What to Do About Racist Behaviour?

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What to Do About Racist Behaviour?

What Counts as Racist Behaviour?

Racist behaviour is identified when someone treats you differently because of your race, colour, nationality, citizenship, or ethnic or national origins. This includes direct harassment, verbal abuse, threats, or being treated unfairly compared to others. You can also experience racial discrimination if someone believes you belong to a particular race or nationality, even when you do not.

The law draws a distinction between racial discrimination and religious discrimination, though the two can overlap. Courts have recognised certain groups as having both ethnic and religious characteristics. Romany Gypsies, Irish Travellers, Jewish people and Sikhs are protected under race discrimination laws. Muslims and Rastafarians are primarily protected under religious discrimination laws, though racial discrimination protections may also apply where religion and ethnicity are closely linked and perceived together.

From a neighbour, racist behaviour might take many forms. Verbal abuse, offensive language, racist jokes or comments, damage to property, intimidation, or threats are all examples. It can also be more subtle: persistent unfair treatment, being excluded from shared spaces, or being reported to authorities without good reason. If the behaviour is motivated by your race or perceived race, it may be unlawful.

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Your Legal Protections

The Equality Act 2010 makes it unlawful to discriminate against someone because of race. This applies to housing, services, and many everyday situations. If your neighbour's behaviour amounts to harassment, you have legal options.

Harassment under the Equality Act means unwanted conduct related to race that violates your dignity or creates an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating or offensive environment. This is a civil matter, and you may be able to take action through the county court. Where the harassment relates to employment, claims would be brought to an Employment Tribunal instead.

If the behaviour is more serious, criminal law may apply. Racially aggravated offences carry heavier penalties than their non-aggravated equivalents. Under the Crime and Disorder Act 1998, offences such as assault, harassment, criminal damage and public order offences are treated more seriously when motivated by racial hostility. The police can investigate and the Crown Prosecution Service can bring charges.

The Protection from Harassment Act 1997 also applies. If your neighbour's behaviour amounts to a course of conduct that causes you alarm or distress, this may constitute harassment regardless of whether it is racially motivated. Two or more incidents are usually required to establish a pattern.

Your local council may also have powers to act. Many councils treat racist behaviour as antisocial behaviour and can issue warnings, community protection notices, or take action against tenants in social housing. If your neighbour is a council or housing association tenant, their landlord may be able to take action for breach of tenancy conditions.

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What You Can Do

Keep a record of every incident. Write down dates, times, the exact words spoken or actions taken, and any witnesses. If there is physical evidence such as graffiti or damaged property, take photographs before anything is cleaned or repaired. This evidence will be useful whether you report to the police, the council, or pursue a civil claim.

Report the behaviour to the police. You should report any hate incident, not only those where you feel threatened or believe a crime has been committed. Police guidance encourages reporting all racially motivated incidents so they can be properly recorded and investigated. You can report in person at a police station, by calling 101 for non-emergencies, or online through your local force's website. In an emergency, call 999. The police will record what you report as either a hate incident or a hate crime based on specific legal criteria, including whether the conduct meets the threshold for a criminal offence.

You can also report to your local council's antisocial behaviour team. They may be able to mediate, issue warnings, or take enforcement action. If your neighbour rents from a housing association or the council, contact the landlord directly as well.

Consider contacting a support organisation. Victim Support offers free and confidential help to anyone affected by crime or antisocial behaviour, including racist incidents. Citizens Advice can explain your options and help you understand your rights. The Equality Advisory Support Service provides advice on discrimination and can help you decide whether to make a formal complaint or take legal action.

If you want to take civil action, you may wish to get legal advice. A solicitor can assess whether you have a claim under the Equality Act or the Protection from Harassment Act. Legal aid may be available for some harassment cases, though eligibility is limited and depends on your financial circumstances and the nature of the claim. Speak to a legal adviser to confirm whether you qualify.

Looking After Yourself

Experiencing racist behaviour from a neighbour can be stressful and upsetting. You do not have to deal with this alone. Speaking to someone you trust, whether a friend, family member or support service, can help.

If the situation affects your mental health, your GP can offer support or refer you to appropriate services. Organisations such as Mind provide information and support for anyone experiencing mental health difficulties.

Under the Equality Act 2010 and the Protection from Harassment Act 1997, you have legal protections against harassment and discrimination in your home and neighbourhood. Racist behaviour from a neighbour may give rise to civil claims, criminal prosecution, or enforcement action by local authorities. For detailed guidance on hate crime and how to report it, visit the GOV.UK website or speak to your local police force.

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ProblemNeighbours Editor 22/05/2026 at 9:16 am
@Kir That's a horrible situation, especially with young kids caught in the middle. You can report racially motivated behaviour to the police on 101, or online via the True Vision site (report-it.org.uk), which is set up specifically for hate incidents. Keep a written log of dates, what was said and any witnesses, as it really helps if things escalate. Your local council's anti-social behaviour team is also worth a call, as racial harassment from a neighbour falls under their remit.
Kir 30/08/2024 at 3:35 pm
I have new neighbours who I thought seemed nice turns out the kids who are lovely children told my child over the fence they can't play or talk to her when the dad is home because he dont like the colour of our skin (white British) how do I report this
Andy 10/03/2024 at 8:31 am
The problem lies squarely at the councils and police. If you're a victim you literally receive no support. Police shrug you off or downplay any incidents and that's if they bother to attend. Gone are the days when the police do any investigating instead leave it to the victim to gather evidence, notes, recordings and a passport photograph of the offender(s). Councils also provide no help, various website blurb exisits pretending to provide assistance which is of no help in reality. Offenders are usually housed by the council and couldn't care less about making everyone else's life a misery. In short, you're on your own. A brick through the a racists window gets more justice and peace then reporting to the police or council. No wonder the country has gone to crap with crime, racists, drugs and anti social behaviour out of control. Come to the uk, do what you want with no repercussions.
Agma 23/01/2024 at 8:15 am
Racist tensions and hostilities would not exist in the UK if not for the government's disasterous multiculturist and failed mass immigration policies and the lurch toward woke ideology. Lack of integration, common civic understanding and values of newcomers with native Brits alike has led to poor cohesion and made race relations much worse.

