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How to Deal With a Neighbour 'Stalking' You

By: Sarah Clark (ILEX) - Updated: 14 Sep 2019 | comments*Discuss
Neighbour Stalking Stalker Harassment

Stalking by neighbours – or anyone, in fact – is one of those crimes that is often joked about, but can be very unnerving and at times even frightening. If you suspect that you are a victim of stalking, whether it’s a stranger or a neighbour, one of the main things to do is to try and keep calm. Stalkers and people who are out to harass others are often just looking for a reaction, and if you try to stay aloof and appear unconcerned, even if you are feeling anything but, they may lose interest and leave you alone.

Harassment covers pretty much all forms of unwanted behaviour, from mildly irritating to actual physical violence. Harassment can be a criminal offence and Laws Exist To Protect You . If the neighbour concerned is also watching or following you, making constant attempts to contact you or even sending you unwanted gifts, harassment becomes 'stalking'.

It may seem innocent at first – a neighbour seems to be a bit over friendly perhaps, and in all honesty, it could be a misunderstanding or a one-off. But if the strange or unwanted behaviour happens repeatedly (and repeatedly just means more than once) or you’re feeling distressed or frightened by the behaviour, trust your instincts. Stalking is a criminal offence so don’t blame yourself and don’t think that you have to put up with it, whether it’s a neighbour or a stranger.

Keep Hold of the Evidence

If things escalate, make sure that you keep a note of all incidents that you consider to be harassment or stalking and tell people, other neighbours, or your friends and relatives, what’s going on. You can enlist the help of willing neighbours who might be able to keep an eye out for the perpetrator – if they deliver anything, or are hanging around your property, for example.

If the person who is stalking you also uses text, email, or the post to get to you, you should keep evidence of these as they can be used if you need to take the matter up formally. Don’t be tempted to respond – that’s what the stalker wants you to do.

In addition to hard evidence, Keep A Diary Of Events, making sure that you note down anything suspicious, times, dates and events. Write down anything that your neighbour says or does that could be construed as stalking as soon as it happens, as only evidence that’s recorded ‘contemporaneously’ – that is, immediately – can be used in any future court proceedings if they become necessary.

Being Stalked on the Telephone

If part of your stalker’s campaign involves telephone calls, you should keep a record of dates and times of the calls and anything that was said. If the caller hasn’t disguised their number, make a note of that too, or if being stalked via a land line, try 1471 to see if they slip up and reveal their number.

BT may be able to help if the stalker has your landline number. Call the BT Nuisance Calls Bureau on 0800 661 441 if you are a BT customer. On your mobile, save any malicious text messages for evidence.

If You Feel in Danger

If you ever feel as if you are in imminent danger, call 999 straight away and don’t worry about feeling foolish if the threat later dissipates – it’s better to be safe than sorry.

Try to stay calm and not show any fear or emotion. Don’t lose your temper or attempt to confront your stalker, again, the bully is looking for a reaction, so you should try not to let them have what they are looking for, even if you’re angry or frightened. If you notice your stalker, try to get away from them and into a public area or into your or a friendly neighbour’s home.

If the harassment carries on, your only option is to Contact The Local Police.

