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Problems With Neighbours' Children

By: Sarah Clark (ILEX) - Updated: 14 Jan 2022 | comments*Discuss
 
Child Parent Neighbour Property Noise

You don’t want to be labelled a complainer, but sometimes your neighbours’ children can be more of a nuisance than a blessing. Older neighbours may remember a time when you could pay an unruly child’s parents a visit and you would know that any issues would be swiftly resolved, but these days you have to be extremely wary of what you say and do about children in the neighbourhood.

What to Do About Noisy Children

Whether you appreciate it or not, there’s not much that you can do about excessive noise during the day from children. Kids are exuberant by nature and it would seem a little bit churlish to try to curb normal noise levels, even if the screaming and shouting is getting a bit too much.

If it really is becoming an issue, your only course of action is to ask their parents nicely to have a word with them. If you work shifts or simply need peace and quiet to concentrate while working at home, a quiet word might be the best way forward. Explaining that you need to sleep some afternoons may make the parents try to keep their offspring’s noise down.

Noise is a common complaint – recent research by Noise Concern revealed that 43% of people had been bothered by some form of neighbour noise.

Excessive noise levels were also blamed for forcing about half a million people to move in 2006, just to get away from their annoying and Noisy Neighbours, according the National Society for Clean Air and Environmental Protection (NSCA). At the time, their representative Mary Stevens said that many problems with neighbours were simply a result of being inconsiderate, and could easily be resolved by using a little common sense...

What to Do if Children Damage Your Property

Your first course of action, especially if the damage was clearly accidental, is to make a conciliatory approach to the child’s parents.

As far as the law is concerned, you can technically sue a child for the cost of the damage if they are old enough to understand what they were doing, but this kind of legal action is rare and somewhat frowned upon by the courts. It’s also a fact that not many children have the cash lying around in their piggy bank to pay for the cost of a broken window!

If damage has been done, and an approach to the perpetrator’s parents hasn’t been successful, you can consider suing the parents of the child. This is only appropriate in cases where there has been negligence on behalf of the parent(s) – for example, if they trusted their child with something dangerous like an air gun. They could also be considered liable for the damages if you can prove that they failed to exercise the control expected of a parent, given the child’s age.

“Can I Have my Ball Back?”

It can be irritating but it’s just a fact of neighbourhood life that kids playing ball games will occasionally mislay one into your garden. If children throw or kick a ball into your garden or onto your property, you should hand it back to them, keep hold of it for them to collect from you, or throw it back over if you find it later on.

The children should not trespass onto your property to pick it up, although in practice many probably do. If there is any damage to your garden caused by kids trampling over it, you would be entitled to compensation for any financial damages that were caused.

Still need more information? Read more about ASBOs, parenting contracts, penalty notices and parenting orders in our feature: children and anti-social behaviour.