Immigrants that play the racist card are not doing themselves any favours other than increasing distance, suspicion and non acceptance from native brits, leading to polarisation. This country is rapidly becoming a very tense and unpleasant place to live. This cultural disaster is entirely the governments terrible ownership. The real tragedy of all this is that this was all totally avoidable had the quality, numbers, and management of migrants been better handled.
Magic 06/11/2023 at 1:39 pm
Black People, knows this there are no laws to protect you from racism as out police protects Nazi groups across England,Scotland & Wales all the way to Australia, America and New Zealand.
If you have a racist neighbour your property will lose value.
One more thing the Europeans don't care about your rights in Africa & have murdered you in your billions over the past 2023 years,
2024 will be no different.
The police will continue to protect racist and join racist groups across the UK, America, Australia & New Zealand.
Victim support don't support victims of racist hate crimes.
Steve Lawrence for example.
The Mayhill Riot, Swansea another.
The 1919 Race Riots in England & Wales.
The Human Zoo's.
Peace and tranquility isn't a gift people.
The Boar Wars 26 concentration camps more died in Africans than in WWII by the Germans.
The UK didn't get rich by hard work, but from racism, this is our history.
The Germans copied what we did in South Africa. #Black Lives don't Matter.
Agma 16/10/2023 at 8:42 pm
@Leela. Those neighbours don't want you there obviously, they are trying to make you're life as difficult as possible until you leave. The problem is do you leave for the best and hand them a symbolic victory, or to do you want to play the long game which may result in the council and police getting involved and a court case to fight going forward?. If they are aggressive that could put you in danger and turn your life upside down.

It's a difficult choice to make, no one should be driven out, but unfortunately some people can turn, even for no reason and declare war on you. The only person that can make the call is you.

I would personally move.
leela 11/10/2023 at 11:16 pm
Since I moved from day one started during my move, the neighbor who lives upstairs at 201 D, has been making racial slurs and faces at me and my friends who were helping me move.
At first, I thought I was not sure whether I was actually being discriminated. The ‘funny looks’ and cursing I thought I was just overhearing her talking about me. I also talk to the neighbor who lives across from my unit, checking in to see if the neighbors or any one was troubled during my move and mentioned about the women who is been cursing me, my kids since my move.
The women upstairs would yell at me and my kids saying that you people F smell, you people f stink, you f people smell like poop. She continued to disturb our peace where she would start sweeping the patio if we are sitting on the patio or she would bang the floor at 2:30 am and yell vulgar slurs. When she comes home she sprays air freshener out at the stairs and yell vulgar racist slurs.
I was afraid to leave my daughter at home she was scared of all the banging from upstairs as the women will hurt her, so I started taking notes on when, how often and where the racism happened. she is yelling and banging on the floor would try to even capture on the video if I could.
Nicky 09/09/2023 at 11:07 pm
I moved in yesterday to my new home in Leeds. From London. I am from Liverpool originally. I played all day with the children today, gave them bubbles to blow, a picnic blanket, their mother my bbq coals and lighting fluid. We played his and seek and raced. Then the ‘men’ came along later on and bullied me. Because I am white. They intimidated me, laughed at me, verbally abused me, and made me cry. I am 57 and on my own. I just wanted to know and be one of my neighbours.
Gery 03/07/2023 at 1:59 am
My neighbours are always trying to come outside at the same time as us because they think we want their car apparently, and they park very close to our car, I think they are trying to get us to damage their car on purpose. It’s really annoying honestly ?? and pathetic…
Jan 27/02/2023 at 9:43 am
I am English and my neighbours are Scottish I live in Scotland in Buckie and my neighbours are racist
EnglishRose 29/12/2022 at 12:53 pm
I live in Prestwich North Manchester, so far we only have one black person living in our neighbourhood, unfortunately he lives next-door to me, he hasn't done me any wrong, but me and my wife don't like foreigners, whether they are born and bred in the UK, I can say that goes for my whole family. We just don't like them.
Chaz 24/11/2022 at 10:20 am
I'm the only white now living here in this complex I've had dirty nappies thrown into my drive way court yard,False noise complaints made against me,Intimidation from the guy across off me, Physically assaulted by a drunken neighbour who accused me of being loud and noisy and just getting dirty looks or no feel of welcoming here,I honestly believe it's because I'm white,When I told the cops this when the cops where called once they basically laughed at me and made out whites can't be victims of racism
Scared 24/08/2022 at 8:28 am
I'm in a situation in my townhouse complex, where the management team has removed my sound proofing. I just found out because after two years of stress and being scared for my life hearing death treats against me and my family, i have lost so much weight because of the stress they caused me. This is all happening with me not noticing that they remove all my sound proofing.

I finally reported this to the new complex manager, and I told him that me and my family are being threatened , he responds back quote You can contact police anytime if you'll be physically attacked. 
Why wouldn't he tell me to contact the police no matter what, if some one is threatening you.

Then the same day I came home and the sound proofing is back, the smell of new sound proofing is filling my unit, this is how I know they just put new sound proofing back.

I am right now shaking while writing this because I'm so scared. Scared for my life.

Please help, I live alone and don't know what to do or how or where to report this.

Please help I live in etobicoke, Ontario, Canada
K 15/08/2022 at 6:35 pm
I have neighbours which are racist to me because I'm Chinese (They’re white British people) and also a minor. When we first moved into our home, they spray painted our door saying some racist stuff like ‘go back to your country’. We didn't know who did it and just tolerated it. We had a little boy to our left who had always just been a little loud and sometimes kicked their ball at our windows. They didn't do much.

We had this other neighbour on the left who at first were passively racist. They started doing petty things like parking in the space in front of our house. So we decided to put cones in front of our house so they didn't park there, but after the first day, they moved those cones to the alley where all the bins were. I got pissed then my mother put a piece of paper saying ‘WHY!’ on their car and they shouted at my mother. My blood was boiling but I stayed silent. I wanted to puncture their guts. Then they continued parking in front of our house and moving our cones which are not even on the road but in front of our house. I never spoke to them.
Then today they decided to be petty and took our recycling bin and even scrub off writing that said our house number. My mother was infuriated and I was too. The bin was in front of their door and my mother just took it. One of the neighbours came out and said ‘What are you doing?!’ and started cursing at my mother. I got so enraged that I finally talked back and they said ‘Teach your child some manners’ and we went back into our house.
I wanted to say so much more but I didn't. My mother did too but she can't speak English well.
Now I'm suspecting that they were the ones who spray-painted our door since they're the only blatantly racist people. I want to report them but we have no camera or proof.

