Getting a Solicitor Involved

Originally written by Jeff Durham, updated by the editorial team on 2nd April 2026

Many people who have problems with their neighbours are often reluctant to get a solicitor involved. The main concern is usually the expense that could be incurred, and they might feel that a solicitor will bombard them with all manner of legal jargon which they might not be able to understand.

Before contacting a solicitor, it can help to understand your legal position by using our free Neighbour Rights Checker.

However, in situations where you have either tried to resolve a particular issue with your neighbour but have reached a stalemate, you’ve gone through a mediation service and that hasn’t worked either, or the Dispute Has Become Nasty, you might have no option but to seek legal advice.

What can I Expect if I Get a Solicitor Involved?

Well firstly, don’t be put off by the, sometimes, formal atmosphere of a solicitor’s office. A visit to a solicitor’s office might seem a million miles away from anything you’ve experienced before, but good solicitors will always try to put you at your ease, and explain things to you in a way in which you’ll be able to understand. Don’t forget, no matter how serious you think your problem is, you can be sure that they will have seen it all before countless times.

What can a Solicitor Do for Me?

Solicitors can help you on a number of levels. Firstly, once you’ve explained an issue to them, they’ll be able to tell you your legal position with regard to your particular problem. They can then determine what options you might have and, if there are several, they’ll be able to tell you the effects of choosing a specific option over another and the implications of each option.

They will also act as an intermediary, entering into negotiations with the other person(s) involved and make phone calls and write letters on your behalf. They will prepare all necessary legal documents and any court applications for you, and will ensure that you are represented in court.

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But I can’t Afford to Pay for All of These Services

Your solicitor will be able to advise you on whether or not you’re entitled to legal aid. If you’re on an extremely low income and/or are receiving certain types of state benefit, you may be entitled to have all or a proportion of your legal costs paid for under the legal aid scheme, and a solicitor can advise you about this. However, government plans to cut the Funding To Legal Aid will reduce this entitlement.

Your situation may be slightly different. ask a question below ↓ and our editorial team will reply with our advice.

What if I Still Can’t Afford to Pay or Wish to Take Another Route?

Even if you don’t qualify for any kind of legal aid whatsoever, you may find that it’s not necessary to worry about the total cost of a solicitor’s bill from start to finish. Sometimes, it may only take one or two instances of correspondence from a solicitor to the other party to force the person(s) involved to accept some kind of resolution which will prevent the matter going to court anyway.

Therefore, you may find that it’s worth ‘testing the waters’ if you can afford to do that, and if both you and your solicitor agree that there’s every chance that the other party is likely to back down in the early stages. Of course, there’s always a gamble with that strategy that the other party may decide to contest the case, then you’re either stuck with continuing with the process and incurring further legal costs if you’re not entitled to legal aid, or dropping the case altogether. Your solicitor will usually be able to tell you, however, if it’s a gamble that’s likely to be successful, based on the facts you’ve presented to them.

Other Options

If you’re uncertain about engaging the services of a solicitor or simply cannot afford one and you don’t qualify for legal aid, then talking with a member of staff from Civil Legal Advice (CLA), which has its own website and is a free and confidential service, is well worth approaching. They’ll be able to advise you on your legal position and should be able to put you in touch with other advice centres close to where you live, who have advisers specialising in different areas of law who will be able to give you free, impartial advice.

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ProblemNeighbours Editor 19/05/2026 at 9:16 am

@Gawabian That sounds less like a neighbour dispute and more like possible parcel fraud, so it's worth reporting to Action Fraud (0300 123 2040) as well as the police, since they handle this sort of thing properly. Keep a log of every delivery attempt with dates, photos and courier names, as a solicitor will want that if you escalate. Write "not known at this address, return to sender" on any post and refuse all parcels at the door. You can also ask Royal Mail about a "junk mail opt out" for that name.

Gawabian 31/05/2023 at 6:31 am

Good day, all, I would like advice. A Person or Persons are using my home address to have Evri parcels delivered to me, they then have been collected by a neighbour or someone that lived near my previous address. I have lived here at this address since November 2020. Last night an EVRI courier tried to deliver three parcels, however, my son noticed that the surname and name were not our family name, using my address as a delivery address is morally abhorrent to me. I have also received a post to this person and right RTS on their mail and put it back in the post box, they are becoming a nuisance to me as one of the companies M&M Direct said the only way I could stop this was to cancel my families account with them. I have notified the Police on at least three separate occasions, EVRI makes it impossible to trace the sender and as I refused the parcels I do not know who sent them. This could be Malicious or with an intent to defraud. The Police seem impotent.