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My wife and I have been tortured by one child who squeals and screams like he is being murdered. He is 3 and a half years old and his parents are from Nepal who themselves don’t have a clue about social interactions or how to behave as when I did speak to them about their child on numerous occasions, they ended up saying that they’ll call the police on me for mental torture. As surprised as I am by that thought process, I suspect this is not the first time someone has complained about their child. Some people are taking the mickey out of the laws in this country and just to add, I myself am an immigrants child. That was a year ago and since then, I’m ashamed to say that I’ve banged on the wall when it’s unbearable. Now these neighbours seem to think that we are the evil people and won’t even talk to me (mind you, they don’t talk to anyone) We have had a neighbour move out because of this child’s noise. I’ve tried researching solutions by calling the landlord to ask them (as they are tenants and I’m an owner by the way) to control their child. Putting leaflets into their house by giving advise on how to handle children with screaming issues. But their lack of education and willingness to accept help and change is more frustrating. I’m at a loss as we feel that there is no recourse for owners of homes to deal with mental torturous noise, especially from children who are being brought up not to speak English or for that matter communicate and when they scream, the mother always shouts “wha’ do ya wan’?”. We are understanding and I appreciate their background but now all I can think is evil thoughts and I hate that. I feel like calling social services but don’t want to break up a family. I want to call immigration but I don’t know what for except to exert hate in return for what they are doing to me. I hate that this family for making me think like this. It’s been over a year now and I feel like I’m in prison. I hate coming home or staying home. We had 2 months of beautiful bliss when they went back home and now they are back for 2 days and I don’t know how they were let back in. As sad as that sounds, they make me feel this hate and ~ism which I hate feeling. All reason seems to escape when all you want is the mental torture to end. I live in Heathrow and I much prefer the noise of the planes, as sad as that sounds… I’m just frustrated.
NS - 14-Jan-22 @ 11:30 AM
My wife and I have been tortured by one child who squeals and screams like he is being murdered. He is 3 and a half years old and his parents are from Nepal who themselves don’t have a clue about social interactions or how to behave as when I did speak to them about their child on numerous occasions, they ended up saying that they’ll call the police on me for mental torture. As surprised as I am by that thought process, I suspect this is not the first time someone has complained about their child. Some people are taking the mickey out of the laws in this country and just to add, I myself am an immigrants child. That was a year ago and since then, I’m ashamed to say that I’ve banged on the wall when it’s unbearable. Now these neighbours seem to think that we are the evil people and won’t even talk to me (mind you, they don’t talk to anyone) We have had a neighbour move out because of this child’s noise. I’ve tried researching solutions by calling the landlord to ask them (as they are tenants and I’m an owner by the way) to control their child. Putting leaflets into their house by giving advise on how to handle children with screaming issues. But their lack of education and willingness to accept help and change is more frustrating. I’m at a loss as we feel that there is no recourse for owners of homes to deal with mental torturous noise, especially from children who are being brought up not to speak English or for that matter communicate and when they scream, the mother always shouts “wha’ do ya wan’?”. We are understanding and I appreciate their background but now all I can think is evil thoughts and I hate that. I feel like calling social services but don’t want to break up a family. I want to call immigration but I don’t know what for except to exert hate in return for what they are doing to me. I hate that this family for making me think like this. It’s been over a year now and I feel like I’m in prison. I hate coming home or staying home. We had 2 months of beautiful bliss when they went back home and now they are back for 2 days and I don’t know how they were let back in. As sad as that sounds, they make me feel this hate and ~ism which I hate feeling. All reason seems to escape when all you want is the mental torture to end. I live in Heathrow and I much prefer the noise of the planes, as sad as that sounds… I’m just frustrated.
NS - 14-Jan-22 @ 11:10 AM
I have neighbours who overcrowd and that includes with two kids above us that "visit". They don't visit, they live there but they won't admit it for some unknown reason. These kids are not let outside for weeks and when they do it's for no more than an hour. They do the usual, scream, run back and forth for 16 hours a day, jump and they have free reign of the flat above. Now, it's easy to say "Get over it, you can't expect kids to not play blah blah" but there is a deep deep problem that there is no solution for.. the effects on the victims mental health. Not everybody can just up and leave, it's not always so easy. We understand the difficulty of having children.. we do but understanding doesn't make suffering much easier. We moved into our place to start a family.. due to the stress my wife has suffered miscarriages, panic attacks, working from home is severely impacted.. we're both on anti-depressants, we're trapped after purchasing the property and being mislead.. you can't just move out unless you incur tens of thousands in financial losses, we lose out of sleep (different problem but still due to the parents eldest son). It's inhumane. 