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Thankyou Kay for your reply, it's very unfortunate to be on the receiving end of neighbours like this I can only describe it is uncomfortable and scarey, not knowing what they will do next, not a nice way to live.
Jlo - 14-Sep-19 @ 9:39 PM
You all need to educate yourselves on. Narcissism, malignant narcissism, sociopaths, psychopaths and dark triads. Many of your neighbours have borderline personality disorders, you are not crazy just very un lucky. Educate yourselves to keep your sanity and move address they will never change!.... Good luck!
Kay - 11-Sep-19 @ 4:20 PM
I have a neighbour who moved in next door two months ago, everytime anyone is coming or going from my house she races to her front door watching them in full view and just stares, she also uses the key hole to peer through. She constantly looking up at my windows when out walking her dog and I feel so uncomfortable as I hate being watched, she is in her 40s and doesn't work. When she first moved in she roared at me one day in front of my children, then another day shouted 'fanny' in my face, she then encouraged her dog to growl and behave aggressive towards me which I finally phoned the police about. How can I get this idiot to stop, it's such bizarre and creepy behaviour.
Jlo - 11-Sep-19 @ 10:13 AM
Dreadwitch that kind of comment someone who would side with a bully would make. Yes. Some of the stalking that happens is nuts. Thats cause the stalker is nuts. Its a draining demoralising exhausting experience being tracked and urevery move watched. Try living above my neighbour who peers thru my letterbox and hangs about outside monitoring my shower usage as aparantly the sound of water going down is too loud. Every noise i make she moans. Had a relative of hers follow me in car once to see where i went thru day. Saw him and heard them discuss it later. Im fully sane and this is driving me to move. Thats the only nuts thing about it. Try empathy.
T - 28-Aug-19 @ 2:44 PM
Pervious landlords Ronald Phillips and wife Carman Henderson I had put court papers 03102016. Because they our on some crazy deranged religion and had their tenantes to harass me and threading me. The pervious landlords send me a 30 day notice to vacate. I moved here next to a neighbors who so happen to know pervious landlords who had been harassing me by putting a smell at wall down stairs where my living room is during the day and at night up stair's hallway a smell coming from next door between the hours of 12 am and 5am. I report it to CPD's dispatcher they send a officer out by the time they get out neighbor moved the smell. And the following me when I go up stairs or be down stairs and that's the bathroom and when I leave my home they has their associates follow me. The pervious'landlords Carmen Henderson the wife of Ronald Phillips like I said got mad because her husband was I guess paying attention I guess to me. She had her associates to shoot off a gun at 2692 Divot PL Columbus Ohio 43211 because I'm saying in the privacy of my home how this neighbor all in my mouth how I wish they find something else to do.911 was called I give two addresses because I was two nervous 2684 and 2692 Divot PL Columbus Ohio 43211 CPD's officer did not check for no gun. Everything I say and do is monitored by 2692 Divot PL Columbus Ohio 43211 one time I was in the privacy of my home saying who ever lived in 2696 was nasty this neighbor's visitors contacted pervious tenants and let them know what I said.No privacy living in Ambiance vallas rental office plus I let rental office know about the neighbors and their visitors harassing me and threading me 06072019 . Columbus Police department' s their dispatcher thinks since I have a disability I don't know what I'm talking about concering this neighbor and their visitors harassing me and threading me . Plus I told CPD's dispatcher why this neighbor and their visitors doing it the CPD's disregard my complaint or asking for help. The CPD's officer knock on door two different occasions 2692 Divot PL Columbus Ohio 43211 door no answer Can I get some advice
Bunmy - 26-Aug-19 @ 2:54 PM
After reading lots of these comments it seems most times the issue is with the person writing them not their neighbours. Most of you seem stark raving bonkers and you would be much happier if you focused on something else rather than neighbours going about their daily lives. Several of you would drive me absolutely crazy if you lived next door to me....maybe look at yourselves before accusing normal people doing normal things of stalking you.
Dreadwitch - 24-Aug-19 @ 5:05 PM
I have lived in my condominium for three years.Everything was peaceful until an older Persian woman moved in upstairs.She lives alone. When I first met her she said I was wondering when you would come to meet me.This statement alone made me frightened.The woman looked up at one point and I swear I saw evil in her eyes.I quickly made an excuse to run back to my place.A few weeks later she left a can of cookies (which I threw away) and a note to join her for Persian food and tea.I was Leary of contacting her so I didn’t.Now she stalks me wherever I walk in my place and listens tomy telephone conversations.Sometimes she stomps on her floors.This evil woman is relentless and won’t stop.Any advice on how to handle my situation?Thank you.
