When neighbours spread stories about you, it feels deeply unfair, especially if you've done nothing wrong. Your instinct might be to confront whoever started the gossip or set the record straight immediately. But neighbourhood rumours need a more careful approach than you might expect.
Before taking any action against rumour spreading neighbours, it helps to understand exactly where you stand legally using our free Neighbour Rights Checker.
People spread gossip for predictable reasons: some enjoy having something to talk about, others feel insecure or resentful about differences in lifestyle or circumstances. What starts as an innocent misunderstanding often gets twisted as it passes between people.
Stay calm and don't feed the drama
Marching over to demand an explanation usually makes things worse. People who spread gossip often want a reaction: they hope you'll get upset, cause a scene, or give them more material.
When someone approaches you with gossip they've heard, respond calmly. A simple "that's not true" or "I don't know where that came from" is usually enough. You don't need to provide detailed explanations or defend every aspect of your private life.
Ignoring the situation often allows it to die down naturally. People get bored when there's no drama to feed on.
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Try our Neighbour Rights Checker free, here on this site →When gossip becomes harassment
Sometimes casual chitchat escalates into something more serious. Persistent, malicious rumours that affect your daily life may be harassment rather than simple gossip.
The situation has crossed a line if you notice: repeated spreading of false information, stories that could damage your reputation at work or in the community, or behaviour that makes you feel unsafe. When other neighbours start treating you differently based on what they've heard, the gossip has become harmful.
Under the Protection from Harassment Act 1997, harassment must involve conduct happening on at least two occasions and causing alarm or distress. Proving verbal harassment can be challenging without clear evidence.
Before involving outside authorities, consider speaking to the neighbour directly. Choose a time when you can speak privately and keep your tone neutral. Ask if they've heard the stories and whether they know where they started. People sometimes don't realise how their casual comments have been interpreted or passed on.
If your neighbour seems willing to resolve things but you can't reach an understanding, local mediation services might help. Many councils offer neighbour mediation through their community services department, though this requires both parties to participate willingly.
Your situation may be slightly different. ask a question below ↓ and our editorial team will reply with our advice.
Getting help and protecting yourself
When direct conversation doesn't work and the behaviour continues, contact your local council's anti-social behaviour team or community safety department. They're often better equipped to deal with neighbourhood disputes than the police and understand how these situations can escalate.
Keep detailed records of what's being said, when, and by whom. Write down dates and details in a diary, and save any messages or social media posts if the gossip has moved online. Take screenshots of harmful online content and report it through the relevant platforms. This documentation will be useful if you need to make a formal complaint.
Consider involving the police if the rumours include allegations of criminal behaviour or if you feel threatened. However, they're more likely to act when there's clear evidence of ongoing harassment rather than isolated incidents.
Taking legal action over rumours is complicated and expensive. Defamation law covers libel (written statements) and slander (spoken statements) that damage your reputation. Slander is harder to prove unless it has caused specific financial loss or involves certain serious allegations. You'd need to show that specific false statements were made, heard by others, and caused genuine damage. For most neighbourhood gossip, this standard is difficult to meet. Seek legal advice before pursuing this route.
Don't let the situation consume your thoughts or change how you live. Continue with normal routines and maintain relationships with neighbours who treat you fairly. If the stress is affecting your mental health, speak to your GP or contact support services.
Most people take gossip with a pinch of salt, particularly when it's obviously malicious or doesn't match their own observations. Focus on maintaining your own standards and relationships.
Common questions
How do you deal with gossiping neighbours?
Stay calm and avoid retaliating. Most rumours fade when you do not feed them. Be polite and ordinary with everyone in the street so anyone hearing the gossip can judge for themselves. If something untrue is actually damaging your reputation, speaking to the neighbour directly or putting it in writing is the next step.
When does gossip cross into harassment or defamation?
A rumour becomes defamation when it is untrue, identifies you, and causes real damage to your reputation. Repeated targeted behaviour, especially anything threatening or aimed at making your life difficult, can also count as harassment under the Protection from Harassment Act 1997. Both are serious, and both leave you with options.
Should I report rumours to the police?
For ordinary gossip, no. The police will not act on hearsay or hurt feelings. But if rumours become threats, if there is intimidation, or if false claims are made online in a public way that genuinely damages you, that is when a report is justified. Keep dates, screenshots and witness details.
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I have reported cannabis issues anonymously to the police which has been now ongoing for 5 years and still continuing to smells cannabis in home even when police attend on the 30th July 2023 I have been accused of harassing a neighbour through anonymous reports I made through crime stoppers also being accused of harassing the whole street when police have tried getting me and my father evicted through my fathers letting agent via claiming that we harassed neighbour and whole street I have also been threatened with wasting police time through the anonymous reports I made and also the neighbour is causing an issue with low vibration and blamed the issue through another neighbour that
we are causing the problem but yet shouted at us we are mental and there not doing nothing. Issued 2 harassment orders issued in previous name when police informed of a name change issues a 12 month resolution order for assault in previous when assaulted by neighbours parent when walking home from work the neighbour spread an allegation around that her father beat me up but yet he put a counter claim for assault and claimed only wanted to have a word with me when he jumped down the road hench why I received a 12 month adult community resolution order for assault also this order was issued in previous name the neighbour moved in may but still receiving anti social behaviour issues from them and still getting smells of cannabis in home address also made contact with police on the 30 July 2023 then soon as police left neighbours boyfriend turned up with building materials and they have not been to the house over 2 months apart from yesterday 30th July 2023 and only came now and then to collect post.
Also received harassment from police through the neighbours false allegations. My father was also arrested over the amplifier issue released with no charges when he looked at police and council website advising to have a polite word with neighbour and this led to my father being arrested when I contacted the police on that day when neighbour started with him when he refused to go for a voluntary interview at the police station neighbour also keeps involving others in the issue and spread gossip that my father was a paedophile when he has not been charged with offence neighbour made a complaint about cameras when we received criminal damage and yet placed a camera in her window and they keep involving others in the issue also. I have also been accused of using the police complaints process when the police have been harassing and threatening that I'm using the complaints process to avoid contact with police.
So your advice on this website is utter rubbish when you say to contact police or council and when reported the vib
I have contacted the Police who were not interested.
I would be very grateful if anyone has dealt with this problem successfully if they could share what action they took.
Thanks.
He is the biggest Gossip of them all. He is chummy with my neighbour and have lived her for about 30 years . Think they own the place. We moved in about two years ago . She and him spreading nasty rumours about me . The police know . Now I'm taking it to the next level . I did confrount her nicely to call her out . She is a total bitch and will be extra nice and wave two faced .
I have a neighbour part of a group of neighbours who deliberately pulls out in front of me in her car while I’m driving along the street and I know she wants me to respond and have a shouting match in the street-this is her style but not mine.
I have a dash cam and I plan to discuss with Community Police.
I believe these people have probably been bullies all their life at school etc it’s shocking they need to grow up.
Do not react at all and you win, react and you lose.
Never think that you can enter into any debate, discussion or attempt to reason with such people, you can't.
It's hard, it's painful and it's miserable, but NEVER respond or react.
Know you are not what they think of you ! The people that care about you would not agree with them at all . Do some fun things for you ! Don't allow them to win ! You have complete power of this . Have a strategy .get legal help advise don't don't with this alone .
When I walk past they are vile to me.call me it, that, slag. fat, hoar, look at the state of that. Then just laugh.
I never reply just ignore it. But I am getting so upset by it all now. It’s constant every day. I write the comments down. And tempted to put them on social media or something to get them to just shut up . Any advice please
It’s crazy land owners have no rights!
WhatsApp group is a modern way to gossip and spread lies.
I now keep to myself which is not in my nature but I find it’s the only way I can cope.
I would be interested to know what legal action/advice I could take really there should be something that would protect people from malicious nasty behaviour.
She constantly screams and swears and has friends around shouting. She swears at her youngest child in the early hours, calling her a silly bitch(she’s 2) it makes me have such bad anxiety.
For some reason she dislikes me, and I’m not bothered but she’s now pulled the other neighbours into it and we constantly get stared out by the woman and the men?
It never happens to my husband though.
I’m guessing gossip has been told. I work from home and my anxiety is causing me problems with getting on with my work.
My street is a mix of Bought, rented and social housing. They have bought and the other is rented.
Unfortunately this area is a lot of people who went to school and grew up around here and are very clicky.
I just hope the rest of the street don’t get involved and just leave us alone.
She says hello when she’s with people i don’t recognise but ignores me and looks at me like she hates me with others? Very odd behaviour.
I now have tried to rise above it’s difficult at times but these people are nothing more than playground bullies and must have issues themselves.
As a family we would never treat people the way we have been treated-yes there should be something that can be done as it’s harassment but it’s difficult without evidence.
Don’t let them get to you with their childish behaviour.
Also my problems started when I asked neighbour politely not to park over my driveway they are also elderly waste of time I just got abusive from them I contacted local Community Police who were great advised neighbour they would tow his car away if he continued to block my driveway he stopped but since then we have become the villains gossiped lied about excluded from local community it’s horrible but I have no regrets contacting police.
I have just lost my husband and it is adding to the anxiety I am suffering.
Their problem is that I asked them not to block me in when parking the husband has ocd and is constantly on the driveway cleaning both cars daily I try to ignore it even moved where I sit in my lounge . Two weeks ago they bought a caravan on their driveway making parking even more difficult and my not being able to reverse out impossible.
It came to a head yesterday I needed to take my dog to the vets and it was awful. No chance to get out.
Generally I am a kind person but just lost it .
She came out with a string of lies that none of the neighbours liked me and I was a problem .
Considering this last year I have had to watch my terminal husband fade away and pass away I have had little time to see or do anything. We moved here 18 months ago and it is all elderly.
Today I find that she has told people I accused the most nicest of my neighbours of stealing off me .
also I have sworn at children . Never seen any there are none not even visiting .
My daily routine since my hubby passed is walking the dog twice a day and just return home my shopping is done on line si I have little contant with people I am however going to ask my neighbours what she has said I will report her to the housing officer
There’s not much you can do unless someone is willing to tell you who is spreading lies and what they are saying people don’t want to get involved. I discussed with police and was told they could do nothing. It’s shocking people have to put up with harassment by neighbours we are planning to move.
1. They are Jealous
2. You have something they want
3. They want you're friendship of what they will never get
4. They do the same job as you and they can't understand why you have it and not them when they are Good but they didn't work on their character so it didn't happen for them
Jesus saves The Lost and celebrates them
I have this male neighbor who has been spreading malicious gossip about me. Long story short, I was never interested in him (gee, I wonder why) and he couldn't handle the rejection. He puts on quite the performance when I run into him in our building...running away from me, acting scared, like the idiot he is. You really see someone's true colors, when things don't go their way.
As the story goes, if you can rise above it, then do so. Remember, when someone stabs you in the back, there's a reason why they're behind you.
Police were helpful and spoke to him about it.
Now my family have lies and gossip spread about us.
The part I find difficult to deal with is having no right of reply as nothing is said directly to us and our reputation is being trashed I get they don’t like us that’s fine but why the gossiping.
Before of the conversation ended both attempted to put a. dagger in me by telling me that other group members were angry with me or that they were talking about me.