1 of the 5 illegal interrogation methods is the use of noise to torture and yet this is "standard living".. councils should investigate properties that leak so much noise and install better underlay at the very least!! I'd even pay for it. Especially in their old builds. So for now, me and my wife are trapped, years of our lives will be wasted and years of our lives will most likely be taken away due to the effects. We will keep trying to escape but if you live upstairs and you have a down stairs neighbour who is struggling to cope, don't be stubborn, work with them and do what you can to help. Your kids can play but they don't control the space. Take some responsibility and have some empathy. Talk to your neighbours there might be a very simple and easy solution.. well.. unless they're rude about it then screw em.
Bob - 4-Jan-22 @ 2:47 PM
I've lived in my flat over 10 years and most families in the block have been normal. My problem is the neighbouring couple have a 4/5 year old girl who doesn't sleep at normal times.They play with her with the usual squealing, giggling and loud talking voices but this happens 11pm to 1am. I spoke to them about it, even wrote a note using Google translate (English to Spanish) to make sure the message was understood. I've banged on the wall and they've ignored it and carried on talking / playing with their daughter. I told them I have to get up for work the lack of sleep is annoying and unfair. I'm at a loss what to do other than report to their private landlord or social services, which feels extreme, but this household is not normal.
Ron - 4-Jan-22 @ 12:07 AM
I rent a maisonette studio flat with two parents and their toddler living in the studio flat the other side of the wall. They have been there six months, are Romanian and the father goes out to work all day 6 days a week.The mother stays indoors all day with the toddler, who shouts, runs about, drops things, bangs on the walls, as toddlers do.To an extent I try to understand because kids will be kids, but she is also at the age where they learn what's right and wrong or acceptable in a block of flats with neighbours close by.The mother doesn't work but she very rarely goes out with the toddler until around 5:30pm, meaning that when I'm working from home and even at the weekends I have to endure mostly constant noise.We also have a very old and noisy water system which they seem to run a LOT (both parents), generally stints of 7, 8, 9 times in a row which is also very disruptive because the system is loud and bubbles up loudly in my plughole when they stop, only to start again a minute later.It also reduces the pressure to the water on my side so there's never a 'good' time to have a shower.Daddy gets home from work around 6-7pm and things continue until the child goes to bed at 10pm (despite not being old enough to talk properly) - she does generally sleep through and not wake until 8-9am but the noise throughout the day is difficult.I'm trying to see things from the mother's side as well but I don't know where I stand in terms of what I should be expected to put up with during the day.There should be a certain degree of 'quiet enjoyment' of my place which I'm not really getting.Her English is not good so it's difficult even to talk to her about it.I'm a quiet neighbour and I just want similar in return.Surely I'm not being completely unreasonable?Can I talk to my landlord's agent about this, being that the noise is outside of 'unacceptable hours' and if so, how do I word it?I like my flat and I don't really want to have to move!
WillowTree - 18-Nov-21 @ 10:02 AM
We moved just over a year and a half ago on a house swap, we were in our place for almost 25 years.. Before downsizing (to be considerate to a bigger family who needed more space),we checked, researched and asked loads of questions before moving in to the new property, I don't think we could have researched any more than we did!! The person who swapped clearly told lies, even though we visited the property on several occasions at different times to check noise levels, we were told that the neighbours were very quiet. Well, the 2 others are absolutely fine, BUT, the family next door are driving us insane!!! Whilst we do sympathise at there are too many in the flat for the size of the property, (and it doesn't look like there's any chance of them being moved yet), the level of noise is unacceptable! I have to work from home, which includes recording,the times I've been interrupted with my job because of the noise next door, I've had to redo things again which can sometimes take hours! It's now giving serious anxiety. It's more impact noise rather than airborne, banging, slamming, thuds, jumping, sounds like somebody is running around in heels for hours on end, noise from hangers in their wardrobe, which is sooooooo loud! I have recordings. We have tried to bang on the wall on a couple of occasions when it's been particularly bad, but they just bang back?? We have had to already move bedrooms since moving in, but the noise comes all the way through the property, even into the front room with our door shut!! The parents seem okish, but as we were the last ones to move into the apartments ( in other words everybody else knows each other), we are finding it really difficult to find a way to confront it. We are really easy going, and occasionally have music on, but overall are very considerate neighbours. We just don't know what on earth the parents are doing while the children are making all this noise, surely they must here as well, but seem to say or do nothing to stop them. Two of the children are Junior School age, bordering on senior, and the other two are younger... How earth can we try to confront this in a diplomatic way without having our names dragged through the mud to the rest of the neighbours? We are not confrontation at all, and even know neighbours makes noise next door in our previous property (as we sometimes did too) it was nothing like this, this is not fair, and I'm sure the parents must be aware of the noise, so why do they not tell them to calm down, it's driving us insane on a daily/nightly basis. Help ??