So now I decided to sit down and share my experience.
Drumm 01/07/2022 at 9:56 am
My neighbours just moved in tried to kill my cat twice threatened to kill me and my husband smash our car and windows they take smack sit up all night putting their rubbish in other people's bins trying other neighbours doors watching in window but they are allowed as they are indians and accused us of calling them racist name and got my husband charged we never mentioned any ethnic words to anyone it's a bloody disgrace these people are allowed to act on th8s and get away with it
Honey 19/07/2021 at 7:23 pm
There is no such word as racism its bullying and everyone gets bullied only black Muslim or foreigners label racism as the word but yet none of these lot try to communicate with white British people they put all white and Irish down behind their backs they really think that we are stupid not to see through them but I do those lot know wen they scream enough about racism they will get compensation and thats wat they want they know this government gives them all human rights wat about the rights for a disabled person with freckles or red hair that gets picked on by this nasty lot wer is their compensation or compasion shown from anyone or do they not matter as I also feel so many British people bend over backwards for the Muslims and the blacks but they are they are the stupid ones
Kris Hillquist 03/06/2021 at 9:46 am
Being racially abused by my neighbours being called derogatory names, threats of physical harm, and harassment. I reported it to both the council and the police but because I am white and they are black it seems no action has been taken and behaviour continues. Even accused me of being a racist because I’ve complained about their music which is on until two or 3 am with bongos and screaming into a microphone but apparently I am the one who is racist because I’ve reported the noise? You couldn’t make this up. It is so bad that I’m moving house.
giorgio 31/05/2021 at 10:48 am
our neighbors have been making our stay untenable and unbearable. For the past 17 months, she has been making inflammatory & untoward remarks in the neighborhood about me, I contact the Doncaster police a few times same police come to calm down everything, she has spread false rumors about me, I ignore all of them,i put CCTV and ring doorbell, she called me black bastard police arrest her and nothing happened she said will have me done one way or other, just matter of time, the Doncaster police they will know who is done it if I still live they will blame me.
what can I do to stop all this,
M 17/04/2021 at 7:45 am
Since moving into our Cottage on Christmas Eve 2019 our neighbour has been making our stay untenable and unbearable. For the past 15 months, she has been making inflammatory & untoward remarks in the neighbourhood about us. Several of the neighbours when passing our Cottage would stop & exchange pleasantries. Since her nuisance started most now seldom speak to us. Whilst this is something which has not affected our stay at the Cottage, my neighbours continued slander has.

We regularly attend Church, several Senior Army Officers’ with who I have served attend Church & reside in the neighbourhood. My wife recently when talking to a friend from Church warned that our neighbour was making unwarranted remarks about us especially me – I am the only coloured & Jewish person in the neighbourhood. Until the Pandemic struck, both my wife & I worked long days…for me a daily commute to Town & my wife, to the NHS Hospital Swindon. Since the enforcement of the pandemic restrictions, I have been working from home except when face-to-face meetings require me to travel. My wife throughout the pandemic has continued to work in the Community & NHS Hospital.

We have never approached nor confronted our neighbour regarding her innuendos, she has also placed notes through our letterbox; one such note stated “…people like us are not welcomed in this neighbourhood…”. I was astounded to read its contents and destroyed the note. We never sent a rebuttal or questioned her of the note’s unsavoury contents. A second note, which I have kept, where the neighbour admits to eavesdropping when my wife & I are having private conversations in the garden. This is very unneighbourly & rather alarming that our neighbour purposefully eavesdrops in our private/intimate conversations. She habitually repeats our private conversations in the neighbourhood. This is very disturbing & distasteful.
I engaged at great cost a Lawyer to stop my neighbour from the continued unwarranted barrage of defamatory remarks but alas, the neighbour completely disregards my Lawyers letters. My neighbour continues to damage my reputation for which I am unable to do anything...her racist behaviour is distasteful & believe my neighbour to be an uneducated, sad & lonely individual seeking attention...what an awful person!
I reported this awful sad, lonely neighbour to the Police, as a last resort, alas, the Police whilst acknowledging my complaint have done nothing...we are now forced to move away from our Cottage.
Mimi 15/04/2021 at 11:57 am
I have living in my flat since 2008 since 2016 an new neighbour move in doorstais with in week she and husig try to get seeking process tp end my tenant i found a solicitor in London as noone in Southend on sea where i live i was handed badly put in the mad over night which couse me tp iss my grand daughter birthday my midyle child was carry her frist child wjencsje had tp vone get me out of tjennntfsrm
Mitch 13/04/2021 at 6:25 pm
I came on this site to see if I could get any advice, my neighbour is being racially abused by another neighbour, it's been reported, I've spoken to police, council and our MP, but she no longer feels safe in her own home so is applying for emergency housing. Her family have lived there 12 years. I have lived there 2 and I cannot believe what I have seen. Her health and her families safety come first, but I am angry at the lack of action against the perpetrators.
I am ashamed to be white English. To the Romanian lady saying she bought a house in a council estate, I am sorry to say, I live on a council estate and I can agree there seems to be an underbelly of socially inept, ignorant people in these places.
They are a hot bed of rascism and alcoholism and abuse, obviously not all, but I live in Norris Green, Liverpool and it is the case. Most white English live on benefits and feel entitled. They cannot understand how someone from another country can get a job, work hard and buy a house or a car. Yet, if they worked they could do the same.
I apologise to everyone here for the animalistic behaviour of some horrible white English people.
I am not like them. I like to thi k they are a minority but it seems not. Or if they are, they live in groups.
Peace be with you all. X
Cris85 13/04/2021 at 8:10 am
Hi,

Last year me and my husband, both Romanians, bought a lovely house in a council area houses.

From day 1 we heard talking about us, literally while moving, we not even had a word with them before. Time passed and we were busy enough working long shifts from home, and doing small renovations in our free time.

The kids from the area ( loads of kids from small age to 10-11) in first few weeks after moving , throwed with eggs in our cars and house windows, than with mud in the back windows, than.with stones, and then started to play ball in the outside wall(aka living room wall) with a golf ball?!? Few times went outside and explained them that is not nice to play ball in my living room wall as I live there and working from home and specially with a golf ball. All the time politely and calm, not even raised the voice...and now... because we told them not to play ball in the wall we started to receive 'the look' and we could hear them again calling us names and swearing us.

As we are working both from home, both our cars are almost all time parked in front of the house, in a designed car parking area, and things started to happen. My husband's rear wiper car was took off and broke; after I've washed my car, next day, the top was full of mustard,mayo and bacon...and yesterday my husband's car was vandalized with fence paint. Most of my lady neighbors were home, outside having a daily chit chat - kids all around in the area, all going back and forwards around the car while I was vacuuming inside the car that was vandalised; could hear them laughing and their comments. At one point after I finished vacuuming wanted to.wash it a bit too, when I've seen the fence paint on my white car over the front.... I usually don't confront people but this time, went to ask, as they were all this time out, if they saw any of their kids playing with paint as someone just throw paint on my car while vacuuming inside and immediately 2 of the so called ladies started to scream that wasn't them, call me names and saying f***ing Romanians, go back from where you camed, if you had money to buy the house, paint your car...and they didn't stopped for at least 2 hours mocking me...swearing,even kids calling me names and trying to intimidate me. When finally realized it's me against them, they see us as an intruder in this community of them,it was too late, they literally started to talk loud,scream and do a show on the street. I'm thinking of putting a complain about it, but I'm too afraid to do so... Besides I'm stressed, terrified now, I'm also afraid to go outside :(
Everytime I've done garden work I could hear them talking about us, and swearing.

