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How to Deal With a Neighbour 'Stalking' You

By: Sarah Clark (ILEX) - Updated: 27 Feb 2021 | comments*Discuss
 
Neighbour Stalking Stalker Harassment

Stalking by neighbours – or anyone, in fact – is one of those crimes that is often joked about, but can be very unnerving and at times even frightening. If you suspect that you are a victim of stalking, whether it’s a stranger or a neighbour, one of the main things to do is to try and keep calm. Stalkers and people who are out to harass others are often just looking for a reaction, and if you try to stay aloof and appear unconcerned, even if you are feeling anything but, they may lose interest and leave you alone.

Harassment covers pretty much all forms of unwanted behaviour, from mildly irritating to actual physical violence. Harassment can be a criminal offence and Laws Exist To Protect You . If the neighbour concerned is also watching or following you, making constant attempts to contact you or even sending you unwanted gifts, harassment becomes 'stalking'.

It may seem innocent at first – a neighbour seems to be a bit over friendly perhaps, and in all honesty, it could be a misunderstanding or a one-off. But if the strange or unwanted behaviour happens repeatedly (and repeatedly just means more than once) or you’re feeling distressed or frightened by the behaviour, trust your instincts. Stalking is a criminal offence so don’t blame yourself and don’t think that you have to put up with it, whether it’s a neighbour or a stranger.

Keep Hold of the Evidence

If things escalate, make sure that you keep a note of all incidents that you consider to be harassment or stalking and tell people, other neighbours, or your friends and relatives, what’s going on. You can enlist the help of willing neighbours who might be able to keep an eye out for the perpetrator – if they deliver anything, or are hanging around your property, for example.

If the person who is stalking you also uses text, email, or the post to get to you, you should keep evidence of these as they can be used if you need to take the matter up formally. Don’t be tempted to respond – that’s what the stalker wants you to do.

In addition to hard evidence, Keep A Diary Of Events, making sure that you note down anything suspicious, times, dates and events. Write down anything that your neighbour says or does that could be construed as stalking as soon as it happens, as only evidence that’s recorded ‘contemporaneously’ – that is, immediately – can be used in any future court proceedings if they become necessary.

Being Stalked on the Telephone

If part of your stalker’s campaign involves telephone calls, you should keep a record of dates and times of the calls and anything that was said. If the caller hasn’t disguised their number, make a note of that too, or if being stalked via a land line, try 1471 to see if they slip up and reveal their number.

BT may be able to help if the stalker has your landline number. Call the BT Nuisance Calls Bureau on 0800 661 441 if you are a BT customer. On your mobile, save any malicious text messages for evidence.

If You Feel in Danger

If you ever feel as if you are in imminent danger, call 999 straight away and don’t worry about feeling foolish if the threat later dissipates – it’s better to be safe than sorry.

Try to stay calm and not show any fear or emotion. Don’t lose your temper or attempt to confront your stalker, again, the bully is looking for a reaction, so you should try not to let them have what they are looking for, even if you’re angry or frightened. If you notice your stalker, try to get away from them and into a public area or into your or a friendly neighbour’s home.

If the harassment carries on, your only option is to Contact The Local Police.

