What counts as harassment
The law treats harassment as behaviour that causes alarm, distress, or puts someone in fear of violence. A single incident can sometimes warrant action, though harassment typically involves a pattern of repeated behaviour.
The behaviour does not need to be physical. Harassment can take many forms:
- Verbal abuse, threats, or intimidation
- Offensive or threatening gestures
- Following you or watching your home
- Spreading malicious rumours
- Damaging your property or interfering with belongings
- Sending abusive messages, emails, or letters
- Making repeated baseless complaints about you to authorities
- Persistent unwanted contact of any kind
The key factor is whether a reasonable person would consider the behaviour oppressive or unacceptable. A neighbour occasionally playing loud music may be annoying but would not normally count as harassment. If they do it deliberately at antisocial hours after you have asked them to stop, and combine it with other hostile behaviour, the picture changes.
Harassment motivated by race, religion, disability, sexual orientation, or another protected characteristic attracts additional laws, covered separately on this website.
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The Protection from Harassment Act 1997 is the primary legislation in England and Wales. Originally introduced to tackle stalking, it applies equally to neighbour disputes. The Anti-Social Behaviour, Crime and Policing Act 2014 also gives councils powers to issue community protection notices.
Under the 1997 Act, pursuing a course of conduct that amounts to harassment is a criminal offence. The person must know, or ought to know, that their behaviour amounts to harassment: they cannot claim ignorance if their actions would obviously distress a reasonable person.
The Act creates both criminal and civil remedies. Criminal harassment can result in fines or imprisonment. If the harassment involves threats of violence or puts someone in fear of violence on at least two occasions, heavier penalties apply.
On the civil side, you can apply for a harassment injunction to stop the behaviour. This differs from a non-molestation order (domestic abuse situations) or a restraining order (imposed after conviction or acquittal). Breaching an injunction can lead to arrest, prosecution, and imprisonment. You may also claim damages for anxiety and financial losses.
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Gathering evidence
Evidence will be essential for any action. The police, your local council, and the courts will all want records of what has happened.
Keep a detailed diary of incidents: date, time, what happened, and any witnesses. Be specific. Rather than writing "neighbour was abusive again," record exactly what was said or done.
Other useful evidence includes:
- Photographs or video recordings of incidents or damage
- Screenshots of abusive messages or social media posts
- Copies of letters or notes
- Medical records if the harassment has affected your health
- Statements from witnesses
- Records of reports made to the police or council
Be mindful of privacy laws. You can generally record events on your own property or in public spaces, but GDPR applies to identifiable personal data, and recording someone in their home without consent may create legal problems. If unsure, seek advice first.
Taking action and getting support
Where the situation has not escalated to threats and you feel safe, a calm conversation may resolve matters. This approach is not appropriate where there has been violence, threats, or where you feel unsafe.
Report to the police when harassment involves threats, violence, or makes you fear for your safety. They can investigate, issue warnings, and bring charges. Even without prosecution, a record helps with future action.
Your local council may help, particularly if the harasser is a council tenant. Councils can issue warnings, acceptable behaviour contracts, and pursue possession proceedings. If your harasser is a private tenant, contact their landlord: many tenancy agreements prohibit causing nuisance. Housing associations typically have dedicated antisocial behaviour teams.
For serious or persistent harassment, a solicitor can help you apply for an injunction. Legal aid may be available depending on income and case merits: check at www.gov.uk/check-legal-aid.
Mediation can work where both parties engage in good faith, but is unsuitable where there is a power imbalance, violence, or threats. Do not feel pressured into it.
Citizens Advice can provide free guidance on options and complaints processes. If harassment is motivated by a protected characteristic, Victim Support or specialist hate crime reporting centres can assist. Shelter can advise tenants whose landlords ignore complaints. The Law Society website lists solicitors handling harassment cases, some offering free initial consultations. Your GP can document health impacts and refer you to support services.
I am alleging that she is doing a laundry service at home every day including bank holidays and weekends 24/7. It’s an absolute nightmare.
I have made complaints to various professional bodies including the Council against this person to no avail.
Because I have made complaints this neighbour is making my life hell, since Covid.
I retired 5 years ago and it’s hell! The impact has greatly affected my mental health and well-being. I have lost a lot of weight and suffer with lack of sleep. I am anxious all the time and I can’t take it anymore. I am feeling very intimidated by this.
This neighbour is of working age and has never worked since I have been here.
I am desperate. Can you help/advise?
This is a total lie and should be removed. Every single comment here proves that the police and courts are not interested in this "civil matters" as they class them. I so wish this site and others like it would be more honest instead of giving people false hope. If you're in this situation then your only options are to get out or take the highly expensive legal route, which doesn't guarantee a win or your money back. If someone, anyone, is bothered to read these comments, please change your website to reflect the truth and not just what it says on the home office website.
These types of personalities are toxic and ruin peoples enjoyment of their homes. Our only option is to move but then we may find the next one is worse. Catch 22.
Harrassment is basically a form of arrogance and really isn't required, if you don't like your neighbours just don't talk to them, otherwise they will take you down the road of dispair as they try anything to get you in trouble with the police. Don't fall for it.
I got reached on a shop changing rooms cause this block saw me in town this shouldn't be allowed
The other neighbours says the grandaughter is in policeman they want me out of the street
We have experienced actual physical violence - nothing happened. Not even a slap on the wrist for them. Then we were laughed at and mocked by the neighbours.
Our 6 year old son was threatened on multiple occasions, “going to slaughter you” - nothing happened. When confronted we were laughed at and mocked.
When our son was 9 he was verbally abused when he was stood at his bedroom window - disgusting vile language which left him crying in the corner of his bedroom. When I confronted the neighbours I was laughed at and mocked.
They have threatened us many many times, saying they are getting solicitors, that they are getting us evicted (all recorded on video) made numerous complaints to our landlord in an attempt to get us evicted - nothing happened to them.
Recorded videos of the man coming out of his house and randomly swearing at my sons bedroom window which unfortunately overlooks jobs garden.
He throws dog faeces and rubbish over his fence into our garden. Shouts, swears and threatens us if we go out into the garden and has CCTV recording our garden and house 24 hours a day. So when we go out of the e house he knows and can abuse further.
I was once taken away in an ambulance due to them threatening and abusing us - their abuse was recorded on the 999 call. Still nothing was done.
Have provided police and the council with evidence in recordings and reports spanning back to 2016 - guess what? Nothing has ever been done to stop it.
The last time I contacted the police wa son October 2023 and I have heard nothing since but the neighbour still continues to insult and abuse and harass my son on a daily basis and I am absolutely sick of it.
I have come to the conclusion that the institutions that exist to protect you from monsters is all a lie, a fabrication to make it look as though you ar protected but when the time comes and you need help they are nowhere to be seen.
New year 2024, everything my neighbour has done to me and my family - my son in particular will be done back - that is the only way we will ever get justice.. to stoop to their level.
Articles like this are a complete lie. Police do absolutely nothing to help.
(Yes I said it) to the just as uselss council and my landlord to try to get my ASB (Antisocial behaviour) query taken seriously, but from everyside, nobody wants to take responsibility at all. So pathetic. I don't want to turn into a vigilante, but I understand why people take matters into their own hands. However, I get the feeling that I'm slowly turning into a vigilante, considering no one else has my back now. I think because these twatty neighbours know and suspect that no one currently believes anything I say, they are getting off on the harassment and trying to control my every move, and at the same time trying to disguise their stupid sub-human behaviour. All they do is try to compete, mimick and mock everything I do around my flat because they assume that going from nasty-malicious (who they are) to nice (who I'am) within a space of an hour, that they would seem like they are nice. No offence, but thats like putting sugar on chips instead of the traditional salt, they just don't mix, so why try to disguise the taste. Anyway, all I feel is rage, and want revenge on these skanky neighbours who know damn well that I live in my flat and therefore I can do what I want in it and they can't stand it, and way before they slithered in, but seem to think that they have a claim over it. In truth, with these trashy neighbours its a stupid power struggle, power play, jealousy, and insecurity. The top 4 currently, in my opinion.
I am the owner, business occupier and proprietor of a commercial property which operates as a business, in the running of a law firm. I also have part of the property let out to other businesses, one of which operates as a school with young children
I have owned the property for a number of years and I have taken up a number of serious issue of concerns with my neighbours about the useage of my back garden area and the access area that is properly marked on the title deeds as an entitled useage for both my property and my neighbours, for which I have not had the privilege of much formal use of for my entitled access for many years, due to the operations by the neighbouring property and their visitors/tenants. The neighbours who have practically taken over the area, with false promises and assurances to me that the position would be improved following the renovations that they were conducting to install electric shutters that are probably about 10 foot tall, to enable them to have secured access and privacy to their property.
They made regular assurances that the access position would be restored, however, these assurances have been false
They fail to recognise that we both have an entitled access to the area and that is clearly titled in the deeds as an access area for both properties but yet they have continuously denied me the position of access, with false promises that the position was subject to a temporary renovation with the renovation being moved back.
Boundaries and Title Deeds identifying the Access Area
I have evidence in the title deeds identifying the access area and my entitlement to this access area, which has been overtaken by the neighbours, in relation to the issues that I have referred to below
Planning or Business buildings Control
I am unaware of whether the installation of the electrical shutters confirm with any planning application and whether this was constructed with the advice of planning control or with appropriate planning applications. I, however, was not served with anything to suggest that they did and I don’t know if these were required or not
The garage, which can be seen from the photographs as the brick building, is built on the access land. This is not land that is owned by the landlord who commissions rent. I was assured that this garage was being moved back to the garden area of their property, which they do own and some provisions relating to the railway in which they were going to have access for the customers from this but the garage has stayed situ. The customers of the garage during the day, are parked all over the access area. This increases the number of vehicles in this small area, exposing the further risk of injury/harm to anyone within the vicinity
Wrongful and Misrepresenting the Holding out on Land as owners and claiming remuneration illegally
The land is not open for usage for the oc
The children are children who suffer with substance abuse & other mental health issues. They are clearly high level needs. There are usually over 10 people in the house with the 24/7 carers who are themselves the cause of a lot of noise throughout the day and night
The children dont permit us to sleep or enjoy any peace and quiet
The owner has conducted in a course of dismissive behaviour with a contary approach to report us to the police when we have raised our concerns
The business is now, after two enforcement notices being served, seeking to appeal against the local authority on the basis that they dont require any legal planning permission, but applying instead for a lawful development licence that has failed
The applications made are contradictory both to the numbers of hte occupants with obvious lies to cover up the overcroweded usage of the property which adds to the burden of hte noise, let alone the question of why we are having to endure this level of frustration
We wish for any direction possible to include how to make a claim for harrassment for our 2.5 years of suffering and anything else that you can assist with
I’m now in my 50’s,to only have a local lady tell me her taxes pay for my lifestyle (the quality of my life is poor at best) yet she’s round helping the village drunk man of the village phone around to get him help! Then had the cheek to tell me to take calls for him(the village drunken man) that drinks his money within 4-5 days then goes knocking other people’s doors asking for more money for electricity! (It’s certainly not for electricity,again I’ve witnessed this firsthand)
This lady has only recently started to work,all be it part time!
Why should I have to explain where and what I done for my tax credits!
The reason why I get what money I do is because I’ve worked hard most my life and, the nature of the accident I had whilst driving home from work.
Not that I should have to explain to this lady that I’ve only ever been good to and helpful,to be spoken to like that!!!
If I told my daughters there would be hell over it,but I’ve kept quiet about it as I don’t want to upset them as much as it’s upset me,she knows nothing of my situation in life and I worked 2 jobs when my children were younger just to provide for them. It wasn’t easy but I’d change nothing,after all that is what ones supposed to do,being a father,is it not?
The lady in question is known as the village gossip but,until now I’ve not witnessed her behaviour, I’m told by her to take calls for him (the village drunk)as he needed more money to get tobacco…(and more drink obviously )you really couldn’t make this up!
The next time this happens the lady in question will be getting a solicitor’s letter!
Hope you’re all having a great day,or at least better than what I went through yesterday…
It’s easy to say ignore it but,I just hope my daughters don’t get wind of it,they certainly would tell her to keep her nose to herself and outa other people’s business.
All because she has had to go to work! As there was nothing wrong with her she should’ve been working for longer than 6 months.
I am absolutely furious with her actions and,I’m certainly no secretary for the village drunk.
