What Should We Do About Our Neighbour's Complaining?

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What Should We Do About Our Neighbour's Complaining?
Miss Marie Rice asks

We have a flat within a 1930's converted house. Since we've had new neighbours they keep complaining about the noise from our flat (mainly the bedroom which is above thiers), but we didn't have any problems with the people who lived there before. We can hear the same noise from the flat above which we have put down to the fact that this is a conversion and not purpose built.

We have tried to rent out the flat but the neighbours seem to keep pushing our tenants out. We have tried to talk to them and put rugs down etc... but they keep knocking on the door and complaining to our tenants. What should we do?

When a Neighbour Keeps Complaining About Noise

Living in a converted property often means dealing with sound travelling between flats. If your neighbour regularly complains about noise from your home, it can be stressful and frustrating, especially when you feel you are doing nothing unusual.

This situation is common in older house conversions where soundproofing was not a priority during the building work. The structure itself may be the real problem rather than your behaviour.

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Understanding the Noise Issue

In many converted houses, sound insulation between flats is poor. Everyday activities like walking, talking or watching television can travel through floors and walls more easily than in purpose built blocks.

If previous occupants of your neighbour's flat had no complaints, this might be relevant, though it is worth remembering that different households have different routines and activity levels. It may also help to consider whether you can hear similar sounds from other flats in the building. If noise travels both ways equally, this points to a structural issue rather than unreasonable behaviour on your part.

That said, repeated complaints suggest your neighbour genuinely feels disturbed, whatever the cause. It is often more effective to find a practical solution rather than simply dismissing their concerns.

Your situation may be slightly different. ask a question below ↓ and our editorial team will reply with our advice.

What the Law Says About Noise

The Environmental Protection Act 1990 covers statutory noise nuisance in England and Wales. Local councils can investigate complaints and take action where noise amounts to a legal nuisance.

The bar for statutory nuisance is fairly high. It typically applies to things like:

  • Persistently loud music
  • Frequent shouting or arguing
  • Dogs barking repeatedly
  • Excessive noise from parties or gatherings
  • Loud DIY work at antisocial hours

Ordinary household sounds, such as footsteps or conversation at normal volume, will not usually meet this threshold, though assessments can be context dependent. In exceptional circumstances, everyday noises that are persistently disruptive or worsened by poor building insulation could still be relevant. Councils also pay particular attention to noise occurring after 11pm, though nuisance rules apply at any hour.

If your neighbour has complained to the council, you can ask what specific allegations have been made. The council should be able to explain the process and what happens next. For detailed guidance on noise complaints and council powers, check the GOV.UK website.

Practical Steps to Consider

Even when you believe complaints are unreasonable, taking some steps can help reduce tension and show goodwill. Consider whether any changes might make a difference:

  • Adding rugs or carpet to hard floors
  • Moving speakers or televisions away from shared walls
  • Being mindful of noise levels late at night
  • Keeping a record of your normal daily activities in case disputes escalate
  • Checking your lease or property agreement for any specific clauses about noise

Speaking directly with your neighbour, calmly and without confrontation, sometimes helps. If direct conversation is difficult, a mediation service may assist. Some councils offer neighbour mediation schemes, though availability and cost vary between areas.

If you rent your flat, your landlord or managing agent may also be able to help, particularly if the building's soundproofing could be improved.

Where complaints continue without clear grounds, you are entitled to carry on living normally. Keep records of any harassment or unreasonable behaviour from your neighbour, as this may become relevant if the situation worsens.

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Ken 20/05/2023 at 11:23 am
I have lived here for 20 years. There has never been a complaint about me. But recently, I had my third stroke, and this time it affected my sight and my hearing. I am unable to get out as I used to do, and all I have at home is my tv. But because of my stroke, I need to turn the volume up sometimes in order to hear it. I use headphones a lot, but what I am supposed to do when I have guests. I can hardly sit here with headphones on while they sit there and fiddle their thumbs. No other neighbour has complained, just this one.
SLG44 13/08/2022 at 12:53 am
I have had the opposite problem. I have recently moved into my lovely home not that long ago, and one of our neighbours is rather noisy. They play their music very loud and shout and swear very loudly. Now I had no complaints, but it seems someone else does, and this neighbour has received the complaint about the noise. As we are the new neighbours we have been instantly blamed and told that “The council said it was us.”

No complaints have been filed by me! I tried to tel her it wasn’t us, but she was having none of it. She was even verbally aggressive towards my sister one night as a result. What do you do in this instance?
Boss 02/08/2022 at 1:56 pm
I moved into my flat 1 year and 3 months ago and inagine the neighbor below knocked on my door to tell me she was the reason that the old tenants moved out and told me she hopes we won't be fighting!!! Oh really I thought to myself well you have Met you're match here then cos I was stabbed by a man and beaten and Tortured and was rehoused after many years of being homeless . She literally knocked on my door 3 times over a year ago all I do in my flat is relax after a hard day working 12 till 6 Mon to Sat I usually go home late at night and she screams through walls for no reason and slanders me to the housing officer .calls the police for no reason and left a while smashed pot outside my door . The lady is a Jamaican lady in her mid thirties and acts like a delinquent . The best part of it for me is I fitted cctv footage in my flat after experiencing it before so she's caught on camera so I'm not worried when she screams through walls if she ever knocked at my door and attacked me that would be self defence so keep a record of everything and let their sorry self melt I'm GOD ALMIGHTY WE TRUST AMEN


MOST cases are mental people so keep a record they will get sectioned
Boss 02/08/2022 at 1:48 pm
People need to mind their own business it can lead them to getting a misdemeanor charge for false allegations. If its just white noise then ignore it if you retaliate you're fueling their mental problem
Tenants like that usually get asked to leave due to causing trouble unnecessarily so don't worry too much .
Don't forget the neighbors the other side know the tenants behaviour anyway its been going on for a while so!!! Best to put cctv cameras in you're flat so that when they start screaming for no reason at 4am in the morning when u use the toilet they are caught out . Be smart and don't let anyone take you for a mug . Who hears stuff through walls their lives must be so sad and dim
Sandee 16/05/2022 at 1:52 pm
My neighbour next door has her noisey friend to stay she is 66 friend is 33 stays for weeks on end,terrible voice,one bedroomed so l have no escape,all l hear is C,, Bi,,,, had enough of it,always loud and screeching,lm not moving,been her twenty years
Kerry 07/07/2021 at 3:12 pm
I've just moved into a first floor old flat it's fairly Victorian so the floors creek even when too toed on , I suffer with a back problem so I don't jump around or run or even walk fast in my flat , also the feont door when I quietly close it seems to make a noise even when respectfully closing it .
I've been homeless most of my life living in hostels shelters and any place I can ,
So I've come to a point in my life where I am so respectful and my advice to you all is to do what you can to improve you're home like

Making sure floor boards are fitted correctly
Perhaps getting the front door oiled or replaced with one that doesn't express the same problem ,
Also in regards to complaints it all helps you to understand the character of the people you live around.

I am a person that cannot be fooled or intimidated because if that was ever the case then they would find them self homeless with no where to live cos I am that person that will take action against a person if for a second I thought they were harassing me or finding ways to make me move out. You have to protect where you are at in you're life.

So to anyone that's getting complaints about anything that isn't classes as antisocial behaviour my advice is to put those clowns were they deserve to be and PUSH THEM OUT INSTEAD.