Rich 20/05/2023 at 5:21 pm

I put a complaint in against my next door plus 5 others also complained, since they have had a warning from the court they have been making up lies about me and reporting it to ASB, I've had dog poo thrown at my bedroom window they have keyed my car put I can't prove it, they saying I'm threatening to get them beat up that I'm going to smash windows with a crowbar that I'm following them and it's ALL A PACK OF LIES, I'm a cripple I'm 54 years old not long got out a wheelchair and I've 2 grandkids age 3-6 who I totally adore, I've started a driving job as I've worked all my life until I was injured but I'm trying to build my life back so why would anyone do silly things to destroy what I've got, people telling lies with no evidence it still makes people look at you and talk behind your back what can I do for all of it to stop

Allie 24/02/2023 at 12:58 pm

We moved into a semin property in September 2022. The neighbours NOT adjoined to us has serious mental health issues.
They have bombarded us with continuous complaints to the council, over ridiculous accusations. The council appear to be upholding these allegations.
We are terrified if we get legal advice to stop this harassment, it will come up in council searches when we come to sell the house

Sha 04/10/2022 at 3:49 pm

Hello, I had new neighbours move June this year 2022. At first I was very helpful for them. They thanked me and got to know each other. After a few weeks they keep going on about me feeding birds, encouraging wildlife, brushes a problem. Started criticising me, telling me to stop doing things and dictating how I should live.

He was quiet unpleasant and showed anger on occasion. The wife defused him a lot. Had his mother live there and she triggered him into causing unpleasant schemes. Arguing started by them towards me. I stated I am filming you, you are lying. He would stand off stating into camera he didn’t do that or this. Then finally knew I had concrete evidence. Went quiet for a week.

They got contractors in to do their guttering as their house was flooding. Long story short. These contractors and he to was present smashed up our roof tiles. Tried to com me into paying them for works that they caused.

Our guttering down pipe was ripped out and was actually within our boundary. They had no permission to stretch over our side. They left our guttering to flood my sons bedroom. They taped up the guttering with black tape. He closed off our flow to allow the water to run along all properties attached to us. As has been since being built 1950’s.

He created a hole into our down pipe to attach another unnecessary down pipe from his side. They have put up spikes in the guttering. He actually wrote a letter demanding money for this works to guttering be paid by me. More in that letter.

I have a fence up on my boundary, it’s 4ft. They go on and on trying to get me to replace it. I can’t. So he put up a steel fence up on our boundary but just inside theirs. Higher than 6ft. Black grey. Caused many issues with birds wildlife. Death harm has come to many and they have blantantly stated they don’t want any type of nature inside they’re garden.

They been cutting down bushes of mine and opposite neighbours who are also up in arms about what they have done.

Finally they were told to get contractors back out as our house is flooding. Same contractors same mess. They yanked our plastic and our down pipe has been moved inches more their way. Our guttering not fixed.

He demanded that I am not allowed to take our fence down ever or touch the concrete posts. They have sneakily at late evening or night. Saw down or cut our bushes. Neighbours opposite our not happy and she witnessed many things he up to with how he has become obsessed by causing us untold trouble.

They started planting large owls and wind mills in our direction causing us stress anxiety. They said it’s to keep the birds away but it’s blatantly obvious it’s totally intimidation. They now placed it permanently facing into our property looking straight in our living space. I strongly feel it’s operated by them as at times it actually follows me with its eyes. It’s placed directly on the fence line in to our conservatory come lounge and I’ve caught many times turning

Mags 18/08/2022 at 8:40 am

My neighbours and I have a hedge between our gardens and I want to grow my half I do not speak to this neighbour I sent for land registry to see who the hedge belonged to and found out it belongs to both of us I told her this but she took no notice I am letting my side grow but she is cutting right up to the edge so it will not grow she is veri intimidating and always spying on me there is no privacy I have even took photos of what she has done and she just laughs I would like a solicitor to write a letter stating she has to leave my side of the hedge alone

Zoe 17/08/2022 at 11:39 am

12 months ago the house next door was bought to house children in the care system and have care/support plans, however we are had nothing but anti social behaviour, threats to kill, stones thrown at our home, drinking and drugs, calling us names, carers offering us out to fight, intimidation and harassment and noise. One resident has a caution for a public order against us and another resident is on going and that’s a section 4 for there behaviour towards us.
I’m worried for my families safety. Is there advice to can give me.

Deb 12/04/2022 at 5:59 pm

My neighbour is noisy lets his four dogs bark when I go out to work he comes down at the weekend he brings his bin round from the other side moves all my bends and has done criminal damage on my property the guy is a pain in the backside I’ve asked him to stay away and stop bothering me I’m not interested he has a covenants on his property but he seems to abuse that he’s all smashed a gate he’s done several other things he’s kicked my new front door in is a pain I just need to be left alone

eg 04/09/2021 at 1:01 pm

running water from neighbours rear garden flooding our garden
coming under ground and such force even on a normal rainy day . tried to resolve neighbour being very difficult possibly their tree roots of trees just recently chopped down have cracked an underwater pipe
we offered to buy the land which in 22 years the neighbour has has no interest in until we located where all this water was coming from which is from her property