The cheek of it…
I was not at home this weekend. My son popped out to the shops briefly on Saturday, 2 minutes later my disabled neighbour was nimbly zipping up to my front door (no walking stick/no walking frame ) and putting said letter though my front door. (Now you tell me that they aren't continually watching my house with their illegal cctv?). Whenever they do something it is always when I am away, and always causes maximum impact on my son's mental health, when I got home he was distressed and in fact hadn't gone out to a planned event with the Pearl Exchange on Saturday night. So their actions are impacting on his mental health, and I have to say, it is not doing much for mine, especially when I have arrived home tired, from a weekend of emotional highs and lows:
A friends final goodbye, honouring another friend that went too soon, getting home to find a third has passed, fabulous weekend, laughing with friends, supporting each other through the rough bits, to get this letter telling me that I cannot attach a flimsy nylon screen to an existing fence post, that has been there since I moved in over 20 years ago, and definitely since long before they moved in, in order to prevent them being able to see directly into my garden through the gaps that they have in their fence panel - apparently it is 'criminal damage' !
They have also gone into one, about 'my property' being blown into their garden and causing damage.......errrr a garden store lid, being ripped off in the storms is actually beyond my control, think insurers call it 'an act of god', so even I can't organise that, I'm not so powerful that I have control of the weather! That particular time they sent video footage to my housing officer, he duly rang me, and I asked if they had also sent footage of me outside in the wee small hours, making everything safe again (I heard the thing go - so dashed down immediately to make sure that nothing had been damaged and to bring the loose bits in so that they did not continue to be blown around). Also last week, my garden brolly took off Mary Poppins stylee when the wind whipped up, I duly fetched it from the alley at the side of the house, it was NOT in their garden at all, and packed it away for a calmer day!
All this petty complaining began after they blocked my access with their bins and 20 bags of garden waste way back when, so I asked the housing chappy to request they clear it, as for starters the rubbish was beginning to rot, never mind the fact they I could not get in and out. Which they did, some 6 weeks later, and placed some of it on my front lawn, they then began playing garden rubbish jenga outside my front door, and so it goes on......bored with it all now, but when it is impacting on my son this badly it has to be stopped!
Hence my need of advice - September 2021 was when I complained, having, for several years, put
Everyone round here has had them at times as we live next to a field and a churchyard .
Well this year the neighbour opposite has decided to start this war and got other neighbours to call the Council . This horrible woman rang me the other day and told me to get rid of my friend and his car and that I ought to go in to a home . My friend thinks they want my large bungalow as they are now quite old themselves, I feel like I am going to have a breakdown , its all too much and there is no help out there .
Yesterday another old harridan walked past as I was trimming my hedge and said you need a proper cut now. It was cut in October and looks fine after I gave it a little trim . I told her the birds could still be nesting if their first nests failed . She said that is not possible. I said how do you know ? She said I KNOW . Then she said the hedge comes out too far . But there is plenty of room here. These people are really stupid as well as aggressive. They move to the country and then want to make it like the town .
Yesterday another woman who lives further up my road was saying goodbye to a friend who was parked outside my house . She then attacked me verbally while I was trimmimg my hedge , saying "that hedge needs cutting properly now." I was shocked and told her ; yes it would be done later on in the years as birds may still be nesting.. She said oh no they are not I KNOW . I said I belong to the wildlife Trust and they can be . as if the nest fails they often build one later . A very ignorant aggressive woman I have to say. There are many of these now who are divorced , moving here from London. They are loud aggressive and want everything straightened up with no feeling for wildlife or anything else. They have plastic grass and poison everything . They move to the country and want to make it like the town.
reputation, spreading false statements) threatened to get me done over(get me beaten up) picking on me because I'm unemployed(due to sickness) more degrading humiliation, calling me a prostitute too. His family were telling him to leave me alone and in the end a family member grabbed him and his son by the scruf and pushed them back in his house. They have had the nerve to ring my landlord and make up lies that I have men back n forth to my house and that I'm a prostitute. I couldn't believe it, I have a few great gentlemen as friends and I only see 1 very regularly and some say once in a blue moon. I explained that he had come over to me, she said any more problems give them a call. He is a vile bully. 2yrs ago he wanted my dog to fight his dogs, I couldn't believe that either! Yet they think they do nothing wrong! I've never ever threatened them. I don't care what they think of me but when it's put out in the public all the degrading nasty and slandering my character the way they do is awful, I feel so low and don't want to see them or feel safe anymore as they have group chats on me and are known to even try and get local councillors to be in their group chat. They must be spying on me actually. They
All I know is the bunny boiler had a miscarriage, and hates anyone with children.I want to move or die. Preferably in that order.
The police have been to speak to them 3 times. And they still do t listen. Other neighbours have spoken to them aswell. About their behaviour towards me.
They make vile comments about me. They come outside to watch me put my bins in or out. They stand and watch me clean my car and as for gardening my front well they have a field day.
When I walk past their house they stand and watch completely oblivious if other people see them, it’s intimidating stare normally with an unpleasant comment.
They verbally threaten me and are verbally abusive towards me.
They talk to their dog about me. (Yes I am not kidding about that. They make the comments so loud so they know I can hear.
They stand at their gate and gossip about me and it’s horrible comments.
I have about given up as the police don’t take it seriously.
I never reply to their comments just hold my head up and ignore them. But it’s ridiculous every single day without fail.
They just don’t believe they are doing anything wrong
It was like a red rag to a bull,the parties
Started,,Starting at 5-30pm and finishing around 2am,setting off smoke alarms,Banging doors,Cursing,Swearing,Intimidation,Threats
Against my person Damaging my wife's car.
Waking ingredients me from sleep,at 2am,3am,Banging my doors at these times.
Their so was at my door twice wanting me to fight with him.My wife phoned the Police,and he ran away and hid.
In 2011 the husband and son were both banned from fishingat our local Fishery.Then
on 29th May 2011,The father leaned over our 4ft hedge,while my wife,( Who was in early onset Dementia, was hanging out washing,when the husband started cursing a dog swearing,threatening her so badly that she soiled herself with fright.Two weeks later he,his son,and his pal turned up at our local loch to try and force me to sell them permits,
As they were already banned.They started to
Curse and swear at me,and picturing my wife
I hit him,subsequently I was arrested,but there was no blood when he left me,but,when he arrived at the police station. Blood was pouring from his nose.
The Committee Banned him for life for being there while on a ban,and for his threatening behaviour towards the duty Bailiff ( ME ).
I took advice from Police,who told me to TAKE NOTES OF THEIR BEHAVIOUR,.
I have done so,and am scared to send them into the council,as my windows will be broken and my koi pond poisoned.
I had to put my wife into care in 2017,to get her away from them,as everytime she heard their voices she started crying.
Since then they've been shouting and swearing at me when I'm in my garden.
I do not know what to do.Shortly before she passed away,my wife asked me to promise not to sell our house,and loving her the way I did,and still do,I promised her I wouldn't..
I have Epilepsy,and my neighbours know that if they put enough stress on me I'll have a fit.
I need this house for when my family come to stay with me ,or visit for week ends.
Anyway it took 5 years to sue the university and during the 5 years the tried very hard to get rid of me, by making my life hell. After winning the case I went back to work at the university and adapted to do my job, but the 5 years of harassment and bullying went on for another 5 years but they took it outside and where I lived as well, and another 5 years until I move jobs. Unfortunately since I started my new job I have been attacked twice, and my new electric bike has been vandalised 3 times. I don't know who I can trust or talk to...
They are like sheep all following each other in whatever they do.There is a leader who is aged 75! But it seems whatever her opinions are the rest follow. I have lived here for 6 years and for the last 10 months I have been outcasted and it’s great as they are not my flavour of people and little do they know I’m very happy about the situation as my lifestyle is very peaceful now I don’t have to use up any energy or make any effort towards my neighbours!they always have to be bullying someone on the scheme if it’s not me it’s someone else.
I actually don’t think about them at all as they all seem to be behind their front doors festering in their own bitterness.
So for me it’s a bonus to have neighbours that don’t like you!??????
A month after I moved in my neighbor in the house next door started in on me! First he made up a song about me,it wasnt nice!
Him & his friends killed the grandmother, not really I found out later, I overheard them & thought I was next! Then his friends started in waking me up at all hours! Lots of singing.... a satanic meeting, peeping at me when I had my backdoor open. Now hes started making this noise & of course I'm the only one who admits to hearing it then he starts & I dont know how but he shakes my house, maybe heavy machinery I'm not sure but it is annoying! Now I'm having nightmares about him in my house! Dear God will it ever end??? This guy has no conscious he doesnt care about anyone! U cant go to the police they dont do anything!!!!! Help!!!!
On 19th November I had been chatting to a guy on a dating site and we met and we agreed to meet and started dating. During an evening I was staying his neighbours started being noisy. I couldn't take it so got my things to go home. A few days later I went to his and he had his boss round and it came out this is the woman who stopped us partying in the shed at her old place. I had been deliberately targeted. Since then it turns out he never left his wife and I was deliberately targeted. Question is what can I do about it. They found me and located my new home and everything. What do I do to feel safe in my own area?
This lady has a dedicated handicapped parking assigned to her apartment number but acts like a policewoman for parking all around. today I had a lot of supermarket bags that needed to be unloaded so I momentarily parked my car in a parking slot that belonged to another resident with whom I share a cordial relationship, I know that this resident would not be home from work until 7 pm, so I used the time frame to unload the stuff from my car and later moved the car to a legitimate non-handicap slot immediately.
While I was walking back to my apartment, this arrogant woman came into her balcony and began hurling abuses at me calling me a Fuc@ing A$$hole etc.
I resorted back to saying don't call me names or I can reciprocate the same back to you. This sort of mental harassment has been going on for a while. I have also noticed that when her relatives or other Arabic folks park / double park she won't dare tell them anything, but she won't think twice about creating a ruckus for other residents.
After speaking with the other neighbors, I learned that this woman has been the reason for many tenants to leave and vacate their apartments because of her constant harassment. People have also come out reporting that she has damaged their cars by keying them.
I dont know how to deal with this situation.
States in tenancy agrement that dogs normally not allowed in upstairs flats unless have own exit not communal can hear dogs barking at every noise made especially when doors are opened closed.
Need advise.
provide support to show others you’re not alone.. Education of what a community is, is forced on those that don’t know don’t what it is or never experienced it. Help with security of wifi, doors, etc all from the one stop shop. You wont be alone. Security escorts until it’s resolved perhaps . Eight years. There’s not been a door lock that they’ve not managed to unlock. 5 phones, two laptops, car. Taking what they want from the house whilst neighbours watch. Things are going to get much worse with all the economic crisis they are creating around the world. community and unity and safety . A home, a safe harmonious place to live; we should all have a right to that.
Again law enforcement doesn't do a thing, and it's all men.... I'm a legally blind female... I guess that makes them feel tough. When I called cops about the doll, the sheriff didn't bother coming, he to ok report over phone. I don't feel safe and there is absolutely nothing I can do about it. Gotta love Sahaurita Arizona sheriff's.
Please prove me wrong and post the positive outcome story's that might give others hope
There is absolutely no need to destroy and persist in doing so, in playing repulsive music and pounding music constantly.
We greeted them nicely, however the husband didn't want to engage with us when chatting to him and his wife.
Not long after they were singing through a karaoke machine. My husband went round and politely advised that due to their home being open plan, we can hear everything! This didn't stop them and it continued most evenings. We had to contact our local Environmental team.
Over the past 4 years we have had to put up with loud music, screaming and shouting from him, hammering, banging and drilling!
We have had Environmental team in twice and the Police!
I have lost my temper with him a few times as my husband and I work long shifts and never feel to get any rest from THIS MAN!
He appears to be hell bent on winding us up. We are both at our wits end with him.
You need proof and the only proof is with a security camera but then you are accused of spying on them. Slanderous allegations are made while they are in the garden and only we can hear them clearly. We were told by police that recording slanderous comments and the loud music is not admissable,therefore, what is the point? Recording their actions, throwing rubbish into our garden etc is not allowed either.
So, where do we get proof ?Because proof is needed but you are not allowed to provide it
Catch 22 and beyond ludicrous.
It's like living in the twilight zone
Housing Association and police couldn't care less We are expected to ignore nasty neighbours behaviour while they just carry on. Makes you wonder why tenants have to sign housing contracts and are required to be of good behaviour, not causing a nuisance etc when it's just words on paper and totally meaningless because it is not enforced. I'd bet if we refused to pay rent they'd be interested soon enough but it would not help us.