BluMartini - 22-Aug-19 @ 1:41 AM
We have lived here for 13 years and the neighbours on the left have some sort of fixation with me and my daughter. It's a woman in her late 50s and her elderly mother, brother and son. They copy clothes, shoes, handbags. Pot plants, curtains our car, every conceivable thing and opportunity. They burn firewood in an area where it us banned and only really affects us, as we are right next door. Every single time we go into the back garden and I mean EVERY SINGLE time, the younger woman comes out to bang around and be heard. If I start to mow the lawn shegets hers out and starts mowing, regardless of whether she did it the day before. I immediately stop mowing and move to the front garden. She immediately stops and then moves to the front too. In the last 2 years her behaviour has grown even more stalkery. We do not talk to this family at all. In fact we keep our distance. The more we ignore, the more desperate for our attention the younger woman is. We have logged in excess of 60 times she has come into the front garden when we come home. She bangs her binsvery loudly for attention, which we ignore. She will not stop watching us. To put things into perspective, the other neigbours we really like, have never encountered them in the garden at the same time more than 10 times in one year. Sick of the unwanted attention.
MG - 16-Aug-19 @ 10:54 AM
We have creepy neighbours that use their kids to make noise in front of our house, stay awake all night making odd noises trying to freak us out, and we believe listen in to our conversations through a vent that runs under our house and more... It’s totally creepy. What a bunch of freaks! To all out there dealing with this odd people, may lord Jesus be with you and your families, and protect you from the evil that surrounds us.
Jesus is King! - 8-Aug-19 @ 5:46 AM
My next door neighbour moved out about 4 months ago. Before he moved he put in for planning permission for a 2 bedroom extension. I wish we hadn't given permission as it has stolen light and privacy as it overlooks our garden. Since moving out he has been coming by sometimes in his car taking pictures on his phone of the extensions progress. Its finished now but every week nearly always on a Thursday he finds a reason to be in our road. The latest he followed us back to our road and then gave the excuse he'd come to see his ex- next-door neighbour, I think he has developed an obsession with trying to keep an eye on the road but also is full of inquisitiveness regarding the extension. Fortunately the new neighbour is on to him. She also finds his behaviour peculiar. It makes me very nervous, he used to watch us on his cctv trained on our drive as his excuse was the cars he had for sale in the road. I'm trying very hard not to let his behaviour worry me. I don't really have anyone to discuss this with which makes it harder. Nervous
Nervous - 1-Aug-19 @ 9:55 PM
My next door neighbour moved out about 4 months ago. Before he moved he put in for planning permission for a 2 bedroom extension. I wish we hadn't given permission as it has stolen light and privacy as it overlooks our garden. Since moving out he has been coming by sometimes in his car taking pictures on his phone of the extensions progress. Its finished now but every week nearly always on a Thursday he finds a reason to be in our road. The latest he followed us back to our road and then gave the excuse he'd come to see his ex- next-door neighbour, I think he has developed an obsession with trying to keep an eye on the road but also is full of inquisitiveness regarding the extension. Fortunately the new neighbour is on to him. She also finds his behaviour peculiar. It makes me very nervous, he used to watch us on his cctv trained on our drive as his excuse was the cars he had for sale in the road. I'm trying very hard not to let his behaviour worry me. I don't really have anyone to discuss this with which makes it harder. Nervous
Nervous - 1-Aug-19 @ 9:55 PM
My next door neighbour moved out about 4 months ago. Before he moved he put in for planning permission for a 2 bedroom extension. I wish we hadn't given permission as it has stolen light and privacy as it overlooks our garden. Since moving out he has been coming by sometimes in his car taking pictures on his phone of the extensions progress. Its finished now but every week nearly always on a Thursday he finds a reason to be in our road. The latest he followed us back to our road and then gave the excuse he'd come to see his ex- next-door neighbour, I think he has developed an obsession with trying to keep an eye on the road but also is full of inquisitiveness regarding the extension. Fortunately the new neighbour is on to him. She also finds his behaviour peculiar. It makes me very nervous, he used to watch us on his cctv trained on our drive as his excuse was the cars he had for sale in the road. I'm trying very hard not to let his behaviour worry me. I don't really have anyone to discuss this with which makes it harder. Nervous