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The oracle 04/06/2021 at 10:29 am
I am suffering problems with a family who lives next door were I live in a council flat because I have got autism and adhd and the neighbour who lives next door keeps moaning to the council ever noisy I make in the past year and so they need to understand I can’t help my self been hyper and putting my stuff away at night at my flat and they are trying to put me back on the streets and my flat neighbour has supported me and the neighbours who have got a problem with me been noisy need to understand my disabilitie because they are just trying to push me out of my flat because my mum and dad want to stay living at my flat and they are disgusted with the neighbours who keep moaning to the council about me I think if I confronted them I will get cause more problems and I suffer anger problems to because I don’t want to start a fight with them over them moaning to the council I just want someone to tell them to leave me alone and I stop trying to judge me of me noisy all the time because I want to stay at my flat and my neighbours want me to stay at my flat and I hope the neighbours who keep moaning to the council about me what it is doing my mental health and anxiety because I am good resident at my flat I don’t want to move again due to them moaning twerps
bob 28/04/2021 at 7:14 pm
from my experience the noise makers in flats above other people act all innocent, deny making bangs and play the victim. what part of they are constantly banging on the ceiling with every foot step bang bang bang bang bang bang over and over as they smash their heels into the floor. no matter how thick the carpet, underlay etc it just cannot cushion the impact of these inconsiderate people.
how they have the cheek to say they feel the victim and downstairs is harassing them by banging back a few times is beyond me, you fill their whole flat with bangs non stop.

if you want to live in hell, live in a downstairs flat, if you value your health, sanity, sleep, live in a house!
Dee 13/03/2021 at 10:18 pm
Hi,
My neighbour is making false complaints on us saying we are making lot of noise. I live in a second floor flat with 2 young children and my husband. The person living downstairs keep complaining about the heavy footfall even when my children are just moving around the house. We are receiving letters from council regarding the noise. We have called the council and mentioned it is when my kids are walking. But it’s of no use. The person living downstairs keep banging their roof when my kids walk around. They also yell at us when my younger kid cry in the balcony when she fell. They also come and bang our doors sometimes. It’s been 3 years since this is ongoing. We tried to complain police regarding this false complaints but no use. I feel so helpless. Due to the lockdown my kids can’t go outside much. At the same time they are not allowed to play even inside our own house because of fearing for the neighbours. Could anyone provide guidance?
Thanks
Lilwitchy 03/02/2021 at 4:40 am
My neighbours n my friends neighbours make our lives hell ive had 11years of it n my friend s few years myself n my friend have bipolar is as if both our sets of neighbours are comparing notes because want a move t bigger home so making up so many allegations against us causing my friend to have a probation order against her 18month n I'm under antisocial team i dont even have a criminal record its so distressing for us both we walk around on eggshells n scared even if I drop a pen or out so small on the floor or close n open the cooker its causing both our mental health n bipolar disorders to go sky high through The roof ive just read about an app for the phone for noise what goes straight to the council what can we do to clear our names n prove them to be the liars n prove they are literally harassing us t the point we don't want to b on our own in the house so swap between them both t look after each other there is only us 2 in the house no animals nothing x
Re 25/11/2020 at 1:44 pm
Please read comment below as this is a continue......