The awful situation has affected our health and, as we are not getting any support from the powers that be, we are planning to leave not just our home but Britain.We have tried to exchange for 10 years but the only people interested came from even worse situations .Britain has turned into a fudging sugar show were the vilest people are protected while decent hard working people are shafted and it will only get worse. There was a time when HA tenants had to be of good character but now any low life is welcomed with open arms.
How many people will commit suicide because of such appalling situations? Who cares? Certainly not the police,nor local authorities nor HA or any of the politicians who will come knocking on the door to get your vote.
"People who are anti- social need a home too" was the response from one SNP councillor. She seemed put out that we dared to even raise the issue .. enough said
You are on your own and if you are unable to leave you are expected to endure the torment
Enough said
Police believed this lie as the landlord didn't need and evidence of this assumption. Yet we need to supply evidence.
I have a satement from a buikder i had do work he dud me a statement the police do nothing
They told them to not come near me after threats and came back and said im.doing the saMe no proof i have evidence thats ignored thats what hapoens its a parking isdue its not he told me i dont know what hes capable of 35 year old bloke im 61 more need to be done we shouldnt be prisoneers in our home
I work, own my own home, nice holidays.
Totally unjust and no need as never spoke with her.
She then got a little gang so I sent a letter to them telling them what they were all doing to me and to stop.
They then saw the letters as a reason to call me mental, crazy, prostitute, whenever I went to my car abusing me.
Screaming at my door accusing me of letting car tyres down, when I had my grandson all weekend, plus no idea where she works.
Another came screaming smashing doors in accusing me of parking in her fathers disabled bay she holds a permit for. My car was hid from them plus my car has its own private reg so defo not me.
Telling me to commit suicide.
I am at breaking point.
Council are useless saying no one will get moved,
Tell you to write it down then say its hearsay no evidence.
You record it and your breaking the law not allowed to use it.
I attempted suicide last year through this as I just want to go to work, enjoy my walks with my dogs and go to my caravan.
I am prevented from doing this my state of mind not sleeping and do not know what to do. Cannot afford solicitiors no support although I am having counselling, mental health worker .
I want a injunction against these but cannot seem to get any where without paying.
They have said they will run me off the road, its my own home, they rent or are council tenants.
So unfair no wonder people take things into their own hands.
If you ring up and mention Racism the Police jump like anything.
One neighbour in particular has caused us distress, alarm and fear. Approaching us each time when we go outside to cut hedges, cleaning our driveway, by standing, glaring and making remarks and also relaying in megaphone mode all of our actions to someone on her phone.
Then making false claims that our gardening tools blocked the path, almost tripped her up, causing her to walk on the cycle path and nearly getting hit by a bicycle.
In reality, there was ample space to pass and she came very close to me, almost knocking me over whilst making a racial slur.
There have been several other incidents all reported to the police. However, unless the offender is a motorist, exceeding the speed limit, the police are either going on leave, or they will advise, to gather information so that when the offender harms you, or murders you, then the proverbial 'lessons will be learnt,' will be meaninglessly regurgitated like sick vomit.
Very little is done proactively, no warnings are given to offenders, that takes time and effort which the police don't have since they are stretched being reactive.
website here is what he wroteIf I send him a letter thru the post office, You can not open it and throw it away! That is a felony.
Now get this When I send a letter to him or call him is up to me! I can do it today or next month if I want to. The fact that you will not know when I decide to do it, is the best part. I saw your threat on you other crappy story that because I haven't come and left a letter or called so you are still here.
Get this I won't just state That you are here but I have been coping all of your stories and replies. I will make sure I will give them to him and there is nothing you can do about that boy!
As I said I will send him a letter thru the post office and there is nothing you can do. I will send it certified so he is the only one who can sign for it! It will contain everything you said including what you said about your sister!
Get off this site and I will leave you alone get thatYou are an ass! I will send it certified with his signature required! What are you going to do rip it out of his hand? It will have no return address on it!
I'm going to say this one more time.
If you get off this site and don't come back I will leave you alone!
I promise that.
If you are here tomorrow then all bets are off and one day I will call him or send a certified letter to him and that will be that. If I choose I will call him and send letters every day till I feel like stopping or he changes his phone number which I will find the new one.You are an idiot. He will be the only one who can sign for it. It will be delivered only when he is home even at night or weekends! They delivery person will not be able to give it to anyone else. In fact he will have to show his ID to sign for it.
Quit pushing your luck and get off this site! Before I call him and tell him I will be sending the letter at the same time. I can also email him everything also.
Just get off this site and that will be it! I'm 45 years old not an old man. Just get off this site. That should be a deal you can't refuseI have his number and you know that! I have his email and you know that. I want to remain anonymous in this but if I have to walk up to him and tell him what you are doing I will. Plus the delivery man comes to you house and only your stepdad can sign it. If he has to go to the post office to get it he will.
JUST GET OFF THIS SITE AND THAT WILL BE IT! is that bad because i don't want him to do that i
have emailed the cops and i hope they will put a stop to it and he won't give me his name
She has an injuction in place and has breached this several times. Authorities say they need more evidence. We own our property and she is with Housing Association.
This woman is vile and plays on her mental health issues.
My partner and I can't afford to move and we are about to have a serious mental breakdown. We are both on anti depressants and have extreme anxiety. Nobody seems to understand.
Can't prove any of it either. Virgo I mean vera
Lost job BT worked there 7 yrs
Framed for a crime hadn't done
Followed me to supermarket a few times.
His wife then walked their dog near my house
Early one morning wasxwoken up too early.
He was Shouting for hours on end to leave his home
Then Late on during weekdays
Sounded like domestic argument
His wife was taken away by police
As soon as she got back it started up again
Saw him walking up my garden path when he knocked on my door
Swore at me to began with F then off. Horrible man
I don't live at my flat much anymore, pay the rent but can't live there, council won't help at all, my whole life has been ruined by these low life scumbags!
He constantly is at his window looking at my daughter everytime she leaves the house to the point she doesnt want to leave the house.
He also watching me and my partner entering and exiting house.
He homeschools his children who are teens and share a bedroom.
Children have no freinds and only go out with the farther.
The mother works away.
The parents are discusting at night time with bedroom noises that my daughter hears regularly. My daughters 10.
Ive no idea how their two own children sleep through it its awful.
Im yet still waiting for a housing officer to ring.
I dont know where to start with them?
He control everything with a heart beat
Knowing this my neighbours seem to be harassing me with threats to cause me harm, onley yesterday we overheard an agressive loud done call about, "I onley want you to stab him" agen another call. " i dnot care I will poor petrol all round his house" .
I am extremely ill at the moment due to solvent poisoning and I require daily oxygen therapy and weekly cellular regeneration therapy due to a depleted immune system. We now are waiting for the next load of people to start threatening my family and I, words like we can take the disabled one and can you help me with the others are making it very hard to heal. Please can you advise please as I hardly have breath to walk, let alone defend my wife and family.
Thankfully J.
It started when they reported my dogs for barking
To environmental health they where told to keep a diary of all dog barking incidents and it turned out it wasn’t our dogs as when questioned about some dates and times by the officer I had been home with my dogs and they are always very well behaved but there’s no apology from anyone you just get told you’re not being investigated anymore.
I am a field engineer working from home so when I need parts for a next day job I have them shipped overnight by specialist courier who has a key to my vehicle he very quietly arrives delivering my order and leaves no one hears them
Not even the dogs but on 2 occasions recently they come while that neighbour is awake and he has tried reporting me for that
I have spoken to my other neighbours and they don’t hear my dogs and they didn’t even realise I had been having these deliveries for the past 2 year
I’m finding it all a bit stressful I don’t want to confront him because I will look like the aggressor
I feel quite low and am quite tired of it
It’s like they have it in for us and I really don’t know what to do
They have systematically made our life very stressful because of actions taken by them regarding our property.
In 2006 the local authority suspected there may be contaminated land surrounding our house.
We were not informed at the time, but found out in 2017. Which is stressful enough in its own right but has been exacerbated by their refusal to provide information relating to the designation, deliberate obfuscation of requested information which has turned out to be inaccurate.
On top of this they have permitted planning permission for two applications one new build and one extension which abut our property almost on the boundary.
We do not understand why they have done this. Not only is it upsetting because the new buildings will be so close to our house, but as they suspect contamination at our property and garden why are they granting permission in the first place. They state that actions can be taken with new buildings to mitigate the ingress of landfill gas which they say is being generated in our garden and migrating from our garden. That may well be the case, however in 2006 we were building an extension to our house which was built in the area of the garden affected by the potential contamination. The local authority never once said anything about any suspected contamination.
As a result our extension does not have any built in barriers/membranes to prevent the ingress of landfill gas. We feel as it the local authority is persecuting us (probably not, probably just incompetence) but we feel very let down and that our health and wellbeing has been completely disregarded. My wife in particular has been sick with worry as the children and their friends played out in the garden for many years and she shudders to think what contamination they may have been subjected to.
And they weren't. I need this to stop .how to i dont know im at the end of my tether .the girls do not want to go out and play pls help me
but sadly it was just the beginning. I find silly things on my patio like small ball-bearings and a large fat ball that you use to feed birds was thrown hitting my window leaving a mark where it hit .on top of this he leaves the curtain corner open ,and I now believe that he has turned the heads of two other houses who do the same thing with there upstairs curtains, this is sticking and hurtful I feel as if I am being watched when I go into my garden I feel so uncomfortable when I am there .I feel as if I am being accused of looking all I believe started by by this neighbour who was not brave enough to confront me so hurtful
Couple of months ago I thought outside her neighbour's house this is the only time I've ever done this. It's not a driveway or anything it's just a normal road so you can park that legally but she took issue with me parking there. She came out raving and ranting at me and threatens that she would make trouble for me if I didn't move my car I refused, and she heard my dog bark and said she will call environmental health on me and report my dog for Barking. My dog was only Barking because she was outside having a go at me. I did call the environmental health the next day and ask them what to do because she had threatened me and they told me not to worry they wouldn't take it seriously. 6 weeks later I got a letter threatening my mother with a £5,000 fine and an ASBO because my barking dogs outside until 11 p.m. 24-hours a day 7-days a week making noise disturbing my mother's neighbour when she's eating her dinner and sitting in her garden. This is all made up rubbish my dogs are only ever at my mother's house with me for a few hours in the early evening and then they go back to my own house with me. I don't ever leave them out in the garden. I like to have them with me they go out to the toilet or occasionally to play ball with me apart from that there indoors and they rarely bark unless someone knocks at the door or walk down the alleyway. So now I have this threatening letter addressed to my mother and her husband won't allow me to go back to her house even though my mother loves the dogs even her husband loves the dogs. I already called the council and spoke to the animal warden who was really rude I mean really rude and just told me I shouldn't visit my mother's house when I explained that I'm autistic and my mother's my carer ,she's just say while you're old enough not to have a carer. She also said that my dogs must be badly treated which just isn't true I do everything I can for my dogs they get 5 walks a day I spend all my money feeding them and on their vet care. Actually felt suicidal over this I've been self harming. I've called my doctor. I' call my psychiatrist too and I called the police and I called a solicitor because I want this case dropped.
it's a load of old rubbish .there's no truth in it.
The environmental health did say they would not pursue the case against me however the dog warden refuses to drop the case she said she will leave it on file in case there are any more complaints. I cannot have this hanging over my head apparently this evil neighbour has been writing
The Police Protect The Council And The Perpatrators.Once Again Suicide Looks Preferable To These Criminals Abuse.
My question is number one can I Sue this neighbour for recording my property for no reason number to withholding evidence from the police and lying I mean this isn't a joke my house was deliberately set on fire we all can assume and point a finger but I have no evidence and the only evidence is from the recordings from His CCTV now I'm never going to get that recording and for me question whywouldn't you want to hand over footage of someone starting a fire in your house with children inside
everyone knows that this neighbour never ever switches off his CCTV so on that particular day and time he had it switched off ok ok let's say he did did why did he have it switched off now let's say he has a recording why wouldn't you want to hand it over to the police knowing that children could have died in the fire??!
I'm also very shocked how the police did not demand the footage there and then they came back 4 days after saying they have no right to get the footage the fact he said it was off off that day we cannot evaluate the situation.
