me playing music and tv up very loud all night the person keeps me awake all night I've not had any sleep at all because of it I suffer from depression and it's making me very worse so can yu please help me to sort it out for me my name sharon monk my address is 15b Ibroxholme place Glasgow G512tp 2tp
Monk - 2-Apr-17 @ 10:29 PM
Teddy - Your Question:
Hi there, I am experiencing trouble myself with neighbours and sympathise with you all. Ketushe, you're situation sounds terrible and is similar to mine but yours sounds a lot worst. You need to complain to your council, yes you will have to declare it if you choose to sell but you cannot live like that! As for the admin of this page, sorry but all you seem to do is put people off complaining or suggest that "maybe" someone would help at environmental help. Yes there are implications to making official complaints but let me tell you it's hell to live with on a daily basis. I hound my council weekly and have personal contact with quite a few individuals and slowly things are getting better. I'm wondering if the admin has actually gone through or experienced problem neighbours?

Our Response:
No we don't suggest that "maybe" environmental health could help. They have a duty to investigate certain types of complaint and we always recommend this course of action where appropriate. Yes of course you have to declare neighbour complaints when you sell - there's no way around it and we understand that some people don't al;ways want to make a complaint so provide other options too, such as our letter templates, mediation and so on.
ProblemNeighbours - 2-Mar-17 @ 10:15 AM
Hi there, I am experiencing trouble myself with neighbours and sympathise with you all. Ketushe, you're situation sounds terrible and is similar to mine but yours sounds a lot worst. You need to complain to your council, yes you will have to declare it if you choose to sell but you cannot live like that! As for the admin of this page, sorry but all you seem to do is put people off complaining or suggest that "maybe" someone would help at environmental help. Yes there are implications to making official complaints but let me tell you it's hell to live with on a daily basis. I hound my council weekly and have personal contact with quite a few individuals and slowly things are getting better. I'm wondering if the admin has actually gone through or experienced problem neighbours?
Teddy - 28-Feb-17 @ 10:44 AM
Before I start - I'm not anti-children... and I don't expect to live in complete silence... I am realistic!! Last year after several months of my neighbour's kids shouting and screaming etc etc right by my fence (they live behind me in a cul-de-sac and I live at the entrance of the road, so the pavement is adjacent to my garden).This was not just playing - they had they huge pump action water canons and then they decided to go up and down racing bikes and scooters.the noise was horrendous and seriously was way above "just normal kids playing".I should also point out that one of their kids has a drum kit, which is in their garage - so when he "plays", they have their garage door open so their is no escape. All of this was happening where I was trying to sit on my patio in my garden, sadly I lost my patience as it was in the Summer and I wanted to cool down in my own garden.I asked them (over the fence) to move away and play by their own house please.I was polite and non-threatening, but within 5mins I had their mother on the warpath banging on my door!She was possessed with rage!!!!Completely disproportionate.We got on OK before (she even looked after my dog when I had to go to hospital for day surgery!) so I was gobsmacked to be met with a torrent of threatening abuse... She bluntly told me that I was being grumpy and that her children could do what they like and where they like - and basically how dare I complain and if I didn't like it - I should move. She accused me of shouting at her kids and also complained that my dog barks early in the morning too much and I was in no position to complain! This left me completely distressed... and to aggravate the situation instead of calling her kids in, they witnessed this and then she encouraged them to make MORE noise and do what they like.If it had been me, I would have told the kids to move away - so that this didn't escalate etc to try and diffuse the situation... but she didn't and now the kids think they definitely can do what they like! As we had got one before, I wrote a letter to her (which I signed and left a box of chocs as a peace offering)... In the letter I was polite, I apologised for the drama but said that her children were making a great deal of noise and that I did not shout (despite what the kids told her - I didn't!!!) and although I don't have children, perhaps I'm not as de-sensitised to kids noise as a busy mum of 3.I tried to explain that my dog (a small Jack Russell) is ill and have a chronic eating disorder - this means I am awake through the night as he is frequently sick and needs to eat grass to purge his stomach and will not make old bones... and that if my dog had barked before 6am it was only 2-3 small barks and that I would do my best to stop him.However, he is not left out in the garden alone, is on a lead to drag him in, and only barks if there is a fox/cat/ or someone bangs a car door or even walks past.He is not left