Tomorrow cctv cameras will be installed and hopefully they will leave us alone. Unfortunately police is useless, they still think they can sort out these type of situation just talking with them :(
Princess2369 05/04/2021 at 7:43 pm
Everyone keeps talking about being racist. I have lived in my home for 5 years and two of those years have been hell. There's a ratchet woman that lives next door with her horrible children, they constantly harass anyone that is white. If we say anything about it they call us racist. They only target white people. They think when black people harass white people, it is not racist or a problem. The police stated that we should leave.
Sadden 26/03/2021 at 3:05 pm
Hello, I have lived at my residence for many many years have had a very good repo with all my neighbors, last year one of my neighbors accused us of doing something which in the many years that we have live here have never done never done, we asked why they would say that, they stated someone told them, but they would not say who so that we could comfort them, from that point arguments occurred about 3x, that was last year around April, recently every time we came out of ours house the neighbor stated with “Racial Slurrs” number 1 we are too old for this and should not have to endure situations like this, to me it is just plan ignorance to do something like this. The last thing the neighbor said was that “Our time is coming”, which to me is a threat. I am a Law Abiding Citizen, pay taxes, don’t live of the government, we don’t look for trouble however, we now feel that we will have to defend ourselves, we don’t condon violence but I feel that it could result to that. At this point it just makes me sick to even think about it or everytime we step outside what to expect. I don’t want to sell my house I like where I am at, Also, we have went to file a police complaint so it is on record. Another over the years these were our favorite neighbors we use exchange gifts, invite to parties everything, cooked, spend the day together you name it we did it. They really have shown that they are truly racist the true colors came out. Thanks for listening
Shelly 06/03/2021 at 12:58 am
Hi..im dealing with the black pop..from back of the complex they don't like whites they don't know how to act with us ..they had to move because the use meth.and they kept getting busted .know the Hispanic s are acting like whites are nothing around here and we don't deserve a home.to live in.same with the blacks that's the way they treat us.and it's very evil if they get any evil u're they act as if there capable of killing somebody.
katiegi 20/02/2021 at 8:18 pm
Hi, I really sympathise with all the comments. Being British Chinese means I get to see the worse in people. In all instances of moving house, it has always been white English people behaving appallingly and in a racist manner towards my family. Whilst sitting in the garden, I don't even get any peace as their children kick the ball at the fence and call me names like 'chink'. We have had to deal with noisy neighbours having parties all night and thinking it is perfectly acceptable. Finally we have moved to a detached house, and although not perfect it allows some breathing space. Good luck
Chell 26/01/2021 at 6:31 pm
So thiers a racist couple that constantly harass me from over the road they shout black bastard when they see me try intimate me by watching me from thier window smiling at me will come to my drive and stand watch me, ive contacted the police and all they say is try record its very difficult in this situation as im afraid to take me phone out what can i do to stop this ive brought my home so isn't easy to move they live in private rented which is crazh as the landord isn't white and they are very racist people 55 heatherbrook road Leicester
Mo 17/01/2021 at 9:15 pm
I live in a shared house and mybother two housemates know that I am a Muslim. They constantly talk loudly in a not ao normal way for me to hear their words. They trash talk my ethnicity and curse my religion and its figures. When Iwalk out they smile at me and when I go back to my room they start calling muslims and people with my ethnicities with nasty names. Thus is torture and a loop hole in the law that they are exploiting. I'm a minority in the country and also in the home.
Upset 08/01/2021 at 10:07 pm
We have a neighbor that live across the hall from us. We have a ring doorbell. The woman in the apartment has constantly flipped off our doorbell. Cussing and even videotaping it with her cellphone. She claims to have PSTD. What makes her behavior odd is there are 12 apartments in our building four on each floor. There are four ring doorbells in our building. Two on our floor and two below us. This neighbor passes four ring doorbells but only has issue with ours. She cusses, dances and acts like a monkey, video tapes it. She’s even resorted to teaching her daughter how to say ,”n***er” on camera. At one point we thought we had resolved this issue she had it’s the camera. Somehow we have not she’s still pissed at only our camera. When we see her she acts like she’s an innocent victim. We have called the police and filed. Complaint against her and her sister in law. Our apartment complex doesn’t want to be involved. We no longer try to be cordial or polite, we have basically resorted to ignoring her behavior. We still can’t figure out why she’s still being nasty towards us.
Tee 25/10/2020 at 10:31 am
Hi, my neighbour has always been a bit of a funny onion, last 4 yrs living next to her, 17/18 wks ago I noticed a cat scarer in her garden thought nothing of it, we have a cat problem. I made a joke to a few people that my neighbours watching me cause every time I stepped out side she came running out of her back door, any way 12 wks ago I was at back door and looked at cat scarer it was a f—-ing camera looking right at my back door, I told my son and he had a look also she had a camera looking straight at my back gate, I took photos for proof next thing she’s out shouting I’m killing her plants with my spray, which I use to keep cats away, great for flowers, mine still blooming, best part,for the last 9 wks I’ve been looking after my dad he had terminal cancer so I was running back and forth 4/5 time a day running 2 homes, 2 wks before he died I was at his all the time, so even my garden was neglected, Friday he died, Sunday she’s screaming like a banshee, few days later I was speaking to another neighbour she told me, I’d also been nicking her plants, my other neighbours and I like to share cutting from gardens to each other, any way other day 22/10/20 I was getting off bus and she ran to get it and physically knocked into me, she once was going on about COVID she need to keep safe, on 24/10/20, we were waiting for bus , she’s there soft voice saying Trash, white tramp, dirty, another time she was on about my white arse, she’s not daft she waits till theirs no one near. Yes I’m white with 2 black kids, so what do I do
Liah 23/10/2020 at 1:05 am
My mom lives next door to a Scottish lady who causes her non stop problems for 12years (making my mom leave her home to be away of the ongoing problems) This lady in question has called my mom a lot of racist names to name few monkey, Devil, too dark, Halloween clothes). My Mom is 55 years from black decent. the lady was asked by police what her problem is with my mom causing her to constantly harass and trouble my mom, she said “nothing”. I had to install cctv so I could capture The stuff she does as she used to use my moms garden as a dump area, throwing alcohol cans, her household rubbish and so on. One day cctv caught Her out throwing dirty poo nappy into my moms garden, she took my moms whole private back garden fence down, her son broke my moms front gate, her kids kick Their balls at our fence, Also towards my mom or her visitors. Non stop problems, she is council tenant and my mom is private landlord, she has made comments that she wants my mom to move out, what help is available? The lack of support from the council and police is disappointing even with a lot of evidence provided they seem to let her get away with this behaviour. For the past two years I live with my mom With my three kids (age 1,2,3) my kids have also been a victim. I’m heavily pregnant at the moment and feel very hopeless.. It got to the point we can’t go outside without some sort of harassment from the lady. Should my mom sell her house?
Ruby 27/08/2020 at 3:19 pm