Nervous - 1-Aug-19 @ 9:55 PM
My neighbour next door. sleeps all day as she sells her services at night. I have had issues with her . she has a 6foot 4inches friend (bouncer) who is gay living with her. They tell the police they are married. Her last name is diffrent from his. He has a partner.She goes by the name of Carol. her real name is Arleen. He goes by the name of Dave. his real name is Malcolm. On the land register she is said to be living in an Asian country. She sends him to my door threatning me. I want to sell my house. How can i. i have informed Lancashire police. They say it is not happening and they say they are married. At night there is never a knock on the door. The opening and shutting of the door is done by mobile phone by Dave? Malcolm?. The walls are pritty thin. You hear her saying at times . you come you come. she shouts Dave sometimes. The worst part is her cleaning out her mouth. i hear it all and so would the buyer. I have installed CCTV. The police have never turned up to view the cctv or they arrive after the time limit given for viewing the activity at night. Would be so greatful of any advice
katie - 26-Jul-19 @ 10:59 AM
I have a neighbour who's around the age of 40's maybe; he has a wife & two children, He moved next door around 4 years go (give or take) & I've had nothing but issues to the point I sit upstairs & close my curtains. Hes constantly watching through my window, He stares into my house while loading his car or bringing his children home from school, hes reported me 4 times for different things nothing's has ever come from it as it's classed as malicious, I keep myself to myself but it's getting to the point I'm anxious everytime I need to leave the house whether he'll be home watching or not or if we arrive home the same time I panic thinking we will bump into each other, He scares me, I also have a 7 year old daughter who's noticed a while ago him watching through the window, we're having cctc fitted on the weekend in going to jot down as much as possible in a diary, Friends & family visiting my house have even noticed now.. I just feel trapped in my own house
Zla - 23-Jul-19 @ 3:40 PM
My friends husband freaks me out. He always wants me and my husband to go camping or di something with them. He did this with the other neighbors and ended up having an affair. I feel that is what he is trying to do with me. The comments he makes and the way he acts. He is a pervert so I'm writing this so his wife can see this. I dont like being around your husband. He has problems with respect for women.. please dont get made.
Tiff - 9-Jul-19 @ 3:18 AM
I have a stalker also, it's a neighbor who follows over my apt (Is upstairs neighbor) even when I use the bathroom - and all other activities.There is a family of them that are stalkers that live there - several of them would even try and follow me on foot etc - then sadly one died. But - - Blessedly I've found someone who's taken interest in my case - - Faith and closeness to God is what it takes in cases like this - - also in every day life. Though there may be trials, it'll only make youcloser to God when you give your life to our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ - he works out everything in life - as he died for all sins - crimes included. Bless You All Amen
DEBORAH TYLER - 15-Jun-19 @ 11:52 PM
After living at my home for years the home next door was sold and the older male that move in I notice when I would leave to work and come home he was always sitting on his porch. When I would go outside to work in the yard front or back I noticed he would be watching me all the time. The minute I would go outside within seconds he would be outside. A while later I noticed a second male moved in . A few times he spoke to me he told me it was his brother. Now both males would just be starring at me. His brother I noticed was always starring at my wife. Now the woman who lived at the home before had a male living with her who would hide and starr at my daughter and wife. Later to find out the male seems to be the same person who lives there now who hardly goes outside doesn't leave when the other male leaves. The old owner has been seen showing up at the house. So my wife and I think they are related. Going back to the male who constantly watches me has escalate his actions now that am retired. Dont know how he knows when I go outside but it happens all the time I have made two police reports informing them about the neighbor stalking me and my wife and yet they have not arrested him. I have documented and have video from my cell phone on him. Showing the first sheriff a video all he did was a police report that took him over two months to complete. Tomorrow after months of documentation and video am going to the court house to see if I can get an injuction against him. Since it took a long time to get the first report completed I could not do anything until I got his name. So his stalking continued which through e mails I continued to report it to the sheriff