Katriona25 - 20-Feb-17 @ 12:30 AM
Hi, just after some advice. I live in an old tenement block and the tenant directly below me does not have loud parties as such but on a daily basis he plays really loud TV and computer games which stop me from relaxing at night (after studying all day every day) and instead get me even more stressed and its causing me sleepless nights and generally affecting my everyday wellbeing. I have already left various notes, politely explaining that the noise travels up into my room and it would be appreciated if he could turn it down. I cannot even listen to my own TV properly as the noise he makes comes over the noise my TV makes. I just think it is so rude to be aware of the disturbance you are making and to keep going along with it because you couldn't care less about anyone but yourself. Am I within my rights to report him if it is more of a daily occurrence and disruption rather than occasional loud parties? I am sick of it and it is really not helping my stress levels!!!
IHATENOISYNEIGHBOURS - 18-Jan-17 @ 9:41 PM
Me and my partner have been living in this house for 2 years now and our next door neighbours have never been a problem up until 3/4 months ago, our bedroom is in the back and their back door is very close to our bedroom window so we can hear what's going on outside but the problem is we can hear every word they say every night they stand outside shouting for 2/3 hours drinking and smoking but the brother (the one doing the shouting) is the only one there to speak English and we have asked him countless times to be quiet as it's always around 10:30 when they start and sometimes lasts until 12, my fiancé spoke to him and ask him politely to be quiet as I'm pregnant and need my sleep! But for the last 2 weeks all day everyday they shout/ argue and stomp around no matter what the time is and we've spoken to them at least 2/3 times always staying calm when we speak with them cause as people they are nice but as neighbours they are terrible, but having spoken to them what can we do as im due to give birth in may I can't sleep due to them so how will my child sleep with them? What else do you suggest?
Ketushe - 8-Jan-17 @ 12:09 PM
We moved into our mid terraced just under two years ago. One side of us was occupied, the other was empty..Growing up in a terraced I never expected silence as I understand your literally wedged between two sets of neighbours but what we have to put up with is absolutely appalling!. Neighbour on one side, they live in their bedroom because according to them they have no working heating downstairs, we hear nothing from them all evening, I take our toddler up to get her to sleep at 9pm and at 10pm like clockwork they put their tv on full blast, sometimes all night!. After a year of nightly television sounds blasting through our bedroom wall we decided to knock on their door at 2am, no answer so we wrote them a letter..9 months, two face to face conversations and 3 letters later and their still doing it then just before last xmas the house the other side was rented out, within a week of being in the property they had a party which lasted till 4.20am..we explained to them the next time we saw them that we have a small child and that they were excessively loud but for a year, even on weekdays when they haven't got work the next day they have a lot of friends round and we are kept awake till the early hours. It sounds as if they are in our home, that's how loud they are and this can go on until well past 5am. Now like I say, we never expected silence, if your joined to a neighbour your bound to hear them at some point but I feel we've reached a point now where we seriously have to consider moving. The party neighbours (as we call them) came round lastnight and told us they were having a party (this is the first time in over a year they've actually let us know) there was fighting in the house at 1.42am that spilled out onto the street, we thought the party would be cut short but no, they came back in the house and continued until 5.20am with loud music, singing, banging and shouting! Our property is a council property, I don't want to make things worse by reporting anyone to the council and the last thing I want is for anyone to be evicted but where do we stand in terms of getting this sorted out? What are the chances of the council actually doing something? Help!
Atwhitsend - 1-Jan-17 @ 6:52 PM
Loulou - Your Question:
I am woke up practically every night by neighbour above &noisy sex with his endless string of women.i also have to listen to them arguing (you can hear every word).endless banging&thuddung he has flooring through entire flat.I have tried to have a friendly word about it but he gets really agressive&says he does not make a noise.i am in prescribed sleeping pills it is so bad.i loathe to put in a complaint as I fear he will make my life difficult.