The neighbour below has an app on her phone from the council to record any noise. Now I've been wondering why she has been randomly banging on her ceiling at all different times of the day. It turns out the noise recorded goes straight back to the council and reports me for the noise. But my next door neighbours are always making noise and their kids run around a lot. I just don't complain about it because I like to leave people to do what they want.
Has anyone had neighbours using this app against them, recording noises that you actually haven't made? Please help me. Thank you for reading my comments.
Re 25/11/2020 at 1:31 pm
Hi there, I live in a high rise and have had constant problems with the neighbour below me. In February 2020 she banged on my door, and as I answered she shouted abuse at me and told me to shut my f-ing kids up. This was on a Sunday morning around 11:30. She was in her pjs and stunk of alcohol. She rattled off a few days that my kids were supposed to have been making a lot of noise and most of it was during the night. One of the days was around 9pm. My oldest bounced his football once and I instantly told him to stop because we have to be considerate to our naighbours and people like to relax of an evening without interruption of a loud noise. The other times she complained about, me and my kids were not home. I work of an evening and my kids stay at their nannas. So she then accused me of leaving my children home alone and said she's calling police and social services. Then got in my face calling me awful names and swearing In front of my children. 2 days later I get social services sending me a letter saying they been informed I'm leaving my kids home alone and that they are making a lot of noise constantly. However the letter was sent to my previous addres (being my mums home) and had the wrong dates on it. I.e 02/03/2010. I was advised by my kids school to ignore the letter and continue to do what I am doing and from questions they have asked my kids , they know I haven't left them home alone. Yes I let them play during the day. It was winter weather and we was going into lockdown. So I wasn't having my kids chained to a chair watching tv all day. From then on this woman has constantly been banging on her ceiling, banging on my front door ( sometimes being around 4 in the morning and then running off, screaming and shouting. All at different times of the day and night. I've tried to seek help from the council but had nothing done about it. Then again in September she had contacted social services with the same story. Only this time they contacted me via phone. I explained everything and I was advised to let my kids play and to report the neighbour of any banging and abuse. Which I have done and sent to the council. And I still haven't heard anything back. For the last few weeks ( except the 5 days I was in hospital and the couple times I have stayed at my boyfriends home) she has been randomly banging on the floor, again at random times of the day and night and I know my kids haven't made any noise because at the times of her banging they've been doing their homework or playing on my phone on the sofa. I had my tenancy officer arrive today and she told me the lady had recorded a lot of banging noise coming from my flat between the hours of 2-4 am. My kids were asleep, I have sleep apnoea and a lot of pain in my gallbladder so I was awake a lot of the night and my boyfriend was awake watching me in case I needed to go back to hospital. There was no noise coming from my home. And then there was noise at 11 today where my kids were d
baileyb 09/10/2020 at 1:55 pm
Hello Neighbours moved in below me 3 years ago, and havent stopped complaining about alleged noise coming from my flat. The neighbours are falsely accusing us of making banging noises during the night and have shouted through their window at me about it. I made a complaint to the council to tell them to stop shouting through the window and they were told to stop. However, these neighbours have told the council that we are making noise during the night when we are asleep, and the council keep harassing me about this. I have told the council many times that we are not making banging noises during the night. We only make low level domestic noise and no noise at night. How can I stop the council from harassing me about these neighbours who have no proof . Their complaints are unjustified and unreasonable. Also we have health problems and dont need this harassment. Please can anyone advise?
baileyb 05/10/2020 at 1:37 pm
Hello
Neighbours moved in below me 3 years ago, and havent stopped complaining about alleged
noise coming from my flat.
The neighbours are falsely accusing us of making banging noises during the night and have shouted through their window at me about it. I made a complaint to the council to tell them to stop shouting through the window and they were told to stop. However, these neighbours have told the council that we are making noise during the night when we are asleep, and the council keep harassing me about this. I have told the council many times that we are not making banging noises during the night. We only make low level domestic noise and no noise at night. How can I stop the council from harassing me about these neighbours who have no proof . Their complaints are unjustified and unreasonable.
Also we have health problems and dont need this harassment.
Please can anyone advise.
Don't know what to 18/09/2020 at 3:57 am
Can bullying be when one neighbor spread bad rumours to other neighbors about you and try to get other neighbour to side with them and also they will call officer on you, even when you didn't do anything that will cause disturbance to any of these neighbors? I know we are only asian race different from the rest of the neighbors who are all middle eastern on the street. I notice they only to seem like they pick on us mostly cause we will not do anything and will keep to ourselves and we don't speak their language. I did talk to the neighbour one time but that neighbour just yell at me and when it was my turn to talk, he will cut me off so none of my words matters. So i just left as that. When we first moved in, the neighbor complain to us, telling us not to park in front of our home cause he can't reverse out of his driveway so we were being considerate and we didn't park there but then he is having their guests park there which I thought we had arrangements about the situation. For 6 years, this one neighbour across from us, their guests will park in front of home all the time when there are plenty of space near them. I know it is not my property but should be considerate. During the phrase 2 of the pandemic, i notice the neighbor was having a lot of guests more than 10 people coming to visit their home and will stay there for long period of time. I don't want to cause a big problem so didn't report it cause don't want to be bad neighbour.
Not right 18/09/2020 at 3:53 am
I seen this middle eastern family with their guest are purposely provoking this asian family when the asian family was just minding its own business and was helping its own family member to park and get into the home. The asian family were not even making any kind of conversation/attention with middle eastern family and their guests but keep causing unpleasant unreasonable conversation to stop this asian family so trying to cause argument. They are not treating them right especially when living on same street. I do not ever see this asian family cause any trouble for any of us. But this middle eastern family with guest are bad people even when they act good. This middle eastern family with guests don't own the streets
Loopy Louis 12/08/2020 at 2:45 pm
The woman next door has a habit of turning up at our door, knocking and expecting to come in. We never invite her. Once in, she has a list of petty complaints that I have to listen to. If I am taking a shower, then she accuses me of being in and ignoring her. Then she phones later and moans at me and discusses me with one of the other neighbours that she has teamed up with. She is a gossip, a busybody and very judgemental. I can no longer sit out in the back garden because she comes over and asks me a lot of intrusive questions. I am planning to move to get away from this self-righteous, moany old cow.
Kay 22/07/2020 at 3:01 pm
I have neighbours to complain about me having windows open in the Summer. The way the flats were built means my window is over their garden. I live 2 floors up and open the windows to let air in. They say they can’t use the garden Because becauseI could hear them.Meanwhile they play loud music with bongos! Many people have complained but they are friends with half the building so people back them up. They even complain about me living in my house. I am working remotely so often about. They are drunk by noon but I am wrong for having a window open and working from home. I wish I could afford to move!
Gaz 06/07/2020 at 8:46 pm
I've got a problem with my neighbour upstairs she been complaining to the council for the least thing as in strange noise and load music the noises are colour tack I use to pin things up small white tacks you use ti pin back small cable as in phone cable I've got six decking solar lights which I've got around my living room window. I've got unscrew them from the window to change the batteries and screw them back that's a fault I've got several sensor lights around my house from the livingroom to the hall to the kitchen and bathroom a and if I do anything there that's a fault. Putting up Christmas decorations up by using the colour ticks that's a fault my music it so so vulume 14 that's not load and if wanted to make loader I don't have problem with that I get BUMP BUMP BUMP THAT'S HER BANGING ON THE FLOOR SHE'S also reported me to the council twice I suffer with a HEART PROBLEM I take sezuires and got Spinal problems I go about with a 3 wheel zimmer and diabetes 2 And like to know is as am a council tenant and am on the ground floor dose she needs my consent to get SKY TV as the guy from sky got to get into my garden. And last of all name calling as. Perv. THERE'S A WELL KNOWING PEADO IN THE AREA can someone help me
Langfora 03/06/2020 at 12:31 pm
Hi, we’ve lived in our semidetached property for about a year and half now. The house was in a real state so needs lots of work doing to it. Our neighbours have been very understanding about this and we’ve tried to keep noise to a minimum and always let them know in advance about loud work taking place. They’ve been okay with everything thus far. Suddenly after a conversation about our plans for the wall (our wall) splitting the property, he’s done nothing but complain literally the next day he made a nasty comment over the fence about our dogs barking and then the following day had a go about a burning bin that we’d previously advised him of. What I don’t understand it why if he didn’t like our idea for the garden wall wouldn’t he just say. We are reasonable and we could have worked something out. Instead he’s being completely unreasonable in such an aggressive manor. We’re not sure how to deal with this when he clearly won’t say what’s really bothering him. Help!!
Hohoho 17/04/2020 at 1:20 pm
Moved into a upper flat 7months ago. From get go we asked the downstairs Nieghbours not to bang doors or windows especially during the wee hours of the morning, we are constantly being woken from sleeping I have counted over 20 times in 6wks alone. We are in the throws of mediation however every time my concerns are passed forward the Tennants deny blame and then do exactly what I ask them not too. It appears to be merely escalating the situation. The mediator works Monday to Thursday as soon as he go's off shift it kicks off... One of them in particular go's into rages slams bangs and hammers all manner furniture and fittings such kitchen cupboards doors, wardrobes doors and drawers. I'm a single parent living alone with a child of high school age. I have informed the police in the past whom were told by the housing association that it was a Nieghbour dispute. The Tennants involved have a network of friends within the estate whom have harrassed me and my son this has been reported twice. Our nerves are shattered and we're completely sleep deprived.
t 09/04/2020 at 10:21 am
we move to our house we love it and down line he moan at us for using fence to tie a child gazzzibo around to hold down it dont blow he moan he walk in to our garden wre my child was he stop me in the street saying iit not your I pay for it so I rang council had surveyors out we ignore him but council got complaint of him for garden he put glass shards down so if dog go out they get stuck in paws few week weeks of bliss then the digging bees which I ask council to sorth and ever years garden walking he moan for this so I gave detail said dont talk to us speak to him stress is high the bees now infested his garden he had scaffolding up over my child window in my font garden boards I did move it as he moans for every thing so wasn't humouring him he gone to neighbours were he moans of my 5ft gazzzibo he moans for my gate every time it constant I said to police I feel eyes on my back when out ,on Sunday I got him looking in to my garden when child plays a grown man doing this is not on police did not come out advice thanks
Mddanu 02/03/2020 at 12:31 pm