Help 07/08/2021 at 8:55 pm

I want to offer some solutions to peoples' problems.
If a neighbour damages or removes your fence, bush or tree this is classed as criminal damage. Call the police. Don't worry about what people think of you, just do it!
If people get noisy, speak to them once. After that just call environmental health and keep calling them. You need to do this to get evidence. Also keep a diary no matter how boring it is.
If it is a rental property, email/write to the letting agent/landlord/housing association. Keep complaining to them, don't stop.
If it is students you can also contact the local university/s and complaint to them. They are responsible for their students behaviour.
If they are causing a disturbance the street at night, you can call the police.
If they threaten, harass or touch you - call the police.
If a council housing association, police, university etc. is treating you badly, contact you local councillor or even MP.
Don't back down, don't fold like a deckchair at the first hurdle, stay strong and keep pushing.
YOU ARE NOT THE BAD PERSON, YOU ARE NOT MAD, YOU ARE NOT THE PERSON IN THE WRONG!

Lainey 10/07/2021 at 9:22 pm

My neighbour excused myself 2yrs ago of damaging her car, and this wk her new boyfriend that I know have a used myself and family of sending her and him and an ex husband nasty letters, I haven't seen them I've also reported it to the police so I was wondering if I could send her or them a letter to stop this

Paul 16/11/2020 at 6:49 pm

A terraced home next door was converted to a HMO. We have noise, dead bodies, even armed police turning up. Apparently it is run by the Home Office and they want nothing to do with it and neither do the Council. I am a pensioner and even tonight 2 of the residents knocked on my front door asking why me and the wife are not complaining about the other residents. Police have been called out but really.need to know what to do next

Floss 24/10/2020 at 4:57 am

Hi lots of issues regarding neighbours. .real concerns I believe they are listening into my home .I've had important documents via post gone missing .recently I had my council account changed stating my new address was next doors address? lots of issues .causing me lots of anxiety .lots of other neighbors have had issues with same neighbours ? People are genuinely
scared of these people because The neighbours in question have a severely disabled daughter who they use as a excuse to get own way seems the council now down to them because of this.while I sympathize with them it must be really hard . It's not fair and not right to make other people's life a misery.'m not in best of health and the stress is making my symptoms worse . I need advice please help

Jemima 17/10/2020 at 4:51 pm

Our neighbour broke our back garden fence and cut down an established conifer tree on our side, which was in the middle of a row of trees on our side of the fence. They did not seek our permission for this and neither informed us that they would be doing this. They chopped down the whole tree, leaving a short stump. This has now destroyed the habitat for the wildlife of our garden as well as caused aesthetic damage. Please could you advise on what is best to do next? Thank you

amg 22/08/2020 at 5:02 pm

Hi, I moved into an over 50's (allegedly) block (council) over five years ago to move away from drugs, loud music, banging shouting, noisy neighbours. It was fine initially, until the so called over 50 tenants starting moving in their children which the council have now allowed as long as they don't cause a problem! Well, I have not one but two neighbours who are causing problems. The one guy in the flat below is often drunk and argues with his mum, slamming and banging doors and throwing things around at unsociable hours. The 'kids' in the flat opposite me, smoke drugs which it often spills out onto the landing and into my flat and are constantly coming and going into their flat which wouldn't be so much of a problem, but it often happens after 11.00 pm into the early hours. They've had two warning letters from the council which helped for a short while, but I've had to fight to get in to that point which caused problems with the council as they're not going to do anything about it, they refuse to evict the kids. I've stopped complaining as I got tired of not being believed and having to fight. The drugs smell which made me constantly cough caused me to have thyroid problems which I've never suffered from. My thyroid had stopped working and the stress meant I struggled to keep a focus on my tutoring. I've had to take tablets to help my thyroid levels back to any kind of normal but the drugs problem with the flat opposite has started again, no surprise there as I even told the council it would start again as the daughter seems to be addicted and there are people coming and going into their flat again. It's horrible, as there's no one to turn to, solicitors wouldn't probably do anything much anyway so I have decided to just go public with it until I can move from this hell hole. I live in SW B'ham so am holding B'ham city council responsible as they are the ones who should be helping me (I'm over 50) and not allowing young people to stay here and cause problems. This is 'supposed' to be sheltered housing. What a joke. I will be making this public at a later stage in my life as the council need to be held accountable, they know it's caused me problems with my throat and the anti social problems where confirmed by other older tenants in the block that the two flats mentioned where 'problem flats/tenants' but the council didn't always believe me. I can't wait to get out of here as it's my only option now.

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cjazz 24/07/2020 at 12:42 am

I live in a housing association property with my wife and I am retired and I have never been associated with ASB in the past. Last week another tenant started arguing with my wife on the pathway to the property, this was a man in his 60's. This person 100% started the argument and it got very aggressive, the person was shouting and spitting in anger at my wife waving his arms around and looked like he was going to hit my wife. I ran out of the flat to defend my wife and I argued back and things went very nasty. The person was shouting "come on hit me then" obviously to provoke me and my wife said for me to go back into the property.