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I posted on here about six months or so ago as my family and myself have been the obsession of a neighbour for the last six years. We’ve tried to combat it with every way open to us; police, solicitors, the council, contacting various political figures, mediation service. We’ve tried to deal with the problems ourselves; discussing the issue with the husband of the neighbour (nothing), ignoring her, confronting her, voice recording etc. All authorities have done absolutely nothing of significance to stop her behaviour and they have suggested, both directly and indirectly, that my family and myself are making claims that aren’t really as bad as we experience them to be. I am so sick and tired of being gaslighted when myself and the neighbour know exactly what she is doing. This whole experience has been the most horrendous thing I have ever experienced and to receive no significant help from those, who we are all told are there to protect us, is gut-wrenching. Although we have talked about this for years, myself and my family have decided that it is best we move as no one is prepared to do anymore to help us. My advice to anyone being harassed/stalked by a neighbour is just to pack up and go. Unless you can prove without a shadow of doubt that your neighbour is harassing you in a signifcant way DO NOT bother contacting the authorities. They literally ask for the perpetrator to state their name and D.O.B to your CCTV cameras before they commit the crime and then to give a wave after they’ve finished destroying your property or harassing you.
MY - 27-Feb-21 @ 1:13 PM
In response to the comment made 13th Feb 2021. I am so sorry you are experiencing this difficulty. I am also, hence was searching information on the internet about stalkers/peeping toms. I live alone in a country town and my married neighbour (the husband) is obsessed with me. I found him looking through my bathroom window at midnight, whilst I was in the bath. I have a vacant block of land on the bathroom side of the house. I called the police, but he had fled by the time police arrived at my property (5 acre hobby farm). I did not have security cameras to provide evidence to the police. He has also been following me with a drone over the years whilst I walk around the farm with my horses. I suggest you go to your local police station and report your experiences. Do not delete any voice mail/text messages you receive from him. Document everything that may occur, inclusive of date and time in a diary. You could organise an intervention order against him, the police will advise you of this possibility. I would not respond to any further text messages/voice mail messages from him. It may be a good idea to change your phone number all together, from my experience stalkers can be relentless in trying to initiate attention or contact from you. I would not exhibit fear in any way, just set clear boundaries to be left alone and then completely ignore him.
Lila - 16-Feb-21 @ 5:07 AM
I’m not really sure what to do right now and I’m feeling sort of lost and scared. A few nights ago I had a dream about my neighbors were stalking/harassing me it scared me to death because I do live alone, but the next day I came home to a note attached to my door from my next door neighbor saying they needed to talk to me about a situation to either come by or call. I didn’t feel comfortable going by because I don’t know the man so I called (huge mistake) he pretty much just said my music was too loud (which I haven’t been playing music on my speaker due to us having a prior convo about it) and I apologized and said well maybe I just shouldn’t use my speakers but just and FYI these walls are pretty thin because I can hear you snore some nights. But I apologized again etc the convo ended. Today he texted me inviting me over for a movie night in which I declined he then insisted and I declined again saying I was seeing someone but didn’t feel comfortable to do that anyways and he still kept insisting we can “be comfortable because we are neighbors” and I said again thanks anyways but I have to decline. He said “don’t worry about hearing from me on this number again” key word “THIS”. I got some alarms, door blocker things, and a machete to keep under my bed. But I’m scared if something happens when I’m not home. I have a cat who is literally my world and I really just don’t know what to do. I could even potentially be freaking out over nothing but I know how evil people can be and I just don’t want to risk it....:(
lx - 13-Feb-21 @ 7:06 AM