I have been harrassed by my neighbours in Luton for 4 years got worst when a 2 Scottish lesbians moved in next door started accusing us of all sorts other side Amanda’s and tony nightmare complainers from hell think they can tell everyone what to do . Report every petty thing it’s like we are being watched and talked about all the time .The are racist one evening said Muslimics reported it to council and police nothing was fine .Tried ignoring them mind my own business never works .We has a family barbecue complained about noise next day to the council barbecue was first in 5 years .Nobody told them to have kids at old age .Karma will catch up with them one day I’m a single parent and they constantly watch from their window .Other side have put a sticker in the window aimed at us two fingers .They are so petty and childish they are dead for us .Never again would we trust or make friends with anyone they are like psychopaths
Mr Bag 09/07/2020 at 11:31 pm
I have an anti Jewish hate filled man in my neighbourhood in Summerhill. Toronto. I'm deeply offended by his outrageous, angry remarks. I'm not Jewish I'm immigrant from London, England 1970. This guy threatens with actual violence and obserdity. He does not belong. How do I inform neighbors of his pestulance?
Mircea 10/06/2020 at 10:09 am
Hi,My name is mircea and i am Romanian and from day one when i rent house one women english from one house after street,comming every day and shout to us ,to much noise,every day, in one day my and my freend stai in garden 10clock night and speak normal,and cooming in garden and say you speak very loud,my close neighbor no have complain,gest this lady everytime no happy,
Just human 01/06/2020 at 7:03 am
Hi,
We have lived at this property in Greenwich Borough for last 10 years and I am sad to say we have been racially abused and harassed by our neighbours.
From the day we moved into the property our neighbour did not like us for us being brown skin.
Anytime we would try to do diy or fix this old property during the permitted times she would shout abuse over the wall.
On one ocassion on a sunny summer day when we were in our front garden , husband and wife started arguing with us by saying we make too much noise and got so aggressive that he came over towards us saying "You f**** p****". Police were called and they have suggested we can arrest the person. We have thought he is an old person and giving him causion will make them understand the situation. But i would say people think they beling to this country more than you do or you ever will.
This abuse continued over the years during birth of our two childred and loss of a young brother in law. They did not care about anything and continued with shouting and banging on partition wall for anything they tought to be noise. Sometime noise being made by vehicle moving in the roads. We are at the breaking point now after being accused falsely on at least 60-80 times to council and no real outcome.
It is sad to see we work everyday and pay taxes and mortgages to get this kind of treatment from people who have lived on benefit in a free house for last 40 years.
I dont want no advise but i would say only hard working people do suffer in these situations.
Because fear of losing what we have.
There is nothing you can do to make these people understand since all they want everything free and their way.
Bobbi 24/04/2020 at 5:37 am
Hi I am Indian Sikh and my neighbour are English I’m the only one Asian in this building . My neighbour have always problem when I’m going out and coming in they park there car behind my van so I cnt move my van any where if I’m saying to them move there car then saying you not living here you can’t park here and telling me I keep going and coming back even they complain to council that my wife is prostitute and I am coming to here every day . How come they can say like this I’m living with my wife and daughter it’s so rude and it’s none of there business I’m going and coming because I’m working I have go but I dnt know y they have problem 3 time they shout at me in car park under ur flat I didn’t say any thing because I want to live in peace but I want to know what can I do else to stop them behaving like this because it’s enough for me
Pe 12/04/2020 at 11:47 am
We have a Asian young female neighbour who is obviously unwell but keeps shouting swearing and call everyone in site White sh##, white scum and is very aggressive even threatening. The constant references to white scum etc is unacceptable.
Marlene 10/11/2019 at 3:05 pm
Hi I am 34 year old woman I been leaving in my home for about 2 years now and it's my first time buying a home and my next door neighbors have reported me none stop about my dogs they have knocked and called police and keep on now I leave in a neighborhood where there all kinds of dogs my next door neighbors have dogs but they pick on me cause one I am a Latnia woman and I live alone I have no husband so there for they call the police and keep knocking on my door telling me I will go to jail or my dogs will be taken away is this even right.
Peaches 28/06/2019 at 12:15 pm
I have a neighbor that is harassing me behind where I park my cars on the public street in front of my house, she stands in her back yard staring at my grandbabies saying to them they harrising her dog because they playing in my yard, she is calling the city on me saying I am blocking her driveway but I have pictures proving her wrong and she is making it a habit to Park in front of my car very close blocking her driveway and being messy because she has a driveway and she can also park in front of her house,she is raceiest because I've lived in my house for 5 yrs and don't mess with no one ,I need to put a stop to her because she is white and I am black and I feel she is picking at me for no reason, and I am disabled ,
Marie 27/01/2019 at 6:06 pm
Hi
I have a night mere neighbour. I am 81 and white British. Now people talk about coercive control, it doesn't happen only in marriage or living with a partner. My neighbour is a classic example any thing doesn't go his way bad language and frothing of mouth comes up. If he is reported to Authority then is a back lash such as throwing a 6ft plank, throwing rubbish pushing my Arbour on my flowers. I have reported him several times he always comes up with excuses which he is believed. I asked the police for cctv because he invites himself to my premises when I am not home. Police said they don't provide council said they don't either. i just can not afford to have some one to install one. In the summer I have to hide under umbrella as he is up and down with his nose over the fence. There is much more. Latest is he has build summer house in the part of his garden which is registered as Agricultural land and looks straight into my dining room.
I complaint to the council, after which he puts planning application though it has been declined but i am not sure what will happen.
ProblemNeighbours Editor 25/07/2018 at 11:49 am
Contact Citizens' Advice, they have clear resources available for deciding whether an incident is classes as racism/hate crime etc.
Annoyed! 22/07/2018 at 10:10 am
Hi, I'm White & English & I get called 'White Trash from my NEW neighbours who hav just moved in next door a few years ago. It all started the day they moved in & it's spiralled out of control since to the point now, we get called English Pricks" over the fence. What should I do? I'm a council tennent, but they're Privately Owned??
ken 01/06/2018 at 3:11 pm
I have what I believe is racist neighbour. I recently bought a house but now I am regreting that my next door racist neighbour always blames me for something which never happened. when I am away from home that racist lady always give harresment to my family.
I approched to this lady once but I am fade up with sinery words she uses every single speech.
My final opetion now merged is to sell this hoise and move. but before I move I would like to take a legal action agains this lady. Do you have any suggestions ladies and gents.
Princess 25/02/2018 at 7:48 pm
Hello I live in a private hmo and I'm the only mixed race person in the building well one person move in and he was fine at first and friendly then he just changed... Talking about me to other people and calling me a nagga and other racist words and them other people told me this and they had a go at him and he says he's not a racist and he's sorry but he's never said sorry to me. I have reported to my landlord because this person don't like him either because our landlord is Indian but my landlord has said he cont do anything until this person has said it to my face or to his
I cont stand this person because he thinks he owns the building and trying to tell people what to do but I just keep away from him
I just need some advice because ve just got a feeling that another black person will move in and they will sort him out because they won't put up with his rude and sick ways
Aysh 15/01/2017 at 12:54 am
Who do these racist people think they