Had Enough - 26-Oct-21 @ 3:25 PM
We lived next door to a council house for 3 half years, we weren't told this when we brought the house, the parents had 4 kids who would run riot, partys, people round during lockdown, footballs banging against the fence, screaming at each other, burning things, it was never there fault when you had a go at them!we couldn't relax in the garden,and when you pulled them up on it, we where the bad ones, so i made there life hell, and would give it back they played the victim, and didn't like it, the only way is to move we did during the house boom, and sold the house making profit, and now we can relax in the garden again and even brought garden furniture, this Summer was awesome!
Legend - 8-Oct-21 @ 7:37 AM
High pitched screaming from little girls irritates the hell out of me and yes I have brought up a child of my own and no, I didn't put up with that. Nor would my own parents have stood for my sister and I screaming all day for no reason whatsoever!! It's not acceptable at all. We had no reason to scream so we didn't amd I don't think our friends would have appreciated it either!
Prof - 2-Oct-21 @ 7:12 PM
I read some ridiculous comment stating “don’t bully kids”! How about you don’t use your kids to bully your neighbours??. We were all once kids and some of us have kids or pets which a loud. But there is a limit to the sort of noise people can take. Yes London houses are not built with sound proof. But people’s space need to be respected why would a neighbours kids leave their own garden and come make noise or trample my garden whilst kicking their ball on my window, knocking on the door.. etc. Unless one is uncivilised and grew up in a sewer, we are supposed to teach our kids to respect other people’s properties, boundaries and space. Some people work and pay taxes that feed your kids. Therefore deserve respect and some peace. If someone can tame their pet not to make noise, how about a human being. There are parks, take them there and play till you drop. These properties are not designed for noise nuisance either. Teach them to disrespect other people’s boundaries, I hope they disrespect yours some day.Never make lame excuses “they’re just kids” for your bad parenting. Children above 5 years of age must be taught to respect others this includes teaching them not to be too loud past a certain time on school days. That they are living a healthy life” what sort of damn excuse is that?? If your kids make noise in your own small area that is very okay, but don’t let them do it in front of people’s doors. It’s that simple!!
NoExcuseForDisrespec - 29-Sep-21 @ 6:42 PM
I see most of the commentators on here have either no children or are lucky enough to have children who are angels! It is easy to blame bad parenting. I myself would be guilty of thinking this before I became a parent myself and realised it is never as straightforward as you think. Children are not robots and are not simply there to listen to commands. Home working? Well do you have have more rights to live the way you want to live then the children who are playing? Mental health issues? Parents can have more stress on their lives especially if they have to deal with children with certain disorders. It is not right to assume you've got it worse then them. I feel the way forward would be to compromise and have understanding and tolerance on both sides. And if one really cannot tolerate the situation anymore, then moving will be the only option.
mavanjay - 15-Sep-21 @ 8:43 PM
Ive been living in my rented home for the last three years & two out of those three years has been a living nightmare, next doors daughter simply cannot be bothered to look after her kids, so she palms them off to the grandma (Next Door to me), I have numerous health problems, & its like living next door to a fully fledged child day care nursery, the banging, screaming, were at out wits end, weve begged the council to move us as its taking a toll on my mental health on top of my physical conditions & its simply not fair on others, they dont give a toss about others, weve tried complaining & its useless, weve literally had enough.
slimjim - 13-Sep-21 @ 9:48 AM
I solved my problem with 4 horrendously (home schooled) noisy kids next door with the use of white noise! Headphones on, the sound of heavy continuous rain on a loop and voila I cannot hear them at all. Wish I’d thought of this last summer during lockdown when it was unbearable. I sat in my garden all day today reading and it was wonderful. Try it, it’s a revelation if your problem is one of noise. I feel so sorry for you when I read some of your stories - it makes my problem seem almost insignificant.
Linda - 7-Sep-21 @ 9:57 PM
What about a ball against the fence - football, tennis ball - even the Dad comes out and plays with the 6 year old. We are talking a small terraced house garden in a city. Not a big garden. We all have minimal space and live on top of one another. When this family, our direct next door neighbours are away - you could hear a pin drop. No one else seems to use their gardens for anything remotely noisy. It’s not just the contact football being kicked, smashing against the fence, being bounced, or actual football matches being played - it’s the family rows. Not just the two youngest children but also the parents get involved and scream at the top of their lungs. One day last summer the Dad said the 5 year old was ruining his life and other days told him to stop being a d***.