I’m not really sure what to do right now and I’m feeling sort of lost and scared. A few nights ago I had a dream about my neighbors were stalking/harassing me it scared me to death because I do live alone, but the next day I came home to a note attached to my door from my next door neighbor saying they needed to talk to me about a situation to either come by or call. I didn’t feel comfortable going by because I don’t know the man so I called (huge mistake) he pretty much just said my music was too loud (which I haven’t been playing music on my speaker due to us having a prior convo about it) and I apologized and said well maybe I just shouldn’t use my speakers but just and FYI these walls are pretty thin because I can hear you snore some nights. But I apologized again etc the convo ended. Today he texted me inviting me over for a movie night in which I declined he then insisted and I declined again saying I was seeing someone but didn’t feel comfortable to do that anyways and he still kept insisting we can “be comfortable because we are neighbors” and I said again thanks anyways but I have to decline. He said “don’t worry about hearing from me on this number again” key word “THIS”. I got some alarms, door blocker things, and a machete to keep under my bed. But I’m scared if something happens when I’m not home. I have a cat who is literally my world and I really just don’t know what to do. I could even potentially be freaking out over nothing but I know how evil people can be and I just don’t want to risk it....:(
lx - 13-Feb-21 @ 4:50 AM
Stalking is a real crime.Sometimes the victim catches on a little later than usual.It's not just driving and seeing him/her in your rearview mirror and showing up at the gasoline station each and every time you fill the tank. Moreover, they are known boldly to burglarize your apartment, steal mail, and make it look like you are making things up... Nevertheless, I would suggest take it seriously, let someone know, take all the precautions.It could happen at any age, not necessarily to women older than 50.But, I suggest taking all the precautions and reach out for help, because no one should have the upper hand over your life and imposing fear.An, get the police involved before the intruder manifest himself/herself leading to a most dangerous situation.
Cheval - 9-Feb-21 @ 1:38 PM
I am being stalked by my neighbor each and every day. It’s so bad that sometimes it irritates me to where I start screaming at the ceiling.She follows me to the shower in the bathroom.she often stands by the vent to listen to me sometimes it’s frightening and sometimes I am so frustrated where I wanna go and confront her about the situation.I am really At odds.I don’t know what to do.
Mika - 6-Feb-21 @ 7:31 AM
I have a situation that brings me to this platform that started out as a small conversation with a what appear to be a very decent couple that live not even 10 ft from my front door matter of fact we share the same people if I look out of my people I'm looking directly at her door and vice versa. A week after I moved into a very beautiful apartment community I came home from one of my two jobs and noticed that the house was a little ransacked not anything how I left it and small portions of food cabinets were left open a makeup was opened tissue paper was removed from the bathroom Amy it's almost look like someone was living in the apartment or had spent time in the apartment while I was away. The first day it happened I thought oh well must be me or I just didn't think anything of it after 4 days in a row it happened everyday I started getting afraid so I called the police gave them my address they came out in the meantime the dispatch said why don't you go to the neighbor that's across from you knock on the door and ask them if they saw anything I had been there for one week I'm assuming the neighbor had been living there for over 10 years or 7 years. So I go knock on the door and I don't think they opened it and if they did they said no we don't have anything to do with that we don't know anything why are you asking us and slam the door. The reason why I was very shocked and a little angry with that response was because this event happened 7 days after I moved it prior to that which was about 2 days after I moved in I was laying in the back room of a luxury one bedroom apartment and I heard my living room door being open and when it closed I heard the neighbor outside saying that she got her and she's going to be all right and walked away now and took a lot of guessing and wordplay to try to figure out why that conversation came up but like I said I figured that she had been in the living room in the house moving around walking around Free Will and all the time it had been her but she never admitted it and she's never had a conversation with me and I've never gave her permission to come in my home. No 24 hours after I moved into the place this would have been the next day when I said that I heard herokay because I have anemia and asthma. 24 hours after I moved in which was the very next morning brunch time afternoon she called the a lock a lance locksmith and she misled lied to the locksmith and told them that she locked herself out or that her neighbor locked herself out and then her neighbor was at work and she asked her to give her the key some bogus story anyway they changed the lock they actually copied the lock on my door they've been breaking in my house walking in my house ever since then what do I do I'm in so much distress and I cannot stop this person and it's getting out of control. And it's like I have no proof
Kim - 3-Feb-21 @ 1:38 AM