I calmly told them both that I don’t care to hear it because it wasn’t meant for me to hear, so it’s none of my business. I also told them that if someone has something they need to say to me that they could definitely come and speak to me about their concern.
I also asked them why did they feel comfortable enough to bring me gossip, about me. I told them that I was concerned that they took the time to listen to this gossip about me because to hear it they had to participate in the gossip,
This is my regular way of dealing with gossip that people bring me about me. When I confront them in this way they usually stop in their tracks. I never hear another word about the gossip. These mystery people never come to me with
concerns. I truly believe did that they are the source of the gossip. What do you think about my strategy. Thanks you. 1 Luv
They have now given me anxiety as I’m feeling they are watching me and I’m worried they will report me for other things. They don’t know anything about me or what I do/ the times I work or the routine I have in place.
Any advice? Thanks
and from I came to the place there was a lady who i work with started to throw shade almost like a harassment about my personal life by saying things about me and families. what happen in my past in my house when me and sister argue things my mother said to me in past and present the person who I am dating etc. O know she was meaning me because everything sounded familiar and at one point she said she knows my neighbor and this continue to go on for longest time keep repeating things what I say in the house especially if I say something about her of what's going on. And what play like she was talking about person knows and start pointing on me putting me down indirectly in my face. about some woman are so ugly and have big teeth and they think their body is going to save them. And then point on my hip and its like she telling co-workers I uses my body to get man and also the parents. I approach her at one point and she said she dnt know what I am talking about. So I when to HR and they push it under table like nothing I also asked for tranfer, they told me I have be in place for three years in order for this to take place. And to top it of I move out from my family house on my own and the lady find out where I live again, and say i move next to someone she knows again start repeating everything I say in house. I catch her telling a coworker when I came in that i move next to someone she knows. And my
neighbor is the only one who in Education and the landlord also lives in the front. She was able to throw shade indirectly where I move. and I know every time I do talk I hear him opening and slamming the door. I also approach him after i pick up everything I said is repeated in my new apartment when I go to work again. and he said he dnt know her, but he kept opening and slamming the door once I on the phone .And every time I return to school she throwing things I say at me. at one point i asked again why she doing she play crazy like she dnt know what I am talking about. Now I am feeling frustrated by it like i am begin stalk and my voice not begin heard. and it's playing with me emotionally physically and mentally until I can't trust no one. and when tell people who close to me they think I am going crazy because they dnt think no one will waste their time doing this. Can give me some advice to deal with this
Any advice would be gratefully received.
When our new neighbours moved in next door were very friendly.My husband did a new drive for them saving them $5000,I gave them a lot things they needed for free from my deceased mums things,visited each other couple times a week.Out of the blue she complained about my cats(I have a few but in built up area there are lots of other cats)She has been a smoker for 40 odd years arrived with a terrible cough but now blames my cats for being unwell.Also cat poo in her place was my cats only and started throwing it across the fence on our drive.After she spread the rumours about me & my cats at the local cafe people I had milk own for a long time were siding with her.I went around to the cafe to say my side of the story and it just got worse(I was at the time very unwell and after an operation recently it got way worse)She came over to make peace and I was sleeping so my husband coped with the women involved.She bought her husband with her and straight away ran me down saying I called her names was texting her friends horrible things about her and told my husband I had a mental problem.My husband stood up for me and said she had better leave cause it wasn’t making peace it was being very unkind.She has been quite since but I don’t trust her at all.I have lived in this area for 40 years and this is the first problem I have ever had??
To cut a long story short about 2 months ago they stared not talking to us.
As "friends" do on an evening they had come to us on an for a drink and a natter, Sometimes we had to walking them home and open their door like friends do to make sure they home safely because he was so pisssed & she didn't help much.
About a month a very good friend told me that the woman was going round to neighbours telling them that me and her husband were having an affair.
We just laughed as it was so ridiculous and didn't think too much of it.
We new she potty.
I later found out she was also saying that I tried to get her husband drunk one night at our house and that he was giving me money.
Their daughter had told her he was taking the money from their account to give to me
Now that really got to me and I am so angry and upset that she would do that..
So I reported it to the our H Association.
I wanted it to be registered as an official complaint.
I was told just to ignore it and ignore them which is exactly what we were doing, and what she was doing wasn't something that could affect their tenancy agreement.
I was so mad that I couldn't stop crying on the phone.
All I wanted was for the Association to contact them and tel them an official had been made and her behaviour had to stop.
I know my true friends know it not true and
think she is a nutter, but it still gets me so angry.
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you have to be very careful
with whom you make friends
with just in case you no
longer see eye to eye with
them for example
disagreeing with
something .
Some people think that every
one must be against you it's
no rocket science it's a
simple few words saying: "Don't talk to these people"
that does all these damages
to the minority
This is all the people you had
a disagreement say firstly
before they starts the other malicious lying rumours
about you
No intelligent words no
proof that you deserve this
treatments is needed
From then on you are then
falsely created and painted
into public enemey number
one as silly as this may
sound and before you know
it the whole community even
people you have not met! in
life knows and heard about
you.
This is why it sounds silly .
They heard about things
about you which probably
never existed.
Once one make an
enemey
out of you this one have to
spread the word and there
come another ant and take a
grain of peas and another
and
another and it never ends.
So before you make friends
with people think carefully
for just in case
Some!!! People are only
meant to be in your lives for
a season . How people let go
says a lot about who!!! they
are. If they are meant to be in
your life the universe will
bring
them back to you no devil in
hell could stop it with all the
childish games you see
playing before your eyes . They will not be back in your
lives if it's not meant to be
Saying live and let live
should mean you are not
guilty of the
same
And if not don't say it. Don't
mock it
Have a look in your mirror
and stop justyfing your
wrongs.
So the nice one yesterday is
now the bad one the next
day
The pretty one last night is
now the ugly so and so this
morning because you fell
out
It's a very thin line
Lastjy please stop joining in
childish games.?
Some people think that every one must be against you it's
no rocket science it's a simple few words saying: "Don't talk to these people" that does all these damages to the minority
This is all the people you had
a disagreement say firstly
before they starts the other malicious lying rumours
about you
No intelligent words no proof that you deserve this treatments is needed
From then on you are then falsely created and painted
into public enemey number one as silly as this may
sound and before you know it the whole community even people you have not met! in life knows and heard about you. This is why it sounds silly .
They heard about things about you which probably
never existed.
Once one make an enemey out of you this one have to spread the word and there come another ant and take a grain of peas and another and another and it never ends.
So before you make friends with people think carefully for just in case
Some!!! People are only meant to be in your lives for a season . How people let go says a lot about who!!! they are. If they are meant to be in your life the universe will bring
them back to you no devil in hell could stop it with all the childish games you see playing before your eyes . They will not be back in your
lives if it's not meant to be
Saying live and let live should mean you are not guilty of the
same
And if not don't say it. Don't mock it
Have a look in your mirror and stop justyfing your wrongs.
So the nice one yesterday is now the bad one the next
day
The pretty one last night is
now the ugly so and so this
morning because you fell out
Its a very thin line
Lastjy please stop joining in childish games.
Like she tells people I had to get the police as my other side not us as there bed room active was to noise and could hear throught the wall she told me that was when I was talking to hear now what they do is get the new neighbour ask me question to pass back to them like what
Happen to the car son in haspital but as yet he as not we just talk a bout when the dust man comeing round again you see she tell people is back garden is a mess the man as just move
In got two small children full time job got no time for garden now winter start in portent in any live is famerlys
Thay want our fence down Becouse thay go a cross a path with no drop curb so Insed of ask us he tell the man the other side he was going to move it he as out grown his garden so he want our but for last 8 year they have tried to get us out but with a brought house they would have to go to cort now with other neighbour whom have jumped on the band wagon you may say they wear trying to stop a handicap bus I have not been out of my house for 5 years because I can't leave my handicap son now he is in hospital very poorly
But we are not leaving so bigger to them
Matthew UK
Anyway it's none of my business . I don't want to know and this is the honest truth . What I don't like for myself I can't like for others.
I suggest she stop joining others to try to humiliate themselves in the guise of humiliating me
I really feel this being should find out the real truth about
How she lost her home if this is true and go after them and leave my life immediately .
I had nothing to do with her for years before she left or her associates so I am not and was not involved .
Nothing means I had already washed my hands of them and did not want to know nothing about their business even up to this day
Rumours have it she grassed up on her x boyfriend and many others and is now enlisted in a group to try to humiliate her innocent x neighbors for some time now
She and the so called friends left behind have been participating in drilling , spreading lies, pounding
and non stop harrassments
giving the Neighbor no choice to defend herself
For the most part they are trying but is humiliating themselves
They stopped low
No point reporting to the police everything is leaked
I knows her name
Also gave her own family problems
Gossipers said she told them her boyfriend works for the housing trust.
No wonder my life was such a misery.
What I don't like for myself I don't like for others. Even if it's an awful person .
I want to send a message to this Pearson. I don't want to know if you work, if you alive or if you are dead for years now.
I live and let live.
I suggest you find the truth if it's true what I heard .
Please get out of my life .
Life and let live
Enjoy your vouchers but not on my account.
You had thought the other girl should go away from the area until you befriended her
No you and your acquaintances should live and let live .
If sombody humiliated you Its surely not me
Go away and leave my life alone .
I really don't mind if you go after the ones who really humiliated you all
Can't you manage them?
Do what you does best?
The word of God said you are an evil spirit . We wrestle against spirit and principalities in high places .
If you are an evil spirit
I know a God that could crush you and your evil spirit inside of you all.
I won't mention your name
You know who you are
Leave me alone. You have your own problems to sort out
Stop the lies
If you can't figure the real reasons shut up
Stop the organised harassment !!!
LOW
Keep writing about dogs ?
Nobody ask you if you are or was provoking the person for the person to react to you that way
They ask if the person is down
You said yes
They say let's kick them
You don't live there so you want the person out
Gal I know you. You are not sIck in the head you are just EVIL
I DONE WITH FIGHTING EVIL
EVIL HAVE 10000 HEADS
You can't fight fire with fire
Fight fire with PRAYERS
Leave it to GOD
GOD GO DEAL WITH IT IN HIS TIMING
It's the mindset
Don't matter what others do or say about them
Again a good person will always be a good person
Just don't respond to provocation when when it's brought to your front door in any form .
Who agrees ?
Years should be for growing not stuck in childishness
Life is hard so if you are helping people ease pressure of life in some way hey although this is negative And unfair
Life is not easy for nobody as some think, we all dealing with life Just because sombody don't continuously provoke you don't mean life is good for them .
Some people kick you if they think you down
But you can't keep a good person down
Kick them they will get up
So think twice !!!
Then you will get more upset cause they get up
Is this upset good for you healthi wise?
Your game is coming to an end . Shoo fly don't bother me
People shoul use your years for growing not stuck in mischief !!!
I reported it to the property owner and he says that those are his friends and they can do what they want not his problem
I feel that this is emotionally distressing me and my family we fear for our lives the person leasing the property shot into our property and I almost hit my husband and try to scare us By intimidation tactics I know that’s illegal the officer never came to take the report now I’m afraid for my husband to go work on our ranch and I don’t like to be out there either without another person around I am in constant fear that something will happen to our livestock or one of my family members on the ranch we bought this house to enjoy it from day one they never gave us a chance they always caused a fight what can we do
She said I and my friends got to be insane because of what we got involved in and believes we want sombody to pray for us by the looks of what we are involved in as people with children..