Hi i need your advise regarding my ground floor neighbour. My wife and i we managed to buy a maisonette and we are on the top floor. We moved in 6 months ago and since then our neighbor keep coming to our door banging so loud that we got scared.first incident happened when she informed us that one of her cat's has the habit to come inside our house and if this is bothering us we should tell her. We said that is fine and we will try to stop the cat coming in.All ok untill she came and start banging on my door so hard that i got scared thinking something bad happened accusing us that we keep her cat trapped overnight in to our home. I explained that we dont keep the cat in and she start shouting. I have to mention that she doesn't one the cat because the cat lives ouside and doesn't have any microcip. Second incident happened when again she came to my door complaining about my garden door were because of the storm the door makes noise. She went to my garden and she opened the door blocking it with a brick. To please her i changed the garden door. Yesterday some friends came over to us and one of the couples has a boy 5years old that was playing. My neighbour came banging at 6 pm that the child makes a lot of noise and we should stop. Our friends had to leave because of her. I feel that after all our hard work to save money to buy our house we are not happy. We feel harassed and intimidated by her as she keeps whatching every move we make and every time when we meet her she has to stop us complaining about silly things. Please help me as i dont know what to do anymore
nasascientist 09/12/2019 at 10:53 pm
I live in a block of flats where a tenant is constantly calling the council on me over noise late at night. Every time the council visit, they hear absolutely nothing. The relatives of the tenant believe that I am deliberately trying to annoy the tenant below me, despite the tenant asking me why I never make any noise when they visit. I pointed out to her that I have no way of knowing when they are there! No other neighbour has ever complained about noise from my flat, and curiously, the previous tenant had received exactly the same complaints about late night noise! My question is this: Looking at the number of issues published on this page, just how common is it for neighbours to complain about someone who doesn't have children, dogs, parties, late night music or DIY in the property, yet persist with hounding the council who themselves are constantly monitoring my flat?
gilly 13/06/2019 at 12:12 am
My upstairs neighbours have made my lifelong bowel problem so bad that I have not left my home for 2/3 years at all! They purchased the flat upstairs in this old 1900 converted house now in 3 flats with no soundproofing at all. When I moved into the 1st floor flat in 2003 all flats were leasehold and there were strict rules and someone visited twice a year to make sure everything was alright for each flat. The people who bought the top flat, above me in 2014 got the people who also had just bought the ground floor flat and my landlord to each purchase the freehold of each flat. This means each flat can do as they like in the layout of rooms etc (which just does not work). The man upstairs sleeps right above my bathroom/toilet and kitchen. He also spends all day in the room above my kitchen etc. He bangs on my ceiling whenever I use the toilet or go to my kitchen. His wife sleeps above my bedroom in one of the other 5 rooms they have! My nerves are shattered by the banging on ceiling and my health is getting worse each day now! I've made many phone calls to different agencies re this problem but no one can help me. I will have to sleep in my car. Then I will buy a van and Leave here after 16 years!
K 01/06/2019 at 12:45 am
I moved to the house I live in 2 years ago, to live with my partner who already owned the house. I moved here with my dogs. My neighbour hates my dogs. I put a kennel and run in the garden, which is allowed under permitted development. She reported me to the planning office for unlawful development. They confirmed there is no problem. My neighbour then reported me to the RSPCA, who came out and saw my dogs heated, insulated kennel with individual beds for all 4 dogs, and their 24 foot run, and confirmed, no problem. My neighbour then reported me to the council again for running an unlicensed boarding establishment. I do not board dogs, and never have. Two days ago I recieved a call from a lovely lady from environmental health asking to visit me. On asking why, I was given the following information. She told me that she had been working on this case for two years. That my neighbour had complained about my dogs, barking or whatever, and that she had visited my neighbours property on more than one occasion, and in her words 'wouldn't have known there were dogs there'. Not a noise. Nothing. She told the neighbour to produce evidence of a problem, as she had found none. The neighbour didn't produce any evidence, but has now gone above them to the ombudsmen claiming the council have not done their job properly. The environmental protection officer had already confirmed that planning had no problem. There was no evidence of nuisance found. However this is not good enough for my neighbour and she is hell bent on causing trouble. Neighbour claims she has spoken to us on several occasions regarding problems and that we were abusive and aggressive, but I have only ever spoken to the woman once face to face, when I first moved here, and it was not about any problems. The neighbour watches us. Spies on us from her windows. She doesn't hide this. Openly stand there and watches us in our garden. She looks through our hedges. She shouted at me through the joining wall of our semi to shut up when I was putting logs on my fire. These are thick walls (old council property), and it was one log, not a rave in the living room. I know this is personal because another neighbours dogs bark far more than mine, and another neighbour regularly has garden parties in the summer. no complaints about them. So today I went to the police, hoping for some help. I was told that it's not illegal to report people, even if the allegations are false and repeated. I was told it's not illegal to watch someone. Surelt this can't be true, because all this is making our lives miserable. Any advice welcome,
squeeky 07/04/2019 at 12:37 pm
i am an old women and lived in the same house for 40 yearss.i have always got on well with all my neighbours helping out whenever i can. however a young bloke has moved next door and bangs on my wall constantly.i have very good hearing so i never have music loud i think he just wants to pick on an old lady living alone.i am finding it extremly stressful.what are my rights
clara 21/10/2018 at 10:42 pm
I have read all the above accounts and sympathise with both sides.Loud music, barking dogs and running children can all have a serious effect on both physical and mental health. I have lived in many flats over the years and had many more neighbours and it is amazing the difference a little consideration and communication can make; such as dropping a pillow between the headboard and the wall! My latest place was great when i had the junkie upstairs, despite his choice of visitors and their dogs but now I am stuck with a pair of middle class students who are completely nocturnal and think it perfectly acceptable to come home from a night club and have screaming drunken rows, throwing things and slamming doors at three thirty in the morning. They have lied plausibly to the housing association about their activities (I have been forced to call the police twice.) and now my noise logs have been discarded, I am cast as the crazy downstairs, even though I tried to ask them nicely and am now expected to pay for expensive monitoring equipment myself, as the housing association appear to have labeled me a crank Thing is, I asked for soundproofing to be installed before they moved in, since their kitchen floor, above my bedroom is so thin it vibrates and the lampshade shakes when anyone walks across it and shoes sound like gunshots on the hard laminate floor. The housing association turned me down flat, even though I offered to pay for the materials as the bedsit upstairs was then being renovated. I think they thought that everyone else would want it. Though it would have done nothing for the shrieking, the door slamming and the running back and forth along the communal hall at three thirty in the morning (My downstairs ceiling in this victorian conversion), it would have toned down all that but in the end, I have been forced to simply abandon my bedroom, move my bed into the tiny lounge downstairs in the basement and live in the kitchen while I consider what to do next; especially since I have now been accused of stealing their post; the delivery of which was always sketchy at best, due to the rather obscure address and despite the fact I was at the other end of the country when this particular letter was returned to sender. I have been threatened and had obscenities screamed at me now they know they can act with impunity and since my health has gone, I am crippled by arthritis and what with this Universal Credit business, I can't afford to move. The future does seem rather bleak and I am writing this in search of some suggestions.
Claire 21/09/2018 at 6:08 pm
we live in a rural area on a row of 5 terrace houses, at the front of the houses is road side parking every house has a spot and there is parking out the back. Every one gets along except our next door neighbours. A few years ago they took exception to us and decided not to talk to us again, we have always said hello and ignored what we could, but in the last year its escalated. My husband saw the deliberatly slam their car door into the back of our car, theyve poured chemicls over the garden fence and killed all my plants, They were even putting Vasalene over the fence a few weeks ago to stop our cats going into their garden ! But it was only on the fence that separates our gardens. They've made complaints to planning, Yarlington, Somerset Waste and various other council departments about us. Every time they have left with out complaint ( although Somerset waste havent got back to us yet). We are a normal working class family of 4. We arent noisy.... infact we arent really there during the week. We dont have parties or loud animals. This behaviour is really grinding us down now, the constant letters of complaint are awful, but how do we make it stop? I dont want to be driven away. Who can we go to ?
Speedy 16/09/2018 at 4:28 am
I was good friends with my neighbours for 26 years, about two years ago I got 2 young female goats and they used to bring there grandchildren around to see them , unfortunately they started to get very unfriendly and together with a neighbour across the road , they started calling the Council and RSPCA in relation to animals I had in my yard. This occurred every Wednesday when I was out of town .I put a letter to the Editor in the local paper advising them to clean up there back yard before looking at mine. Every time the RSPCA received a call they would send a ranger from out of town to investigate , he would find nothing out of of order and ask me to contact him. they then ring the Council and the ranger ask me if I could take the goats out of town for a while as they were sick of the complaints. This has been going on for a fair while it has me mentally and physically upset as I love animals and take very good care of them . It appears that when you are the victim of this type of behaviour then you are guilty until proven innocent .They have also taken photo's within my property invading my privacy I feel as though I am a prisoner in my own back yard.
jdm70 04/09/2018 at 2:01 pm
we live in a council semi decorated house the neighbour was ex council tenant then bought the house she is very noisy slams kitchen draws in sequence, she plays heavy metal rock music has soon has her husband goes to work its on, loud until he comes home then she turns it off before he gets in, we have tried to ask her but because i don't work due to disability she just called me a scrooger and said i hate people like you.and basically told me to get lost in so many words,
Mickey 28/07/2018 at 7:46 pm
My daughter and son in law their 2 kids 1 and 4 moved into a middle floor on new build the woman above keeps banging on the ceiling at 6pm reported daughter to council who came out and gave her a warning which upset her . This is first flat and my daughter is not noisy kids in bed by 8 at latest any suggestions she said she feels vunreble as hubby works lates
ProblemNeighbours Editor 22/06/2018 at 12:35 pm
We don't really have any suggestions here for you unfortunately. Obviously, this lady cannot really succeed in any formal complaint she makes against you but that doesn't help you in knowing that each day she will complain to you or about you again. You could maybe get a solicitor's letter asking that she stops making unreasonable complaints?
Hazeleyes 21/06/2018 at 1:02 pm
I live with my mother and sister in a large, old Victorian build. There's no double glazing and the landlady isn't prepared for us to install any, let alone pay. We've lived in the property for four years, three of which have been a living hell. We are no longer comfortable in a space that's supposed to be home. A young woman living next door with her boyfriend, literally complains about every single noise. She's contacted our landlady who lives in the same street, saying we speak too loud, laugh too loud and the TV etc...we have been model tenants. If we listen to music we always wear earphones. We don't bother anyone and we always have the volume on the TV at 13...our landlady messages us all the time to say she complained again, even though we go to bed by nine thirty (again afraid she will complain).