My neighbors which consist of mother and father and two children I noticed from the time I first moved in the women would listen in on my phone calls and even the dad and the children the younger child started beating on the walls when he came in his parents room and I heard the dad tell him to stop then when they know I’m in my dining room or think I’m on the phone they will come halfway down the stairs and sit there for awhile to listen in and when I’m in the kitchen they will come downstairs and try to be very quiet I even felt the woman of their house was following me before so I really started paying attention to my surroundings when I’m out the oldest child even got on his parents bed to listen one time because you can tell by the kinds of walls we have at one time in the summer whenever I would go or crack my back door they would come out they even tried having a conversation so I could hear them when I was outback cutting my grass I was on the phone with discussing gardening and I started growing stuff and the woman next door did the same thing I’m doing smh I don’t understand why they are so worried about me .
Classic - 23-Jan-21 @ 6:25 AM
I have a really psycho neighbor in the US. He watches when I leave and come home (he lives right next door to me). I have never seen him come and go such as a job even before the Covid thing except maybe take and pick up wife for work. This guy is sick. I have told some people and was asked if he has mental issues maybe? Well obviously he does. He is obsessed with me and his wife gets in on it also. They seem to not like it if I go out of my own house and in my own driveway. One day I was taking care of my car and they show up just sitting in their drive way. I notice the wife has her phone up like she is recording me! I got pissed at that and flipped them off while I walked inside my home. Now granted that doesn't help but I am sick of them They now have cameras pointing at my car so they can watch me even more coming and going. For instance I go to work. Ten minutes later or same time he will be in his car and leave. I get home from work, minutes later he pulls in.I got so fed up with it I put ring camera to avoid this person. Even if I change schedules he will adjust to mimic me. I don't understand why someone would spend so much time and energy on someone it doesn't make anysense! It sounds crazy but it is all true I even have it on video to prove it. I know I was told the only solution is to move but easier said than done. Complications I won't get into here. But even the people we rent from have no sympathy to my plight and tell me to contact police or court.
None - 20-Jan-21 @ 8:40 PM
D: Why do tou watch your neughbor and why do you do sports where he can see you? Why do you tell us first you are minor? Is that why you do sports at home in stead of a play ground/ field, because you are minor? Well it is just a patriarchal norm/ convention/ cultural curiosity that if you are minor or a man you are allowed to habg around making a racket, a noise/ =play ball. I believe If you were really afraid of your neighbor or if you would respect him you would keep yourself away from him. From his sight. Tell me what is it that excites you about you saying, i m just a boy and i m afraidand still it is you who enjoys being on his face, neck, how do you say this. I find it sick, it makes me sick that you and many parents dont respect other people. Sad also.parents teaching that it is ok to hang around when you know it is you who is watchibg him, it is you who bring noise and people in stead of going to play somewhere else. Just think about it. Kids in 3 . World countries grow chocolate, mine, work in shifts etc from age 5. They get metals for your computer, grow cotton for your shirt etc but you are too lazy to govto a field and you like bullying your neighbor. Disgusting.
Daisy - 19-Jan-21 @ 9:53 PM
hello everyone, oh I feel very grateful to find this website.I also have the same incident even today, this second I am still being monitored by my neighbors.I initially didn't care about the environment around me.Until finally, my mother said to me and at the same time reminded me that my neighbors had seen me.and I was immediately shocked and confused.I didn't realize that my neighbors were often peeking and looking at me.then, after I traced my neighbor this was a person who also had a high position in one of the banks.and, to my surprise, the way she spoke and her body language was very calm and there was no sign of worry or anxiety.because at that moment I was so pissed off.I came to his house and asked why you see me continuously.however, he lied for a variety of reasons.and finally to the point where I felt that I was wrong with the situation I was now experiencing.my neighbor was getting brave and openly peeking and wanted to know what I was doing.Even worse, there are several cars that often stop in front of my house just to look at me.and, some even took photos of me without my permission.this makes me stressed and my work becomes irregular.however, I tried to stay calm and be unconcerned.thanks.
Unknown - 19-Jan-21 @ 4:56 AM