This shows Satan is a busy one and is keeping them busy
To be honest I feel they should forget this jealousy , racism and hatred they openly displayed in bold and get on with their own lives. Focus on their priorities . I am fed up of their unwanted obsession and attention focusing on me.
So we do not get on what's the big deal. In an ideal world you go your way and I go mine's. Just leave me alone
Know when to stop. If you try to use me as an example you will look weak and like big bullies since you bring in everyone else
because it has already been revealed the housing is part of it. They all attacked me together .
I feel so ashamed for them. This is low.
They said they are having fun
Wish they could really have fun doing something good and not evil.
Not partying, not shopping, not genuine laughter
Your confusion can't done
Your heart is so heavy
Lighten up
How do they get the guts to do it No wonder society is so sick? I really want these same people to write the answers of how you manage to put people one against the other and sleep so well. You are the true devil not the other you are pointing your finger at . I suppose you figure out what sick minds like yours like to hear. So you and the person can't see eye to eye and everyone is you in your minds eye. One day you will talk to the wrong people who will ask you who are you talking about? That will be the day
But is it good?
So the bad spirit playing the good spirit is vexation to the good spirit
So if allowed to weaken your good spirit you good spirit can't be freed.
So what to do is a hard thing its called staying strong.
Your complaint about your neighbor is nil you want to eat of forbidden fruit you can't your spirit is good dear .
You are the good spirit so her spirit don't give with you her bad spirit. It will take you a long time to figure all this bad spirits are let lose around you causing vextation to your good spirit they are many that cause vextation to
The only answer for you is to try and stay strong.
Can't you see God loves you.
Conquering the lion of the tribe of Judah.
Perhaps you are closing a window or the radiator is expanding. They are told how to react . It was a severe case of it you can't beat them join them. Perhaps I should Join a negative gang . I will be ok mom thinks she knows people in high places she is not afraid lol
They do not feel happy and believe you are feeling hapoy. This is their way of hoping you will feel like then.
I just got some new neighbors I do hope they are the kind with clean heart . All right thinking people like neighbors they could trust . And I can say a lot more. I hate ongoing confusion not everyone like never ending confusion. If neighbors cannot get on how will hate ends . If law and order is not uphold who will trust who. Food for thought.
Whsts wrong about writing the truth? Everyone is controlled maybe they really wanted peace who knows.
When last you were allowed to use your own mind freely ? You must have forgotton how good it feels to free your mind and use your own mind freely.
It's a healthy feeling . Give others mind a chance to decide themselves.
It's only a matter of time before each of you victims realised what you are dealing with. These people are worshipping Satan and he like them so. If they try to be good Satan will wrestle with them. They can't take it. They does not know how to rebuke him but only how to do his work. Look around your environment any where you are figure it out.
She keeps asking about my place of work, my age, my salary.
If she comes to our house she goes inside our rooms, kitchen etc.
Actually we have shifted newly so our house is a bit untidy and not segregated. So I heard recently that she keeps telling other neighbours about our house being untidy. But she takes help from us when being needed. I really hate her. I want to avoid her. But the problem is my mother who calls her inside our house whenever she sees her inspite of knowing about her. She tells me not to take it seriously and we should love our neighbours. But I want to avoid her completely. My mother will never understand. Pls give me some advice or tips.
Why you have not confronted the police you have now started thinking if they will not stop they have the right of way sadly enough it will look that way right or wrong especially when it now comes down to very serious victimisation by the perpetrators .During the years reports of ripped open mails, key stealing from children, meddling in others livelihood , witchcraft etc will make you start thinking whether you should report to the police or not? It can raise serious questions now on whether the perpetrators are covered. Perhaps you just have to wait for Karma since they respect nobody not even the law obviously.
They will be responsible for how their own children turn out if kids are involved in this . They don't believe in nothing this is why. Children are young and impressionable . I hope when the time comes they remembers how they have treated others.
People help shape tbeir children minds.
Everyone have their life to live , you come quietly to pick up news to carry , you dictate other people's life. You tell them how to use their minds , you have taken their minds to the lowest level. Karma is yours for the taking, you have created it. But please stop trying to drag others down with you Your got to remember your life is yours and their life is theirs. What are you with a certain limit? Why are you hitting yourself at a brick wall? Your fun is strange. Do you find this sickness in your head funny? For real?
If you control your own mindset how much you feed into these sorts is up to you . You can blank them out or give them anything from 0% to 100% attention . If they get as little as 5 percent attention from you because it is unavoidable then you are a winner because they simply has brought themselves to survive with your attention. The less attention you give the more unnecessary!!! noise they will make but Empty Vessels makes the most noise.
Show these people you have very little or no interest in their lives if their behaviour is to hurt and destroy the communities.
Some of them will be directed what to do as you continued to get on with your lives but dont be alarmed it will backfire sooner or later . Continue progressing setbacks by them are just temporary as good will triumph !! over evil all the time.
Happy 2018 be courageous. Think positive keep a clean mind cleanliness is next to Godliness . HAVE NO FEAR??
I live on my own, independent, a successful artist, my work addresses the social culture in constraint environment and the conflicts, history in our time.
I have also life threating illness, this illness developed 6 years ago. I have also been kind to then and been tolerance for unreasonable bad behavior.... !!! The neighbor moved to next door to a semi-detached house after 20 years when I bought the house where I live. Their drive is next to my garage and the boundary is mine. Whilst away from my university degree and for the past five years now and then I had to have IV hospital treatment as in-patient. While I was away from home( detached house, a lager then next door house) they moved their goalpost.. taken one and a half feet towards my property to widen their driveway.
I have offered my house to them if needed for their guest if needed during their son's marriage. I generously gave £50 as a gift to their daughters' newborn child... When I told them politely in a joke, to have their garden ornaments which were nailed to the wall of my garage... the paint from my garage wall, the plants placed on my drive... to why have they tarmacked my drive? They became hostile and became aggressive. They know I am very ill and I don't really have the energy to get into this messy business., because of my health situation. I was told by my friends, that the woman next door is jealous of my bubbly, lively personality and my independence finically ... the materialistic issue is infected her mind. I have asked the local village if they would like to exhibit some of my work related to war. I was told, that fine and like made and arrangements for this exhibition. A man came around to my house a day before and told me that the arrangement had to be canceled. When I asked who were on the committee he would not answer my question. This morning, I when to get the village shop, as I was about to enter this man who came over to my place to cancel the arrangement for the exhibition- Simply looked the other way and never say hello or how are you... I am sorry for the cancellation of your exhibition. My house has been for sale for some time, somehow not able to sell it!!! Could you please give me an advice what to do. There have been incidences, where some people have moved away from me when I am waiting to pay for the shopping, they give me a horrible look as if I am untouchable. Forgive me for the grammatical errors!!! I just this statement in hurry!!!
single women with two dogs two sons in there 20tys
she started dating a younger man also the same age as her sons
two son leave the home boyfriend moves in
he starts parking on the grass close to my car
so I speak to he puts his puts his hand up to wave me away
few days later talking to neighbour she says I have to give him an apologies to him
next am telling her what he has done
tells me am intimidating her
now she telling everyone I hate women
I have a wife 4 sisters 2 daughers
she at her windows looking at me
this is the crazy thing her sons back after when her ex husband got into the house and had fight with the boy friend
and the son is given me hassel for what they should be doing is thanking me
she is a alcoholic with bad people standing at her back door
I never know whats going to happen
she was moved here coz of the same problem she had
she knows every move to make me look bad
I don't say anything in fear of more harassment
getting prof is hard
Immediately i was subjected to all kinds of abuse,Verbal.
After that,we started getting our door banged at 1,2,3,even 6 in the morning.
I was a water bailiff at the time,and had to make out a report of his and friends behaviour,whilst fishing.Although my neighbour did nothing wrong,
he and his pal were both banned from fishing.
Whist iwas away doing my job,my neighbour,terrorised my wife,who was innocent in this,one afternoon.
Some weeks afterwards,his pal and him with his son,decided to come to the loch,demanding permits to fish.I told them they're banned and won't be sold permits to fish.They insisted,so i told them " Go away n i'll see about having your ban lifted",but no they started calling me very abusive names,threatening to poison my fishpondthreatening to get me "one dark night".At that ,i closed the door of the caravan,stepped down,in front of the main abuser,waited till he started againand swung a punch at him.
I can't remember if i hit him or not,as he was sitting astride me,i could
see no sign of blood in his nose.
AnywayThey left threatening to get me back.
I was charged with assault,as he walked into the police station with blood pouring from his nose.
Since then i have had to call the police several times to put a stop to the harrassment,but it still goes on to this day.I have offered mediation 3 times but each time refused.
WHAT DO I DOafter all this my wife is now in a care home,SAFE.
You just got to learn how to put up with it' because this maybe just what the neighbourhood want as they get ready to embrace this malicious person perhaps this is what the area is looking for people who like a lot of confusion who can front and stir up things for you , Just as they can teach you, you can teach them too, not to long ago a woman with two children stoop so low to run into me on purpose and then say sorry, I can see these person wants to give me or someone a criminal record so I ignored her, I can only feel sorry for her kids because Karma will come back to them because of what she has done to others continually. Same level all the time, no progress. Sorry the truth offends
Regarding the false accusations the police will not take any action, it is a civil matter. And even then you will only be entitled to recompense if you can prove A) They have made these allegations and B) It has had a detrimental effect on your reputation/persona which in these circumstances is very unlikely.
Next you have to find a strong source of belief, try, prayer, meditation or yoga while the problem is hot on your trail (see organised gang stalking)
Don't underestimate people the problem may have gone underground
Another cure is to completly give up on the ones causing you problems, let this be your last resort because in today's world this one is sad to look at.
There is nothing else you may be able to do but Give up on the humans like how the dead man give up on life or get Into the circle and make confusion with them, if this is not how you are you will then know to make your way out, you will find a way, where there is a will there is a way.
In my neck of the woods the bigger informer run the smaller Informer obviously
Let's hope the higher man rum the lower man when there is no more joy.
There are people who are different in behaviour wise to another.
Such people minds are so narrow minded they have to stand from a distance to see what they are doing wrong
When everyone is making merry dont expect any in any dark circle to see the light.
I need a hearing aid, I Find 2:30 - 3:30 am in the mornin to be unsocial hours
I have a strange feeling while she is enjoying doing that her Karma won't be nice
I can't go to nightmare neighbors on TV because then she will have support and I will be the bad one, I feel the evil soul want to be on Tv since she saw the programme tne nightmare
Neighbor next door
It's clear to see they feel they alone should have a life
Why listen to Jamaicans everyone knows a huge majority these people are rotten and gives their own selves a bad name which they enjoy. I feel bad for people who gathers up others to gang on others.
Taking a bath is right not wrong, passing waste is right. Stop watching me. It's not nice
This is how some people chooses to live very low, by harassing other people on a regular basis, whether it's by telling lies, peeping, bugging or using their time and energy to bang unecessarily, it's all a total waste of their own precious time, can sombody tell them how pathetic they look, instead of endorsing them.