who completed the first teport. I went to the police and court house no one would help me with his name. The clerk at the court house told me to asked the neighbors to see if they would give me his name it seems he is being protected. He now goes out in the morning just to watch my wife when she leaves to work which has me very angry. When I told him to stop it made it worst. When I told him why he's watching me following me front to back vice versa he said he could look anywhere I told him he could not just be watching me every move I make. There again it became worst. I have never done anything to him or his property he has even install 2 cameras facing my property just to watch. Where I have him on video pointing at one of them informing my wife and I he's watching us. Am even thinking of a law suit have informed lawyers but as of right now no one has taken my case. Respectfully Victom.
None - 24-May-19 @ 5:04 AM
My neighbours been stalking me for over 20 years and police are not interested in neighbour dispute they call it said i cant get injunction out on nextdoor neighbours after they attacked me. Police was given the heads up a few weeks before i was attacked as my neighbours was threatening to kill me and break my families legs the police told me to only contact them after i was attacked not before So i basically let my neighbours attacked me in a unproved attack and i went back to the police with broken ribs and police said they dont have it on record of my previous visit to give them the heads up on me being attacked police are useless said its a council issue and council said its a police issue?I dont trust police now.
T C - 20-May-19 @ 11:53 AM
Totally what i have experienced for 20 years. I am still struggling with her punishment of me............ But we are not protected at all. Who is policing this country, when a person is battered by this type of person?
corri dawn barr - 3-Apr-19 @ 9:05 PM
My neighbour who i used to be friends with had a thing for me but i made it clear i wasnt interested, anyway he met a lady and all was fine, until the noise began.. he lives in an apartment above me and was making alot of noise, i had to report him in the end but he managed to manipulate the council buy telling them i was obsessed with him and my reporting of him was mallicious because i was jealous?- this was not the case.... i was given a warning by the council and even with evidence from myself they still chose to believe him!!! What made it worse is this man started watching me from his window and had made it clear before that he was using his dash cam to record anyone and could send live feed to his phone so he can watch us anywhere.... he then went from watching me to following me to the local shop... its the only place i go as im disabled... at first i thought it was all in my head but he has followed me now on more than 15 occasions.. he has since stepped up his game and i found him watching me at the back of the flats near my kitchen window, he has since involved his gf and i caught her sneaking under my kitchen window... i am at the end of my tether, and worst part.. the police do not care and the council think im the harrasser!!!?? I am desperately trying to move away because this guy is a stalker and a narcissistic who has the world convinced hes wonderful.... i do not go out anymore and its now affecting my health and my daughters health.... if i report him for following me , he will convince the police and council that im just being mallicious... if i tell them my neighbours and daughter have caught him .. he will say im getting them to lie for me... i dont know what to do or where to go? Noone cares.....
Bluerain2003 - 11-Feb-19 @ 6:12 PM
I have these neighbor's for all most two years.Thay are dedicated full time iv meth addicts.The female will spend her whole day following me and stalking me. She even follows me in the bathroom. Thay are listening and whispering in silence all day long.I have told every authority.I am starting a journal. Scary stuff.
Birddog - 30-Dec-18 @ 3:53 PM
Got problems with "unlicensed home-share" neighbours in below apartment concealing their numbers via "floating" on sleeping racks up to the ceiling right below my floor (appears like they're inside MY apartment to basic security monitoring equipment). They're over-crowding the location indefinitely and attempting to harass me into leaving my rented property at the edge of an inner-city suburb. Spitting saliva into my mouth and body, sucking blood out of my legs/feet, barging/crowding/debalancing my physical movements, disrupting my sleep EVERY night, etc. Can't get my new business started successfully while they're doing this ... the security monitoring equipment HAS to be upgraded to correctly identify "floaters" as being located in the BELOW apartment. The housing crisis will not be solved by this endless anti-social harassment behaviour which will actually discourage new home construction.