She doesn't just make our lives hell, even though we live in a house, she lives in a bottom flat next to us. she texts the people living upstairs to her that they walk too loud, speak too loud etc.
We contacted environmental health, citizens advice and they have said she can't do anything because we haven't done anything wrong and she's being overboard. However, it's reached breaking point now. My sister has finally conceived and expecting in November, but instead of being excited, she burst into tears as she knows that she'll be complaining about the noise of the baby.
We've tried moving living rooms, we've gone to bed early and she causes so much arguments between us. My sister wants to move before the due date of the baby, but I feel that we've allowed this woman to take everything from us, soon a place we called home.
The final straw was trying to find out information about her landlord in hope to explain everything. Turns out the landlord is the guy she's sleeping with and sharing a flat. And the landlady, well she's so keen in trying to keep her happy that it makes our lives a misery.
The other neighbors like us. One spoke up for us and said they never hear us. What makes me angry though is that this woman dictates who is allowed to make noise, when a few times you can hear her cackle loudly, singing with her friends about quarter past eleven at night. It just doesn't seem fair that we are the ones who have to move when we don't bother anyone ??
Lyndy loo 09/05/2018 at 2:59 pm
I live in the middle flat of a very old building(private rented) and have a downstairs neighbour who makes my life hell .The walls are very thin and I hear all from upstairs including washing machine.toilet flushing amd footsteps ....I NEVER complain as I accept that in this building we have to accept what it is .
My grandchildren visit occasionally and although we do tell them to be as quiet as they can ...she moans that they run riot! She complains that they are too noisy even on just walking aling my hall which constantly squeaks. Other neigbour to left of us complains my tv is loud and she hears it from my wall at 9pm when she goes to bed . Between them they have driven 2tenants from my flat and im getting really stressed to the pount im afraid of my grandchildren visiting me . The neigbour downstairs even posted notes through my door telling me to move my partners or my car off the drive (it would hold 4cars)
They constantly call my landlady and although she knows their history she messages me to say they are moaning again.
Im at my wits end
Elii 20/04/2018 at 6:59 pm
Hi I have moved to cancil property from 2015 I always tried to be so nice to my neighbors and make sure I’m not making any inconvenience and be like friend to them .I am 24 years old ian full time student mostly out of the house also because of my illness I’m on strong medication I can’t be wake till late and even anytime I have my friends around I let my neighbors know in advance last weekend Friday at 10:30 my neighbor came and ask me to turn the music down and I did now I heard from other neighbors she try to get them to sign a complain letter against me I am so disappointed because I never make any noise and if I do I ask them in advance and make sure they are happy but my neighbor she never even asked or complain to me about the noise now try to get the others to sign too as I am the only foreigner around I abit scared and don’t know how to prove she is lying would you please help me
Priya 04/04/2018 at 1:01 am
We (me,my husband, 22months toddler, now i have a new born 7weeks) moved in to 2nd floor apartment 3 months ago. My toddler isn't that noisy at night as he is off to bed between 7-8 and sleep through at night. New born cries sometimes but at night mostly sleeping ok. Recently on Easter holidays I invited a friend's kid for a play date. I was suffering from post natal depression so started to get a bit social. That night my neighbour said that kids were been loud and asked to keep it down. I apologised and said we are having a play date and few days after that few friends came with their kids and were playing. My toddler stomp but he has tiny puffy feet. Other kids weren't that noisy just being kids. Then the neighbour knocked after a bit and given me a letter. I've asked her to wait until I read but she didn't.
The letter said that it was so noisy. According to the noise act 1996 she would complaint the council if this continues.
I've only invited friends twice so far and will have to have play dates. But not every week. But I'm really stressed about the neighbour complaint. Should I reply and if I do what should I say. Thanks!
ProblemNeighbours Editor 14/03/2018 at 11:04 am
If all else has failed, you could consider a private action in the civil courts for harassment (under the Protection from Harassment Act 1997). The court could order an injunction, preventing your neighbour from contacting you, or seek compensation for financial hardship or anxiety caused by the harassment. You may need the help of a legal professional if you decide on this course of action. Citizens' Advice will be able to help you find a solicitor.
Tyson 13/03/2018 at 6:40 am
Me and my partner have very similar issues with our neighbours after 1 year of us living at our new property. OVER COMPLAINING, police, council, solicitors, dog warden, rspca, I could go on. We are renovating my grandads old house and since day one, these neighbours have harrassed us. These complaints are starting to affect our careers as they are a full time job to deal with, ontop of new parenting duties, building works, we own a lovely friendly family dog who I have recently had to pass on to my mum as they called the rspca faulsely accussing us as neglecting him. I am very close to going to the doctors to sign me off due to stress but this will affect both of our careers if we do this but what else can we do? These are very bad people we are dealing with and the police are no help.
ProblemNeighbours Editor 13/02/2018 at 2:28 pm
If they do it on more than one occasion it's worth talking to them about this. As this was a one-off, it's probably better to ignore it.
b..... 10/02/2018 at 11:55 pm
Hey guys. I am a student living in my first apartment. I spend a lot of time studying (sometimes at odd hours.) I took a break Friday to talk to my gf for a few hours to the early morning. Then after hanging up with her, I start receiving loud knocks (banging) at my door. I never threw a party in my apartment ever. And usually hardly make any noise. I was excited after studying for a week to finally talk to my girlfriend. I was skeptial who could be banging on my door but I assumed it was my "downstairs" neighbor. I didn’t answer the door. Question, if there is a crazy neighbor that is banging on your door because talking to your girlfriend inside your apartment on the phone (with the windows shut) then comes to your door complaining should you just tell them what they are doing is harassment, and if they don’t go away you will call the police? Thank you.
ProblemNeighbours Editor 11/10/2017 at 11:35 am
It's a very difficult situation for you and for your neighbour. Unfortunately there isn't a great deal you can do. Can you perhaps consider laying some thick rugs while you save up for carpet? And of course the squeaky bed could be fixed? If the neighbour's banging becomes too intrusive, you could try environmental health, or as a last resort the police.
Rys 10/10/2017 at 6:59 am
Hi, any chance you can offer a bit of advice?
My partner and I recently bought an upstairs flat in a 1920s conversion. As a result the walls and floors are very thin.
Our neighbour is having issues with us being "noisy." I have read a lot of posts where downstairs neighbours feel like upstairs neighbours make unnecessary noise (suggesting that they stomp) and I can say in our case that this is not true. We don't wear shoes in the house and we are not excessive walkers, half the time we're glued to the sofa!!!
Our neighbour (who we can also hear but accept that it's part of life living in an apartment) has recently started banging on the ceiling in the middle of the night (when we are asleep!!!) our room is over his. We believe this may have something to do with a slightly squeaky bed frame. This is causing us a lot of distress, he shouts and swears that we are constantly waking him up! This wakes us up and terrifies my dog, which then causes him to pace thus annoying the neighbour more. (The floor is so thin that we can have a conversation). Having sunk all of our money into the flat we are unable to purchase carpets, which we have explained to him. We are just trying to live and want to be amicable but after having been woken up with what I thought was someone breaking into my flat, I am at the end of my tether. Him suggesting that we don't go to the toilet past 10.00 pm is the final straw. Is there anything we can do to try and get him to stop? Diplomacy and chatting has not worked and the relationship is deteriorating rapidly.
ProblemNeighbours Editor 08/08/2017 at 10:46 am
If the complaints are anonymous and are discovered to be unfounded, the authorities will eventually get fed up of looking into it - in fact they often won't investigate an anonymous complaint anyway. Some authorities will also take steps to find out who has made the initial complaints and take action againts them if there is no basis for the complaint. If your friend knows it's a particular neighbour who's making the complaints she could try seeking legal advice and regarding harassment.
Concerned friend 05/08/2017 at 1:54 pm
Hi looking for some advice for a friend. She lives in a council property which she loves. But her neighbour is awful, from day one they haven't liked her. They complained to her about everything, but she tried to be polite and deal with some of them but it didn't matter. They would complain about something else silly like her child laughing to loud. They complain about other people on the street but mainly her. Now they have started complaining anonymously. She has people out every week, they complain out noise, her garden, smell every small thing. They also called the rspca and social services. Everything has been investigated and proved to be a false reports. But she can't do anything since it's anonymous. Obviously she is very stressed and feels like she is constantly being watched this has been getting worse over the years. Is there anything she can do.
Peblo 28/04/2017 at 6:05 pm
Hi am just woundering if you can help? My neighbour keep complaining about unnessesary things to my landlord. She once txt him saying that we was having a fire in my back garden! I always burn stuff in my burn bin and it is the law now that you can burn at any time in a bin but I always waint untill it gets dark anyways so it gives people the chance to take they washing of line ect. She has also bombarded him with loads of texts while he was on holiday saying that we've always got people at our house and that there is always cars on her drive! The people that come to our house are family and friends, what's up ant I aloud visits and no cars are never in her drive at all.... I work 12 hour shifts and my partner works 10 hour shift so we are ardley in the house! We have only recently moved in the house so I dunno if it's jealousy or what but she needs to lay off! My landlords been down and been to other neighbours to see if they have a problem with us and they said no the never hear nothing from us! Iv been round to her house to try and sort it out to see what her problem but she waint answer the door or come out to talk! I am starting to feel a little depressed knowing that iv got to tip toe round in my own house and that isn't how you should be living! Can you advise me what I can do next? Thanks
ProblemNeighbours Editor 21/03/2017 at 2:04 pm
If this is likely to solve the problem, it will also benefit the property so we can't see a good reason why a landlord would turn this down. Why not just ask? If they refuse, make a complaint about the way noise travels to your environmental health officer and make sure they know that you have offered to have sound insulation improvements installed at your own expense.
Y.Foster 18/03/2017 at 7:47 pm
Hello, I’m wondering if anyone can help me.
I’ve been living in a council owned first floor flat since I was a toddler and in the twenty years since I’ve been fortunate to have rather quiet neighbours and silence at night from the flat beneath me. However, coming close to a year ago, I got a new neighbour down below and since then have had problems with noise. I can hear conversations, music, the TV (and other more embarrassing things – I think people can guess what). I could also hear these things from the neighbours before, but the difference was the volume and the time, I was happy to tolerate a few hours of loud music during the day because I knew my previous neighbour went to sleep around the same time I did, and didn’t have loud music in the evenings. However, my new neighbour seems to have a nocturnal life and sometimes has music going from dusk till dawn.