I reported the problem to the housing association and myself and my wife have been accused of anti social behaviour and we have received a warning letter from our housing association. I don't believe that the tenant who started the problem has had such a letter. I am now fuming that my wife and myself have been accused of ASB.

Just a warning if you see your wife is in danger of being assaulted, do not interfere this is the advice from the housing association or you may end up loosing your tenancy.

JC 27/06/2020 at 9:41 am

I want to sue my neighbours housing association for devaluation of my property as we have spent 5 years suffering my neighbour and her 4 unruly children. The noise is so bad that we cannot sit in our gardens at the moment and it is not just noise it is swearing and domestic violence. She has had her children removed twice from her care due to her own behaviour and domestic abuse from her previous partner towards her. And I have done all the right things, anti social behaviour officer from our council her own housing office involved, police involved etc... but I've had enough. What type of solicitor do i need to sue her housing association please?

Sarahree 04/06/2020 at 11:59 pm

We never had any issues for 5 years with a family of 4 upstairs in the flat above. Then a teenage parent moved on and it was a teenager's dream. Drink drugs and social parties and gatherings. Rubbish and cigarettes thrown out the Windows. Housing association aided with tenant as too much red tape. Council are even worse. If it's not a statutory nuisance They don't care.
Best thing is to record it yourself on camera etc. Shame the housing association and council online.
Going by the experience I've had - best thing is to give up complaining. Move or kill yourself. No one cares. No one!

Jay 19/05/2020 at 12:51 am

Could you answers two questions on having a building declared defective. I understand that would involve the environmental health at the council and they can then serve notices re smoke and fumes which they currently say has nothing to do with them. The neighbours below me are filling my flat not only with drugs but also food, smoke from burning food eg bread, oil etc almost 24 hours a day. The police have done nothing, the environmental health say it has nothing to do with them. The freeholders say it is my problem as well and they can do nothing.

First question is how does it affect noise. For example am I then going to be told that I can't for example use my washing machine because the noise is too much in the neighbours flat.

Second question is there will obviously be a loss in the value of the property. Can I sue the said neighbours for this loss as they are causing the problem.

Thank you.

Dg 07/05/2020 at 10:31 pm

Are there any good solicitors for nuisance neighbours.

baileyb 31/03/2020 at 5:51 pm

Hello I live in a council flat and the neighbours in the flat below who moved in 3 years ago have complained about alleged noise from my flat ever since they moved in. They have shouted out the window in the middle of the night distressing us and also other neighbours in the building and they have also banged and shouted through my door many times. I complained to the council about this unreasonable behaviour and the neighbours downstairs were told to stop this behaviour by the housing officers for the building.The housing officers visited my flat and took pictures of my floorring. The housing officers also told my neighbours to get an independent witness to their flat from the council to witness the noise. Which they never did. Now we have 2 new housing officers so the whole noise dispute has started up again from scratch, much to my anguish and distress. These 2 new housing officers seem to be on the side of the neighbours who are complaining, although they insist they are neutral. The new housing officers demanded that I an come into a meeting with them to discuss the neighbours complaints against me, and they asked me what I think should be done. They suggested mediation but I said I dint think that would solve this problem as my neighbours will not listen to me, when I try to explain that I am not making noise. Due to their abusive and aggressive behaviour towards me banging on my door and shouting through their window I really dont want to meet with them or have anything to do with them. The 2 housing officers demanded entry into my flat to look at the flooring (again) and I told them I am having surgery and really need to have some peace and not be harrassed. Now we have the virus pandemic so I dont have to let these housing officers into my flat but they are phoning me, and I dont want to answer their calls, and also they cant leave messages on my phone as my phone is set up so I dont get voice mail. I feel that I ma being victimised and harrassed by my neighbours and also by the council housing officers. What are my rights in this situation?

Bel 15/11/2019 at 5:01 pm

My next door neighbour has been making personal comments to me very early in the morning. He asks me if he could come ???? of me. Other gestures have been also made. I need to take legal advice.

Jamcake 29/05/2019 at 6:17 pm

My next door neighbour at 17 hindon walk is abusing me and making me feel uncomfortable! He always spreading hate against me to other people and discriminating against me I've done many complaints to council about this guy but he don't know when to stop and he bangs on the wall alot and do alot trouble! I don't know what else I can do! And dumping his rubbish in my bin

D 10/03/2019 at 7:35 pm

Hi i have purchased some land that i was interested in getting planning on the only neighbor backing on to the land has gone on to my land and cut all the tops off on my trees so it is now inlne with my fence who can i talk to for advice?