I have these lowlife neighbors who have harrassed me and my 2 kids and my husband fior years. I have gotten 4 restraining orders on them. Now I tried to get a 5th restraining order on them and they hired this low life woman to lie for them in court. The Judge believed her and denied me the restraining order.Unknown to me I find out later thus Judge retired the next day.Im going to file again.These lowlifes live across the street from us and when I git home that day they yelled across to me, Ha !Ha ! We won !And now this woman they hired parks her beat up dented car near my kitchen window and sits in the lowlife neighbors house all day and night watching us leave our home.I have called the police and they told me to get that restraining order and then they can make them stop. Why dont the police get it for me.My G od my husband and I pay taxes fior years and these lowlifes dont work .They havent contributed to society in any way .They are so misserable and just dont care who they harrass. They change cars like they change their underware. I have called the police to check on them dealing drugs and the police wont .They came into my work demanding my Boss fire me.I work in a store My Boss told them to leave if they arent going to buy anything. I told my Boss abiut them ahead of time. Then they started sending people in to fight with me but my Boss told me not to worry.They cant get me fired.The anxiety became so high .I git into another store and the anxiety has slowly gone away.
Laughing - 15-Oct-18 @ 5:00 PM
I live in gwail house and my problem is the same with every one here. Please can someone tell me what to do because this has being going on now for 3 good years. I really need help.please cause I'm already losing my mind. Nobody want to do anything about it.HELP
Ken - 13-Aug-18 @ 11:11 PM
As a U.S.A Resident and citizen, I stumbled on your site by accident while searching for self defense advice against paranoid stalker . I wish I lived in a civilized nations. Alas, I am an American, and although most of us are decent folks..an anomaly rules us at present. Thanks for distracting me from the gun toting moron in my life. Be well, and God bless.
NorthbyNorthwest - 10-Aug-18 @ 3:26 AM
My neighbor is stalking me and so are the police. I haven't done anything criminal. And I live a simple life. I want my private life back. I don't want to be followed by strangers or have techies telling reporting my every move. I cannot function this way anymore. I feel threatened and do not have any idea why I should continue to endure such treatment.
Ollie - 25-Jul-18 @ 1:54 AM
I've been having the same problem. My neighborshave affected my life greatly and I'm starting to believe that I live around a group of people who suffer from narcissistic disorder which seems to be accepted in today's society. It's so odd to me because I would walk out of the house and the same thing would happen( neighbors coming out at the same time, their kidshit objects on the ground, their loud dogs, loud music, them spreading untrue rumors or commenting on my every move. The first time I noticed itit just came off asodd and strange.At first I noticed honking, then police sirens. I've never had a bad encounter with the police, ambulance or fire department so it was very strange for me.I've also never had an actual conversation/ altercation with any of my neighbors before this time I didn't really know they existed... I did but I didn't really notice them and I've lived in my neighborhood since I was born. It was not until 2015 where things started to get strange. I come from a middle class familyso money gets spent wisely food, bills, air, water. We didn't have the funds for a new care so we had to buy a used car from the city auction to avoid car payments. Most of the cars were police interceptors. I'm starting to think my neighbors were paranoid about me being the cops. I'm not sure why they acted so hostile or who told them an untrue story. Now it seems more calm. Some neighbors still talk when I come out of the house etc. But it seems like someone told a lie and instilled fear in the whole neighborhood just to have it come back and crumble. Now I noticed people are more nice and it's just one huge mess. The energy in the neighbor hood is definitely strange and not nice. It has affected me so much I feel like I should warn others who are thinking about moving here. I think most people realized it was a lie after a while. My advice is to stay calm and if you can get proof and take legal action or move out to the countryand live on a large piece of land where their is no neighborhood association.At one point I knew that the harassment in the neighborhood had spread through out the whole city. I noticed it affected how I shared my information, my ability to do a job and to just do fun things, but I'm honestly justglad for life itself. There definitely needs to be an organization started to fight this type of behavior. It's unacceptable.
The non-nosy neighb - 24-Jul-18 @ 9:33 AM