It's not really his fault, I have talked to him about it and he’s an alright guy, if just a little thoughtless (I'd tell him I'm being disturb by his music, but within a month it would gradually return to the problematic volume again). Neither of us should be having a negative impact on the other’s lives. The problem is with the building itself. From what I can tell my floors and walls are thin and hollow, with little (if any) sound insulation, and my bedroom sits right above his lounge, my bed is directly above his TV. I have been buying earplugs, taking sleeping aid products, but even then I am sometimes still woken in the early hours of the mourning. It’s beginning to stress me out to the point that I’m on edge almost constantly. Talking with another resident, he told me he heard that these flats (I think built in the 80s) were built as ‘temporary’ accommodation (which makes no sense – why build flats only to knock them down again?), which, if true, I feel was an excuse for the builders to build on the cheap.

My question is: Can I get a soundproofing company to come in and install sound installation in my small bedroom, even though I’m renting? Preferably, I’d like both floor and walls done, at the very least the floor would help. I’m am willing to paying 100% towards the costs, making no demands on the council. Yet, despite this (that I’d pay and that it would be only for one small room), how likely would it be that if I ask permission from the council to do this would they reject it? If so, why would they and would I be able to challenge it? Surely this does no harm and will only benefit future tenants if I ever move out?
ProblemNeighbours Editor 07/02/2017 at 2:19 pm
The council need to have evidence of any noise before they can take any action to evict someone. You should ask the environmental health department about this. They will explain their procedure and tell you whether they have been monitoring the noise themselves.
Hollymoo 06/02/2017 at 5:35 pm
Hi im holly my family are in a struggle the neighbours keep lying to the council saying they are making too much noise when they haven't they are well know to lie and they done this to the previous people that lived there its driving them to be ill my family are not far from losing tge house please give me some advice because the council want to throw my sister on the streets and her boyfriend paul and she could die as she has asthma and she has it badly anything can affect it please help me ??
Mrs_Price 21/01/2017 at 11:53 am
Hi. I hope somebody can give me some advice please. I live in a small row of terraced house with a garage and shops to the rear. Above all of the shops are occupied flats. To the rear of the houses/shops/flats is a large open area where the residents of the terraced houses have their garages/cars. This area is entered by one of two side drives both of which have been gated at great expense to the residents of the terraced houses (myself included). One of the residents of a flat has been leaving one of the side gates open and even though we go out and lock it (at night obviously) they come down and insist on unlocking it. Two nights ago my garage was broken into, tools were stolen, my neighbours security light was deliberately smashed and another neighbours garden fence was smashed (they had "garden-hopped"). The security gate had been left open allowing access to the burglars. My question is; can I sue this resident for negligence?
Seany12 21/01/2017 at 12:54 am
I live in a town house and my neighbor bangs violently on the wall every time I walk down the stairs to loud or if my dog runs down the stairs. What should I do I don't think we are being overly load it's always before the noice restriction times
Sooneina 24/12/2016 at 12:28 pm
My neighbour had complained few times to me that my son makes noisy at 4 am in the morning toll 6 playing with switches but my son has a condition of being hyperactive medical isdues and he is only 3 years old. After few complaints I told him well he is a child but he argues I should supervise him better but he does not understand he has medical issues and he makes noise himself during summer times always buildung something lots of banging and noises during every year summer time day time.What should ai do ?
AB 20/11/2016 at 11:36 pm
I recently moved to an apartment with a flood dog I adopted from one of the flood disasters this year. He barks about 4 times SOME days when I live but I have video (which shows he isn't barking) and stayed outside my apartment several times for a hour or more to make sure he doesn't bark which he does not. My upstairs neighbor says he barks all day. She says she peeks through my window at him when I am not home. (which makes him bark because he sees her). Now when I take the dog out she automatically opens her patio door and watches us. I close our door so she can't hear when we go out but I feel like she is watching me or something because everytime now when I go to take him out, she is all the sudden on her patio. I feel like my privacy is being validated...what do I do?
Nerea 19/10/2016 at 2:24 pm
We live in the third floor of a maisonette building. I am a midwife and my partner is a nurse. I start work at 7pm and the hospital is in zone 6, therefore I need to wake up at 4.45 in order to be there on time. My partner also has some shifts when he starts working at pm and finishes at 2 am. Since we started living in this property nearly one year ago, the woman living under our flat has been complaining about noise since day 1 ( when we were in fact moving) sending us letters all the time regarding how noisy we are. We have not invited any of our friends due to this issue or hosted any house party. I am copying one of her last letters in here, where she threatens us saying she has spoken to our landlord ( we knew it was a lie as we have a landlady). Please read it and tell me if there is anything we can do as I think she is harassing us but I am not sure who shall I contact:
"What time did your day begin?
Mine began at 2:49, when you came home, (quoted my partners name), and proceeded to stomp around the flat (with your shoes on) for the next 30 minutes, then wake (quoted my name) up for a chat.
I am really at my wits end guys. I feel as though every 6-7 weeks I need to remind you that there's someone that lives beneath your flat.
I feel you are terribly inconsiderate neighbours and as such, I've now raised this issue to my landlord, your landlord and your property management company.
Your landlord is less than pleased. He is friends with my landlord and understands the value of a tenant (like myself) who is quiet and respects others in the building. I 've been in the building nearly 8 years-so the value of my tenancy is important to him and he doesn't want me to go anywhere.
Rest assured, if this middle-of-the-night noise continues your landlord will SERVE YOU NOTICE WITHOUT HESITATION.
(Quotes my partner's name), please-for the thousandth time... when you come home in the middle of the night... PLEASE WILL YOU BE LIGHT ON YOUR FEET?
Why is not possible for you to come in the door, brush your teeth & go to bed? I AM WITH YOU EVERY STEP OF THE WAY ONCE WOKEN UP... so until you go to bed (:30 minutes later)- we are both awake together.
I am open to a discussion about this but really I've said all I need to. NORMAL PEOPLE WORK NORMAL HOURS AND REST BETWEEN THE HOURS OF 11PM AND 7AM. Clearly you do not work these hours so therefore you must (please) learn to think about people living around you and underneath you"