Life was not meant to be lived easy so please leave other people alone it was meant to be full of tears, joy, and laughter, tears for everyone, laughter and joy for everyone, save your energy on something to better you situation, life is not hard for only you, put your drill down its nonsense, get some sense, your banging is low rubbish nobody cares
I live in a place where the so called spiritualist has also been involved in scattering everyone because her wrong seems right. She gathers information from everyone to read back to their palms
She is pretending to read all the neighbors palms and scattering the community for her own selfish gains something weird about her.
She is not comfortable in her own skin but does not want others to unite..
Keep away from fake spiritualist
Good riddance.
Most of what you all thought you heard was wrong as usual, how many rubs how many splases, will varies what you hear is what you want to hear in conversation according to your mindset,, you should however be making sure your young ladies and young men are all clean out there, don't waste time watching others who are harmless and trying to survive some how
I am saddened and upset by it all, year go year come I get angrier at your involvement, you little mafia,
She said it was a job well done, some people called it mackoing other folks and leaving themselves and own to fester.
They just wanted to get a place where they can witchunt another woman and peep at her then keep letting the cat out the bag about what they thought they were hearing and seeing.
They usually box you around trying make it hard for you to grow in life. Poor souls.
Careful when someone is sent to put a plug on your wall if you did not call them, it can be associated with a surveillance in a neighbors flat, look around see if you know about all the wires in your flat dissconnect one then see if all your lights or electricic appliance goes out, if not cut it, if the surveillance is getting a lot do not report to the police they maybe involved, maybe some petty or corrupted officer lives around and smokes with them, meanwhile they will get away with things.
Just go about your business don't make a fuss it takes two to tango don't ask no questions of others, go about your business in peace, karma have a way of dishing out to each it's own.
You may have already been lucky to witness their karma or even hear about it, what happens to one can happen to the next.
Why would a woman the mother of all humans be involved in such? Why he did not take the troubled girl hen? Let men carry on they do not give suck to their young, remember mother!! Nature it's not father nature, when we are left alone we will still find the strength to born them. Somehow
What do I say when I hear the sound of the shell
I say lawd have Merci on us all. All of us not just on me
They find comfort where I am
But Karma knows everybody address, live good do good
Christians deal In love. And fighting for the ujust and victims in society
You will Win, you will acinieve your goals
You will be what you want to be
Sons and daughter of the land can also be worst betrayal
Are you hearing extra noises from neighbors? Hard to find a job? Experience failures it's not your fault. You are Intilligent, beautiful, spiritual unlike them,you are beautiful inside out
Is there a word repeated by people you know and people you do not know? They are all under mind control and you are their victim, not your victim, Bingo! You are your friend, love yourself, because if you love yourself you will love others, you hate yourself you will hate all others
Take care of yourself, you will take care of others.
They are all busted now
Keep calm and carry on, pray for them don't forget because more will be revealed they can't help bing evil poor souls.
Now our neighbour has posted a letter around the street spreading lies and slandering my family.
Should I go go a solicitor?
I have an appointment with the police
So eventually the bad ones around you want to pretend to be the good ones in the hope to keep things under control, and you who knows them becomes the one to watch, by that time you may not care much even to mention their names, especially if it had gone on for years without improvement.
Also there is another thing to beware of it's called organised gangstalking, be aware it exists do not remain in the dark, it's about people following you about Maybe there is nothing you can do. Or maybe there are things you can do about it to confuse them,but don't be in the dark. Some people don't believe but I do, they are technical. Some are well in the head and others are not, but they are well enough to cause you problems, which sometimes could come back to them,
These organisations will like to makes you believe you are the problem. They have a strange strange stare for you.
Who are these people just about anyone even children under orders.
Don't fist fight or hurt them try to pick up the bible it's a good book, read the New Testament of love and forgiveness, and you will do no wrong to others, society can cause a lot to, though charity begins at home. We can't force form people. Human beings was out there for each other. If god just wanted us to talk to family alone he would only give one family life. We are all family.
Lol
like a drill to my ears in the morning while I am still sleeping, i have not yet reacted as I am not into this kind of things and may get the blame instead. Neighbors above is much better now
But this one to the side is starting, because I did not join with her to blame neighbors above when she was searching for where noise were coming from one day
As I know it can lead to serious consequences if I stoop to her level,How stupid can some people be.
I won't want sombody like that for friends, it's now affecting my hearing as this is how she wakes me up I won't say she is bonkers I will say she must be evil Instead
God sees everything even things all of society don't know about
Question should she not be Interested ?
In keeping her own children clean and on track instead of reigning her forced unnatural karma upon me. She is supposed to report to some others, who are suppose to make it their duty to let me know I am watched and followed all over the place by hinting.
Although I pity her for doing these, I find it quite disturbing, low and shameful on their part
And what if it's council accommodation rent is being paid. Many residents end up becoming owners of these flats sometimes .
The message I am sending to these people is to clean up your own children instead of paying too much attention to me, I am a law abiding citizen with no criminal record
Teach your children that charity begins at home and make sure they aspire to be what they want to be in life, live your life and let others live theirs please. Judge and you will be judged. Hope everyone aspire to be what they want though each goals are different.
You have absolutely no reason whatsoever to get inside of me, if God wanted you to know everything he would have made us Siamese twins, I can see if you all had a reason for concern but there has been one except your pure hatred and jealousy. I leave it in God's hands now you can't hurt me anymore. Let the damage be done because of the picture you have painted.
Only fools will believe you, you have stooped low to make friends an unnatural way by showing hatred for another. You are a snake in grass who will eat at a table and laugh with a person but in your heart is malaise you will pay the price some day if you do not change the better
Who I make friends with is my business
I rebuke you in Jesus name. Love thy neighbor
I live in a relatively small village mostly consisting of mature elderly people and out-of-work adults in their 40's-50's. I am 43 yet look very young for my age and my partner 46 and currently unemployed ourselves due to mental health conditions that are not transparent to anyone. Our opposite neighbours aware of the fact that we do have mental health conditions however, yet does not stop them from behaving antisocially - always awaiting fresh gossip and staring at me or my partner in intimidating ways. I have let my support worker know of this over time, yet she herself powerless to stop this.
In addition to this, a man of 65 called Ian who is in a wheelchair who used to work in a local shop and (not disabled at the time), once groped me whilst I was on my own with him in the shop in 2013, yet found the courage to remove myself from the situation by squeezing him in the private parts and legging it. This man has an ego the size of an Olympic pool and manages to attract women of all calibre into his confidence, playing on their sympathies for his physical disabilities. He has a reputation of course, yet the gossip got around about what had happened to me with him - clearly distorting the truth in his miserable wake. He does coerce others to jump on board his poisonous side and audibly tells them to 'Look!' as I and my partner walk down the street. He has not stopped going about his aggressive targeting campaign for the past year at least and even forced me to stop going to my regular coffee shop as he had taken a new and sudden interest in going there.
Then just a week ago I had encountered an incident in my local supermarket with a forced-sale. The man employed there had been inappropriate with me for some months and making it known that he fancied me. I am extremely very attractive yet not in a stereotypical way and do get men look at me a lot even though I do not encourage it at all. I did have to make a formal complaint to the supermarket headquarters (not the place where the incident occurred) and yet somehow feel that Ian has gotten wind of it and now thriving on the whole thing - saying 'look, look, look!' at my partner when he walked down the road just a day or two ago. The staff member who had been inappropriate with me
was overheard telling a customer that someone had reported him a few days ago.
I have learned to develop an ignorant shrug yet the menacing behaviour is also impacting my life already marred by past childhood abuse that spanned the whole of my childhood yea
I believe she is even friends with the police because she gets away with to much why sombody could not see she was evil long before now and stop her in her tracks.
This has gone out of hand and I am now geared up for war this war will be telling others the same about her, but I don't want to do it, I hope i wont stoop so low to talk about her because I am not interested in her I have no intention I am not inclined. I do not care of her ow she smells if she is clean or dirty no interest whatsoever
Yes the extra splashing is for a good reason now I know who is listening for that
how funny to count the splash long after
If that's all not bad enough, every single thing that goes wrong in the apartment which he causes, gets blamed onto me. Management believe's i'm crazy in some form or another, they just won't outright say it.
Now i know this guy has some issues, and i have known it for quite a few years now, but my patience is wearing thin. The only reason i haven't gotten physical with him is that i know there's something clearly wrong with him, and its that understanding i have for him, which has kept me from assaulting him. I really don't wanna open that particular can of worms unless its a last resort, but i'm really starting to struggle having to put up with him and his issues. Any suggestions would be helpful.
Live and let live.
It is my belief a lot of people really thought this craziness was coming from my apartment as she is just above me, why I said that is because people have knocked my door to ask me if I am knocking, when I said no they gives me looks like I am lying.
I believe she knew they thought it was me this is why she carry on do shameless or maybe she do not take her prescription, I believe this girl is damaged goods, her behaviour shows it all, her mom let her get on with it or else she beats up on the mom.
Nothing I can do but pray for them, and brace myself to share her misery
I do believes she is trying to be good, but she can't because I was fortunate enough to be told of her problem quite by accident, I hope she is not to confuse that she is taken advantage of, there are times she appears to be calm, but the pounding affects me she sometimes wake me up with a loud knock I don't wish this on my worst enemy, this is not healthy, and it's not a one off
Please join with me in praying for this child and all Those in need of prayers
Why ask for prayers because I know she was a good child years before she became so troubled. And she does want to have her own mind. But something is wrong if she is helped now she might be ok. Medication alone can't help her she is hard to control, by any human who is not a professional.
I also have a Spanish couple with three children, that their baby constantly cries every 5 minutes. They don't know how to take care of their kids properly. Come on.
I'm might be thinking of moving out of this uncomfortable not friendly apartment in future. Why be there if I'm not happy. I do nothing to these neighbours, yet some just are rude, arrogant and some just make noise when they want.
because you do not know what they are really saying, every wrong done to you will return to them if anything is done against you, dont worry once they have flesh and blood it will come back one day to haunt them, you may not be able to see it or hear it, but at the end of the day its them and their conscience one day their conscience will come into play for each wrong done to you.