Jobi 07/02/2019 at 10:25 am

Hi we really need some advice about taking our local council to court for neglect. From Dec 2017 we have been harrassed by our neighbours. We have done everything asked of us e.g.. keeping diary reporting to the police and updating local housing officer about every incident. The on going harrasment has took it's toll on our health and I have lost my job, I was working full time and my husband is on long term sick due to all the stress it has caused us. On veiwing our home an argument broke out between some off the neighbours and the housing assured us it was just a one off and everything would be ok.. We moved in September only there 2 and a bit months then it started. Constantly banging up screaming at us when we got up for work leaving me to get ready for work in our hallway. Soon as we got home from work loud music hearing songs word for word whole flat shaking. Every time we had a visitor we was subjected to loud music. Every time any of our grandchildren would visit ( every fortnight) same thing swearing up at the children all under 6 years to "f$#king shut up banging up at us. Even attacking visitors coming out to us as we are leaving our home screaming that she is gunna batter me even screamed and banged up when my friend came to pick me up for my father's funeral because she had heels on and she herd my friend walk across my living room floor then on leaving chased us out opened my friends car door and hit her then tipped all the bins over that other neighbours had put out for bin collections that morning. She screams up at us stands in our garden looking up at our window let's her dog poo in or garden, we have her on our CCTV doing all this we even record ourselves as she makes false claims. She has told other neighbours that we are either informants for the police or we are perverts having CCTV! She has called my son a pervert when he was cutting the grass for me even though his girlfriend and 3 kids and myself was also in the garden. We don't know what to do as housing officer never gets back to any voicemails or emails it took 9 months to do our moving in check that should have been done within the first 4 weeks of moving in! Nothing council have said they will move us but when? this has been going on for 14 months now. Apparently not much can be done because she is still under social services. Well what about us I have a anurysum suffer with anxiety and stress and my husband is losing weight rapidly, stressed and depressed too. How can we just be left like this when every day runs a risk we share communal garden gate and we have to go past 2 of her doors to get to our door it's hard when all she wants to do is fight me or anyone coming to and from my home mostly our daughter pulling her up when going to local shops even opening her window to tell my daughter to keep her daughter quiet (She is 3 years old) and that she is getting her baby to sleep yes the same baby that is with her every time she is banging make treats outside ou

MC 01/02/2019 at 3:11 pm

Hi
I have a rogue neighbour who is intentionally parking full length of the car 24x7 across dropped kerb so as to cause inconvenience getting in and out of a semi-detached house. I've to make many manoeuvres and drive over the kerb hardly to make it in or out. Though there is a clear case of obstruction and inconvenience caused can't seek legal help. Any advice would be appreciated. He has recently been warned on my complaint by the council for trespassing, harassment and right of quite enjoyment so is the outcome.

RW 14/05/2018 at 1:55 pm

We have wonderful views from our home and our neighbour has planted trees along his side of our boundary fence. These are now reducing and slowly obliterating our views.Is there any action we can take as a friendly word has produced a response they do not intend to do anything.

ProblemNeighbours Editor 05/03/2018 at 3:33 pm

A good solicitor will be able to follow up (i.e not just send letters) and will know which laws - nuisance/anti social behaviour etc can be pursued as a private legal action.

Sara 03/03/2018 at 6:25 am

I got a legal aid solicitor to deal with nuisance neighbours and the social housing landlord. They were useless, so tell me how this article explains HOW a solicitor actually helps? They have only corresponded with the landlords, who don't seem to think they have to do anything, they don't even have to reply to the solicitor! And mostly they don't. If the solicitor was to write to the neighbours it would make matters worse as all of them are mentally unbalanced and criminal, I am outnumbered. To make matters worse, the solicitor then started contradicting what I said and disbelieving me, which has never happened before as I visited solicitors a couple of times in the past regarding this, accompanied by my then boyfriend, and we were never disbelieved. Now I'm alone I am, which is ridiculous. I wonder if this solicitor should really be practising bevause of her attitude. In the end, the landlords don't have to respond to her letters, and they don't have to do anything, which I didn't realise and wasn't told. Additionally the police failed to act on several occasions even when there was evidence for harassment, I have had to make two complaints regarding this. I'm still waiting for results, but as for the solicitor it just seems to be a way of making money from Legal Aid when they know they may have no effect.

ProblemNeighbours Editor 16/05/2017 at 12:23 pm

Report this to your environmental health officer. They may be able to place a noise monitor in your flat and take further action. It may also help provide you with any evidence to enable the polcie to act.

Penelope 15/05/2017 at 1:28 pm

Hi, I moved into a psl flat about 6 months ago and ever since have been kept awake by loud music, yelling and laughing and a barking dog. My bedroom borders these neighbours living room. Also, there is often a very strong smell of what I think is hashish, which normally would not bother me if it was just in the hallway but it gets so strong at times it permeates my entire flat. I have tried to resolve it myself for months as I am not keen on having the police involved due to a previous situation where a new unknown landlord came into my then flat unannounced twice, intimidating me. The police at the time said that as he was now my new landlord he could do as he pleased so I felt I had no other option but to leave the flat. I now feel trapped. Last night it was not just the usual loud party with vibrating techno music and screaming and laughing people and barking dog but the neighbour actually turned on a chainsaw several times while yelling abusive things about me (the walls are paper thin so you can hear people talking let alone loud music and screaming). I did actually phone the police twice as I am now really scared but the noise team never showed up or phoned me back. I don't know what to do any more and I have the feeling that because I come across as shaky and anxious I am not being taken seriously. Can you please help.