Enough - 6-Sep-21 @ 9:55 PM
We recently moved to a new build estate. We have an open (unenclosed) front lawn and drive way. I've planted lots of small bushes around the perimeter of the lawn. One of our neighbours (opposite and to the right of our house) is an absolute thug of a man. He just looks, sounds and is aggressive. You just know when someone's a horrible piece of work. He has 3 young feral kids. I have never encountered 4, 5 or 6 year olds so feral. They are always outside screaming, cycling, leaving their bikes in the road for us to move when we need to get on or off our drive, and most annoyingly, they are cycling over my lawn and in between my fragile bushes, as well as playing on our driveway and ringing our doorbell sporadically. It's extremely annoying. They're in our faces all the time, and I'm waiting for the day that they ruin hundreds of Pounds of vegetation on our lawn. I have no problem with kids playing, but they need to respect neighbours peace and property. I have spoken to the kids once or twice to no avail. Usually, I'd approach a parent, but I just know that no matter how politely I speak to their thuggish dad (he doesn't live with a partner) he'll just respond petulantly and aggressively. Any advice?
Harry - 3-Sep-21 @ 6:34 AM
Kids playing is fine Kids screaming for hours on end right outside my window? They can do one. I’ve taken to playing obscene music at full volume out the window when the kids are out there screaming. Parents now complaining that I shouldn’t subject children to foul language like that well tit for tat Karen control your spawn and I’ll control my music
FxckYourCrotchGoblin - 25-Aug-21 @ 4:44 PM
New people moved in 5 yrs ago, not spoken 1 word to eachother, renovated bungalow. Constant noise for 4 yrs. kids had trampoline up for 3 yrs constantly jumping on and noise levels, screaming shouting. All the kids from all over, came over to play. Same deal with the 10ft high play fort.they have 2 kids 6 and 8 kids, would come round to play, up till late October. No respect no value. Parents never tell the kids to be quiet, they disappear,inside.why do some parents never tell kids off outside. Also constant sleepovers both adults and kid.party’s not telling us there will be lots of cars coming round.
Angry dad - 22-Aug-21 @ 4:13 PM
2 options 1. Ear plugs 2. Get a humidifier that will interrupt external noise Othwerise pls dont bully families trying to lead a healthy life....its a part of children growing up, unless of course there is concern on mistreatement of these children. Ear plugs will do the trick, but I suppose they are not the not comfortable. So take option 1 or 2 and deal with your own problems unless of course we are talking about noise past 11pm I have a similar situtation...for 20 years i listened to my neighbours cats fighting at 5am and didnt complain...now i have neigbours complaining at 9.30pm because a 2 year old cries....so from the other side....no....if you are sensitive to others sound. Nobody has a god given right here to interefere in families trying to lead a healthy and happy life. Most people dont realize flats in London are not retirement homes or detached houses, and flat are not soundproofed for low frequency sounds (deep bass, walls, floors etc) Children are not robots, a city is not a village. You working from home and needing peace and quiet is nothing to do with children playing, those are your needs...and its not first come first serve in terms of who says how it will be. Having children is not illegal, children playing is not illegal...I have lived in a flat where only thin boards separate floors and believe me you could hear every footstep..
Not Reallt - 21-Aug-21 @ 6:59 PM
2 options 1. Ear plugs 2. Get a humidifier that will interrupt external noise Othwerise pls dont bully families trying to lead a healthy life....its a part of children growing up, unless of course there is concern on mistreatement of these children. Ear plugs will do the trick, but I suppose they are not the not comfortable. So take option 1 or 2 and deal with your own problems unless of course we are talking about noise past 11pm I have a similar situtation...for 20 years i listened to my neighbours cats fighting at 5am and didnt complain...now i have neigbours complaining at 9.30pm because a 2 year old cries....so from the other side....no....if you are sensitive to others sound. Nobody has a god given right here to interefere in families trying to lead a healthy and happy life. Most people dont realize flats in London are not retirement homes or detached houses, and flat are not soundproofed for low frequency sounds (deep bass, walls, floors etc) Children are not robots, a city is not a village. You working from home and needing peace and quiet is nothing to do with children playing, those are your needs...and its not first come first serve in terms of who says how it will be. Having children is not illegal, children playing is not illegal...I have lived in a flat where only thin boards separate floors and believe me you could hear every footstep..
Not Reallt - 21-Aug-21 @ 6:58 PM
Parents still do the kids will be kids and allow screaming, shouting, swearing. They seem to forget not 9-5 mon-fri anymore with jobs and even if kids in back garden sound does travel. Message local council over it with noise nusiance, volume of children. Record DBA if can. I'm in same boat. Neighbour kids screaming reaching over 70dba till gone 9pm from 6.40am nightmare