Trying to be friends with anyone who treats you like this makes no sense, Try to get friendly with you, love yourself its the best advice I will give anyone in your position and cut all strings with anyone who treats you bad if it's in you to do so be strong, go your way peacefully with a peaceful heart it takes two to tango, sometimes for strange reason you dont know about things are bigger than you think, it may not be not your fault but thngs can get huge unknowing to you sadly enoughh, remember birds of a feather flock together and remember God
first to everyone know who to gossip with, because some folks gossip as a way to make friends
The woman find that you do not like spreading bad rumours as much as her so she is going around to look for birds of a her feather, there is a difference in a little harmless gossip and spreading unfounded rumours for example saying the person cannot have children are unfounded rumours, now she is settled with others who are just as bad as her, it will be a while before it stop affecting you, Now Peacemaker God's promise is slow sometimes but Keep prayer, pray for the enemy not to hurt you
She will teach herself a lesson
In my case a lot of damage was done, she and her son was ganging up against us bear in mind she moved in 5 years later . peacemaker its someone wishing to be like you but she have a wrong spirit, check to see if your nose is still between your two eyes, because perhaps your face don't match all of a sudden(laugh)
If yours is as bad as mine your letters will be opened, you will be reported to the police
I think someone like you but you do not know so the person has gone unoticed unknowing to you and have asked these people to do things to you, this is the smoke if this is the case
Now don't panice time and Karma has a way of dealing with things, They heard I had bad news so they were gossiping a bout things they don't know about, one of the woman i had made friends with got her share of Karma i heard no name no warrant and so did the girl that was doing bad to me, they were my Karma and their Karma was not me i did nothing, except report the opened mails i heard nobody should open people mails but they were perhaps allowed, it don't have what people were not juming on the band wagon, even those I used to gossip with, i first found out when i tried to join the woman and two old aquaintance that i was no longer welcomed in their gossip(laugh) so to be quite honest with you I kept my distance but the Jamaican people will not go quietly nor their new cuacsian friends who I used to gossip with before they came we all laughed and gossip but nothing as harmful as what were to follow after she came, so you mean these people could not stick up for me life is a betch we(laugh) I say new as I used to be friends before she arrive, such good friends that I even looked after their children later on the cuacausin woman told the Jamaican they did not know me, all that did not call for and she looked after her child herself lol
They could not come to terms they had lost me forever and so tried to sabotage everything I tried to do study, everything, and I mean everything, repeating phone calls, bugging my house, but how was they allowed to do that? yes indeed people never find the truth,
getting the association to p
Why can't they leave you alone their diagnosis of themselves seems wrong
Now this is not working for you all. Nobody is running to you except your birds of your own feather that don't let you breathe, I am so glad to see where you ended up
They contributed in giving a little girl behavorial problems because they wanted her involved as she lived above me, I was basically surrounded, prayers help a lot take time of your busy schedule to pray, establish a relationship with god, after a while you will not realise if they are alive, trust god, don't fight fire with fire
The above and below flats was stalking my every move lately they tried to get side flats involved, bear in mind I am a quiet person but do not step on my toes. Treat me right and you got a friend for life
Upstairs little girl will realise I was going loo then let go a loud thud with something heavy, she was told to make noise all day and night or as much as she could since downstairs moved and was busy with her children now. I can't imagine how people with their own children could even think of doing such to others , but it happens, I don't like when they get so many others involved that's unjust and wrong but then again jealousy is a terrible disease I hope they get well soon
At the end of the day it's them and their own conscience. They do not want you all to progress
But since I have the amour of God on my side I am one step ahead of them. Whether they can see it or not, maybe they are to blind
They should invest this time they wasted on me invest as much time in their own lives
Anyhow there are measures you can take, do not always switch on your bathroom light it may have a sound that they are used to, take your clothes with you in the bathroom, so when you are finished you do not pull your bedroom draws in case you get the loud thud for mistakingly thinking you are doing the same
After you are dressed let out the water not as soon as you finish your bath if its a bath and not a shower its sick but these perverts/ voyeurism person are timing you like they have no time to look after themselves.
These are just a few of the measures to take, take no notice outside and do not talk about them much unless its Absolutely neccessary their behaviours are not worth it .
These are just a few measures for those who ask for help here.
If they are following you open your door shut it let them send the alert
My latest stalker is way young, people should not involve children in these behaviours If they really love their children.
Live and let live spend more time improving yourself
I have 10 children does it matter if its one or two no, what matters is creating bad karma for others deliberately could follow your own children one day and yourself, some people are just jealous of others.
Read the New Testament of God see the difference in your lives today, do unto others just as you will like them do to you, start today to change the world
Those interfering bring themselves so very low why? I have my own children I am appalled at this disgusting behaviour
Childhood dreams has been crushed for so many because of idle tounge gossip woman
The devil is in human form god is in human form
You can't always tell which is which
I bet there are a lot of jealousy involved.
No wickedness goes unpaid look with your eyes see
We are all equal this is God's promise tell me if it's a lie
GGod's promise is real, if she don't know when to stop it will follow
The evil men do live after them.
And you will see the result of those who really believes they gets away with deliberately treating other humans beings like Sheat. Just watch them with a smile
God could bless and unless then the devil could take over too unknowing to them
Who needs her protection, from the outside everything seems good but what's about from the inside
She needs something divine to rely on, as all these things are for a season
I pity them
She is able to distroy someone's character by getting the support of the neighbourhood yet you will not know this is happening until you start finding that people in important positions in your neighbourhood seem to be disgusted by your very existence. What can you do when you know some one is distroy img your character right under your knows and you have no prove because all her antics are done in secret. There's just a nasty atmosphere.
but then again there are people who just remember what they want to remember
leave them be and go your way, they are only afraid of their own company
I wish that I could move from there for peace of mind, she has organised noise campaign on me too. Poor soul it's people like them so that does turn into gangstalkers and terrorist if given the gateway, simply torturers just adding, if you think you know These people do not entertain them into harassing others, just think what you will want to do to them if they were doing it to your famalies lies. Think normal cause they sure aint normal in their own thinking, and believe you me they think they are, I am up early I can't sleep
When you meet your enemies try to put a smile on your face.
There are Some young cowards who .walks with a huge crowd and still do never the same people as they have no steady friends none are their childhood friends as they too have grow and moved on they are pretending, people grow lol
Maybe you have invested quality time in your children, if someone else do not have this uniqueness in them these too can cause jealousy
These person do not want to see you make any progress
I too have been a victim of a woman who twisted things and always seems to overhear things
She did not want my family to progress, we had a better neighbourhood years before she arrived, now everyone wants to move out and away from the neighbourhood except her she feels comfortable in what she has help deteriorate
I always loved the fact I have some grey hairs and at times tend to want to show of with it because of my youthful looks, the woman never let any grey hair show over the years which I have had no problem with her or her family, until I realised how much the community had changed for the worst after their arrival.
One day as she was busy bringing me some gossip which was maybe untrue or twisted as I learned about her later on. I notice some grey hair Infront of her head shad forgotton to rub some dye there, her hair is always dyed beautiful and black dyed hair, which is fine with me, as I accept everyone from time.
I looked at the front of her hair in horror because I thought I was the only one with some premature greys which runs in d family, she too realised I was shocked and went away sheepish, a few hours later she had returned with more gossip and the grey hair was no way to be seen on the front of that spot. Mind you I had not mentioned it.
Now most people I spoke to want out of this area they want to grow and move on, but she has moved back, because also there she finds others like her, interested in twisted gossip.
I would do anything to move far away from this family in particular they are pure wicked.
She don't want nobody to make progress even though they have worked so hard for it
They have got involved in a lot against me some to strange to mention this woman is hurting me and my family, she is the devil and the devil don't want to see you get blessed.
I wished they had stayed away, the community was a better of place without them, the burly woman believes she is a gangsta, try to manage who should date who and who should be given a chance in life, even when they have worked hard for it, she has tried to stop and block our progress, because she wrongfully thought I was just like her whatever this wicked beast think she is or was made to believe she is. i just wished this particular family had stayed away for good, the place has deteroriated more since they arrived in the community 5 years later, god answered my prayers they moved away but is now seen again on the same community as nobody else want to listen to their rumours and gossip where they had moved. i have prayed so much to move from them, since i am a f
I am a palm reader is this about you if it's not you are going by hearsay
You got a serious problem, this is what I read of you
You say family members are doing it then you said you have video, then you said people are in fear, fear of what? Of who! Stop creating fiction
You already have the answers as you say
Broken windows who threw the stone? I bet you know a lot about this
The question which one of you threw the stone that broke the glass?
This is the question on everybody's mind
The police may not ask you but I am asking you!
Strupps
A few days ago, I heard the familiar pounding, I had no energy or reaction for it, god is real good
But what happened next I heard another knocking at the same time
A few minutes later a woman knocked loudly to ask me if I was knocking, I said no and I took her to the person who was pounding above me
But I have a question, of all the flats in the apartment and neighbouring apartment, why was I singled out for this knock and question, I will never, ever start something so awful, I am a good soul, I always ask God to create in me and my family clean hearts and to renew the right spirit in us and he does answer the prayers, he has never failed us, well recently he as ask me to forgive when forgiveness was ask for, this is what each here should try forgiveness you have to guard your soul, anyhow I took her to the ladies and probably their boyfriend who was doing the banging
I ask them whether they were fixing something, the other party said the pounding was going on for about 30 minutes at the time, I could not care less as I was not intrested in the pounding I mentioned I only observed it for approximately 10 minutes, if its so maybe my God had deafen me to the noise, praise The Lord , thank you Jesus, the other party told me she too had started to knock, I believe she should have found out if it's a job they were doing or if they were just being nuisance as previously, I am not at all interested in responding to anyone's pounding it's their, heart and their soul and their energy, I really wish them the best. Previously the young lady had apologise to me, I had told the police I heard nothing when there were trouble, even if I don't get on with someone I am the person in my heart of hearts who can't get them in trouble except its necessary for my own protection or protection of my own family, because I have always said since I am like that I feel safer any where
I understand being like this does not guarantee fingers won't point at me
I always think grasses are bloody brave and if you think twice you won't grass nobody unless absolutely necessary for your safety, because of the bother.
I am the kind of person who put my safety first, not that I am a coward, but if something is to big for me to handle then I know it's not my job.
A lot of people may want me to be quite the opposite,
The third party maybe don't know what I am asking of all the people in the apartment why my door? Who sent you? Maybe she did believe its from me but sound travels
I felt guilty for taking her to the people where the pounding came from as someone told me I should just say it's not from here and that's all
Regardless if they want to say it's me they will, I will be made a scapegoat, what a terrible thing to do, knocking the wrong door why mine
Problem is that here in my native town one family claiming that some Horror power has been doing some activities in their family and they spreading that rumor by various ways. They claiming that some unknown power throwing stones in their house and broken all the glass of window and some lighting fire in their house. They also clamming that house hold articles of their house automatically displaces from one place to another. Local people of the area filed various petition before the district administration but no any fruitful result take place. Due to that reason women an children have been passing their life under fear. But actual fact is that members of that family have been doing that type of activities for the purpose of grave o plot of land of the neibour. Surprisingly police administration has also not taking any action against them for the reason best known to them. Rather police advised them to take help of priest.
So, some people of that area intend to file case against them. Secret Video clips are in their hand that a maid servant and daughter in law of that house have been doing all that acts.
So, please suggest under what provision of law we can file case against that family.
Are having a baby so they are two adults it seems
Hope you feel better soon maybe you are in sympathy with her morning sickness
Write to her asking to explain just like you did here
If the age difference not bothering them remember not to mention it in your letter to them, as this could be a cause for resentment. Good luck hope they have a healthy bouncy baby with a healthy mindset who blossom with a mind of its own as it grows. That will be good!
When the child grows he/she may value family.
If this is the situation it's an unhappy situation
Obviously the older woman is not happy with you
But what can the matter be keep us posted
Can it be one of the things that goes around and comes around
What goes around and comes around?
went out with this older woman, we make children we don't make their mind
She don't want you in the hospital ? Such a shame people don't normally choose for their children
The readers may ask themselves if this older woman had children before your younger son
Since you did not mention
Regardless support them whether verbally or physically, present or absence, she will come around then
Be comforted you are not alone, the nasty comments will cease because good reigneth over evil
If you read other comments you will realise there are others in similar situations and you will just know it's not you, sometimes when you are a quiet individual the perpetrators may get others to gang you, the ring leader may makes suggestion, pray about it do not let it control your mind
The team leader may get the gang to pretend why are so many seems to be against you it got to be you, most of the time you are a quality person, it could be jealousy since you have a good heart.