YOU ARE NO BETTER WE ALL ARE HUMAN
Racist people are uneducated and tramp who have no respect for nobody
Sammy 02/01/2017 at 11:23 pm
We have a neighbour who lives with his girlfriend in a flat at side of our disabled bungalow for two years we had hell from him he moved out for one year an since he came back he won't leave us alone yet again , he contacted our housing saying we had parties every week , that we block car park with our bins but we have to drive through ourselves , he just doesn't leave us alone an we're both in our 60s an don't do nothing to anyone my husband is Asian an this man is definAtly racist an I am so fed up with the harress ent he gives us all the time an want it stopped but don't know how to go about it
Sue 22/12/2016 at 12:58 pm
Continue:
daughter 17 run to me with violence and snatched the mobile and thrown it to the floor of my car and damaged it!! I recorded that but only!! And yet no one was interested to what is happening to me and they were calming her down!! I shouted and said: is everybody here against me just because I'm new and Muslim lady!! I have been living here for 15 years and all my children born here and if any of you were fair enough you would ask me what's my problem instead of listing to one story only!! I told them about her sons behaviour and how friendly I tried to be to them for long time by offering dishes from time to time and offering lifts to the mother attacking me when she was walking and even told them how many times her son came to visit and offered food and cakes and play time with us but all stopped when he returned it by rude behaviors and hiding the ball!! She screamed again to drive more attention and said No you did that because I am Black!!!! I said What! Don't use that card as I never treated you difrently ever and the proof that my son used to play with yours for long time and you just started your fight with me using racist words such us go to your F* country and who are you!!! At the end we reach peace agreement that we will have fresh start and we will keep our good relations.. but I was ill of panic attack for the whole night and next day when I had sharp pains in my arms and legs and headache that all accompanies when I am super afraid.. plus found my mobile is damaged and I took it to repairs and cost me £70 for new screan and repairs as all the buttons where not working on my IPhone 6.. what shall do?
Should I forget about it? Or mention it to housing or police? Or tell her to compensate me for the repair and balls ? Or nothing at all and have fresh start????
Sue 22/12/2016 at 12:52 pm
I am mom of 5 moved a year ago to house and started being annoyed with our next door neighbor young son, age 9 traspassing our back garden for his ball, bulling and swear at my son who is only 7. And things escalated when he started calling him names (fat, girl, stupid..) and my son war started to be afraid of going to the back garden!! And then he started to through our balls to the other nighbours who had dogs so they would pop our ball!! I tried to send my girls to complain to the mother and older son 20 and no help offered!! We lost 3 balls and a lot of hard time when play time ruined once our ball lands by mistake on their garden!! Although we always throw their ball back without any problem.. we contacted the housing about this behavior after 7 months of stress.. and since then their boy stopped jumping on our back garden or even speaking to my son and it was so relaxing time but we kept throwing back their ball to them, while they keep our ball for looong time before throwing it back.. as revenge.. we kept things calm as possible and I kept buying new balls and ask my only son not to kick it high so it won't land on their garden.. until 2 days ago things exploded!!! He kicked his last ball and the boy hold it and took it inside their house!! My daughter asked him to return it he said, he will be in trouble with his old brother if he did!! And he mentioned that several times before!! So I went personally and was fully fed up and it has been a year haveing this problem with this childish behavior!!! The boy opened the door, so I asked for his mom straight away, so the boy called his mom and said( mom next door here for the ball, but she asked me to hide it in not me!!!!!!) she knocked him to stop talking and said what do you want???? I a said with surprise: I'm here to complain about the old story of the ball and thought its boys problem but it seems the problem is with you as well as you asked you son to hide it!!!
She said yes because you reported us to housing!! I said yes and that's because you for long months insisted not to solve the problem!!! She said well go to hell.. I said ok you will hear from council again then!! And I left.. she followed me with anger and start swearing at me saying: who are you to come here and threatening me!! Go back from where you come from you F*immigrants!! F* the council.... I was going back toward my car and asking her to stop coming toward me but she lost her control and came to me and she was about to hit me when I started to scream for help and someone calling police!! All the neighbors who knew her for long time stood next to her against me and didn't bother to ask me with the problem and instead they asked her so she started by telling lies and mentioned our report to housing against them.. so everyone look at anger to me and the lady was shouting and saying very bad racist words.. when I felt all alone and afraid I took my mobile to record the swearing words but her daughter 17 run to me wit
ProblemNeighbours Editor 22/12/2016 at 11:36 am
You should report them to the police again - this sort of behaviour has to be stopped, so unfortunately it's up to you to report it.
Jane 21/12/2016 at 2:53 am
I recently moved next to a racist family in Braintree England and the woman is unemployed and at home everyday. She seems quite lonely and evil and hisses and snarls racial verbal abuse at our direction and has even picked up cat and dog excrement and placed it on our house. She seems uneducated and displays neo nazism. I once complained to the police but I decided not to press charges incase things escalated but as a result she and her husband continue to dedicate every passing hour to interrupting a quiet area with racist slurs and being discriminatory. I am close to pressing charges.
Kay 22/09/2016 at 10:28 am
My husband and I and our children were harassed by this Mexican family for 29 years. They are racist against everyone. I've had 3 restraining orders on them.Every time the restraining order expires,they start harassing us again. They follow us in their car.Their kids are all over the age of 40 years old now and 1 still lives at home.He has no respect for anyone or anything. He follows my now elderly husband while I'm at work.He s constantly looking into our backyard. I'm constantly calling the police.
MGB 09/06/2016 at 11:41 pm
I am Mexican and have two boys whose father is Black, my current husband is Anglo and a law enforcement officer. A year ago a neighbor moved next to us who is targeting us and harassing us, she has Aspbergers and her son is Autistic. The husband is a pilot who is never ever home, she never opens her blinds and is currently trying to get my husband fired by filing false allegations and even went to the extent of filing a formal complaint to the office of disabled people stating that she is afraid of us, specially my husband even when we have had NO contact or interaction with her at all. All her statements are false... What can I do????
silena 27/05/2016 at 4:09 am
I live in walsall with my 3 kids 2 of my kids have mental problem they 16 and 17 years ..and my daugther 11 ...we live there for 7 years ..the same week we move it start ..i call the police they av done nothing ..even the housing ...it break me down were i have an stroke last year ...i tell the doctors at the manor lie..because im afraid someone work there see me ...are have family that live near us....and say something back ...anyway it get to my kids really bad ...my big son not dealing with very good ...they dont listen to me at all ...i feel like jus stop all my kids pain and it will over ...and then they will deal with the next family better...
Its hurts so bad i dont want to take my child to school ...its everywhere ..around us ...etc...school ..shops...chippi...bank...postoffice..my daughter always say mummy they are bad people...thats not good to say as a child ..i hate my life and my kids life. .they never come on the street for 7years we live here ...saddddddddd ...bad things come to my mind for my kids everyday ....saddddd.
MJ 27/02/2016 at 11:15 am
I have a racist neighbour, and When I complained to the police, the
Police proved as racist as the neighbour.