Emmalou - 21-Aug-21 @ 3:51 PM
I just went totalkto my neighbours i cant take this anymore i work night shifts or late evening i need to sleep during the day these kids come over in my garden make noise while im sleeping i cant remember how many time i have asked them to atlist keep it down i went to their parents trying to talk to them they got angry and told me theres nothing they can do its just kids but for christ sake they are in my garden i was not going to bother if they were playing in their own garden making noise there screaming there we had a heated conversation i cant wait to move out of this place its like living in a ghetto he said hes got 6kids he cant do anything about it i go to work pay tax so that people on benefits can sit fart and disturb my sleep working in a mental hospital i need to be very fresh and fit
Pinks - 20-Aug-21 @ 3:29 PM
Ferals or Animal farm when referring to the ones near us. I live on an estate and about last year things started to kick off when 2 families moved in near by. The one closest shouted, screamed and then started to bark back at any dog that barked near by. Then then got their own dog and every day depending on the weather we got the kids barking and screaming. Thankfully they were moved on due to the ongoing problems and complaints from others. The other family are true ferals, with no boundaries, no respect for people or their property, no volume control and they are just encouraging every other kids in the area to join in and make everyone's life a misery. It's 21.33 now and they have only just gone in.Since earlier today it's been non stop screaming and shouting and this is every day. One of the girls about 4 or 5 has this very aggressive, angry shout with a tongue that would put a sailor to shame. I can swear with the best but this one and her friend are pro's and they will call you names or make comments as they pass, even try to stare you down. The brother is a about 7 and a piece of work, will deliberately cycle out in front of cars and terrorizes the local animals.It's gotten to the point now that it's with local community policing but that won't stop the ongoing noise problems. I can only hope if renting they get moved on as soon as evictions are allowed to happen again.
Elle - 19-Aug-21 @ 9:37 PM
My daughter and her partner is going through the same. @Nannie you do have rights.Just because they are children it doesn't mean the laws etc do not apply.You take action against the landlord as they have the responsibility to ensure their tenant doesn't cause a nuisance, and if they are formally informed and they do act appropriately,then they are responsible. @Charlie.No you are wrong. You are responsible for your children's behaviour and actions.Your neighbours would be right to act against you. I believe the problem here is that we are too tolerant of badly behaved children. Excuses are made when parents simply aren't not made accountable for their children's behaviour.I had the same experience as many of you. I took Lambeth Council to Court as well as the nuisance neighbour and the noise and nuisance stopped immediately. Lambeth had failed in their duty but until then, in my estate no one had taken them to task. In my case, that neighbour stopped all nuisance until they left. Those suffering you do have rights and you must exercise them. The more people suffering do, the more the Courts will listen and change can happen
Karen - 14-Aug-21 @ 12:29 PM
OK this is to Charlie who said from the other side I'm assuming your not working from home err hello pandemic I live next to a absolute a hole step dad with 3 kids in a two bedroom house hes a pot head and I am trying to move im self employedunfortunately there screaming brats are making it hard for me to work so just can't move it costs i honestlywant to strangle the kids as they bring every kid on the road up till turned 11 pm they ain't even teenagers the parents are just a holes as for the bloke I hope he ends up in a bad traffic accident hes horrid a pot head with a bad attitude im sick of his weed smell im sick of his kids I absolutely hope he gets covid and dies basically you people with kids think they are so bloody preciousbut they ain't they are little c words those who let the kids play out after dark are the problem guess what im a mum my kids do not do this my kids are quiet they don't mingle with the other kids on here becausethey are aggressive little c words who don't know how to play they do nothing but physically fight they are going to be tomorrow'sdole scum mark my words as for being out after dark hell no dark comes bath time and bed those who don't want to parent and let them scream all fricking day shouldn't be parents cant wait to fricking move
Angry home worker - 13-Aug-21 @ 10:06 PM
Holidays are here.My next door neighbours 4 are out in force with their friends in their two large plastic pools,two slides,large bouncy castle and two football nets plus footballs.We are in a good neighbourhood with a mixture of housing but not rural..quite built up. Their parents have a really nice hot tub where friends gather and its in their garden right underneath my bedroom window. Today mum and friend were sitting in the garden drinking and sun bathing whilst the numerous kids created mayhem. We are quite old…my partner has Parkinson’s and has had a slight stroke.We have never had problems with noise before they moved in four years ago. It’s driving me nuts.I was a teacher for 30 years so understand kids need to let off steam but the utter lack of respect for the neighbours has me dumbfounded!! One neighbour with a young family has had enough and has sold their house…I am ready to go now myself afterliving here for a long time.Can’t stand it any longer.