Anyway can anyone suggest what can I do show so this neighbour from hell that he can't have his CCTV pointing at my property and he cannot do what he wants how do I take him to court what proof would I need to say he has been recording me for over a year I have reported this a few times previously but nothing was ever done
All my neighbours and myself are furious at the fact that we believe he was withholding criminal evidence and the lack of the investigation the police took no responsibility or intention whatsoever in questioning my neighbour about the CCTV footage of the criminal offence
he is a very aggressive person and was told how very angry he was that I reported him to the council although I have approached him numerous of times politely asked him to remove the CCTV he sworn in my face and slam the door reported me to police for harassment the day a few neighbours noticed out of the ordinary actions
His roommate who was the first person to come out in the street shouting firethe neighbour told me they saw him smiling from his
This has been going on since October 2020 and although I have reported it to the police and to the council - nothing is done to stop what they are doing.
Your police take complaints of harassment seriously?
Ours dont! I've complained for years about the
incorrigible behaviour of my neighbors.
Trespassing. Parking on my lawn. Throwing
trash on my property. Throwing rocks, snowballs and launching golf balls at my cars.
I even got photographs. Police refused to even
look at the evidence.
Here you have to have police in family or personal
friend before any concern will be taken.
Or they'll wait until there is an assault or worse.
The neighbors kids and many outside family
members and friends get a perverse joy from
harassing an old man alone.
It's so sad I must endure this my last year's of my
life.
I'm afraid to go outside.
To Team.
This was taken from CVT's website:
Torture is used to control communities and families.
When one person is taken and tortured, the family learns immediately to be afraid, to be silent. When a second person is tortured, the community quickly gets the message: you must do whatever the perpetrators want. Torture takes control swiftly. Torture creates such a climate of fear and insecurity that it fractures communities, silences dissent and suppresses civic engagement. The torture of families in their homes is heinous and devastating. For three decades, survivors have been describing torture scenarios to CVT that have nothing to do with interrogations, only with instilling terror, inflicting pain, enacting revenge and enforcing forms of slavery. Men, women and children are all affected; in fact, over half of the survivors CVT cares for are women or girls.
This has happened to me, and many others. If I try and get assistance ie police etc, I will be hurt, by the perpetrators.
We have Human Rights Laws in place, there is NO torture in the UK.
I tried very hard to get out of property, with great difficulty as am a carer for my mum.
PM Boris States that we should stay in it's very difficult. I don't understand, why this should happen in the UK. I do not have a criminal record and no health issues.
I have tried to be put on the ' Witness Protection Program' and it was denied.
Neighbour is pouring a substance into something and its causing me problems in my body, where I react immediately.
A list of injustice for sending a complaint.
I have been subjected to the below:
? Stalked - No help
? At home if I try and call for help, subjected to pain ie flat is heated up like an oven, causing sleep loss.
? Dryness of the skin to the point of a severe dryness under the feet.
? A neighbour pours a substance into a container, and we cough, even at 2 am in the morning.This is before cough, sweat and headache.
? Treated like a slave where am being watched 24/7, with no criminal record and no health issues.
I am bruised and left to get justice on my own.
Whoever reads this, please inform a human rights organisation ie UN to get me out of this situation.
Please can you help?
They only have the courage when in a group. Malicious allegations. Got a new CCTV system installed with audio. The day it was installed they were jumping up and down and waving and shouting "we are on camera". Another malicious allegation and I asked police to charge me. It was alleged that I was the one who was doing the shouting.They didn't want me charged. Checked CCTV next day and you could hear the cursing and swearing. I've had to buy a body camera for my protection when out and about. Now contacted police to visit me and see CCTV footage. Hopefully they will be charged with wasting police time. They even got their grandchildren to lie to the police. The grandmother works as a volunteer at a school!! I plan to contact social services, education department so as to prevent it happening to anyone else. I consider myself fortunate as I'm very strong willed although at times I was distressed by it. Will update when police contact me but got the feeling the police believed them because they were about 16 adults and children.
As we all own our homes (none of these are rented), there is virtually nothing we can do in terms of having them stopped without it being police action which will just lead to more intimidatory acts; but does anyone know if local authorities can buy homes when harassment is an issue to allow the victim to move away? We are obviously stuck in this situation until we can get a sale, and I would have to disclose their actions too, which could result in it falling through.
and I've already proven this part wrong because at the given time he said I was doing this I was talking to her brother in his room he was playing the guitar for me so even though I proved he was not being truthful about the story her mother still believed him and kicked me out but not only did I lose my place of living i almost lost my best friend and now every time I go to pick her up if she has me waiting a little bit and you know females they have you waiting he goes and tells the mom that he seen me passing drugs and I'm selling drugs in front of the house and he around my friends house the neighbor keeps telling them that I'm dealing drugs in front of their house it's gotten so bad that my friend's mom doesn't even allow me over there anymore I can't pick her up I have to pick her up at the corner but I was living there and he went and told her mother that he caught me on camera duffle bags. Out of her brother's car and throwing them into a passing by car in the back windows car would never stop by would just toss the black duffel bag or drugs into his car while it was moving and then he proceeded to tell them that at two 3 a.m. I was walking down the street and he knows he seen me past drugs and money around and I've already proven this part wrong because that's a given time he said I was doing this I was talking to her brother in his room he was playing the guitar for me so even though I do have the story wrong her mother believed it and kicked me out but I only did I lose my place of living almost off my best friend and no every time I go to pick her up if she has me waiting a little bit and you know females they have you waiting he goes and tells the mom that he seen me passing drugs and I'm selling drugs at the front of his house and he thinks this and thinks that I know he's got the other neighbors saying the same thing never pass drugs there I've never dealt drugs are I've never had solso bags full of drugs cuz believe me if I did I think I would be rich and not living at her moms I don't know what to do about this I can't ever even Park and wait for her while she gets ready I always have to
I've also had a heart attack in 2018 from electricity.
I got new neighbors who have some pretty ramped up Wi-Fi. So I have been trying to shield and block my home as best I can. But there's something that they turn on that when I do I can't breathe and my heart starts to go insane and I can tell I'm going into cardiac arrest so I have to run. The first time it happened it caught me by surprise I literally fell to the ground urinating myself because of the Wi-Fi. I couldn't breathe and had to try to get myself up to run out of the house.
But I have done my best to protect my house but there was always one thing that they would ramp up but I cannot block. I had already told the new neighbors but I had this sensitivity and so I thought I would go there and offered to buy them a remote control to turn off their Wi-Fi at night or when they're not using it. They just started yelling saying they're not changing anything for me. I cannot believe that someone could be so insensitive instead of at least discussing it. So after I went home I had gathered my information and I had created a document about EHS. And I sent them some information about it and information about Wi-Fi and what it does to children so they would realize that it's also harming their kid. And them… I sent him this packet of information and then I got a letter back saying they did not want to hear anything more about my illness and if I sent them another letter etc. they would contact the police on me for harassment. I think this is complete insanity! I'm fighting for my life not harassing them. I gave them information for them to do with as they will and had hoped for compassion. I never asked him to get rid of the Wi-Fi which would actually be most optimal. But I know that people are doing what they're going to do with boosters and I'll kinds of craziness. So I did my best to protect myself from it. They just moved in and have the gall to tell me I need to leave. I am very sick and don't have much longer to live I sure am not going to go through selling a house and trying to find a place etc. etc. I have cancer and my prognosis is less than two years.
I just want to clarify that sending someone a letter with information is not harassment. I had no intentions of sending them anymore but after that asinine reply I feel like they just anger me to the point that I want to prove that this is not harassment and they can't threaten me because of my cry out for help
We are having a drive tarmaced next month but I'm worried until then.
Thanks
She complained that the neighbours were trying to evict her, her x partner who lodges with her appears to be gaslighting as the neighbours also do.
I met a woman who exclaimed one of the women identified to have been attacking my disabled sister was a corrupt social worker from GoldHawlk Road area ... she is a hard drug user.. and the victim told me that she found out she had been robbed when she woke up from a coma.. and the social worker had been chasing her and involving herself in mental health tribunals attempting to hide evidence of robbery and murdering her sister.
Again another health support worker.. which was round at the neighbours had been abusing the mother of the haphazzard almost vunerable repeate offender. Which I presume has torrets.. I tried to remedy the situation. as much as they are troublesome to my extreemly vunerable sister... the vunerability of disabled people and also attacks on witnesses are a concern. I have been trying to grasp onto the principles of what are known as harassment groups and have also been supporting a anti bullying group manager with legal steps. My sister had made several complaints about local nusance.. if that had been the neighbours in a combination as act of retaliation to disapproving activities. There are three issues one is the issue of intruders , one is the issue of the negibours unwelcomed guests and also their effects and then there is the issue that an active circulating group of harassers which pray on the vunerable cause mental unrest and instill stress on free movement as part of an assisting act to press them into mental instability. Where are we standing with the law and with safer neighbourhoods when.. an attack group are the cause of mental unrest and not as part of their psychosis? It is very disturbing that people pray on the weak. We have taken soms aditional security measures such as alarms and locks. I think more work is needed to support victims from intruders and the intervention of using the neighbours as a cushion for giving room to cause noise or physical dusturbances.
On the one hand, where ones movement is being surpressed, or safety at home is r
.. but it is difficult to obtain information as the victims are too scared to come forward. As the fear that the authorities will not support them with harassment or prosecute the abusers... they instead.. send visitors which threaten to hospitalise the victims.. in a local institute. Where many have complained in extreemly high numbers of fatalites caused my medical complications on pharmaceutical drugs, in lethal combination or medical trials. This makes the social workers on drugs intimidation and threat to their integrity as if placed with the fear of threat to kill.
I do not feel safe the property itself is outdated and unsecured in terms of noise reduction and safety
What do we do?
i just experienced my neighbours shouting through my window at 1.20 am about
how if i complain or go near there house they will "bang me out" and leave me on the ground.
im not a violent person but this is something i cant just let go, any advice?
We have only just filed the claim with the county court 10 days ago and today I received a threatening email from my old tenant saying they believed they did not owe the money and can evidence this but are willing to pay. What hurt me was the false allegations in the email to say i have been pursuing his wife around the local area and if this continued they would report me to the police as this has now become a serious problem !
This is totally false, in fact me and my wife have felt intimidated by her as she keeps driving, jogging and walking past our house.
I have called the police this evening to log this and raise my concerns about the false accusations.
We have always conducted ourselves well and remained professional throughout this stressful process but to be falsely accused of harrassing/pursuing an individual when they are the ones in the wrong has really angered and upset me.
I am contacting the court tomorrow to inform them that I am being intimidated. I feel they are making false accusations against me and are trying to intimidate me.
Have I done the right thing and what else should I do ?
am bad with my nerves I feel
uncomfortable in my own home
intimidating humiliated it's all going
on in my street I keep myself to
myself but they don't it's just one
thing after another can't live my own
life without some neighbour butting
in making .my life a misery day in day out
...You can file charges...
Along with these girls, they are involved with neighbors just a couple doors down from me who also have two little sons about 4 and 5 who their parents have told them to run in front of my window as the father has done it as well. I live on the second floor as do they. The father runs with his sons and these teen girls across the balcony shooting water guns and stomping across the balcony. His girlfriend, the mother of the boys along with a bunch of others block the stairs as well smoking weed and getting high while blasting music. We live in a complex where smoking of any kind is not allowed within the common areas of others homes. I’ve heard her yell out about kicking white b’s a’s and kicking them in the head, so it’s also gone racial.
Others have called police in them as well as security because when I called they knew exactly who I was talking about.
Security has been called, police have been called and as soon as security or police leave they get worse. The landlords have been told and sent videos but they say their hands are tied due to the virus and courts being closed. I understand this but there has to be something that can be done. I shouldn’t have to put up with this.
What else can be done?
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I just want to thank No ToAntiSocialBehavoior for responding with words of encouragement & also to Miller for doing the same. It's good to know there are people that care
This must have been awful for you really sorry to read this, hope things improve for you all.
My nephew went to school with one of several that do the bullying. Everytime they see my nephew they harass him & have stolen his bike & even his shoes.
We reported it to police who did nothing and wouldnt even return phone calls. They informed us that these guys are known for their harrassment but since some of them are minors there isnt much they can do. Also these kids no longer live at home so their parents arent responsible.