Imgonnamakeyoupay 04/12/2016 at 3:30 pm

My hubby , my youngest daughter and myself moved into our new house 4 yrs ago. The 1st year was fine but exactly 1 yr later my neighbour told me that he had seen my hubby with another woman in our local town with a baby in a pram. My hubby can't have more kids so it wasn't him and he had called me that day from work. A month later he had a go at me for not saying hello to his partner. Then the month after he threatened to box me and my hubby, which went round to speak to him. A few weeks later I caught him throwing rubbish over my garden then all was quiet for a few months. I came home to find my new bird feeder smashed to pieces. Then 2 yrs ago on a Sunday while we were doing some DIY he came round our house and hit my hubby in the face. The police cautioned him and told him not to come on our property or talk to me at all. There have been instances here he stands outside our house and does the loopy sign and now his partner has started doing it. We had cameras installed as my car has been damaged but just later week he was yelling at me from his bedroom window and on my way back home his partner came out the house and started calling me names and then threatened my 12 yrs old daughter . I told her straight that I would rip her head off so she launched herself at me. We fought but her partner also attacked me. The police would like is to do restorative justice but they dont think they have do e anything wrong. They have slandered me in the street and tell every one who listens lies about us. We think this is parking related as they had a large drive for 3 cars but park a van outside their house and we have a drive for 1 car and park 1 car on the road. They hate me parking on the road yet my husband is allowed to do it. I want to get in with my life

abdel 23/10/2016 at 5:11 pm

huge noise of music going on for hours
and poeple coming from a pob opposite where I live.
could you help.
Regards.

Davy 13/09/2016 at 4:34 pm

I have been in my apartment for 2 years now and been wakened up at least once every night. The elderly man uses a walking stick and it thuds every time he gets up in the night. Into the bargain he then switches on his TV and I have reported this to Housing21 but no action has been taken and they haven't even contacted the people below. They have even started rumours that I am a schizophrenic, and obviously I am upset but feel even worse having returned from the police station only to be told there is nothing they can do. I have tried Environmental Health, Horsham Council, Citizen's Advice Bureau and it's all proved futile. Where do I go from here as I cannot believe that people can be so selfish and inconsiderate. I don't know that I can afford a lawyer as I am on a small pension and get help with my rent. I do voluntary work for a well known organisation and someone has even reported me, thinking I was earning!. It seems that I am banging my head against a brick wall!

charlie 17/06/2016 at 1:09 pm

Hi, im seeking advise as recently have been receiving false complaints about nuisance noise garbage disposal and dog fouling, i have lived at the same adress for 6 years with my 7 year old daughter and never had any issues untill a new older lady moved into the next block ever since iv been receiving numerous complaints Im 5 months pregnant and keep myself to myself I know thease are acusations are false but how can I prove this, I this morning recieved a letter stating I could loose possession of my home due to 'antisocial behaviour' I feel like im being bullied. Confused why this lady is doing this to my family . How do I prove my innocence.

Vic 10/04/2016 at 9:49 am

I live in a small terraced house with an equally tiny garden, my neighbours acquired a Labrador type dog nearly two years ago they do not walk this animal and it uses the garden as a lavatory on a permanent basis, to a lesser or greater degree there is always poo out there both to smell and look at.
Environmental Health came once, but my neighbour knew they were coming and cleaned up, so they assumed everything was fine... I would like to move in part because of this dirty neighbour the problem being on the sales form you must declare problems with neighbours, who would want to move in next to such people. not me ?

tsolo 27/10/2015 at 2:39 am

I have a problem of racist neighbours who have been harassing and stalking me since I moved in my property 9 yr ago.they started shouting g through their walls that they don't know how I bought the house and that I must have done some fraud. They said I should move next to them. As the time passed by it became apparent and they were also saying they can see everything I do inside my house. They also said people are aware that they watch me inside my house but nobody will report them.later on they involved the people on the other side and they would all talk about what I am doing as if they are watching television. They said they wanted me to suffer from heart problems and they also wanted me to lose my house. I in return played my music loud but this was duting the day to block their harassment but they both plotted me by annoying me and reporting me to the council till the council came and took by television sets stereos and even small alarm clocks away. The council have kept my property for over 2 months and now they send me a letter to go to court for making noise for these people.