If you manage to get out and about, speak clearly about the happenings you will be surprised of the support you have, in my case they tied up themselves since I had established my good heart years before in the neighbouring areas, it always backfire against them when they talk to the right ones with good heart about me and my family.
Birds of a feather flock together.
These people who are troubling the victims here seems fed up of life, they want to block others from making progress even thought the others have worked hard for it
They don't want you to work, they want you homeless
My God ask me to smile and be kind to others, the God I serve ask me not to hurt a fly
Thank the person who made this site, please stop turning those people site into a she being, if you want to create things cleanse your own mind and create beautiful beings, I like to come here because I realise I am not alone in this it's not unique, these faceless beings here are my friends
For them and their family, they told me I am the only one who likes to share and do favours for nothing, what can I do? Should I change to suit others?
For all of you who were kicked after actually and physically doing kindness for others
Keep being kind even though you have stated what you have done
Do not do it for a reward do it for your Heavenly Father God
The bible says be kind to others, and remember how it felt to put a smile on others faces at the time you did it, please do not regret being kind.
Sombody should really do something to stop them. They are out of control
Whether you are in a mansion or a ghetto, you should be entitled to some peace and to grow
After their propaganda they want more, they wanna play well game is on!
Thank you so much for your response to my comments on this thread, it's good to finally hear of someone in pretty much the same circumstances as me and are going through similar motions. I too have wished that me and my parents could sell our house, however since 2008 when my Dad was made redundant from his job, we have went through quite a lot of financial difficulty and therefore have had to just stay where we are for now. However when I really think about that, selling our house and moving away is kind of like saying to the neighbours, ok you think I don't belong here so I'll move away and let you win, so that would be a very good reason for you to turn round and say, no I may have a defect that you don't have but I am still human and have the exact same rights you have to a happy and safe life.
I really do think that there should be some kind of law that protects people like us from neighbours like that who think they can treat us as terribly as they like and go out of their way to intimidate us by whatever means possible.
Also, you are not stuck up, people like us are very eager to socialise, however we lack the standard of social and communication skills society expects, therefore we are often dismissed the chance of a social life, so remember it's never our fault. It's the ignorance and prejudice of others that means we often end up alone all the time. Also as people with aspergers do face so much bullying throughout their childhood, this can lead to them becoming more cynical as adults and tend to find it pretty much impossible to trust anyone. Therefore this would make going out there and socialising much more unpredictable and often people like us are petrified of the thought of not knowing what to expect ahead.
Hang on in there and take the advice I gave to BusyBetty. Hopefully one day, a law will be invented so that neighbours like ours can be prosecuted for their acts and where we can take legal action against them. All the best.
Sarah-Jane x
they sound like folks who will not sympathise with your condition but use it against you, remember these are folks with guts it takes folks with guts to constantly harass their own neighbour who have probably gone out of her way to make genuine friendship with them beforehand to just turn on them probably for some trivial gossip which they themselves obviously love doing. The men involved should get out of tis as girls will always be girls when come to gossip, as for me I will always choose who I gossip with as others will evidently do it to you but don't want you to do the same to them.
Some people will not give a dog a bone even when you are kind to them and share your bone with them, they will turn round and kick you hard instead, these folks will tell you what they have is theirs no matter what you do for them, so careful how you treat neighbours if they were kind to you and your little ones , know what karma to create for their kindness, because there are folks who never had the opportunity to even say hello to their neighbours, now you may know why, dont judge them. Try praising God it's the best therapy and don't let nobody bring you down, you have done nothing wrong they who have made up their mind to be constantly mean are the one with the problem most of the time. Live your life these neighbours are not giving you nothing, but grief, one foot in the front door one at the back door
This is true what you said I been there, sick and tired will have to come to A place in her life to realise that herself, they actually sounds like they are not bad neighbours who are probably a little taken aback to approach her and feels if they do something nice for her and not something bad she may come to see that
It also happened to me new people wanted to give me chocolates for putting up with renovation and flowers at some point having been through so much I was taken aback and reluctant, in this case you have a barrier knowing for the longest while people were ganging you up
For me even work men were warned in advance of how to treat me, that I was not nice although I am one of the nicest they knew before the other horrible jealous attention seekingvwoman came lol
To make a long story short I am with you , but she will have to realise these people are trying to help, maybe she should say thanks and make some new friends before its to late a d they are gone thinking stuck up horrible person, I know she been through a lot so she may not see what I see as I have been her but given time. They may not have heard the part that she is a kind soul or a good person so let's hope she says Thank You, nobody is perfect lets hope anyone contributing in making this family life a misery regardless of who they are should also stop
I am incredibly sorry to hear about your current situation with your neighbours. To be completely honest, mine sound very similar with the gossiping, judging, turning others against you and others in their family joining in. I too would have said the same thing as ProblemNeighbours, although from my personal experiences, informing these kind of people about your disorder or disability can result in the situation becoming far worse. It's easy to say people should become more empathetic, understanding and supportive but that is often not the case and in fact has the opposite effect where prejudice, discrimination and comments out of ignorance arises all in one go so I would advise you NOT to make them aware if you haven't already done so, just to safeguard yourself.
Believe me, the best thing you could probably do in this situation is try not to focus so much on those who dislike you or have a negative presence in your life, instead focus on those who love, care about you and accept you for who you are as a person. The Law Centre gave me this advice recently and it does work. If you hear them making comments, just ignore them and let them go over your head. They obviously have such a boring, dull life that they have to compensate for it by being nasty and spiteful about others they may envy or feel insecure around, if that makes sense to you.
Thank you also for your response to my story, I appreciate it and all the best to you.
Sarah-Jane
x
Those are the people so called demon possesed who seems they are not contented with their life if they will not make a lie gossip behind the back of other people
They keep on commenting and judging as if they knows everything and seems they're the cleanest perfect people.
If your intention is to attack and destroy the reputaion of other then big karma will be back unto you...
Well, over the past two and a half to three years, their characters have completely changed, ever since they got back in contact with family they hadn't seen in years and developed a few new friendships. I get the distinct impression that because they started leading much more of an outgoing and sociable life, that they became very judgemental, intolerant, two faced and overly nosy, like most people are. Basically, because they can look directly into our house, they spy on us and watch our every move 24/7, it's almost like they developed some kind of obsession with me. They also started making gestures and comments when I was in a room alone, yet any time my parents enter, they suddenly stop what they are doing and try to look as though they're doing something innocent, when they aren't. I think from them observing my behaviour and lack of social life and the way I dress, they picked up that I was very different from many others my age so they began to see this as a reason to mock, ridicule, judge and taunt me. I can also tell from the fact that when I have retaliated with comments far worse than what they said to me, hours or a day later, their family would suddenly be round and all the gossip would start. So, that could be the cause and if challenged they would probably say something very childish like oh she brings it on herself, she asked for it, but the fact is I never react in an angry or hostile way to anything or anyone unless I feel provoked and wouldn't intentionally do or say something out of malice.
Well, just a while back I ended up working for the same company as their daughter in law and unfortunately the job did not work out as three colleagues made allegations of me using foul language when under pressure, which I did but then they knew I did have this mental disability that meant I didn't cope well with stress and had outbursts when under duress. After leaving the company, certain colleagues in my team were made aware and I am convinced the daughter in law found out as since then my neighbours have given me filthy, horrible looks as if I'm the plague or an alien and as if I don't belong as part of society. They have also started judging me more on every little angle if that makes sense and they now often look like they are trying to figure me out or form their own diagnosis of what I am. I have also seen them chatting with next door neighbours, giving glances across and pointing their fingers in our house direction and they look like they are spreading malicious rumours or turning people in my own street against me.
So please could I ask that advice be given on what I should do next, I have tried to sit while they're watching ignore them, chang
Someone is spreading lies about you this is why the woman has said that to you and your children, most likely the person who is lying has something unpleasant and you better believe that, I had the same done to me by some neighbour the exact same this kind of people have the same pattern that some of us are thinking it's the same people
Apparently the woman who was making the remark had some sickly looking children (laugh) so this hurt me to see sombody with some unhealthy looking relatives saying that to who was far more healthier than them. Society is freaking sick, I said to myself look at their children and look at mines, so therefore it's the same sick people that usually spread those rumours ok. I hope I was of some small help. One woman thought her son only should have friends she was making friends for the poor myte cussing my name and asking girls to shout his name and telling lies about us not being well she probably put blinkers on those people, I think they got my name on some list wait Karma soon call, I know it, I did nothing wrong infact I took one of those involved child, to chessington, Lego land, south end on sea,Brighton just to name a few through the years and gave her a childhood, they said they did not know me later on. I cant go into our career fiasco its a long story but judge for yourself so e other people would have fought toot and nail for the right to be heard after so long,
This is what jealousy brings let's demonstrate against jealous people because what goes around comes around think of your own families and what you will feel to do anyone who does this to them.
A kick is sometimes good for the too nice folks like me
I use to help these people and look after there kids, all of a sudden it stopped and started threating me! They even went and told everyone a pack of lies about me and now they are making my life a misery, they even threatened to put the lawn mower through my fence to get to me! Also I went to draw sum cash out and one parent who I looked after her kids were telling her kids to stay away cause she don't no what they wil get!
She did this in front off my kids!
My youngest daughter was upset by what she said, I got angry and shouted at her cause I can't keep going on in silence, and have nobody to help me!
I'm trying to get out , but I'm on the council list so I don't no how long it will be.
I'm exhausted I've put up with this in silence for 2years and I can't cope no more with it!
Christine and all the others look up gangstalking please you have not done anything wrong or the police will arrest you all a long time ago.
Your story sound a little like mine because I happen to get on well with some of my neighbours before they got a close aquaintance to make racial remark at me to end friendship, or to bring division, I believe because I can't see how a former close aquaintance could do such to us
When she realised they did wrong they started to gang up to pretend I am a racist , what do I know about racism, it was a very sad time with me dealing with those allegations and for the fun of it more people knowing I gave her daughter a childhood was not saying to them you all are wicked and telling lies
By the looks of it the corner shop man was involved asking me what color plastic bags I wanted this was very sad I only clicked afterwards I have never known evil to be so proud.
I was even watched by the police . I remember one day I was walking when the police said camera 7 I knew straight away he was laughing at me the same police who I felt was suppose to restore law and order I felt so let down and funny.
When I became depressed they said I was lying because I was never stink or dirty and sad
So the money situation became an issue and I was followed some even asking me for pens
To see if I can reach for one lol
When I try to get a job I was blocked right now I am praying to God to help me to put something good back into society . I am there fighting to help myself
God has become very near . The enemy don't want me to get my right benefit or a job but I put them in the hands of God, they can continue to follow me I have nothing to say. They do not want my family to progress and I know it, they make me know
All because one jealous woman and her little boy felt left out so much happened ...............