When the group found out police were called they retaliated twice by throwing a hammer through the window, both times at 2am. My nephew doesnt go anywhere alone anymore & avoids any contact with them but because there are many of them and they look for my nephew this has become a nightmare.
Safe to say, I believe what I suffered is a form of harrasment and my opinion of the police has forever been tarnished.
what can I do? he will probably come and harass me every day.
Then after she start sending me messages where she was incriminating my underaged sons for antisocial behaviours against her and her property. Reading out those messages ware really disturbing because of the style how she chose words to convincingly blaming them in horrible things they have done, like using illegal substances together with friends, to whom as well she brought claims, simply because, I think, she is jealous about the fact that I have a family and big friendly circle of young people who are not only friends to my sons but like mine childs as well. But she is alone and lonely with immeasurable addiction to alcohol and interferencing into our neighbourhood lifes, calling to many kind of instances and complaining about different kind of community ongoings and demanding them immediately to act the way she wants. Ludicrously.
Again for a while was peace like nothing was happened.
I think she is like serial killer who have exigency to satisfy their brain-sick penchants. But why need to create such a demoralised lies against someone without a reason?
So like about month ago when she turned out again with sequent accusation again against my children I texted her back simple statement of my vision for all that and blocked her number to avoid of receiving further messages which leaves me anxious and worried about our wellbeing and peace. Even if we are living nearby and sharing one passage way and we can came across each other anytime.
And today I received a new obloquy, this time handwritten, but this time it looks like straightforwarded menace to handle out devastating consequences for me. Why and what triggers her to commit all thes
Clearly this so called director is trying to abuse her so called power against me. I refuse to allow to be treated this way. Director or not. I just want a peaceful life and astonished with this behaviour. I feel that I don’t want to be confronted again with this in person and thinking about legal advice in relation to harassment. Any comments please would be welcome!
J
She has spoken to the police today but is so worried that if she gives names, the threats will be acted upon - and the police can't be there 24/7.
Local help groups seem limited to domestic violence issues. Brighton & Hove area - but I'm 4 hours' drive away.
Any ideas of how to get help?
Actually you only have protection against the poor and the weak. The marginalised people.
There is no protection against wealthy gangs and what you see in this forum as well you never mention the worst noise pollution but wait till they are teens or talk about their health.
I don't think it is right. We should be honest.
I showed i was bored and tried to avoid, but when they had been hanging around right next to my fence not being my next door neighbors for two years , i asked politely if they could move. use their own gardens.That wasn't taken well. That was what they had been waiting for. They became my "victims". I was trying to order them about. By asking why are they hanging around, loitering next to my fence, with company, kids , what is wrong with their gardens.
The recruiting started, they got people to join just out of sheer fun, or because they made out their kids were now my victims. I was "child hater".
I should have known not to ask since no normal person hangs around at other peoples garden fence to start with. They had already started this campaign by then.no normal person regards himself, herself welcome , but understand gangs of people are always a nuisance.
Or they respected their next door neighbors and their own privacy and plants in the garden, more than me, their cars etc and wanted to socialize but not pay the price but take its toll on me. So i should have realized normal people respect other people, all people the same to start with. Shoyld have seen they are bullies or sadistic manipulative predators and just move, to start with.
But was exhausted, with two children, we had just built the house , no support from relatives who live far etc
They profit from this a lot. Socially, financially, in every way. Have fun, community spirit roused by a common enemy, energy, and when they complain about me to friends and family, the friends and family come here and help to oversee the children, their grandparents used to stand in the street just staring here. Hardly ever go anywhere. They come here many times a day, take one child dome place so the parents nwver have to anywgere can stsy here keep watch and the rest of the gang stays screaming here. They take some to summer houses but the rest stay yellin, diing sport here.
They never do any noisy stuff next to any other neighbor.
In restraining order hearing the predator who has recruited the neighborhood told they don't play in the street and plenty, plenty of other lies like I attack lone children but they are always here watching and allowing the harassment and when he and his wife got me the sentence they got here and told the rest and the powertool diy kids harassment got worse.
The same day or the next the football, soccer, floorball, ice hockey, sport started again, himself pulling the goal posts in the street which he had just denied in the court.
These dozens of kids used to hang about here as close they can, screaming and yelling in the street (they all have their gardens, there are many play parks for children within 2 min walking distance, football field, lovely forest behind their gardens etc etc) and at the same time they pretended to be afraid of me, a small woman 50 kg who have never touched them, yes, yelled sometimes.
Basically there has been constant noise since 2007.
2018 four of his pals around my house got dogs and they stay in their garden as well. Bark a lot. They take then walking and hang about waiting and standing for long periods of time until someone comes from the opposite direction and then they "accidentally" meet here in front of my house and the racket, barking goes on and on.
There has been constant construction project going within 100 metres basically from 2006. . When it starts, the boss who started this and his wife go and chat with the carpenters, the people who work at the site, pointing my direction, some of his pals go as well, same thing, what happens next is they start urinating in front of me if i try to use my garden _(havent basically tried for years without ear plugs), they excrete next to my fence and my childrens play house, they have a circular saw next to my fence.
This man who is a salesperson so his wife who has boasted to me about his brother being a policeman, had also been doing this hatecampaign and noise campaign in front of my eyes for years when he tried to make like he had nothing to do with it, like said quietly to me how funny that everyone seems to hate me.
I have very high blood pressure because of this, which used to be too low. I used to have a regular heavy period, but I haven't had one since this harassment got rough/ for years, i was very young to have my menopause, like about 40 years old when this stress of dozens of people harassing me started. This is not common in my family who look very young and don't have menopause this early. I have
They got this town to harass and participate by first bringing their kids here and then pretending to be my victims. They twenty families bring their childreb here to scream and then say they are afraid of me and if i go to street they call the police and they did and i have recieved the restraining order and conviction of assault which i did by screaming, i assaulted them by scrraming and was convicted of assault when i screamed.
Before that my harassment had gone from 2007. My sentence was given 2017 and screaming took place im 2016.
I thought this recruiting was just bullying but they use their offspring to harass and powertools and dogs. There has kot been a quiet quarter of an hour from 2007 when this family in it sales business, abd a cashier moved here. His brother is a policeman.
I have suffered from hate campaign, noise campaign, mobbing, harassment, targeting, small town terrorism, flying monkeys from 2007 and my children.
I moved beside ( 07282016 ) neighbors at [removed] to find out these neighbors knows each other 2694 2696 and other neighbors on Divot PL Columbus Ohio 43211that next to me .
Later on I find out these neighbors so happen to know pervious landlords and their tenanted who harass me and threaten me. This neighbor's visitors at 2692 divot PL Columbus Ohio 43211 has been following me around next door putting something at wall that smells when I come down stairs during the day you can smell something coming from ( at the wall where stairs our I find out our stairs , up stairs hallway and bathroom in same area) next door and at night between the hours of 2 am and 5 am one night I called Columbus'police dispatcher they send a officer out but by the time they got here the smell gone So put fan in hallway up stairs for now on and downstairs to I put fan. But the fan not working. So I checked hallway up stairs during the day no smell but there is a smell down stairs so I got some shampoo and spray in that area that smell good.,but the bad smell coming from next door come back.
Then to find out I'm being monitor by this neighbor.( 06262019 ) I so happen to be on phone in my house speaking about the townhome at [removed] that been vacant since 10282018 I said who ever lived there was nasty. Why this neighbors 2692 calls the pervious tenant . I end up seeing these three people keep walking past my window , so I called Columbus police dispatcher and told them I was speaking about something in the privacy of my house so [removed] so happen to call these people to get something started. Wow. Remind you this neighbor and their visitors had been trying to get something started since I moved here following me around ( I started to say something to them but I called Columbus'police instead) next door , putting a smell at wall and having their associates to put a dog ( there children that plays in area too ) iin area of the townhome so I can just go out one way.
Plus I let this Columbus' police dispatcher know about this harassing and threaten situation by this neighbor and their visitors since 03232017 .plus told Ambiance vallas rental office manager and the owner of this property . Plus 6onyourside of
Columbus Ohio.
Remind you I don't know pervious landlord's tenants just like I don't know these tenant here on ,2692 Divot PL Columbus Ohio 43211.
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The worst things had begun occurring loud music out of the car, loud disagreements, screaming children. My daughter has a rare climate disease, Upper Airway Obstruction, she can not be exposed to chemical,, mold, tobacco, insects that carry bacteria, outdoor allergens, and mostly severe cold climate, or extreme hot climate she is prone to pneumonia , she also has Asthma, Sleep Apnea, and mobility issue-- she spends the majority of her time in doors shielding away from Virus, other peoples germs, outdoors and the very smallest thing that may cause one issue and lead to another one-- causing Upper Airway Obstruction, she can not have anesthia and this poses a major threat. She has Down Syndrome, and I too have a host of illness. And at the moment I am very mentally stressed by the neighbors and their inability to be civil and to keep things in a good perspective opposed to all the adult challenging, bullying and causing more concern at a alarming rate-- there is standing water on my side of the street, which causes another high concern. Besides, the health hazard of bacteria, mosquitoes damage to the street an d the fact that the children not only bathed in this water and played throughout last summer this year its worse. Most of those children are no longer in that house, but the often come and there still quit a bit still there-- now there's eight adults including the teenagers or young adults because they both have boys living there which brings a different out crowd. and at least thee children, but the grandmother brings lots of children and other people in-- and sometimes stray people come and go--- they do not have trash service so the neighborhood dogs was tearing the trash up, now they just hold on to at least 6 or more 30 gallon bags and sometimes sits them on top of the car until they take them away one by one--- but the dogs both come back and forth in my yard, they allow them to walk themselves, they refuse to leave my yard, I ve ask them from a distance call you dog, they ignored me and continue talking on phone--
So, my mail and packages have been missing and a number of times I would see my mail man place the mail in the box as he did thi
A man in a van was stalking me and creeping on me because I wasn't picking up the dog's poop fast enough for his liking.
His behaviour was scaring me, so I started walking towards the house and I pulled out my phone.
He said to me "I know where you live", pointed to my house and drove away.
I took the dog inside, came back out and removed the poop.
The creepy man had lied and reported me to the council, saying that I wasn't picking up the dog's poop.
I don't know who he is, I only have his registration.
How can I raise a complaint against him?
I live in a four in a block and my neighbour who live below me downstairs has been making my life hell since he moved in last year he constantly bangs, does diy late at night , his dog barks all the time too cos he locks it in his bedroom all the time so the dog just barks non stop and he plays music but his music doesn’t bother me it’s just everything else he does and I have to my housing association about him and they just told me to go to police and I did that last year but they couldn’t do anything cos I didn’t have any proof but now he has cctv outside his bedroom and living rooms they aren’t on during the day just at night time so I think he is watching every night who comes and goes from block. No one ever comes to visit me because of him so I’m stuck in this flat on my own all the time. Don’t know what to do anymore please help!
Thank you
From the first night i moved in there was violence from the perperatrators next door that have incessantly bullied, tormented and frightened me and my cat with intimdation at my window at night when he sits there, constant DIY FANATICS, INCESSANANT LOUD MUSIC, Rows and fights, violence with each other which end up smashing the place up and throwing things at the wall.
Then in latter years it progressed heavily with abusing my good neighbouring to see if i befriended them would help so l allowed them to store things in my garage and said they cut have keys cut so they wouldnt disturb me all the time and i kept his trailor in my garage for 2 yrs or more and i even allowed them to use my car parking space as i dont drive.
Well they abused it by then putting up metal poles up so nobody could park there, my front fence was taken down and then piled up outside my front door, but cant prove by law it was them, they dug up my turf at the front, i took pictures, then the intimdation started and frightening my cat at tne window....ALL THIS ON TOP WITH ALL THE APE SOUNDING noises he makes whilst doing DIY, watching football, anything really, the shouting, the laryiness, the INCESSANT DIY, the rows and fights, i even had to buy black out curtains due to them having these lights right looking into my bedroom and i couldnt sleep as they kept them on ALL NIGHT, it stopped when i bought black out curtains as then it blocked the light.
Ive made constant logs from the very first night i moved in in 2014 and with much detail as possible, i still make logs, keep journals, take photographs.
Ive gone to the council, the Police and i started legal peoceddings all have been dropped as no one believes me, as far as everyone is concerned im banging on their walls, yes i have when they steal my peace and tell them to shut up, but they can do no wrong.