Frazer 12/09/2015 at 11:38 pm

Having problem with all neighbours. I have the police loads of time and housing team and saying they can't help me. I have four children being abuse everyday and myself too. The neighbours being racism toward me and my kids. They have hit my children and I did report it to the police but they didn't any thing about this matter. So need with what right I have because me and my kids ain't safe in the house. We need a move but they won't move me and my children. This has been going on the 2years half and can't take no more bullying. So need your help me please

Tog1951 14/08/2015 at 5:36 pm

We moved into this house 23 months ago - old lady next door on the surface OK but she has a problem with shouting day and night. I have gone through all of the channels, doctors relatives council police adult social care and got no where. We will have to sell up as the situation is intolerable. Anyone know a solicitor who will take this on in Leeds?

TakeItIntoMyOwnHands 03/04/2015 at 9:22 am

Hi I am looking for some advice, we have had a constant battle with our local council for almost 18 years regarding our neighbours who cause problems from abuse, setting there dog to attack anyone walking down the street, to damaging property, preventing emergency vehicles from getting access, threatening us, partying from anything from 7 in the evening til up to 11 the next morning and sometimes partying for 3 days solid. The police, local councillor and noise abatement team have all been out over the years to witness this, they are well known as a problem family as they were originally moved to there house now to avoid the council evicting them at the time. For the last 8 years the Local council housing department man has had emails back and forth regarding the problems and keeps promising they are doing this and that to get an eviction, it never happens. At the last point we were told that they could not progress to the courts as there had been no complaints for 6 months. As a result from all this stress my mother has recently had a heart attack and my father has developed heart problems. I have kept record of letters sent between ourselves and the council/police/Scottish parliament,

blue 15/02/2015 at 7:08 pm

I have suffered years of harassment/bullying/stalking and verbal abuse.

The police never took this seriously but turned it on to me, an immigrant.
the Sgt. Told me that police in south London, detest immigrants!!!

So this lying devious jealous female got a way with all...lucky in 2014
Boyfriend chucked her out...getting rid of her...?????but she
Had recruited. Drug dealers to harass me and trash my car etc.....

council told me they are not interested in Owners!!!!so they permitted the harassment, in fact they
Insulted me, etc..
The new neighbour to. Behave in a barbaric way....lying and non stop harassment
Police took her side.....being alone is an easy target...and female!

So no one will take complaints about this female...she has connection to police and council.

so. I should have erected a full. CCTV set..?to record and. I advise. all to do this.
Cameras don't lie. But nasty neighbours do.

It is expensive. but worth every penny....police can't lie and they do!!!
I bought a one camera wireless /plug in set...in Croydon..
Input it on my window will . And have the screen in the lounge to watch.

Oh boy! CCTV works well.....£190.00 well spent....3 years too late..so do this!

Leah 15/06/2014 at 4:14 pm

my fifteen year old daughter has been getting mentally and physically abuse and bullying from middle aged woman in street for two years

Fed up 18/05/2014 at 3:00 pm

I've had issues for a number of years with a neighbour, we now try to avoid him now. He's forced one family to move and we now have a new neighbour. She insists on parking inconsiderately. I have asked her to be more considerate and she flew off the handle. She said she had now become our neighbour from hell and that the first neighbour had warned he about us.
The first neighbour is being 'done' for harassment, but I think something needs to be done to stop him telling people we're the baddies; there's others that don't speak to us as a result of him saying things about us. I just want to come home from work and get in with my life.

itsmenotyou 23/04/2014 at 5:06 pm

I will get straight to the point as history would be pointless. I live in what was once a nice block of 9 flats.
Until the council decided to give us neighbours from hell.
The problem I have now is that one of the problem neighbours insists on leaving her pushchair/pushchairs in the hallway.
I contacted the fire service who contacted the council.
The council told him that the council have a Zero Tolerance policy on anything left in hallways in flats.
I have also looked on line and found that some Councils have actually removed the offending pushchairs without notifying the offender and said they would charge for the return of same.
I have tried unsuccessfully to get this council to take action; also another tenant was also unsuccessful in getting the council to do anything.
My fist complaint (I can prove) was back in January.
I want to know if the council have a legal obligation to clear hallways if they are informed of obstructions.
I also would like to know what would be considered a time frame for this action to take place, bearing in mind that several times the Anti Social Behaviour officers have walked past these Pushchairs in the hallway and done nothing. Also we have Caretakers regularly coming into this block with nothing done. The cleaner moves them out of the way the puts them back.
What I wish to know is this can I take legal action against the council for failing to take any action about this problem?

BLUE 18/04/2014 at 6:36 am

akawebby
the same is happening to me....CROYDON COUNCIL>..BUT I OWN MY HOME
they are lying
they are setting people up to harass me!!!!!!!!and then twisting and turning
they HAVE TREATED ME LIKE A PIECE OF DIRT..
2004 now I have been harassed
but they BLAME ME...
one day I was so upset and I shouted as she touched my stuff when I was doing a new kitchen (nosy and does not work)
and I forgot about the CCTV so they hold that against me!!!!2004to now
she has stolen my stUff sworn at me.....told people to trash my car
BUT I shouted on one day (2013) ..POLICELIARS...