This just one of her lovely letters.The previous one thanked us for going on holidays. Could this be considered harrasment??
Thanks for your help.
Alex 07/06/2016 at 8:03 pm
Hi,

We live in a first floor maisonette. Since our daughter (16 months) began walking a few months ago our neighbours started complaining about how early they were being woken up on weekend mornings - we have a hard floor in the corridors and kitchen. At first they asked us politely and we agreed to try to reduce the noise but also explained that it was going to be limited as to what we could reasonably achieve. Since then, they have become increasingly impatient. Shouting at us and thumping on our front door - we didn't answer. We have since exchanged letters and we have encouraged them to speak to the council if they have any further problems but since then they have started thumping on the ceiling any time there is noise. We have asked them to be patient with us while we look into our options. Tonight they did it when we were playing a game with our daughter. We have been trying our hardest on weekend mornings, and have laid out rugs in the hallway to dampen the sound of footsteps. It seems that they are so frustrated now that they're intent on making us upset. We don't want to get the authorities involved but feel as though we need an independent mediator to try and resolve this. Do you have any advice? Thanks
ProblemNeighbours Editor 06/06/2016 at 11:47 am
It's terribly difficult to live in an upstairs flat or maisonette with small children. It may be worth applying to the council for alternative accommodation.
Chezzle 29/05/2016 at 11:06 pm
I live in a maisonette on the first floor with my two children who are 4 & 7. An elderly couple live below us.We have lived there nearly three years. The couple speak to me amicably and have given my kids sweets and ice lollies on occasions. We live in a quiet cup Dr sac where there is a neighbourhood watch set up. I'm aware the road is full of relatively decent people and they like to keep the surrounding neat and tidy and I respect that.
I rent the flat and before I signed the tenancy I asked the agent if the neighbours downstairs could hear any noise. She said no,that the floor is fairly thick. I signed up and have been here ever since.
My 7 year old son is quite active,he likes to run and jump around alot. At weekends or after school he tends to jump about alot.He watches gymnastics and acrobats on his tablet ,so he tends to want to copy them and jumps off the sofa onto the floor.He does forward rolls and handstands .It's not excessive and its not like we make a noise late at night or anything. Anyway,today I was busy cleaning the kitchen and doing washing and ironing. My son's were playing making a den nicely and then occasionally there was jumping about.Also sometimes my youngest will get upset and stamp his feet .So I get a bang on the door.It was the elderly lady downstairs.She asked abruptly what all the noise was about. I said it was my son's,and was sorry.She went on saying it has been going on constantly and it is making her ill. She said the tenants before me would make a noise too by dancing and stamping their feet.She told them about it. She said the floor/ceiling is only thin and they can hear every noise we make ,that includes the vacuum and the washing machine. I told her I will try and keep the noise down. Now how do I do that? How can I live watching every move we make and not making a noise.I needed to vacuum today as the place was a mess but I put it off because of the neighbours. Not only that the man who does the neighbourhood watch came complaining about my son's one time because they left a few small toys outside and a bit of dirt they were playing with their digger toys.He said they were making the place a mess and it should be cleared up.I thought the cheeky so and so. I am to renew my tenancy soon and so do I tell the letting agent? Also could I tell the council about it and see if they could help me with finding somewhere else to live?
ProblemNeighbours Editor 19/05/2016 at 2:20 pm
The advice regarding the water is simply to position your sprinkler so it's not spraying into your neighbour's garden. You can do this easily by propping a hose pipe on a stand and re-positioning it to spray different parts of your lawn at various times. At 6.30am on a fine day or after 8.30 or 9pm there's still a chance that someone will be outside or washing will be out on a line, so it's unfair to intrude on your neighbour's property in this way. As for the dispute over children's noise and dogs barking...is there a chance you could discuss this amicably together with your neighbours? Or perhaps consider using a mediation service? Unless the noise occurs at night times, there is not much the environmental health department can do about "family noise & activity"
Rose 18/05/2016 at 11:08 pm
We live in an end terrace house with our 2 kids (5 yr old and 2 yr old). Our neighbours had a baby soon after we moved in about 2 yrs back. They have been complaining for the last 2 yrs about my kids going up and down the stairs, and disturbing their baby specially in the evenings.

We have explained to our kids about keeping the noise down specially on the stairs and the neighbours even acknowledged that ie, that they hear us telling the kids about it..my kids don’t make banging noises or shout and they listen when we remind them about the noise. Also we have completely stopped inviting friends and family in the evening because we don't want to disturb the neighbours.

We have apologised many times but what is frustrating is that they are still complaining about their nearly 2 yr old child waking up for the noise when my kids use the stairs..!

I am very upset as we have tried everything we can and it is annoying reminding the kids about the noise all the time.

Appreciate your advice.
leigh 17/05/2016 at 1:20 pm
Please help we have recently layed New grass in our garden and obviously it needs to be watered. My husband turns the sprinkler on first thing in the morning at around 6.30 for about half hour and I put it on at night at around 8.30-9pm after I've made sure that the neighbours washing and everyone is indoors but they keep coming and knocking saying to turn it off as we are getting there path wet. I'm at my wits end it's not excessive just what the new grass needs, but to top it off they have complained about my children playing and making noise, but we have to put up with there children throwing stones over the fence which has hit me and nearly hit my 2 yr old balls constantly coming over damageing plants ext and there children hanging over the wall shouting at us to get there ball or just staring at us which aggravates my dog. I could really do with some advise please thank you
ProblemNeighbours Editor 22/04/2016 at 10:46 am
This sounds like your neighbour being intolerant: the previous neighbours never complained; family noise in the garden during the day is not usually accepted as a noise/nuisance worth investigated; playing music indoors on a reasonable volume is fine; your noise is not between the hours of 11pm and 7pm and finally they have not right to push you or to comment and your parenting. If this persists, you might want to consider asking them to attend a mediation session with you as you don't think your behaviour is unreasonable but clearly they have an issue with it. The extreme response - but we don't think it's got to that stage - would be to report the neighbour for harassment.
ProblemNeighbours Editor 19/04/2016 at 2:05 pm
The best advice we can give you is to simply ignore it and be as friendly as you can. You do not have any responsibility for the leaves that are dropping in his garden and as long as your music was not excessive, it's unlikely that any action could be taken with regards to this. The enviromental health servicves would probably not take his complaints seriously. If his complaining persists and is getting you down, you could suggest mediation or threaten to report him for harassment?
ducatirose 17/04/2016 at 5:30 pm
I have a neighbour who complains about everything my cherry tree drops leaves in his garden so he wants me to cut it down, sends over people to give me quotes! There is a long list of things he has done in the past which i consider out of order, but the most recent harrassement is today i just played a video clip of a song at 16:30 in the afternoon, a 3 minute clip the volume wasn't excessive but it was louder than normal but next thing he's at the door complaining about noise because he has his windows open, just to give a little history on this - he also complained about a cat meowing in my house when i was cat sitting while my brother went on holiday, i was was out at the time so he phoned my parents and left the complaint! How would you deal with this type of person?
sami 05/04/2016 at 2:14 pm
I have a flat within a 1930's converted house. complaining about the noise from my flat but when i made the same complaints about the neighbor above me the council said is built on regulation . I can hear the same noise from the flat above which they have new baby never complaints have put down to the fact that this is a conversion and not purpose built.
I have complaint so many time about the neighbor dog barking and i have called the noise patrol and the neighbor still have her dog
I have been living in the flat since 2003 and only the last 3 months has been constant visit from the police and the council about my TV which is very low, my exercise bike and me walking in my own flat
i have ask the council to make some changes they have put the new carpet and new thick underlay and the noise still and the neighbors still complaining
and the council are threatening me to take me to court to get evicted
Please any help or any guidance will be appreciated the intervention officer is coming on Thursday the 7/4/2016
Sami
vi 22/08/2015 at 10:30 am
My son who is 37 is going through hell at the minute, he has an upstairs neighbour who has been constantly complaining about him the nature of the complaints are that he is slamming doors, but he is not doing this and also talking on his mobile phone, playing with his dog, and playing loud music ,we know there is a problem with the soundproofing in the property but the council are evading this issue. My son has been warned he is not allowed to do these things, it has got to the point whereby sound monitoring equipment is to be installed in the upstairs flat, my son has been constantly threatened with eviction over these complaints to the point where he is suffering very badly with depression and anxiety, he does not play loud music and in fact I have realised that he has actually been creeping around in his home which is not normal living but he is too frightened to do anything else. My son has had to call the police on a couple of occasions when the neighbour in question tried to kick his front door down and rip his window out of the frame one night after 11.30pm but he would not press charges and just asked the police to come back and see the man the following day and ask him to stop, he has threatened to kill him and still the council seem to be taking his part in the situation. Mediation failed when the neighbour announced that he works with people who suffer from mental health problems (autism) my son simply could not believe that the man could work in that field and yet behave so badly towards him when he is suffering from a mental illness at the moment. My son walked out of the mediation meeting in disgust. Being accused of anti social behaviour is literally killing him and the council are making matters worse. There is always going to be everyday noise in properties, doors do not always close quietly, dogs run around, dogs bark, music however low travels. However the real anti social behaviour is when someone intimidates, bullies, bangs on the floor causing electric light fittings to become loose and then constantly complains about someone elses normal living. This is harrassment and not just from the neighbour but the council as well. I just hope that the noise monitoring equipment proves that my son is actually the victim in this situation. My son refuses to enter into petty complaining but I do believe the neighbour has a medical problem especially as my son has barely had a nights sleep since the man moved in because his snoring is so loud and I also believe that when this man starts banging on the floor at 3.30am it is because he has in fact woken himself up with his own snoring. As for the threatening behaviour and threats to kill my son has this on video though the council are not interested in seeing this, now every time my son gets out of his car he puts his phone on record because he fears there will be some confrontation, some neighbours who live near him have spoken to him about what is happening but are not willing involve th
wolf 16/06/2015 at 8:06 pm
Hi Macca