I have neighbour who is always looking out his windows, always hanging around outside looking busy. Sometimes stands right outside our lounge window he never speaks I don't think he likes me because his behaviour is very passive aggressive but he would never in a million years challenge me to my face. Yes everything here I emphasise with. Sorry other people are having to put up nasty little individuals with sh*t lives.
Chris - 18-Jan-21 @ 12:29 AM
Ive been dealing with the same exact issues with stalking neighbors and other people as well I know I'm not crazy and these ppl get some sick twisted high off of mentally destorying me they have to otherwise why keep doing it....i just dont understand why I stay home dont go anywhere dont have any friends but he'll I'm too scared to leave my home its killing me seriously and ive never been more down and depressed in ny life to be honest I'm at my lowest point ever and I refuse to go out this way...
SD - 15-Jan-21 @ 7:26 PM
I am a minor and I’m honestly so terrified of walking past my neighbors house. They keep their blinds open ALL the time. He watches every single step I make. For example sometimes I throw my trash away and hes there. He’s always there. One day I was with a friend playing volleyball and he kept on knocking on the windows to get my attention he we ignored him. Later he layed on the floor and did a really weird pose looking and waving at me. I don’t feel safe. I’m afraid he might approach me or something. I’ve told my mom about this but she thinks I’m paranoid, I’m really not. Reading these comments makes me feel better.
d - 15-Jan-21 @ 1:48 AM
My neighbours across the hall from me are unbelievably inconsiderate vicious and spiteful. They have been terrorising folk for years. ShoutingSwearing Aggressive Violent and Ignorant. I just don't know what to do my partner has a terminal illness and the nasty neighbour hit him around the head with a piece of wood, broke two fingers. He was arrested but let go without charge that was 5months ago. My partners fingers are still broken the whole incident has changed my partner it has effected his selfconfidence and sadness in his eyes, that hurts my heart.They contact my housing officer everyday to say that I no-longer live there, they continue to add constant stress and im actually at breaking point and really don't know what I can do.....Any advice.
Doris - 7-Jan-21 @ 6:45 PM
I am so glad that finally I don’t feel I’m going mad.As I skimmed through these comments seeing a familiarity for some of the problems that I have been going through.The stalking I have been put through is severe because all the neighbours involved took it to levels I never thought possible.I have a severely disabled son to look after and the neighbours know this as I have lived in this area for 18 years.They have infiltrated every place I go to including my church ,my doctors and hospital.I can’t discuss all that I have been put through because it’s case sensitive and better not to go into the whole details.They put my phone number on a fake website and I got ini-dated with false calls asking for the barbers and some calls were at 7 and 8 pm.I even had one when I was in bed.Every time me or my disabled son went into the garden either neighbours on both sides and the ones at the back would start using things to create high levels of noise.This doesn’t help my son as he has autism and suffers with sensitivity with his ears and eyes.Both sides try and stop me cleaning up my garden and come up with invalid reasons why I can’t chop down parts of trees that hang over my garden or burn waste such as branches cut from over growth caused from neighbours trees. They invite friends and family around to create high noise levels and shout comments.This is a small part of what we have been put through.I am sort of releaved that we have this tier system not because of the COVID virus but because it has forced people to reduce their constant harrassment by driving down our grove revving engines and driving up towards our house and blearing their head lights directly at our house.
Gotcha - 21-Dec-20 @ 1:30 PM
Goat: you haven't done anything wrong. Asking for help is ok. Your neighbors are heartless and have empty lives , no meaning in their lives, harassing you gives them a meaning, harassing you bonds them together. They feel important watching you. I just despise people who want to feel important by gossiping or badmouthing someone else. It is the worst quality in people, the most despicable thing to do. They get many benefits though, like company, sth to do, feel important. Well if they were nice people they would not try to kick someone already on the ground. Don' t know if it is any consolation, my neighbours dozens of them have been harassing me and watching me and having a noise campaign since 2007. Started when the family across the street started asking people to do that. Dont know what the excuse was to begin with. Maybe just asked them to join their for the fun of it. Many did but not enough so they started playing my victims. Tell people their offspring are my victims when i complain they dont use their own gardens but hang around mine and on the street. They start Bringing their offspring, dozens of them from different families on the street tell them to scream and be loud scream their lungs out, play hockey football etc powertools, constsnt construction site around me since 2007, keep dogs outside everywhere around me barking, shout to esch other all around me, having a nice time. Enjoying this