The solicitors and even the courts exercise racism

The strength only comes from inside
Mia 03/11/2015 at 8:19 am
I had the first encounter of racism tonight. In my neighbor white neighbors will just stare without saying anything but this was much worse. We had a family member who was a senior who wandered out and sat near the person property, they needed help getting back home and mind you have health problems like diabetes and neuropathy, so we knew we couldn't simply walk them back, so we got in are car to go down about a block and a half to pick them, we pulled into the nearest driveway so we could get them there as soon as possible, so we got out of the car, attempted to help him up but couldn't as we were both female and couldn't carry his weight, so we had to wait for my male family members. We were literally away from our car for about less than a minute and were going back to it to pull out when a caucasian man tells us he has called the cops on us, for pulling in his driveway briefly, he tells us to leave which is what we were doing when it came out of the house heckle us, but then stands in front of the driver side door so we can't leave, mind you we are two african american females and he is a white man bigger than both of us. My female family memeber manages to get in the car and starts to pull out of the driveway then this man jumps behind the car trying to prevent her from being able to back out she continues as he trying to hold the car, and she manages to leave, I explain to him that we have a family member that is sick and we need help, he says he's on my property he needs to get off my property and as I'm explaining we need help, he's calling the cops claiming we parked in his driveway before, that we tried to run him over and all other nonsense that didn't happen. As soon as he saw we were black he called the cops and even after telling him we needed help he refused and persisted to tell us to get off of his property. Luckliy the cops helped and didn't believe this man as he was obviously racist not only that the man lied to them claiming we didn't ask for help and if did he would have helped I couldn't believe he was trying to save face in front of the cops. This was a horrible encounter with a racist for me as it was already a stressful situation and it literally was life or death because had someone who was a senior and a diabetic been outside any longer they could have went into shock which was something I wasn't willing to risk, but the white man had no problem with risking anothers life if the person was black, I couldn't how heartless and mean this person was. It was shocking and afterwards he wanted to report us! And for what is what I wondered for trying to help a family member who he claimed was on his property and the point was we were trying to but at the same time he was telling us to leave he was trying to prevent us from leaving because he wanted the cops to come and arrest us as he put it. I'm sure he was very disappointed when two minority cops showed up and made no arrest because there was nothing to arrest
Kyle 02/08/2015 at 3:52 am
Hi long story short , my and my family have been subject to racism for the last two years , though I've withheld from using the race card hoping it will go away a recent incident has taken this to the next level leaving my 5 year old daughter petrified and with questions asking me where were from and why do the neighbours shout us to go back. Further more the neighbours have stuck on the confederate flag on the back of their car. I've called the police and been to citizens advice b. But it seems that I'm hitting dead end with them. My wife is worried about out families welfare as we have a child of 5 and a child with extreme disability . Can anyone guide us/me to have this stopped or prevent them in anyway?
ProblemNeighbours Editor 17/02/2015 at 2:48 pm
@junamuri. You should report all incidents of racist behaviour to the police. There are also many organisations for racial equality that can support you. Ask at your local Citizens Advice Bureau for more details.
jumamuri 16/02/2015 at 2:18 pm
I been checking for a house to rent in a few websites, I found one a bit expensive, but cover all my necessities, so I call the agency, obviously You can understand that I am not British, so, they told me the house is out of the market. Ok. Those was on Monday, on Friday, I passed near of the house, and the advertising still in the house, so I say to my wife, please call you, and will see. She is not British as well, so they say no. Ok. But on the next week I still seen the house in internet, so I ask to one of my British friends for a favor, and he call the same agency, the same agent say yes, the house is available. So, now where I can complain?? Or I can do ,???? I feel really discriminated. Thanks
Humanism does wonder 20/01/2015 at 9:41 pm
So a few months on and the insidious antics of the nasty bitter woman below me is is full flow, deeper than I even thought.
An asb case opened against me(defamation) has been closed as all part of her campaign oddly her good friends who live next door who have conspired against me have dismissed the idea of mail theft, get this for a laff!
Two weeks ago this person decided to sign for Amazon packages as me!
She signed exactly as if she were me, so she pretended, the fraud team have been notified, it just goes on and on, it is very hurtful but what I know in my heart is those who wish to believe most probably already have a set in place schema about people of color and as such they need very little evidence to back up their own warped belief system, I am certain karma will visit those who have worked against me.
Stay strong as often there is pure envy involved.

Bless.
ProblemNeighbours Editor 30/10/2014 at 2:24 pm
@MRT502 - you should tell the police about this kind of behaviour. It may seem trivial to many (especially those in that particular lettings agency), but if it's treated seriously, we can hope that one day it will stop.
ProblemNeighbours Editor 22/10/2014 at 11:23 am
@laurie. You should write to the owner or property management company responsible for the flats. They should be able to take action regarding his lax security in the communal areas and also request that he removes posters from his door, especially if other tenants find them offensive. Regarding the noise, if this is a consistent nuisance the contact your environmental health office which has the power to serve an abatement notice. Any truly racist behaviour should be reported directly to the police of course.
Laurie 20/10/2014 at 12:15 pm
My neighbour has put up a photograph of tealights in the shape of a swastika above the door to his flat! I'm black, he also makes noise when he knows I have gone to bed. I can go into my bedroom 10 minutes before I go to bed and it is all quiet, but as soon as get into bed and settle down, he starts it like a dull thudding noise, like he is banging something on the floor, and this can go on for hours, or it is an intermittant noise, ans as soon as you start to drop of he start again. He leaves the doors unlocked, even though he knows they has been loads of burglaries, in the area (16) in just 2 month. He even leaves the window in the hall open, which is just above a flat roof, it's almost like he wants me to get robbed. I live in fear that I will come home to find that this has happened. He knows I am concerned about this as I have had many conversations about leaving both the door and window unlocked....is this just me or would anyone else see this as harrassment and intimidation?
Humanism does wonder 22/07/2014 at 10:50 pm
Sorry me again;-)
I know for a fact this woman in time will come to realize that using half of a community to try and ruin me just informs me that she does see me as a big threat for whatever reason, am of the upmost importance to her and her life with her plotting and sneaking around.
Racism and racist behaviour is alive and well in this country and to suggest otherwise is disingenuous.
The entire infra-structure that we all live within is based on supremacy and as such there will be a lot of obstructions but stay positive and remember that you will not be harassed, worn down and made to feel inferior which behaviour of this kind does try to induce within another.
Another thing to consider is that how important that you must be for this person to be focusing on ruining you and your life through viciousness.
I leave my home with a confident step even if I do not feel it inside as I simply will not allow anyone to alter how I feel about myself.
Everyone, keep your head up and remember the finest steel often gets sent through the hottest furnace.
Believe in what you think you can not achieve, it may take days, months or years, many may not have the strength, but try your hardest to keep that self belief strong within you.
The system is set up so that while there are discrimination Acts in place it is a case of giveth with one and taketh with other, meaning that often those in charge of making sure these legislations are implemented like the Police and Housing all to often turn a blind eye due to their own deep rooted issues with discriminatory feelings.
This is not generally carried out consciously though can be, more so there is an unspoken collective agreement.
Okay must go, but just stay strong and you WILL prevail.
Bless.
Humanism does wonder 22/07/2014 at 10:34 pm
Interesting web page!