Nikkyee 21/10/2013 at 11:24 pm

My neighbours moved next door in 2005. Stupidly I went round and introduced my self and asked if she needed any help regarding schools childrens' facilities etc.BIG MISTAKE!! I hate myself for having done that. They stated giving me problems with parking. Deliberately parking in a selfish way and taking up space of three cars, with less then a foot of her car in front of her house and the rest in mine. She leaves 6foot from her drop down curb before she parks her car. This means I end up blocking mine. We have never parked beyond our boundary line and we have never parked in front of her house. In 2009 we had a little room built down the bottom of my garden and in the same year had out loft converted. They caused so much trouble and harassed our builders to stop building our loft and to re do theirs first. There is 8 of us living in a three bedroom semi and she only has two children in a six bedroom house. Since she came she was already throwing rubbish in my house and I only woke up to it in 2009. She has had cctv installed and now has it in her car which she reverses back into the drive . It can see inside my lounge and the other in the window , because that curtain is left open all night watching our coming and goings. It is made me ill and the police have done nothing. She also has been writing letters from the police and throwing in my house and rubbish through my door. She also mis treats her daughters and have heard muffled crying as if someone has put a hand over the mouth and turns on the hoover to blot the crying noise. She also leaves her under age children at home. When she found out I knew she started make my life hell. I can't go on holiday or go out for long. I washed my curtains and covered my windows with plastic sheets. When i took them down I saw her peering through my window. She has come on to my property, she removed my fence without asking and a few weeks ago broke a piece of my fence and threw it in my garden. She is waiting for me to throw it back and has the children watching the CCTV. I cannot let my children out in the garden. She already accused the boy across the road of damaging he neighbours car. He called the police. When the police came she never opened the door. The boys parents should have taken her to court. They didn't. She thinks she is above everyone because she is a bank manager. She has spread lies and gossip about me and the local Tory councillor who lives on the road has stopped and gossiped with them especially during the time i have having building work done. I thin she want me to move. I have not done anything to her . If i do move is that how life is suppose to be because someone thinks they can do that to you. If the CCVT was for their security there would be no need for the curtain on my side to be left open and the camera in my car facing my property. I feel I am being treated like a criminal. I could say that her husband is watching my daughters. She wants a reaction from me. I am being wat

Damad 05/08/2013 at 11:04 pm

Hi I'm the owner of a freehold coachouse with 2 leased garages underneath my flat , the leased garages are for the parking of a motor vehicle only however one of the leased garages is being used for other purposes like storage with shelving. I have explained to the person concerned about his lease obligations but he still continues to ignore my requests , he is constantly in and out of his garage making noise and treating it like some sort of garden shed and making a general nuisance of himself. I am the freeholder of the block and need to know the best course of action to take with very limited funds. I would appreciate your advice for this problem.thanks D.Miller

akawebby 13/06/2013 at 3:53 pm

Need some advise!!!! My neighbour is making false allegations about me and my family. She has lied to the council and the police there are now criminal proceedings for a public order offence.
She is the one been antisocial and has caused the council to serve me with a notice of seeking possession and we are threatened with losing our home.
The authorities are doing all they can for this women and isn't willing to help protect my family from these lies.They say the are following procedures and as it stands at the moment I'm the one accused therefore I'm not a victim from this.
It's causing me and my family unjustified stress and no one will help me.
I have 15witnesses to the things she's made false allegations of and the council are not willing to speak to them yet. The police have attended around 10 times and only on the first occasion was an arrest made. they spoke with these witness on the other occasions.
But yet the council have not made any attempt to speak to my witnesses to beable to cancel the notice of seeking possession.
I can't afford a solicitor and legal aid will not cover my seeking advice.
What can I do and what should the council do?

None 21/05/2013 at 4:29 pm

I am self employed, work from home with my own business. New neighbours (a young couple) moved into the rented accommodation next door with 2 cats. The landlord of the property allowed this even though we have covenants that apply to the area which states no animals and no animals allowed to foul the area. We have fell out as the cats poo in the shingle area and outside on my decking. Since then, this couple have blocked my parking space, thrown lighted cigarettes onto my decking and put disparaging remarks that are harmful to my business on facebook and twitter.
I have been to the police but they do nothing to help me and it is making me ill. Any advice please?

chris 16/04/2013 at 2:22 am

I need help with neighbors who have threatened my family for 16 yrs.my mom is 72 ,my sister is disabled. And my nelhew has heart problems.the police know them and nothing gets donr.im scared something bad is really gonna happen next.my nephew cannot keep getting upset, when these alcoholic idiots start,he cant breathe and gets chest pains, my mom is gonna have a heart attack.noone will help and plenty of. Places have been contacted.this has to end now.can anyone help?

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