No they have joined forces with their family friend who lives on the other side of me im a mid terrace and now its both sides against me.
Im now forced to sell my home, but i have learning needs and suffer with mental health which has been mega effected, they hate and despise im on benefits as they have verbally made that absoutely clear and they work, plus when i bought this house they both sides wanted to buy it.
I cant move on my own i cant sell on my own and have no friends or family to help, im sharing my story as im disappearing they have succesfully won, im rehoming my beloved cat and i will be here no longer, i made a log today as they know all the cases i have had to drop and they know they have won an
I have been pushed out of my home where I lived for a no.of yrs by 'people' whom my previous harassing neighbour threatened to get in, because I never took him seriously when he bared his chest at my front door and constantly hurled abuse at my kids and myself over the garden fence and f.door.
Within two months of these people moving in, I had rat bait thrown over for my dog, my fencing wrecked, abuse shouted at me through the walls, late night drills on the walls, loud music played, hammering on my f.winduw and abuse hurled at me in full public view. Comm.police and council did nothing but make matters worse for me, by sending me acvusational and threatening letters. Stating they would put recording equipment in my home, when it was not council owned but private residential. I kept logs on these vile 'people' for two years, and eventually got courage to seek out sols advice. Only to be told, that there is nothing that can be done. I can take out an injunction or harassment order, but was told that from experience, they do not help. They only serve to hike up a hefty bill that would amount to thousands of pounds over a long period of time, resulting in no justice to the victim or harrassed/abused neighbour. So reluctantly, I've had no alternative but to move out of my home that was bought and paid for. To make matters worse, when I go hone to check on the house and collect stuff, common.police arrive in a marked car, yet another form of harassment. No offers of help, only intimidation and even more harrassment from the so called people that are supposed to help you, claiming they have a duty of care. Well I can assure every one out there that is going through or has gone through the same injustice. That no such so called 'duty of care' was shown to myself and daughter having to endure the deliberate nightmare thrown at us every day for the last 3 yrs.
Does any one remember the case of the lady and her daughter who jumped from a bridge, due to bullying and harrassment from neighbours and so called authorities.? Because it appears the same bullying and harrassment still exists, and worse still not a court, solicitor, judge or jury is able to put this injustice right.
Therefore, As far as I am concerned, UK law regarding antisocial behaviour from neighbours, remains a complete ass, in that nothing can be done to deter and stop these vile people from bullying and harrassing decent law abiding people of this country.
To all you solicitors and authorities out there. This should serve as a wake up call.
As antisocial behaviour would not be tolerated in many other countries by courts of law. So why here????
The victim is NEVER believed I have been harassed for three years by a man who has no friends and no wonder his only friends are neighbour below me who they all share drugs together I’m in the middle flat in north London owned by Peabody. The man has lied and it’s proven as I was abroad the police and Peabody do nothing and I have been arrested, questioned gone to criminal and civil court both thrown out and Peabody even got an injunction against me when I was the victim when the judge has now thrown it out. I’m going to sue them but right now I got a case against this weird obsessed fat loser and once I get that injunction you can bet I am going to the media. Watch this space.
Don’t let these people bully you just know others out there are going through it to and EVERYONE knows the REAL VICTIM is NEVER believed but we believe you and that’s all that matters.
Hope it works out for all of you. X
So what gives her the right to dictate who can and cant live there? I was living in flats and had a little boy So i moved out of the flat with my baby and partner to have a house with and garden you dont think about neighbours when you move home do you? I put my neighbours rant down to her having a bad day as she was a single mother with 3 boys she came over to mine and apologised i forgave her and within a couple of days she was threatening to kill me and gut me like a fish over the back garden fence when i was hanging out my washing on the washing line i told my partner he said ignore her So i did and she started screaming at me telling me i was to move out or she will ruin my life i tried to ignore her but the more i ignored her the worse she got. She said if i reported her to the police and council i was dead? Then she would apologise and tell me she has jealousy issues So i would forgive her again and within a couple of days the threats started again i was trying to be neighbourly towards her yet keep myself to myself she started demanding alcohol and money off me and wanted to walk to school with my when my son started nursery i let her to keep the peace and she was going around telling ppl she is my best friend? I am a private person So i would try to live my own life and avoid her next thing i knew is i was pregnant with other son and she started harrassing me and stalking me she was obsessed in me when i put rubbish in my bin outside she would run outside to scream abuse at me and when i was in my back garden she would come out screaming at me she would follow me to the shops and spit at me saying things like you think your better than me i felt unsafe as she threatened to kill me with a kitchen knife she said she is going to gut me like a fish and kill my unborn baby and would throw bleach on my washing and flood my garden with hose pipe So i had enough and phoned the police and council for help the police said without witnesses or video evidence their hands was tied? They told me to report her to the council So i did the council told me to write down times and dates and log everything So i did for about 6 months the council said it was not worth the paper its written on as its a police issue not council issue So i would report it to the police and they said its a council issue as they will be ridiculed arresting a single mother of 3 boys?
After that the abuse off the neighbours was getting worse her sons
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Shortly after this I had a neighbour who I never had issues with and was quite friendly with arrive on my door step who upon my door opening decided to shout verbal abuse at me tell me I had to get rid of all my f-ing chickens that they were dirty smelly f-ing things tell me my cockerel never shut up would crow his f-ing head off and that because of my chickens she had flies in her house and claimed we had a herd of rats in our garden and demanded to know what I was going to do.
I told here everything I was doing which was weekly house cleaning sometimes 2 weekly house cleanings if not more for the coops as we have a large one and a small one from younger chicks we also have rat traps out we were getting large fly traps to help control flies even tho we and are closest neighbours had no more flies then normal I even asked them we were putting stuff in their houses to control odor as well.She kept interupting me when I was speaking kept up her verbal abuse of me keep in mind i'm still in my front doors frame while this is going on about 5 mins after her yelling abuse and interupting me I finally told her I was sorry she did not like them that I had come to her on various occasions asking if she had issues with my chickens and cockerel to which when asked she said she liked my chickens and their noises compared to the bloody dogs barking from the people that live behind our house to retorted by saying what normal person tells their neighbor they have a issue with their animals when they can report it to the council which she informed me she had to start with and that she has done so again and that she reported me to envorment as well to which I responded a normal person would talk to their neighbor and tell them the issues they have and give the neighbor a chance to right anything also informed her it was sad she felt like that and that I was not getting rid of my chickens to which she said they will go one way or another.to which she fliped
important going . But important not goin anywhere untill I've got a another place . They have given the game away by doing this as its obvious they all know or had some part in me getting run over.
After only a few short months we had a falling out over an on street parking space I was parked in becuse she felt her visiting mother deserved it more.
Things have escalated since then, she has taken photos of my child playing in the garden and my husband doing the gardening, I called the police but they found no evidence, I have had slashed tyres, my landlord receives constant complaints about me varying from things such as me painting my front fence which I had permission for to complaints of noise nuisance I am on the brink of loosing my home, I leave for work at 5 am and am being told that that’s waking her up but I have to work to pay my bills, the majority of the rest of the complaints are things like my daughter waking her in th middle of the night “as she suffers from nightmares” probably due to the weird noises that come from the pipes under the beroom floor boards, or in the summer making to much noise in th garden (she’s 3 and will play)
She frequently comes and checks the tax on my cars for some odd reason
I have had the police wake me up at my door several times because she has called in the middle of the night to say I’m screaming (which I’m not)
I have had complaints made against me to social services saying I’m abusing my daughter and that she isn’t fed (all of which is completely untrue and has been deemed so by social services)
Today I have received a call from the Rspca to say that I am abusing my 2 dogs and not feeding them, both of my dogs are well cared for and fed correctly, I pay for a dog walker to come in during the day when I’m on a long day at work and they have a dog flap the rest of the time giving them access to both the house and garden all day, I frequently take them to the vets for check ups and have them both on care plans which in my opinion isn’t one of your everyday animal abusers priority’s.
I am at the end of my teather with her now, It is physically and mentally exhausting always haven’t to worry about what’s coming next, I cant just move as my area is expensive and I’ve struck a great deal on the rent here but I can’t cope like this anymore, what could I do?
What more can we do .?
Prior to all this the first length she moved in she had placed her trash cans on the side of my windows. And we placed them in the dedicated area and a note to let her know they belong there. No offense was made she understood and life went on as usual. Well the next day after we caught her with the theft. She decides to take her trash and recycling cans and put them under our windows. O have moved them 9 times in 2 weeks. It's a game and its caused me so much anxiety,my autistic child seen his belongings next door and tries to go in their home to retrieve them. The landlord just says shell talk to her. Or she try to come by and "check things out"
Its petty, immature, I can't take the anxiety and living in discomfort. Smelling nasty garbage and used baby diapers. I'm feeling harrassed.
The estate agent of the property failed to inform me of parking dispute with previous tenant or advise there is a line of bricks that run across the top of my drive and up to that line it is the neighbours property.
I parked on my driveway but my back wheel was inches over the line, the neighbour photographed it and sent it to the agent and the landlady.
It is difficult for anyone visiting to know there is a line to clear as the drive is badly designed and they have the space for reversing out of their drive, but they never go within 3 feet of the line, they reverse the other way out on to the road.
Anyone visiting would think the top of my drive is mine as it's where I access my drive..
Now whenever anyone visits I have to make sure the wheels or even back end of car is not anywhere near the line, on the very few occassions there has been an overhanging of wheels they photograph it and send it to agent and landlady.
I have never blocked him in or parked my car on their bit of tarmac, only had my wheel inches over the line.
I am constantly being spied on they record the time and date of my visitors, they even leave part of a blind open so they can guard their little piece of tarmac in case me or a visitor parks too close or over the line.
I feel very stressed and angry that they are monitoring me, they even sent a photo of damaged tarmac to the agent, I had a panic attack when I read the accusation, when I went to see where the damage is, it is only close to their door where their car repeatedly goes over, my wheels never touch that area.
I am moving out and the landlady asked me not to report them, they never speak to me they just smirk.
I really want to report them for the stress they have caused me and my family, is monitoring and photographing my drive and keeping a diary of numberplates and times we didn't quite go over the line harassment, because I feel harassed, I fear of what they are going to do, as previous tenant told me he tried to sue them for driving over a plant.
I am going to video my move as I'm sure he will try and say I've damaged something.
I'm really looking forward to moving from this horrible situation and from being spied on, I am thinking of letting the establishment where he works know I am going to take action for harassment from him.
I would welcome any advice. Thanks
as far asIi am concerned when you are a victim of harassment, intimidation and bullying which my partner suffers from a large group of people daily and I can tell you it is a non stop relentless campaign from them with no sign of a let up whatsoever.
She has suffered terribly from both men and women who have told lies, spread hate and are vile to her every day. She never answers them back yet it makes no difference at all. If anything they see this as a greater challenge to break her down even more. She is hounded daily from the garden front and back, had abuse thrown at her, dog noises from males from cars, picked on when we go out to the local shops that she cannot go on her own now as she is so badly harassed. She has to be accompanied to the doctors because they will not leave her alone. She has done nothing wrong at all. The lies that have been spread are vicious, slanderous and nasty and are not substantiated. She says there is no point in answering back as that only makes thing worse. Men and women of all walks of life and ages who should know better but it seems they do not sadly. They are malicious little pests who seem to be able to operate within the parameters of the law. It is insidious in nature, a crime but help is zero as we have found to our cost. Contrary to what you are told there is no help out there at all but people like my partner and myself. It is seen as insignificant, you are considered nuisances, troublemakers but that is not the case. Harassment is a crime but try getting it recognized as such. Some of the things they have subjected my partner too I cannot talk about because nobody would ever believe us a swe have found out. She has kept a permanent log of everything now with evidence and we hope that one day this will get us the justice we so rightly deserve at the hands of such monsters!!
So we recently moved into a block of flats and didn't know where to out our bins when they where due for collection. So as a simple solution we put them next to our neighbours bins. However they felt the need to empty the contents of our bins in front of our drive, and then scream abuse at us. Fair enough if we had left rubbish out or near there property bus this was bins left out and was a simple mistake. Now. The bins have been emptied, it was just the odd rubbish bag that was tipped out. Where can we go for advice as the landlord doesn't seem to care. We just want it to be resolved, thanks.
Any help or advice from you on dealing with this situation or with such discourteous neighbors would be greatly received.