Banality of evil - 21-Dec-20 @ 6:46 AM
Goat: you haven't done anything wrong. Asking for help is ok. Your neighbors are heartless and have empty lives , no meaning in their lives, harassing you gives them a meaning, harassing you bonds them together. They feel important watching you. I just despise people who want to feel important by gossiping or badmouthing someone else. It is the worst quality in people, the most despicable thing to do. They get many benefits though, like company, sth to do, feel important. Well if they were nice people they would not try to kick someone already on the ground. Don' t know if it is any consolation, my neighbours dozens of them have been harassing me and watching me and having a noise campaign since 2007. Started when the family across the street started asking people to do that. Dont know what the excuse was to begin with. Maybe just asked them to join their for the fun of it. Many did but not enough so they started playing my victims. Tell people their offspring are my victims when i complain they dont use their own gardens but hang around mine and on the street. They start Bringing their offspring, dozens of them from different families on the street tell them to scream and be loud scream their lungs out, play hockey football etc powertools, constsnt construction site around me since 2007, keep dogs outside everywhere around me barking, shout to esch other all around me, having a nice time. Enjoying this
Banality of evil - 21-Dec-20 @ 2:39 AM
I have neighbours who have lived next to me for over 15 years. Since they both retired tension has risen with them as they constantly stand at their back door watching everything we do. Summer was horrendous as during the warm weather we couldn't sit in our back garden as the pair would appear like Mear cats and watch everything we did while out. It reached a new low recently when leaving for work at 4 30 am i stepped out of my back door to see the guy next door watching me again. I can not confront them in away I would like as they are both over 70, but it's getting to a point where tempers will blow. Any advice please
Maverick - 16-Dec-20 @ 10:29 AM
Reading these comments is helping me realise I'm not the only one dealing with this type of issue. I have been experiencing this for a while now, theres a neighbour in her 50s who literally follows me around, pretending to be doing something else but she watches me, it's like she's obsessed with my every move, I can't go outside to throw the bin or even get a parcel at the door without her lurking through her door, or literally walking out of her door, this is beyond NPD, this is psychopathic behaviour, this woman has mentalhealth problems and and seeks to control other people as a way to compensate for the lack of control she has towards herself, I got so fed up of living as if I have to walk on eggshells I rang the landlord and informed him of it, but he was playing devil's advocate, he is concerned only about getting his monthly rent. These type sick individuals are very covert with their actions so it's very hard to get hold of evidence, I've already decided I'm going to move out soon, that's the only solution, thank the universe I have means to make that happen.
SunGodess - 15-Dec-20 @ 8:41 PM
The police won't do anything! They are useless in this case! The only thing they repeatedly ask is" did the person threaten you! That's usually not the way they behave officer, it passive aggressive behavior..smdh. I've resorted to carrying around a loaded gun and led pipe in my comings and goings. ( So out of my character, I am the most quiet, peaceful person one could know...I was).This stalker is the neighbor next door who is female, I am female. She has now resorted to dressing like me and trying to sound like me....I've prayed...I've done just about everything...
Sick and tired of th - 11-Dec-20 @ 9:17 PM
Asked the creep for some privacy.Let’s see if he respects it.
Eric - 2-Dec-20 @ 2:27 AM
This is 2020...still going through the same thing with an old perverted white man...he needs to grow up...leave me aloneand get a life and a wife....tired of his stalking and harassing me 24/7.... maybe Coronavirusgot him delusionalor he's just insane in the membrane! Old bastard needs to move on and move out....this brother don'tneed or want his nasty trash...??
The Realest - 24-Nov-20 @ 11:24 AM