Our Response:
If your neighbour has not listened to your complaint directly then you really have no option but to make a complaint.
ProblemNeighbours - 13-Dec-16 @ 2:08 PM
Tired- Your Question:
Our neighbours middle aged son has Tourettes and screams and shouts in the garden for hours. On top of that he seems to have mental health and Anger management issues. When I told him that he was waking my baby with his outbursts, he was verbally abusive and claimed that it was not him that wakes the baby. He also started screaming at my husband 'your wife is a c*nt!' At the top of his voice when he saw him in town. I've spoken to his parents, who apologise, but then let him carry on screaming and shouting in the garden and right outside our house! Can environmental health help and would we have to declare the problems if we sold our house?

Our Response:
If this is causing a genuine disturbance, environmental health may be able to help especially if it's after 11pm and before 7 am. Other kinds of noise like the screaming in the garden (during day time hours) may be more difficult for them to dealing. The swearing and verbal abuse towards your husband could be dealt with by your local police but as this man suffers from tourettes it might not be succesful. If you make a complaint to either authority, you would have to declare it as a neighbour issue if you were to sell your property.
ProblemNeighbours - 13-Dec-16 @ 12:34 PM
I am woke up practically every night by neighbour above &noisy sex with his endless string of women.i also have to listen to them arguing (you can hear every word).endless banging&thuddung he has flooring through entire flat.I have tried to have a friendly word about it but he gets really agressive&says he does not make a noise.i am in prescribed sleeping pills it is so bad.i loathe to put in a complaint as i fear he will make my life difficult.
Loulou - 12-Dec-16 @ 7:06 PM
Our neighbours middle aged son has Tourettes and screams and shouts in the garden for hours. On top of that he seems to have mental health and Anger management issues. When I told him that he was waking my baby with his outbursts, he was verbally abusive and claimed that it was not him that wakes the baby. He also started screaming at my husband 'your wife is a c*nt!' At the top of his voice when he saw him in town. I've spoken to his parents, who apologise, but then let him carry on screaming and shouting in the garden and right outside our house! Can environmental health help and would we have to declare the problems if we sold our house?
Tired - 12-Dec-16 @ 2:39 PM
My mum is 64 lives in a converted building been there 13*years the chap underneath for 15 and housing moves in a young mother who then moves in boyfriend upstairs, she decided to put laminate flooring down even though it's not allowed the noise is horrendous washing machine she puts on for 8hours a time even if it's after 9pm followed by a tumble dryer, they bang stomp, have their friends over with crying babies you can hear there conversations it's so loud they don't control their kid it runs and stamps it's a living hell with them upstairs never any peace the housing association acknowledge the problem but I honestly don't think they know what to do about them, I'm sick of there softly softly approach towards her and her bad behaviour it affects everyone in the building where do you go to next already been environmental health.... Inept and housing association just as bad.... Someone help!!!!!
Stocky-1811 - 10-Dec-16 @ 10:50 PM
Piglet1 - Your Question:
Since my neighbour moved in the noise is relentless. Although we have children and our renovating our house we try to be considerate. My husband works shifts, we have to wear ear plugs. They wake us and my children. They shout at the two and three years old from 6am. They are working professionals and we live in a semi. Both children scream all the time. The parents don't speak to them. All you hear is No! all day and crying. We lived in a terraced house for 10 years and our neighbours had three children and never made noise like this.We are going to soundproof our walls. When we spoke to them they just said we are noisy too. I am just fed up up with the first thing we hear is the noise. Any ideas?

Our Response:
Sound proofing is a good step. If the noise becomes really excessive and it is late at night or very early in the morning, you might be able to persuade environmental health to investigate.
ProblemNeighbours - 8-Nov-16 @ 10:36 AM
Since my neighbour moved in the noise is relentless. Although we have children and our renovating our house we try to be considerate. My husband works shifts, we have to wear ear plugs. They wake us and my children. They shout at the two and three years old from 6am. They are working professionals and we live in a semi. Both children scream all the time. The parents don't speak to them. All you hear is No! all day and crying. We lived in a terraced house for 10 years and our neighbours had three children and never made noise like this.We are going to soundproof our walls. When we spoke to them they just said we are noisy too. I am just fed up up with the first thing we hear is the noise. Any ideas?
Piglet1 - 6-Nov-16 @ 10:13 AM
We have always had problems with our neighbours tho i do believe alot of it is due to poor soundproofing. Our neighbour seems to be up all night and slee during the day but doing this she puts her music on at 10pm, argues, shouts and bangs around all night. It is now happening every night. The noise isn't excessive levels but just enough to stop you sleeping. We have approached them a few times asking them to turn the music down andthey are apologetic but then does the same thing again. There are 3 of us and we all work fulltime different days so someone always has to be up for work. at my wits end.
Tasha - 26-Oct-16 @ 10:36 PM
Whitbot - Your Question:
We had a party this weekend for our kids 18 and 21 year old. There were 65 people there, we had a DJ. It was a mostly family affair, with grandparents included. We warned our neighbours and the neighbour that would have been most affected said she would go away that night so that she and her dog weren't disturbed. She then decided not to go away. Today I have popped over to make sure everything was ok and she said that we were shockingly selfish to have done this to her. I apologised but she said that saying sorry was like bringing your children up to be nice children and then allowing them to go and hit someone as long as they said sorry! She said that she liked us as neighbours but not as people. I tried to explain it was a special occasion and that it was the only party we had ever had and that we hadn't done anything illegal but she still isn't happy. I left it at there was no point apologising any more as it wouldn't be enough for her. How are we going to continue living in such close proximity with a shared courtyard? I think we have been very courteous, generous neighbours always paying for any upkeep on maintenance for the shared areas and allowing her guests to park in grounds that we own. She has also complained about where our son parks his car because she can see it when she drives in. It is parked on our own land!! And she can't even see his car from her house!