Thank you :(
I have never known such cruelty from human beings from males and females of all ages in the community we live. I never realised people could be so wicked!!! They taunt me on a daily basis with the words. "PLEASE HELP ME- OH PLEASE HELP ME!!" and then they laugh after they have done it because they know we have no recourse for justice. They crawl past the property in convoy daring me to go out in the car and when I do they cut me up of which I have camera evidence yet again.. They honk their horns in a vicious way to make me jump or park their vehicles by the double gates where we live to make me feel uncomfortable in the garden. When that does not work they will park their cars and watch the front bedroom to make me feel uncomfortable. I do not open the curtains at the front anymore or open the windows. My partner has to work on the front driveside sometimes and I dread it as they come crawling past him and using their vehicles they try to make him jump so he might fall in the road and have an accident. They come so close to him sometimes he says he feels vehicle tyres nearly touching the back of his legs. It is awful to watch! The males eye him up aggressively trying to get him to goad back but he has not. At night a small number of vehicles try to keep us awake by opening and shutting their vehicle doors over and over again. They park outside the house and deliberately do it. We live in a rural area and only one neighbour and nobody is living there at the moment so we know. They stalk our property in the darkness- honking, revving, screeching in a desperate attempt to keep us awake. Sometimes they will use their main beams and flash them on the front of our house over and over again bathing the house in perpetual light before crawling away like the cockroaches they are and doing it then on the side area also. I hate them for what they do to us on a daily basis making our lives a misery. We are quiet people and we are impotent to do anything. Each day is a misery. SO MUCH FOR HUMANITY EH? IT DOES NOT EXIST HERE!! ONLY CRUELTY, NASTINESS AND SPITEFULNESS. I NEVER REALISED HOW CRUEL HUMAN BEINGS CAN BE. THE WOMEN ARE VILE TO ME. THEY LOVE TO SEE ME CRY- SATISFACTION AND A PAT ON THE BACK FOR A GOOD DAYS HARASSMENT. YOU SEE THE CRUEL SMIRKS ON THEIR FACES AND SOME EVEN LAUGH AT CRUSHING A FEMALE WHO HAS N
You are right they are pests but they are evil with it. My wife had terrible lies about her and it is an orchestrated hate campaign which is deliberate and nasty. She has never defended herself or reacted because there is no point she says. They believe the lies and hate her and do not even know her. It was our next door neighbour who started it also but it got out of hand and now my wife has to stay behind locked gates every day while the people who should have helped her ignore her pleas for help!!! On Thursday night she was working on the front when a woman got out of the car and fisted her. If I had not been there nobody would have believed her and swore at by another woman who used her fingers to gesture at her. My wife has done nothing but she was to afraid to call the Police because they would not believe her anyway so we did nothing and let them do it to us. We are saddened, disappointed and my wife is extremely distressed because everything she says is the truth and because it is such a clever form of harassment it is almost impossible to prove. Yet we have proven it is happening and yet are pleas are ignored. My wife is left isolated and vulnerable and it is not right.
Keep a Logged Diary- It is important and we hope they leave you alone eventually. We also hope the same one day also.
When there was some wood in our garden that we needed to take to the recycling centre once we got time, the neighbour came around demanding that we get the rubbish from our garden gone as it's causing a rat problem, there was no rats at all we said it will be going soon once we get around to it
When we had workmen in the house during the weekday working normal hours 9-5 because they were doing a bit of drilling the neighbour decided to come around again to complain as they had guests over and couldn't hear each other over the noise we were having some plug sockets fitted there was not much noise.
When my girlfriend was having a shower one morning at about 10am the windows were open she put some music on next thing we know my daughter has come to me saying the neighbours are shouting up at us as the music is to loud, so we turned it off.
When we were finishing of our bathroom the neighbour knocked on the door again my girlfriend answered and she received a mouthful of abuse from our neighbour saying she can't hear herself think due to the noise of us working in the bathroom which was about 10 mins after my girlfriend calmed down she decided to go around and see the neighbour but she was still quite hostile and decided to chest poke my girlfriend saying she knew her auntie and uncle
A few weeks ago we were in the garden having a BBQ with my girlfriend, her sister and two kids who were having a play in the paddling pool and they asked for some music so we put some on at a low volume next thing we know the neighbours are shouting at us to turn it off, we choose to ignore them as its in the middle of the afternoon next thing we know the neighbour decides to get a stool and stands over our fence looking in telling us to turn it down again we chose to ignore him telling him he doesn't own the steet.
At the weekend we had some family over for a BBQ and a few drinks, we had our music on low and just having general chit chat, next thing we know the neighbours are starting again we choose to ignore then the women puts her head over the fence saying if you don't keep the noise down I'm going to chuck water over you, we stood our ground and said we're doing nothing wrong just talking listening to the music at a low level you couldn't hear it once you entered our house, next thing a load of stones start coming over luckily we had a large umbrella and they bonuced away and not hitting any of the kids.
I'm not really sure what to do will the police listen??? I don't want to retaliate as two wrongs don't make a right, me and my girlfriend are really fed up with them he's even knocked on our neighbour on the other as she was listening to music with her windows open during the day as we were next door you could barely hear it.
After council told them to remove a tree house never stopped
If in garden SHE approaches and starts verbal abuse I am pathetically weak!
Accuses me as s single parent defrauding council! Spreads exaggerated rumours
Cuts right over fence .... that it is hanging on her side ..... years go by I try to grow for privacy ha
Luckily bullying neighbour moved on other side big horrid guy they got on would laugh at me in drive way put weed killer over fence etc twisted stuff I stupidly admitted to police
They had NO proof he had done all this weed killer ha should have complained to the top didn't ha weak
Last thing they did as well as climbing over fence killing shrubs
When I rang police as she was cutting right into my garden nothing to do with her ...... suddenly they the police comin in did I have gun knives
I had to get solicitor ..... ?
Lies she could have faced prison for her lies causing waste of police time causing yet more trouble
Now upstairs window faces open into our garden NOT hers to spy harass intimidate as nobody cut down their garden on our side...... huh bully's bully's they have a BIG bullying family I am on my own ?
I moved into a nice well to do area about a year ago.
My next door elderly neighbour although very welcoming at the beginning with chit chats, soon turned out to be a racist, abusive bullying vamp.
It started with her making comments about how she knows people who can help us with the garden, the fence, the hedges etc. She wanted us to trim all the hedges from the front of our drive. Then she complained about where our bins are kept, how tall our tree has grown etc.
We told her we love the house as it is we don't want to decorate it the way she wants us to. That's when her true colours came out.
She called me racial names and threatened to sent me back home.(I am British)
The thing is because she is elderly i dont know what to do. I would be accused of discrimination against the elderly (she uses this to her advantage)but i cant live like this where i am afraid to get out my front door incase she starts her abuses again.
What can i do??
one year now. We have logged everything down, logged incidents but we feel we feel weare not taken very seriously at all. If anything my partner is made to feel paranoid about it all and is very distressed by it all.
We moved into a property thirteen months ago, it is a rented property rented from a Large Agent and it is in a rural area of Cheshire. Before we moved
into the cottage it was fully refurbished and underwent extensive renovations. The garden is beautiful and the cottage has lots of land attached to it. We had waited a long time for it to come up and it is close to my work. There is only on other property next door and what should have been an idyllic life has turned into a living hell and there is a concerted attempt to hound us out of the property through an incitement of hate, lies, intimidation and harassment by certain sections of the community because essentially someone wants the property we are living in. We have had everything thrown at us that you can think of by our neighbours who are a couple with two young children who have been hostile from the moment we arrived there. He is a Farm Worker for a local farmer who is well known and respected and therefore he is protected to a certain extent along with his wife who has subjected my partner to the most inhumane and cruel treatment that she could think of along with her so called friends inside and outside of the property that my partner will not stay in the house on her own anymore without me. When I leave for work she lives in a caravan rather than being near to our neighbours from hell. Not one person has ever attempted to talk to us since we have arrived, it has been full on hostility from the start. My partner is subjected to stalking wherever she goes by so called males of all ages. I have also been subject to it. We have been
stalked by vehicles round the property over and over again intruding into every
vein of our privacy peering in like little peeping toms. We are regularly followed if we go shopping, honked at by tractors and various farm related vehicles. The woman next door has made our life hell this last year, from banging, screaming,
banging anything she could, hounding us out of our garden with every form of anti social behaviour she could think of and if that did not work she would use other females to do her dirty work for her. Her husband is not much better goading me into a reaction, wanting a fight, aggressive looks and just general
nastiness with the aid of other males in the area. They have made our lives hell along with certain members of the community who should know better. It is all based on lies and hate by the female next door and has been compounded by others have also told nothing but lies. And the only reason this is happening is because someone wants out property and wants it for themselves and are prepared to do anything to do it. What shocks us is the suppo
The lady above us had to leave her apartment and move in with her mother who was elderly and needed help, and who lived across the road from the complex. She owned her apartment and decided to rent it out to her nephew who was in his very early 20's and partners whilst she was having to care for her mother.
Literally with in the first 24 hours of moving in is when the problems started to unfold. Being in a super quiet complex, everyone getting on...lets just say a blistering argument from him with his partner was noticeable. My partner and myself were just about to leave for the weekend to visit my family when all hell opened up above us. It was so loud, it was like it was happening in my living room. He was screaming at her and smashing objects and this went on for a good 10 minutes. We had to leave (I wish I had called the police), but a neighbour above them actually went to see his father the next day who lived across from the complex. Apparently the young lad didn't care, showed no respect for his dad or that people have complained about what had happened. This night was just the start of it all...8 months of Hell!
We had a good relationship with his auntie who owned the apartment and she was very embarrassed by it all and promised it wouldn't happen again. It did though, it became a weekly thing, could be from being the afternoon or middle of the night. We stupidly at the start just kept going back and forth as residents of the block with his auntie who kept saying it wouldn't happen again and if it did they would be out. It came to a point where in the end I felt for the safety of the young girl upstairs that I did inform the police and they did come around. It was on the third occasion of calling the police and before them arriving going around to the tenants aunties house and being verbally threatened by the tenant for raising the Alarm that enough had been enough. At this point the owner of the flat had promised 3 times that her nephew had been told to leave and they had not and the auntie had said to myself that her nephew had said that he was doing nothing and that is as tenants had a vendetta on him and his partner...the most awful part of it was that even the girl on the recovering end of this all was sticking up for her partner as well saying that we were all lying!
Over the months prior to this, the police had said that we needed evidence, so all of the tenants when ever any of the abuse was going on did actually record the audio on their phones so that we could back it all up, logs were taken of events and everything. We all needed a leg to stand on because nothing was being done about it.
In the end the auntie and owner of the apartment said that she had issued a one month notice to her ne
daily he throws things smashes his flat up due to mental health and drugs. He has been inside from 2004 for 4 years. now he gets his clients arrive slamming car doors below my windows when they come and go and as he deals to everyone they shout at my window. as I am typing all I am hearing is Bang Bang Bang car doors purposefully slammed.
he has damaged communal area with a flick knife up down stairwell, kicked my door wiped blood from self harm on wall and door. of mine. marked wall with pens and terrorised me day in day out why?
I turned him and his moldy bottle of wine down. He is a revolting pervert who on earth would want to date that? nobody. as a now single woman he wont leave me alone or his male friends its all males I get issues with. now banging around in a hoody under window taking parts of bikes out of the car. wheels of stolen bikes on floor,yes they sell stolen goods from a van bikes etc so everyone turns up. police are so sick of it that they do nothing at all.
I hate living here now yet I cant afford to leave. somehow its all my issue as a single female I want peace and quiet to exit enter my home without scum doing dirty deals.
2am last night this guy threw something in his home and myself and other neighbor woken by it sounded like an explosion went off police never came!
they turn up when he had run off. He shouts times dates where he will deal yet when tell police intel do nothing.
I wish he'd shut up outside my window pulling stolen goods out of his car. Id like one day where he isnt messing around with dodgy goods.
I hope you guys can help me, I've been living in a detached bungalow with my partner for over 10 year and I've always in the conservatory since day one.
I never had any problems with the neighbours while I was here, I watched tv, play video games and listen to music.
Until last year or so one of my neighbour moved away and a new owner bought the bungalow, we were fine until one day he said that he could hear some music or television to one of the neighbours across the road and they told him oh yes it's could be David he likes to listen to his music and watch tv in the conservatory.