I am currently being systematically harassed by a woman who is 35 years older than me.
So far the HA have failed to act so I have made a complaint threating legal action, I already have an existing complaint open regarding this vile piece of work.
I do not wish to say to much in case it identifies me, you never know who may read this.
The harassment is about dominance, the resident has lived in the block for 28 years, she is much older and has a very "I am lady of the manor" syndrome about her.
The racial element was there from the beginning but in all honesty at first very subtle if this makes sense, just little comments which were quite vague, however over the course of a short period of time her "shyness" about such matters has disappeared altogether.
Sticking up newspaper cuttings in communal hallway, referencing my racial group in a Slanderous way to the HA in regards to what she states she heard me yell at the police who visited me after the 5th visit in less weeks.
Oh yes, this resident who is both a bully but also very weak has taken to calling the police on me for made up crimes when ever she feels like it, the purpose is for me to hopefully for her be dragged out of my home like a common criminal with the street looking on muttering "what IS IT with those types of people"?
Sadly for her I enjoy reading and as such know how to protect myself with the Law.
The Police have been used as agencies to harass me as have the local PCSO(one of them is her good pal), a dynamic often used by one who seeks to destroy through any means.
After the last two forced attempt entries to my home I have now submitted two official complaints against the police citing above reasons and the fact that when I have invited them into my home they have been very rude, condescending, disbelieving, and more.
I have notified my local MP who is now on the case.
The Police are not happy I have got my local MP who is quite the star in the House of Commons to represent me.
It is draining, she has done her best to isolate and intimidate me from the very start of me moving in to my new home, however I simply will NOT be intimidated.
There is a lot more but....
Ah yes theft of my mail but I do know she has been stealing the mail from within the communal building for some time, three flats in block, no mail boxes, she on ground floor so has been easy for her and have seen her with my own eyes yet has decided to Slander me that I am the one stealing, the HA know this not to be true, accept she has stolen hence new mail boxes installed, accept newspaper cuttings, photographical evidence, and more and yet they have colluded from the very start.
Agiesm the other way is going on, I have been informed by a Law Centre the very fact that she is 67 will mean the HA will simply not be impartial in this manner.
Oh but they will in time.....
It can hurt to see residents looking at you with doubt, but sod em, I know for a fact that this resident
ProblemNeighbours Editor 08/07/2014 at 9:56 am
@GillyBilly..it's probably not really advisable to tackle a tenant about their political views. If you suspect they are extreme and likely to have a negative impact then contact the police on a non-emergency number.
Gillybilly 04/07/2014 at 10:26 am
Hello,

We let a house to a couple and their son. They have not been ideal tenants, however my husband is unwilling to take action to remove them, as they have been at the property for some years now and carry out maintenance to the interior. I have noticed recently, that the man has been posting some rather extreme right wing views on his Facebook page. I am sure this is not illegal, but he seems to have particular issues with both Eastern European people and those who follow Islam. What constitutes racist behaviour? - I am sure he must exhibit these views in his life, as well as his online life. I am troubled by this, but my husband is unwilling to tackle him about it, as it seems his friends and family share his views and we cannot end their tenancy for inadequate reasons. Thank you.
Che' 17/02/2014 at 6:53 pm
Hi Rock,

I am sorry you have had to experience such ignorance. I, too, am going through the same thing right now. My neighbors have been cautioned by the police, but they continue to disobey the warnings. I will not put up with their toxic behavior and will continue to report them. I have also decided to write to my local MP as well. It is disgusting, because their actions are blatant racial discrimination and harassment. I have noticed that the other neighbors do not speak now as well... That is their problem not mine. I am very happy my parents raised me well and to be very strong. It is very sad, or should I say, they are very sad... through all of this nonsense; I have remained calm and have acted with dignity.. Unlike them, using foul language, especially the usage of the F word and in each shot of my five year old children and used directly at my oldest son and his friends. So, yes, stay strong and do not take this horrific behavior from anyone. I have had to deal with racism most of my life.. it is very ugly and I would not put anyone through this..

Keep reporting them.. someone will listen!!
ROCK 12/09/2013 at 6:54 pm
Some of us are stuck with racist neighbours. What is worse is when you report it and both the offender and the police seem to be in denial. I have severed all sorts of racist abuse and harassment for the past 5 years. I get told that it was my words against theirs and to gather proof. To all the victims; please do be strong and get on the authority to take action. Don't suffer in silence as the problem is VERY real. We need to speak up and hopefully shame the racist fools. I say go to MP, LAW CENTRE, SOLICITORS,THE PAPERS; If we are not being heard. WE ALL DESERVE A PEACEFUL LIFE AND SHOULDNT HAVE TO PUT UP WITH SOMEONE CONSTANTLY ON OUR CASE.
billy 26/06/2013 at 9:12 pm
We were the first Asian family to move onto a council estate, soon after moving in we started receiving anonymous letters in disguised writing with racist remarks and threats, messages such as we are going to have petrol poured through our letterbox and burnt alive whilst we sleep, anonymous callers giving threats and racist abuse to the point we had to change our telephone number.
We have had cars damaged, smashed windows, etc.
15 years later it's become very clear our neighbour was behind this campaign of hatred, only she no longer does it anonymously. She is on very strong medication for mental health problems. She openly begs everyone living on the estate to come and sort us out, continuous gossiping and slandering, asking young kids to damage our property, getting members of her family to physically attack us, made many racist comments over the years, making false allegations to the police to get us arrested, it's non-stop harassment.
I'm pretty sure the fact we own our property and her property is council owned makes her even more angry.
The police don't really do anything, the harassment we suffer is on a daily basis, it's got to the point where we have asked the council to swap our privately owned house for another council house on another estate.
We wont be able to sell our house as we will have to tell any potential buyers about the problems we have experienced from this problem neighbour, the council are also very slow in acting.
galvano 24/04/2013 at 12:41 pm
I have neighbours wrongfully accusing the household of being racist and abusive. They have gone to the local counsel and complained about us and now we have been threatened that we may possibly be prosecuted. All of which are wrongful accusations but I dont know what procedures I can take to avoid further accusations and most importantly not get prosecuted.
mike 03/10/2012 at 1:31 pm
Honestly, if you think racist behaviour is rare in the UK then you need to get out more. In some cities it’s very common and recent demonstrations by the EDL indicate that it’s far from dormant, it’s there in some many underlying attitudes in life, sad to say. Keep your eyes wide open and oppose racism wherever it occurs.

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