Are your rabbits thumping at night (mines do.. foot stamping) it's a predator alert!!. i have an old bag next to me and it's constantly complain complain to the cops council etc... old bag syndrome!!...apparently mine were seen using hammers at night.. DIY'ng their hutches etc... just ignore her!!..
ProblemNeighbours Editor 12/03/2015 at 11:48 am
@macca. There's not much you can do about people like this unfortunately just carry on as you are and try and keep any unnecessary loud noises to a minimum.
macca 09/03/2015 at 9:55 pm
i am a Council tenant and have not long had a new Neighbour move in next door, she owns her house and for some reason thinks it is fine to complain about everything, i brought my kids 2 rabbits but i have now got one because she knocked at the door and complained about the rabbits making to much noise in the garden at night !!!!!. Now iv had her at the door complaining about an ALARM on one of my sons phone being to loud apparently it vibrated through the walls, how ever i never once got a complaint off the old neighbours. Iv always been polite and never complained about her doing works when she moved in even after hours but this is getting stupid. any ideas ?
ProblemNeighbours Editor 05/03/2015 at 11:15 am
@gynte. The police should soon "become wise" to these calls from your neighbour if they are unnecessary. If you a noise investigation takes place (e.g if your neighbour contacts environmental health), then they will establish that the noises are simply normal, daily events rather than excessive and/or inconsideration. Just carry on and try to ignore the complaints.
gynte 02/03/2015 at 11:06 am
i live in house for a year and next dor neighbour keeps calling police on my because i have partys and loud music.. wich is not that at all one day i diside to change carpet at home ones work was done police came because off loud noises in house i explain them reason but neighbours still unhappy ewen if I'm cleaning house and usin huwer it's insane i can't live like this anymore. what i should do too stop them reporting or how i can make complain about them .
ABC 27/06/2014 at 10:09 pm
Hi

I have an 18 mnths old baby, and we stay in rented apartment since 3years.
We never had any complain from the earlier neighbor.Though lately we have got a letter from agency that neighbor has complaint about us over the jumping and running noise from our flat.Out hall's floor is a laminate flooring, on which we always walk bare foot to avoid any kind of noise.but about baby we cannot do anything, we can not keep her confined to a single place.

We are feeling helpless as our baby is too small to understand anything, and we can not refrain her walking or running in home. and she is active between mostly 8am to 9pm only, which we have conveyed to the agency as well.. Along with the point that, we donot play loud music or party at home.

I am worried and not sure what can i do .Kindly advice and what is our rights in this situation.

THanks
Roundthebend 03/03/2014 at 3:39 pm
I have an issue with our new neighbours, we bought the house end of last year, we have not even moved yet as the house was in such a mess we needed to get planning permission to make repairs and improvements. Since our neighbours found out they have done nothing but complain and have now made it that I no longer wish to move in and wish I had never bought the house. I have two young children and it is always the husband that comes round which I find very intimidating and done for that reason. Their complaints are never based on correct information, they objected to planning making comments that were incorrect, despite it would not affect them in anyway. They complained about the hedge saying a hedge would be affected but at the moment their precious hedge has brambles sticking out of it causing scratches to my children, which they then suddenly decide its not their hedge.They wont accept responsibility for cutting it despite them claiming its their precious hedge, not that precious if its full of brambles! Planning decision was granted in our favour, and now they are complaining about other issues.
They seem intent on making life miserable for us constantly complaining and we are now afraid to do anything to the property as they will complain about that too.
Does anyone know how to put an end to this constant petty complaining?
A friend said maybe they were used to livingnext door to a little old lady who didn't do much or make any noise and now they don't like it that a family has moved in, but surely this cannot be an excuse, they don't own the street.
Advise is much needed, we are currently living withmy parents whilst the building work is done, but their constant interfering and complaing is causing longer and longer delays.
Chrisb21 28/08/2013 at 2:29 am
Me and my family in South Wales and our neighbours have 7 kids and for 3 years they have caused mayhem. My wife works 4 days a week and I work shifts and when I come from a night shift on weekend the kids are out from about 8:30 and I never get sleep. However that's not the only problem 2 years ago my oldest child was accused of strangling and bulling their third oldest child with no evidence we had the police on us for what my child was of suppose to of done we were innocent due to some neighbour's kids telling the police what really happened. Then since that we have had no problem but however yesterday again my oldest child was accused of saying F*** off and sticking her middle finger up at them when they were in the car driving along and was heard and seen by the trouble kid of the family (the oldest) and the father came and said all of this to me outside in front off kids under 10 playing in the street. Also,my wife was in the car coming home from work and the oldest stuck her middle finger up at her and the 2 middle fingers up and of course the child denied it and the father said that she is the perfect child and my 2 children are Rat Bags . I really need some help as I am not the only neighbour been through this please tell me as I have tried many things but its not working!
Lee 19/06/2013 at 12:27 am
We recently just moved into a house and have a backyard where we park four cars. The problem we are having now is that our neighbors are complaining that we are ruining their driveway by driving on it. There is a crack that separates not properties and that crack belongs to our property. They have complained and told us that they were planning to put up a gate that would separate our property. The problem is, that's they only driveway that my family could drive in and out and if they put a gate up we can't get into our driveway since its pretty narrow, we would end up scratching all of our cars on the house and gate. Is there any law where we could stop them from putting up a gate.
robbo 15/02/2012 at 3:20 pm
Our neighbour moved in about 3 years ago, we have lived in the same house for 22 years and have never had any problems from neighbours within the street before. We don't necessarily have a problem with him, he tends to have the problem with us, with niggly minor complaints. With this in mind we choose not to speak to each other.We were burgled and I knocked on this neighbours door to ask if they had heard or seen anything and got no answer, 10 minutes later the police also knocked on his door to investigate the crime as it was in the middle of the day and he got no answer. We seen the neighbour leaving the house 5 minutes later in the car. With this in mind I thought he obviously does not want to get involved or help us so did nothing else about it. Since then I have noticed he has a CCTV camera in an upstairs window looking over the drives and he could have footage of the crime. My question is can I do anything about this? Is he withholding information?

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