Netta - 3-Aug-21 @ 8:07 PM
I have been reading the comments and the woman who has been told to let her child scream I feel for you. Of course children have to play but continual screaming is not part of playing, it’s very annoying. I moved to the country from London 6 years ago and all was fine until2 years ago my neighhour started up a B&B,. She has 3 acres of land with a few goats and pigs.She rents out a room and bought 2 yurts, then had an above ground swimming pool put right next to our fence and a trampoline at the front within 15feet of our sitting room.There were plenty of other places she could have out it as she has a massive field the other side of her property but she didn’t want dust going into the pool.They were fairly quiet until they did this, now whenever the 7 year old daughter is in the pool or on the trampoline we have the screaming, not only that they also allow children and dogs, so now we also have children who don’t even live here screaming and dogs barking.What annoys me was that 3 years ago she messaged me to keep my dogs quite when my dogs weren’t even barking. I don’t let them bark unnecessarily. Fortunately the children can only stay in the pool for short time as it’s a salt water pool and is verycold.The thing is this is going in all through the summer.We did hear one parent tell her child not to scream.It sounds like it’s in our garden.So now when the screaming gets to much just put opera loud enough that they can hear and hope they take the hint, it’s not happened yet.I know if I say something she will be miffed.She is running a business and has a duty of care.Neighbours along our road even hear it,I don’t want her to lose her business but why should we have to put up with the screaming when all she has to do is tell them not to.i
Saffron - 3-Aug-21 @ 12:06 AM
We have neighbours who are OK for the most part. Don't really speak to us which is fine, but their kids are constantly screaming outside, particularly during hot days. One kid in particular frequently screeches at the top of her lungs, sometimes multiple times in a row. It's frustrating that I often have to put music on just to not hear the constant screaming. They have also woken me up a couple of times with this high pitched screeching. I have a terrible sleep pattern, so I tend to sleep later than most, but I just feel sorry for anyone who might live nearby, getting home from a night shift, but can't sleep because of them screeching. I can only dread how much noise they'll make over the summer holidays.
Johnjesus - 25-Jul-21 @ 4:02 PM
In my street about 15 kids playing football and hitting cars and ball going on drive way damaging property when you speak to the child or parent all I get is abuse and told kids are allowed to play where they want do the kids are like "we can play where we want you cant tell us " I'm all for kids playing out but not with kids with no respect for other peoples property,I've contacted police and council and they sent letters out asking not to play in road or driveways and to play in there garden or a park but that went in one ear and out the other, this is getting to a point that me and 4 other home owners have complained but feel nothing is happening and kids are getting worse.
Tina - 23-Jul-21 @ 9:28 AM
I have no problem with kids playing, but my neighbours kids literally scream, fight and cry in the garden all day, and the mother just screams at them, so no wonder they don’t know how to communicate! My kids are grown up and I know they made noise, but not like this! It’s now the summer holidays and they are out there all day, every day. I don’t work currently due to health problems and so I have no escape. I often need a nap during the day and get woken up by screaming kids which makes me feel worse.
Emma - 22-Jul-21 @ 12:34 PM
Hey, other side here, One kid extremely noisy, other two can be when they’re having a bit of a wild moment. Kids grow up, remember that, they won’t be small forever and when your kids are old enough to be running around making noise - remember when you thought other kids were annoying, you’ll be annoyed by your own and as much as you love your kids they’re loud and irritating on times! I constantly tell mine to be quiet and try and keep them busy and focused. I take them out on walks during the day and I get them to help me water the plants etc but sometimes they will just be loud. Don’t always assume kids are vile or parents are vile because they’re not quiet every minute of everyday, kids aren’t mean to be seen and not heard, that died ages ago. They’re safe in their garden too, where I live people are inconsiderate… driving like idiots and letting their dogs crap everywhere, I’m protecting mine by keeping them in playing where they are safe & ironically the people who’d complain about the noise are the people with the dogs & drive their cars like absolute bell ends.
Charlie. - 21-Jul-21 @ 11:34 AM
As much as I would hate anyone to suffer too, it is sort of comforting to know that I am not alone. I am sat here fuming about the woman who lives behind, her children have been tearing round the garden screaming their heads off since they got home from school, they are still out there now, they are keeping my 9 month old baby awake, I'm having to have his windows open a bit die to the heat and it is so loud on his room. I don't understand how people can be so selfish and inconsiderate. I think I actually hate her. We bought this house with the intention of it being our forever family home and she and her vile children make living here utter hell.
Emma - 19-Jul-21 @ 7:31 PM
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