what can I do about my neighbor watching me ? I moved into a new home 10 weeks ago. Yea I did make a little noise in my first 2 weeks. I have a large family and many friends where I have just moved to ( in short I came back to where I grew up - so I know the area and people very well) Yes I have a few visitors to my home but nothing different to my previous home, part from more family members popping in. I have a neighbor on either side and it doesn’t seem to bother the gentleman who lives on the other side of me. However it very apparent it bothers her. I have been told she discusses comings and going’s to my home ( again they could be late at night) with the local shop keeper as well as describing one of my best friends. She has called my landlord and advised them I have people coming to my home at odd times . My landlord even popped to see me 2 weeks back and she made a point of going out and speaking to him after he left my property. I was also overheard part of her conversation with him. She was implying I was possibly doings something illegal from my home. ( which is outrageous). What rights do I have or advice anyone can give
Lyns - 24-Nov-20 @ 6:57 AM
I can relate. The male that lives beneath me stalks and harass me it's on going since 2016. When I take a shower he turns his cold water on and I have to keep adjusting my water to prevent it from getting to hot. When I go into the bathroom he goes into his bathroom and turn his lights off and on. Twice at 4am he was knocking on his bedroom wall mouning. For three years at 3 a.m. he played a recording of a woman screaming he put it in his window and would turn the volume up loud.He finally stopped when the manager confronted him about it. When I was working he would slam his closet doors at 3 in the morning. He's in his late 50's and doesn't work.I was looking for another apartment when I lost my job now I can't afford to move. A few months ago I detected a camera lens in my kitchen wall its coming from the neighbor next door to me her and her boyfriend are spying on me. I found it on my free glint finder app. I've brought all of this to the attention of the manager and owner of the building apparently they can't do much. These kind of people are evil, bored to death and have lost their mind. I pray that the Lord will fight these battles. When I've done all I can do I pray.
Faith - 23-Nov-20 @ 1:21 PM
My neighbors stalk and harass me daily and all during the day and night. They spy on me and see and know everything I do in my home. It's sad and pathetic. They have no jobs and do drugs. Best of luck to everyone, we don't deserve this.
Crissy - 11-Oct-20 @ 5:47 AM
I need advice, please I'm on a very bad path. Leading down that dark tunnel. Now going on strong 2 years. My neighbors watch me 24 7. I hide in my house black out my windows I can't even smoke a cig on my front porch without eyes on me. When I used to hand out at a local coffee shop to use power to charge phone. A neighbor that lives across from me comes in shows one of the staff something on her phone and they was no longer nice t me from here on out.. yes I'm poor I going through divorce I lost my job I don't panhandle or steel and yes I have are out of a dumpster because I didn't collect enough cans for food. But I can't beg or ask for help it destroy me even talking about how I lost everything and I'm imbarrassed to ask for help. So. I hide in my house terrified of life and even people at my grocery store even treat me different.. but neighbor on side of me and 2 across from me watch me non stop. Like right now I went to front porch to smoke guy across street walks to his fence to watch me through the fence. The one on the side of me watching me through his garage side door lights are off.It's getting dark for me. No friends no family no one to talk to.. I'm scared to even leave my house Any advice thank you in advance.. I been through hell and back but this is really taking a mental toll on me
Goat - 7-Oct-20 @ 8:27 AM
Neighborhood is using a nearby app to harrass and stalk mePenn Hills police said theycan't do anything because they take it down when I call for help
Cb - 25-Sep-20 @ 1:22 PM
where did my long story go to... I hope you got my story... it is very important to exposed this story as I forgot to tell you as well that my stalker next door threw a brick at me and the cops did nothing because the cops are criminals towards me and are the friends of the corrupt CPS lady who tells lies and the whole story has been swepted under the carpet. THE CROWN PROSECUTION LADY WHO PROTECTED THE CRIMINAL FAMILY ( 8 people in total did something to me from this family, who should all go to jail) The CPS lady knew all about my stalker but she became to be a witness for me and became to be a defender of the whole situation. The police are very evil people and choose who to stick up for. I HOPE YOU GET THIS STORY- WHICH IS THE SECOND BIT.NEVER TRUST THE POLICE THEY ARE A WASTE OF TIME.JUST RUBBISH, SHEAR RUBBISH. My stalker also used to get very large RAT's 24 inch, very , very , long rats, because I told the cops about him.
intelligent - 22-Sep-20 @ 3:10 AM
Hi Ellie Where Ru from? having thought about talking to this neighbour who is stalking you ? And just explaining how her behaviour is upsetting maybe if she understands that she will stop and maybe she can give her side of the story
Ron - 19-Sep-20 @ 9:40 AM
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