Me and my husband are being stalked by 3 jobless neighbors.one male and his girlfriend as well as theor pal upstairs which is a woman. It started out as over friendly, with the male going out of his way to hold the door for us or helping me up the stairs with the stroller. Then atleast twice a week they would come upstairs and knock on our door asking is someone walking around uphere.It ultimately escalated one night the male knocked on my door at 11pm. My husband had it by that point and yelled at him. He assulted my husband and I called the cops. The behavior got even worst after that.he that began to openly stalk us more aggressively. Waiting outside the building until we got home from work. Holding the door for us. Then trying to talk to my husband as well as me though we have made it clear we donot want anything to do with him. He and his girlfriend would then peep out the door everytime we entered the building. Then blast the music once we enter our apartment. They would do this every time we walked in or had company. Once I became a stay at home mom the music would blast every day beginning at 12pm-3 and then back on again once my husband atepped thru the door at 5:30. As far as their friend in my floor which seems to have had it out for me from day one she makes out loud comments and tries to walk closely to me like she is trying to bump me. Then this week as my husband was going to the store my husband was approached by the male. He said I was arrested for selling deugs out my apartment and I hope you wasnt the one who told. My husband had no I dea what he was talking about. He proceeded to follow my husband all the way ti the store telling him his arrest problem. Talk about crazy!
Jjones - 23-Jul-18 @ 3:07 PM
I have a group of neighbors that have banned up it seems probably they been wanting me out since day 1. I got our new house 10 years ago. always have 3 other neighbors eye balling me arms crossed mad dogging me any time I step out. openly talking crap...irony all those neighbors finally left over the first 5 years. but it seems that every time someone new moves in the old neighbor go's and tells the new one something then I'm back on everyone's sh!t list. One specific neighbor lives directly in front of me that's bi-polar talks to a rental house next store...new people move in yearly...they been teaming me for last 3 years. Basically I can't step out with out the 2 neighbors walking out. one hops in their car and the other walks to their car goes for a walk what ever. I installed a camera in my garage and I was right but to bad I had it on live mode so it didn't record sadly. they actually said they have code words they send by phone texting "go home" if I show up riding down the street they will pull up every single time either neighbor or both almost exactly at the same time when ever I step out or come home. guy walks his dog waits every day on a corner has his camera on so every time I take my kid from and to school he is right there soon as I'm pulling out. this can be at any time of day even 6 am in the morning. it doesn't matter they are persistent. I really think others are joining in cause I take note other neighbors timeswhen they normally leave and well now I been purposefully changing my schedule by a 30 mins at a time and they keep matching it. I talk to 2 of my neighbors and they gave me both dirty looks and said I'm just being paranoid and there's just no such thing and they back the others 100% said I must be the crazy one for even thinking it. they even defend them saying everyone has to go some where no one is following no one. there is sooo much more so much more I just can't put it all down. I honestly think the they are trying to trap me with harassment cause I'm not the type to back down if someone challenges me. all these years gone by dealing with this slowly elevating situation I just try to look at trevally and say its harmless. cause they are not physically doing anything to me other than following me every where. I'll end it with 1 last note the last new neighborof the rental house has a thing of matching me of everything I buy. 1:bought my kid a power wheel he went got a used exact same one but the bigger version for bigger kids...2: I had some nice deep dish 22 inch rims on my car already Chrysler 300 guess he got jealous when I bought new rims again better ones lol. then he rented the same car for like 3 months wit hout of state plates. 3: I went bought a brand new Kawasaki motorcycle and 2 weeks later he gets a salvage title wreck 1000cc Kawasaki motorcycle. 4: I buy a kids 90cc motorcyclefor my kid and he buys 2 weeks later a power wheel motorcycle for his kid leaves it out on the curb o
stalkers need to fin - 16-Jul-18 @ 8:11 PM
This is disturbing my next door neighbour is watching daily. If i open my door she comes out and noseys through the fence. Also she has cctv which is pointing on my drive and as soon as i come in she runs upstairs to view her cctv. This has been reported to 101 and the police wont listern.also she has got me to go to court for harrassment because shes using family members and she wont leave me alone.can anyone help as she s not right in the head. She uses everyone to her advantage and to cover herself as miss innocent. The police are a waste of time and the council also my housing association backs her as a private homeowner.
Puppy - 27-Jun-18 @ 9:44 PM
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