Our Response:
There's not much you can do about this kind of neighbour except just carry on being outwardly polite we're afraid.
ProblemNeighbours - 25-Oct-16 @ 2:28 PM
We had a party this weekend for our kids 18 and 21 year old. There were 65 people there, we had a DJ. It was a mostly family affair, with grandparents included. We warned our neighbours and the neighbour that would have been most affected said she would go away that night so that she and her dog weren't disturbed. She then decided not to go away. Today I have popped over to make sure everything was ok and she said that we were shockingly selfish to have done this to her. I apologised but she said that saying sorry was like bringing your children up to be nice children and then allowing them to go and hit someone as long as they said sorry! She said that she liked us as neighbours but not as people. I tried to explain it was a special occasion and that it was the only party we had ever had and that we hadn't done anything illegal but she still isn't happy. I left it at there was no point apologising any more as it wouldn't be enough for her. How are we going to continue living in such close proximity with a shared courtyard? I think we have been very courteous, generous neighbours always paying for any upkeep on maintenance for the shared areas and allowing her guests to park in grounds that we own. She has also complained about where our son parks his car because she can see it when she drives in. It is parked on our own land!! And she can't even see his car from her house!
Whitbot - 24-Oct-16 @ 3:04 PM
Annoymous - Your Question:
We have neighbours who sit outside late at night and into the early hours shouting and arguing and cars coming and going, horns going off, etc I dont get to sleep till 3am so I have to get up and wait till it stops the they get tired. There is a night time noise service for after 9pm till 7am but its only Friday and Saturday. Its weekdays I have to get up early.

Our Response:
You environmental health service should investigate noise complaints on any night of the week not just the weekend.
ProblemNeighbours - 15-Sep-16 @ 9:44 AM
People next door to my 94year old mum (semi) have never lived there, they rented it out. Decided to add an double storey extension, ( taken all my mums afternoon sun/ light) and rebuilt the whole house, walls knocked down the works, this is in its 7 month,it's put my mum in hospital 3 times since May, the noise has been unbearable , she had heart attacks as she was in such a state with noise, crying out to stop, the whole house shook. All medical staff have heard the noise. I've tried talking to the neighbour, but always ends in sarcasm and this morning he threaten myself and son. My son got in touch with council to restrict the hours (, he was still drilling at night,)and the neighbour doesn't like it. This morning upset me, he's making out I'm the badly here, and said if I was living next door and not my mum it would be a different story !! I just want it all to end.
Rosiecon - 7-Sep-16 @ 1:54 PM
My neighbours have kept me up 3 nights in a row they seem to think it is okay to play their music so loud the mirror is bouncing of my wall. They do it everyday. I have told them about it and they still do it. I have told the housing people and they have done nothing about it. The smell of drugs is so overpowering it makes me choke in my own garden. Let alone I have a 2 year old and they do it until 11:00 at night most nights. I am lacking loads of sleep and don't know what to do anymore. I just want to move out.
ellzie - 25-Aug-16 @ 4:26 PM
The Mother of a Teenage Son next door admits she has no control over him so goes away every weekend and leaves the semi-detached house to him and his friends who drink; take drugs;play loud music and smash bottles in the garden until all hours.I have spoken to him and her separately both calmly and in temper, but nothing I say has an effect.She says to phone the police but we do not want to have to declare a neighbour dispute if ever we sell the house.Feel so angry the little s**t is getting away with it scott-free.
Ziggy - 24-Aug-16 @ 3:40 PM
soniya - Your Question:
I'm looking for advice please I put something up yesterday but seems to have got lost.In my back street youths hang around smoking cannabis , drinking alcohol shouting screaming and talking so loud every night 9pm til 3@m.It's mostly a group of 10 but that increases through the night I cant go into back garden to put rubbish out they so rude and abusive they don't live here some are friends of my neighbours. The back street is full of cigarette tabs on floor in my back garden also my back garden smell of it really bad. I can't open my bedroom window at night if it's hot the smell comes into my baby's bedroom due to gap in wall from boiler.This has been going on since May

Our Response:
First try you local police or PCSO - they may be able to have a word with/find them somewhere else to "hang out". If that is unsuccessful, you could try your local council's environmental health officer as they may be able to take action regarding the noise into the small hours.
ProblemNeighbours - 22-Aug-16 @ 12:32 PM
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