Two whom it's may concern I was walking out of my house
to go to church
And some psycho
called gary whom knows christine
from the area
she and other have been spreading lies about me
she last June 1 st 2014 Said am a nutter so the police was called as i had taken over two hundred tablets because she said the same you been telling people I need to go to hospital i should be in a psychopath hospital.And that i'm a nutter she threathen me in the street she spread lies on Sunday ex drug dealer called me a spako called me a freak said i should get A job as I told them to go And get a job he tried to run me down he was behide he seen me as I was coming out of my house Been told to go back to my own country is horriable the police went to her house And she wasn't in like coward like that is They called 30th march 2015 around 945 and was told to get up To go to work what work do I do I said am not been paid but I'm working in all staint church washing the dishes But it still a job the other officer said he getting down as he tall than me
What you are going through is preparing you for a tougher tomorrow, thank them and thank God, restore your faith in God and ignore those who treats you and your family bad
They will not like no one to treat them like this rest assured. If you don't believe in a god believe in Karma and create good karma for yourself and family, maybe these people are too far gone, but rest if you must but don't quit, make God the centre of your life.
Because if these persons were really their friends they will stop them,and tell them you are not only destroying others in the process you are destroying your own selves
Or even ask them if they will like it if others are CONTINOUSLY doing it to their own family
But this is not an ideal world and evil knows no such things.
Plead the blood of Jesus for your protection this is the advice I can give you
And ignore them, make a complain as well, if they are on your side they will stop them, they are not unstoppable, I pray someone have a good heart and stop them.
there are people who are born troublemakers sadly enough
Find comfort and a strong heart in the Word of The Lord to brighten your spirit, they will not want that for you, but they can't stop it whilst you make a spiritual and pure connection with God, it's free to do so. Find comfort in the higher power, loads of evil in this world including those who continuously hurt others non stop, what a shame! Whatever they do on the outside stays outside, make sure they don't monitor you from inside keep checking, I could feel mine and them were, but will they like it for themselves or family?
They can't think right some evil force is stopping them
Sounds crazy yes but its true .... the hardest part came when i finally cracked one day after listening to their dog barking for several hours and the thump of a ball against the wall where i was trying to do work ...i even put in ear plugs and a radio to try and ignore it but couldnt block it out .I asked the not so very young man that was doing this to stop and all i got was abuse.
A few weeks later i got a letter from the child protection in co kerry saying that they had been told we were mistreating my daughter ,they had done the lowest of lows and struck exatly where it hurt.
It broke me that was over six months ago ,and ive lost myself. I cant go out in the back garden without the dog barking ,ive lost my only release in life that helped me get back from any hurt in my life .They have successfully broke me and all because i finally stood up to them.The hard thing about it is that my partner never has helped me in any way .This has forced me to move out as i have no life but i find myself in a situation with not enough money to do this .But it wont stop me .I still have a little heart and fight left and i wont give up because of my beautiful daughter
I hope i havnt bored anyone that reads this but i needed to release ..
to incriminate and they know..............
careful they stalk you AND TWITCH THE CURTAIN......cant they get a life?
and get out of mine?
such as now they know you as John Smith you can also be Janice Jims but do not tell them
give them work to do
let them find out how come they know you as gemma what and what and your name is sandra what and what
then let them get into your mother father and granma life but without your help
when someone sees you with them they think they knows all about you
so they start stirring up trouble, ned thing you know they all into your business behind your back pretending you told them
Let me let you in on one thing a lot of intilligient and well qualified people in the mental
some mental people could be highly intelligent folks always boxing their brains
sometimes success or failures ok
Mental are not always to do with drugs its about knowing how far you could have gone with your intelligence its about chances not given etc etc
when you meet the right friends you can trust they will help you straight away and then if you feel like opening uo do it little by little in your own way only if you feel to or just don't
A good friend will come straight up to you to ask you questions they dont go behind your back if not they are your enemies.
A good friend will always consider the years they had known you if they are capable of making any friends
A good friend does not imadiately turn against you
A good friend does not mean they are perfect, they gossip to
This is why they do not imeadiately turn against you
a good friend will even warn you of an enemy before they lose
if they value your friendship or else they were never your friend in the first place
I knows because it happened to me
If you cant keep a secret about your own life certain jobs not for you
One call herself the devil and just keep going, but thank God I know it's the devil woman involved in a lot of the happenings.(what does a guilty conscience feel like?)
most of what is happening here I believes is more to do with your sweet looks
Than anything else
Turn mental on their arses once in a while and Introduce them to your twin, the other side of you
How unfortunate
What will happen if it's done to them by someone the same things they are doing
It takes all kinds to make up the world yes
She will target at anyone she knows had a falling out with me firstly to make friends and gossip with, she seems to forgive all who do her wrong except me
In the middle of the night there were banging upstairs as usual sometimes, one night I saw her son going up where the banging were with another boy, they never had connection with people upstairs but I had complained
They were just crazily connecting with people they had no previous connection with
If someone had a problem with me they will Immediately become friends with them
They tried to make me the subject of gossip, trying to laugh at my clothes when nonee of them were hot dressers themselves.
I don't have to ask them what to wear. I am always clean when they see me whether they accept it or not
Is this not strange?
People fall out all the time but this particular person wanted a kind of continous witchunt on us
She just did not want to go her way peacefully
I think she even wanted to volunteer false info to the police
I don't consider myself to know anything I should not know
If I did I will let it go, I am not good for being a witness for no one
It's the way she was doing like nobody should talk to us no more they are perfect and we are not
Just live your lives the best you can, because iris easy to get in trouble and hard to get out of it
I find people find it hard to let go of me always a big commotion afterwards
I am afraid to make friends because when we fall out maybe it's the same thing happening all over again.
I try not to be like them in the aftermath making sure who people are friends with is nothing to do with me
But o no it's big lies and witchunt., and my life has always been like that, people finding it hard to go on peacefully when our relationship if any get broken, how strange
Does the woman doing this need help, the one looking to see who my friends and acquaintance are. I don't know how they does it lol
I only have two question
Does this people who are continually harassing you people knows
There is so much some people can take?
Do you sometimes feel like killing those who are harassing you continuously in cold blood?
I try To put my TV on a low number I can't hear it but they can
I went to the toilet as I sat they knocking
This is peoples privacy
I keep saying is it a war in my mind?
It's so embarrassing for them and the society on the whole
Someone should look after the people so, perhaps it's some kind of addiction
They should treat people the same way they will like to be treated
Will they like non stop harassment for their famalies or themselves
I believe they are wicked racist with an underneath mom, who are using others
They live above me, and has gotten worst
I knows certain folks they won't trouble so I laugh
There is a fella they does call big John they will never trouble him or his family
SHAME
They better be careful if they will continue harassing people who do not trouble them
People get tired
They will fall on their own weight one of these days
They are way behind in a mix up world of their own
Pure confused,
Nothing you can do for the severely mentally disturbed
They have the devils work to do
The devil will deal with them when they slide
At least they are not using other people children to gang up on you
Their bubble will burst, seems like mines moved out and moved back in, because this is the only area their rumours strive with people like them.
What a shame, to return in a place where they have caused to change for the worst, they should be hiding really this is to tell you
My advice keep trying to forget them and they will not be a bother to you after a while it works, if you keep trying you will not recognise if they are alive or dead, and everything they do will be on them, returned to them in a strange way, when you get to this stage, be prepared for the times when it will hit you again you will feel old feelings and want to react, don't go back, keep moving forward,
If the council move you do not ever go back there unless you are visiting your ow mother and father there.
They probably work in a gang, and can't operate one without the other.
You will find out who is heading it one day, there are always some people heading the division, sometimes the its the ones who you least expect. People do all sorts for whatever reasons just understand that, once you mention council, housing association, there is no telling who is doing what there. Loneliness is also a big part, a person could be surrounded daily and is acting up out of the feeling of loneliness and desperation. Things they have missed out out looks appealing and they think you want it all, all the friends they never had, hence the gossips but why blame us, we did not raise them when they were born, I hope they leave you to be yourself it's best. My one keep knocking people telling them I talk about them and doing a lot of wrong this to us.
a few years passed then i asked for our shed back, this was when my cat just died, they gave us our shed back but the man kept antagonising me, i was upset and got into arguements with him,
for the next 10 years they've complained to the council about us at every opportunity and the council always acts like we're the bad neighbours, they sit in the garden with other neighbours gossiping about us at the top of their lungs, they slander us to everybody and anybody who will listen including work men who come out and come into our house to do work and our own visitors,
i became mentally ill 7 years ago and they used that as ammunition against me
8 months ago i got a puppy bichon frise, shortly after a letter followed from the council telling me i have to get rid of the puppy because of complaints from neighbours, she never barks and i always pick up after her, i phoned the council and managed to convince them to let me keep my puppy
since i got the puppy i've gotten to know other dog walkers who live near by, some always avoid me because of the nasty gossip the neighbours have spread but a few are friendly to me, i think that made my neighbours insecure because they've gotten worse
i've tried being friendly to the neighbours, i've tried ignoring them but i've realised they'll stop at nothing, they want to hurt me and get my mum and me evicted and they'll never give up,
we keep trying to get a council flat somewhere else but so far the council have not offered us another place even though we live in a first floor flat and my mum is unable to climb the stairs, she's a prisoner in our home
i can't leave because my mum only has me to look after her
lately i often find myself feeling in dispair, there's nothing i can do but bite my tongue
I feel your pain
Intilligent folks, with good command of English
Having to deal with all this problem , with little or no support
How do you do it?
We look at people everyday but have no idea how others make life hell for them
This is sad indeed. And shameful on the ones doing it part
This is bound to affect your lives and also the trouble makers life to
They can't do it to you without affecting themselves unlucky for them so
So it's best they just stop it.
You said she arrived after you but has brought her baggage of wherever she arrived from with her. They won't see that now, maybe later, for now you are the problem.
She sounds like she want to fit in. She won't be able to keep up her act and will definitely end up in more confusion there
If May well be jealousy perhaps she has been told you are better looking than her it can be jealousy of the simplest thing.lol
Maybe her whole life is bad, something about the way you described her
In my neighbourhood I was told that I should not talk to the old neighbourhood gossip who knows everything true and false
I ignored the request from the neighbours continued talking to her but she then herself stopped talking to me now read between the lines
Where I am people are told who to talk to by certain others, it's wrong because certain people click.
Your new arrival is a bit crack, your friend are now enjoying her twisted jokes and rumours, just because they dumped you and are now listening to newbie does not make her aright or better than you in anyway, first she should respect your old acquaintances this is to tell you
Try not to worry as reading this blog will show you are not alone
And who do not do something wrong or say something wrong even if you did
What makes theirs ok and yours not
This woman could be making stuff up about you
Maybe your relationship with those listening to her has run it's course
So let them have her by all means.
Let them listen to her so much for faithful aquaintance these days.
Sociopaths tells a lot of lies to get what they want
And they never stops, all their energy is in it
They lies to anybody
And have no respect for man woman or child
Usually their partners don't stand up to them
They wear the trousers.
They uses people so stay well away from this person
There are millions of sociopath all around the world
Please don't tell her, pretend you do not know
And brave yourself for more enemies
Stay Strong
They don't know what they had till its gone
They will find her out
Keep moving foward
what's up with that? it is so incredible that someone would be that low in character to trash me to her quests and my neighbors for absolutely no reason. i have never seen a problem around here with the men, it is always the women that seem to create and perpetuate trouble. i wish i could understand the reasoning for that. and its interesting how some people just go along with their nonsense and untruths to be entertained. how low in character is that? what a super b....h! is it jealously because I am retired and secure.
!!instead they trun it on me. THE BEHAVIOUR OF THE CROYDON COUNCIL is threatening and revolting and they sent in people to throw eggs at me as they are buddies with the perpetrator.....
BECAUSE THE POLICE HAVE A PERSONAL VENDETTA nothing gETS done for me..how childish? the LAW IS RIDICULOUS IN UK. IT IS ALL ABOUT THE "GROUP" WHO LIE THE BEST AND HAVE BUDDIES (including MPS) who offer nothing...LEGAL AID IS IMPOSSIBLE....
so I suffer been nearly run over by cars (3 times) and 17 relations shouthing abuse and racial stuff! but POLICE/COUNCIL TAKE SIDES......
A few facts about the situation. I moved in here approximately a year ago. When I met this neighbour she informed me that the person who lived where I do now attacked her and hurt her arm. So now she is claiming that I was the one to hurt her arm! She has decided to tell a new neighbour all about it and I'm pretty sure he believes her.
All this over asking her to stop feeding the birds bread on the shared garden/clothes drying area!!
After years of them making further noise and being threatened with an eviction notice, they have started to spread malicious and untrue rumours about us, simply to cause us upset and provoke a response. We NEVER approach them or speak to them but always make complaints via e-mails to our local noise nuisance team/council board so that we have a clear record of how long the two have dragged things on for. We know ignoring the two of them drives them mad! They are disliked by our small and friendly community here and we are very popular, and they do all they can do to rubbish our names/characters as they can't stomach the fact that that's the case!
They are clearly jealous of us as we are a very happy family, we have good careers, are better off financially than them and fellow neighbours seek us out for advice and socially often. The female half of the couple actually tells others how many shopping bags we come home with! Tells everyone when we have parcels or new furniture delivered and whether or not we have has visitors. It goes on and on and on. They are apparently trying to move as they was to downsize to a smaller property, we know it's because they are aware of the fact that their behaviour has not gone unnoticed by others and that they are talked about in a not so favourable light.
The day they leave, fellow neighbours have said they will hold a celebratory BBQ! All are invited.
More recently the female half of the revolting couple had an 87 neighbour of ours in tears as she started picking on her-this did NOT go down well with any of us! I believe this is the main reason why they have decided to up and leave as they have gone too far upsetting a very nice and friendly old lady who has been here for over 30 years.
We do intend to move ourselves as we want to live by the coast, but that won't be until our daughter has finished her schooling. Hopefully, they will be gone before we relocate.
It will take a great, great ones to do such? getting in the middle is really usually the result
There are people even people put to to believe liars in this world, people to love trouble and troublemakers
when we are in the circle will we still listen to the ones outside the circle let hope for the best
by unknown add your bits(I was just thinking of you all sadly enough)
It does not matter what country you are in make sure when your friendship ends the person will let go quietly or be careful who you make friends with
In my case the person told me about the colour of my skin, the other so called friends agreed that it was okay for me to accept the insults and lies, while I was in a class getting both a level 2 certificate and a level one certificate for my hard work they accused me of being an alcholic while i leave my house 6 am they said I was indoors, my phone was not me, the phone became suspicious after a comment thank God
The other said iI flooded them deliberately I never knew i was a wicked person i thought i was sombody you can leave your children with which is who I am.
So they arranged for me to be flooded more than once it is a long story, another wanted a flat she said everytime her child was crying We will bang as soon as I heard it I knew it was untrue simmultaneously ,someone else will get so vex after knowing what she had done they will bang in anger for the first and perhaps the last time, so they got someone to bang as well from above (close allies lol), do you see how the majority rules.
They accused us of all sorts when I defended myself, one of the older women said I needed to apologise apologise for what? her refusing to act like a neighbour to me?
They really did paint a funny picture nobody cared after the picture were painted, one of them who had written to parliment about the same neighbours joined with them later on like she trived on those things, name calling and stereo typing so you can imagine, there is indeed strenght in numbers, my approach to things in the beginning was much differnt to hers all was forgotton, first impression no longer counts by my ends
The bottom line is people will put mess in your mouth if you let them the same people who are getting the praises are the ones who have caused the trouble to go on and on
And they are the ones who have called you all the names in the book, look for your clothes in the shop, get angry if it is not there, I do not understand how some people could live their lives like that, just peeping at your clothes, today, your shoes, who your and your family talk to, this is bound to affect you somehow, you have to be exraordinary to make any progress under this terms and conditions, all of you I sympathaise with you all, God is not sleeping. this is a long story to make it short, those behaving like this could not confront you this is total disprepect because they have g
Good luck everyone.
These people behaviours are outrageous, most seems to be adding insult to injury,
Is there anyone helping those affected. I hope so.
What else is involved here?
What is happening in
Gods world. People how. Any more signs to make us know. This is God's world. Ja
One love, in many language is still one love
Another thing you may see yourself as insignificant to their plight, because you do not go to the extreme they are going through to make you feel that way.
Funny I will say so but this group of malicious neighbours have unintentionaly made themselves your victim as well, without you realising this, so they feels like your victim,you are invisible to them, they will treat you as invisible to them but will not act that way, after social hours some will do anything to disturb you if the feel you are at home hammering etc , after social hours meaning after midnight, after all this and more they will still go away feeling like your victim, the conscience word now comes to mind, unfortunately looks like not everybody have one.
This person open this forum, we are grateful for it, I bet they feels they could do more to help.
Conclusion:some people do get over it while pitying those who keep on doing it none stop, for whatever reasons. Food for thought. Limit is also a great word.
If—
By Rudyard Kipling
(‘Brother Square-Toes’—Rewards and Fairies)
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;
If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!
The thing is people who did not know her well believed her never bothering to find out what her own son is up to, this is what they should have done. I am free to write all that but I won't. I am not them I don't want to be the ones who choose to be friends by doing things like this. Most were aquaintances before those instances, something the one causing the most trouble is one of the last to move in, the lips can be blessed for some and for some it's dangerous.
The person they were making enemies for have always told me how much she did not trust them anyhow.
One of the evil jealous person is gone now, but I am not sure if things will ever be near the same there sadly enough. She had always pretended to be something she is not.
They tried to stalk whoever my son was speaking to spreading unfounded gay rumours about a straight young boy, photo shopping our photos and documents, and many more. All through jealousy and evil.
I kept my cool for most part of it and let the damage be done. Whenever I say something something then it would have been water more than flour?
Now their believers should come to find the truth about why they are gone! I am not them I will only put it here if pushed over the hill further.
They should shame. The picture painted of us do not match.
The funny thing is I bet these people who are doing these extra things beleive they knows your heart which is clean and not like those who are continuously behaving in this manner.
Can you smile with those people harassing you in such a way again? It will be interesting to know its very unhealthy knowing whom are pushing you over the edge makes it a bit uncomfortable.
while they are tearing you apart see if you can manage something constructive, a little afternoon class can give big results yes certificatess, keep courage and knows that you are special, God has chosen you to never be this type of person, There is a lesson to be learnt from what is happening to you, you will stand up for others who it is happening to do not join in anything like this ever in your life, Get out and meeet more people if you have not done so yet and if it is still possible because like they ought to destroy you and for what? Does this make these group better?. In my case i even suspect voyeurism, eaves dropping, making up talk like they interpreted it and many more. making me look just how they wanted me to look I suppose. like the bad one, ignoring sometimes make them worst it is a no win, but as I said there is a good lesson in the darkness
They did quite a lot one of the teenagers won't let me rest at night seems like she is not well. I complained she stopped for a while, but started again. I really do not know who these neighbours represents they have no limits.
The ones who were close aquaintance made racial remark and has turned it around with the help of the neibours. I used to react by knocking back then I realised i have limits and how low it is so I stopped. I also stop when they planed to directly tricked me to me it was like a direct assault.
I were always nice to the close aquaintance they too said so much and tried to spread rumours to defame our character. What a shame. They even tried to pretend I am racist, they troubled my personal life and tried to stop my progress, they set me up on more ways than one, it's a long story. I feel so ashamed for their behaviour towards us and the tactics used to cover it up and the no conscience attitude. We bleed the same
we are suffering and have suffered for 27 years a situation very similar to you
our neighbours are blackening our name at every possible opportunity and when
the most number of people are around.we are now in the process of taking legal
advice. but one thing i do agree with you on is the jealousey issue, i know this is involved in our case. do what we are doing, stick on in there and youll win thro in the end.
Everyone from two to ninety-two seems to think that I'm a prime target, in view of my troublemaking? To repeat, I have lived as a hermit.
I really don't know I've survived it. I moved after my mother died, but not far enough away. The police came down on my side, to my amazement, in 2008, but they regrouped and in 2010, I had two PC's at my door with a petition saying I had contravened the Harassment Section Act of 1997. I was so, so angry, as it was a total inversion of the truth, I tore it up and sent them on their way. It makes me ill to evoke all the details. They are truly evil.
I noticed when I quickly read the comments, the staid old advice, '...rise above it'. Yes, if you can, that is the best advice but to live in fear and be ostrazised by those that believe them is a tragic waste of a life and I can only mourn for mine. Then, ironically, you are cast in the role of the one that is mentally ill and defamining these law abiding people!!
That apart, you are still trying to deal with day-to-day life and dealing with all this negativity into the bargain.
In a situation like this, suicide does seem a marvellous option. Believe you me, if I had the courage, they would be delighted. They have no conscience whatsoever.
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As I detailed in my posts on here
Because I had the guts to stand up to and challenge two associations (Bolton at home based in Bolton and St Vincents Association in Metropolitan house, Old Trafford Manchester. I had been told by a few associations and other bodies that they have been spreading rumours that I need support with housing - in order to influence the decision of perceptive associations
This UNFOUNDED rumour started by Bolton at home, because I suffered a hugepanjc attack as a result of their severe neglect . I was FORCED to live in horrendous conditions . They refused to have radiators fitted throughout the 2 bedroom house I lived because they was desperate to house families. I was lied to, stolled . When I contacted legal bodies ; to civet themselves they claimed to have put me on a program when behind closed doors the manager Margaret T had been gone out if her way to put NE off making enquirys about the radiators.
Even the paramedics that attended the house when I suffered an horrendous attack commented about how cold it was and said that Bolton at home was wicked in the way I was treated
All around the skirting boards cold was willing through; holes was exposed
Now because St Vincents - who I must add had been sued because if neglect because they had neglected a gay couple from being harassed; treated me the same way when I was subjected to racial hatred ; ran with the same rumours as Bolton at home has
Other associations have been insistent to help but come against these two who are victimising me with their clear abuse if power
They have influenced so many bodies including the Greater Manchester police who was extremely
Their should be laws that should protect and rule out these associations who breaks the rules when they fail to carry
The Greater Manchester police has been extremely
Unhelpful and did not log reports correctly when my car was vandalised
and not taking seriously the valid information reported prior to the criminal
damage . Only a year later the police dropped a note through my box and didn't have the guys to knock ony door - just to cover the fact they had been horrendous throughout, by that time it was too little to late as I had made up my mind to move as a result of the last threat
Bolton at home and St Vincents - to thus day continued their plight . I have ren been refused a bond for private housing or a hostel which was told to me by the decision makers
I feel that such associations who victimised tenants as a result of their neglIgence should not be able to do this
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