So one day he came round and said I could hear your music while I'm at the back garden but it wasn't loud enough to make out what it was, so I apologised and said I didn't know it was that loud because no one ever complained or said anything to me so I thought it's ok and I said if it's too loud let me know I tone it down.
After I said that few days later he came round knocking on the door and asked me to turn the noise down so I did, few days later he came round again and said I still can hear your tv, again I apologised and turn it down even more and I said to him look can I come round and see how loud it is so I know how much I need to turn down and he said no it's ok so I said ok fine.
One night after 12:00am he came round again and this time he was angry and said some poeple needs to sleep and stormed off and I can even put a word in, so next day I went round to his place and I said to him I've been out and I couldn't here any noise so I gave him my mobile number so he doesn't have to keep coming out all the time and I thought that would be fare, instead he keep coming round and complains never once use the number that I gave him.
After 5 to 6 times I stopped answering the door but my partner did and he said to him some nasty things so I called the police but the police and told me not to confront him anymore so now he put a note though the door instead.
I have tried everything to resolve it but he just keep pushing, to be fare I only play music during the day never at after 18:00hrs and I do have 5.1 surround system since he complained on the second time I stopped using it and used a small portable speaker and even that he still complains I tried to contact to my local council and they can't offer me any help instead they say can't you use a headphone? and I said I don't want to use headphone all day long and why should I?
I did asked my other neighbour to see if they hear anything while I was here and they say no not once day or night.
So I don't know why he keeps picking on me? Maybe because I'm Chinese different colour than he is?
I don't know who to turn to for help, he only moved here just a little over a year and causing that much problem.
So please any advice would be appreciated.
Thank you.
though I know there isn’t much that can be done as I am so told. I think there really should be a way to end such harassment for I am sure this isn’t just me this is happening to We lived in a duplex for several years. It came a point where we were ready for an upgrade. Felt as hard as we worked it was time to appreciate ourselves and give ourselves a reward. We found a house in Huntington Meadows that we really like. It looked like a clean pleasant neighborhood.
Being a smoker that I know I am I chose to not smoke inside my new home for several reasons, but mainly to not depreciate the value of my home. Knowing about secondhand smoke and it affects not only to myself but others as well. I gave myself a few months to get that exposure out there.
I wanted to be kind, caring and considerate to others so I took the time to question my surrounding neighbors to ask them if my smoking outdoors was affecting them in any way. Neighbor to my left said she smells it a bit but not that bad, The neighbor to my right said no. Neighbor behind me said if I didn’t mention it she wouldn’t even have known. Neighbor to left of her said he smokes too. Neighbor to the right of her I didn’t ask because they have a fireplace and figured they were used to smelling smoke.
Shortly thereafter the neighbor on my left started making verbal unpleasant gestures about my smoking out on my back deck, the neighbor behind me became verbal and she is in her 60’s so I asked her two more different times both times she looked at me in the eyes and said no my smoke didn’t bother her. Then all of a sudden she became very verbal with me when I was outside. The next thing I know they are all were sudden being very verbal with me. Didn’t understand why the smokers were having issues with it and didn’t understand why the ones to my right was having issues with it because they like to party, play loud music and barbeque most evenings.
Then not only was I hearing verbalness do to my outdoor smoking I was also hearing meanness on how I was taking care of my flower gardens or lawn.
Because of hearing stuff like if she come out there one more time I am jumping the fence after her, or words like bang - bang - bang, beating and slamming of things. We became concerned. We decided to put up surveillance cameras for protection.
I decided to do some research on my smoking. Learned why businesses say stay back ten feet from windows or doors, how it starts dissipating after ten feet, 25 feet away it no longer does any harm. I started measuring from my fence to where I always sit. I learned I am more than 25 feet from even my closed neighbor. That is just measuring from my side of the fence to
Then four days after I moved in I heard noise shouting and swearing at the old female neighbour downstairs underneath
him. She had kept some letters from the post man for him as he wasn't home at the time. He went downstairs and started swearing at her where are my f in letters really abusing her. I thought this is strange as she was only trying to him a favour making sure his post is safe and give it to him once she sees him. Since that day the harassment began I used to live by myself at the time he started to tap on the ceiling following me everywhere I move kitchen bathroom living room bedroom. I got married in 98 my wife when she moved was getting harrassed aswell he would tap on ceiling following us around the flat. I would go to work in the day and come home to find her in bits crying complaining he is following her with tapping through the ceiling everywhere she moved. He also was playing music at high levels all day and night when he was in shouting and fighting speaking at the top of his voice with friends. I used to go out to work in the mornings and the neighbours down stairs used to say to me to call the police they can't take anymore of it. I thought by calling the police I would things worse as I have to live directly on top of him.
One day me and my wife where going down stairs as we reached the front gate he ran past me trying to physically assault her I had to stand. She told her brother who wasn't to happy he already know about the harassment in the house he had words with him. Since that day I have now been here for 22 years he has been shouting swearing obscenities through the ceiling banging objects on the bedroom frontroom ceiling swearing and banging when friends come over to see me just constantly harassing me. I contacted my housing association they sent me to mediation which he refused to go this was after I contacted the police. My housing keep changing housing officers so the case keeps getting passed to different officers.
The most recent officer wrote him a letter saying that I'm causing ASB as he got a neighbour in the block to side with him.
I Was thinking to contact the couple who used to live here to see if they can write me a letter explaining the problems they were having with him before I moved here.
Its like he's got the housing in his pocket what ever you say they always defend him.
I look where I live and don't want to have to move because of one nut job. Can someone advise please im at the e
All he has had to do is say i am the one harrassing him... even in america the police and council wouldnt be so dumb to believe a 21yr old nursery worker is harrassing a fat 46yr old unemployed drug addict.
it is a very sad world we live in, I have said many times i feel like this man will eventually killl me but because he makes counter claims nobody takes anything serious
Reported it to police and it stopped temporarily but now the youths of the household have started to say things to my 5yr old niece when she's in the back garden playing.
I've not seen it myself as it seems to happen when she is playing on her own but she tells me and her mum when they say things. Any advice on how to handle this?
Second ASB neighbour now joining ranks so I am trapped in the middle, e mailed everyone including Police commissioner, MP, stalking helpline etc etc.
No one does anything.
The council are responsible for putting this scum in decent areas with young families put all of them together in one area save the police time and money being called out to one road rather than the whole of Bristol.
I am 23 and being harrassed by a 50 yr old drug addict who is unemployed.
This man is a loner one of those people nobody likes and spends his time obsessing over me.
All it has taken is him to accuse me of harrassment and the police do nothing.
Funny i wasnt harrassing him until i called police on him.
One thing i learne on this is NEVER call police for nothing! All they do is collect ur details.
I feel like commiting suicide over this. I am broken and nobody will help me.
With this in mind I felt under pressure and a little intimidated, not only when i asked him to leave my property felt threatened since he refused to leave. This was reported to the police since although i may be big build I am a big softy :( but also don't have time for these types of people.
Anyway moving on, I decided to deal with the issue myself and spoke to the guy and everything was then ok....... Recently we then received abuse over the garden fence along with pointless loud music, I decided this guy is clearly taking the p**s out of us since i stupidly told him i was scared and reported it to the police ( yes i know im an idiot)
We have since put a six foot fence up on our land to stop the guy from perving at my partner but only half way completed. Today my partner was in the garden putting washing out and there he was perving and taking the p**s out of her. If this guy isn't careful i will loose it and will end up rapping a golf club around his head, since this is harassment and makes our first home feel impossible to enjoy :( Depressing as it is im not strong enough to sort the issue and im concerned if i report it again he will ignore it all!
Keep strong & safe.
Six Years they do this to a person because I am single and don't readily socialize or feel comfortable with people In my home My body fights for life ever day!! I pray Everyday for someone to help US I can not go into a shelter I cannot give up my son's home I am Harassed Stalked and Bullied by Words and Followed places in efforts to intimidate me from my home as the laugh about what they are doing and comparing it to the others they have done this to I need Help as My body is trying to heal itself and I Fight for Life with Sarcoidosis
We said hi to our neighbours and even let them know when we where moving in and warned about noise that morning, ive picked up their post, i even put letters on our door so people would stop ringing their door bell by mistake when meaning to ring mine. And what do i get in return?
A greeting of weed everytime i enter my property and music being played so loud my house is impossible to live in as the floors and walls vibrate. I held on to that for over a month, then all i did yesterday was ask politly to please have the music turned down as i was feeling unwell and my house was vibrating (8 months pregnant.) And i get a rude response anout how i aparently slam the front door late at night..... my bf gets home every evening at around 9pm and we never slam the door, it closes and makes noise. I appologised saying its not intentional... and then he started screaming saying he will "bash my boyfriends head in next time the door slams" I did not take that lightly so i lost my temper and told him NOT to threaten me or my bf may have slipped a swear word in there and then i was told not to swear infront of his daughter. But its okay for him to threaten a pregnant lady and swear infront of her every other sentance, do drugs and play crude music? Thats ok. We argued for a while longee and he continuednro threaten to hurt my boyfriend who wasnt even present. After the insident i got a bang on the door from his gf i didnt answer and got a letter saying "do not slam doors or walk up stairs loudly children live here" again we have NEVER slammed the door and i cant help making noise going up the stairs in MY house. I have formally complained and our land lord contacted theirs, and their land lord is just a rude and crude as they are. I will not stand for further harrasment or threats especially when my new born is here.
Since i reported harrassment from a neighbour all they have done is arrest and investigate me. I am a small young woman the man is twice my age.
It is a very sad world we live in i will never call police again in my life they have made my life hell to the point im being evicted just because i reported this harrassment
They keep and doing this every 6-8 months and when they let me fo they put me on Community treatment order so they can carry on abusing me even in my own home.
I never done anything wrong in my life, but my children are abused in schools and at home with same drugs. I am trying to protect their health and my health too but it's impossible.
They follow is wherever we go, whatever we do.
They nearly killed my children my children in so many accessions.
I am scared for my children's lives as well as mine.
This has been going on for 10 years now.
It's an awful life and its done by services that we should trust NHS and Police.
Then the spying started to get worse so that both of us are being watched all day from morning to night. Every move we make is monitored.
We stopped eating in the kitchen as the lady concerned makes it impossible to prepare food, eat or even wash up at all. We now eat in a little room furthest away from her and we eat out a lot more than we did. The intimidation has also increased by honking of horns by their friends outside our cottage that my partner is extremely scared and intimidated as they spread vicious lies around the community about us. Sadly it is a small farming community and his boss secured the property for them and has huge influence with the agents involved so our hands are tied to a certain extent. He essentially is there guarantor and referee. We had to go through a lot of checks as they insist. They did not.
We have now found out the reason why the harassment is so bad. We moved into a refurbished cottage while theirs is unrefurbished and much cheaper. The handbook states that if tenants leave early they are responsible for all letting fees including the rent left to pay . This is the cruncher!! The letting agent then lets the property at a lower rent and you have to pay the extra until the tenancy ends. We are essentially being harassed by our neighbours so they can have our property. They come in and negotiate a lower rent through their boss and move into the refurbished property and hence get what they want and we take the financial hit, not them. In anger my partner has spoken to the letting agent involved and they have believed us which is a relief but we have decided to go anyway as it ha
THE NEXT YEAR THEY COMPLAINED TO TOWN boro hall. That my bushes were not SALON MANICURED IN MY FRONT YARD.!!!!!! I GOT A SUMMONS FOR THAT.!!!!!
HOW MUCH MORE OF THIS AM I SUPPOSE TO TAKE.!! I'm not made out of money. To pay all these SUMMONS EVERY TIME THEY FEEL LIKE HARRASSING ME AGAIN.!! How can I fight back.?? Help.!! SOS.!! ASAP.!!
Unfortunately what I have learned is that all the harasser has to do is make up you are doing stuff to them then the police and HA/council will just ignore your complaints and see it as tit for tat. You would think people who work in such postitions would have more common sense.
Funny how I wasnt doing anything to him until i complained about him, how amazing is that!
All the police have done is collect my data. Thats it.
When this man kils me or kills my baby because he is a violent obsessed bully then the blood will be on thier hands.
The police have done nothing, landlord nothing. They were evicted from their last house
My daughter and I am unable to sit out in our garden. We have to stay in on nice days.
The kids climb over and damage my fence and my shed. They are known for Benefit Fraud
Why when I have evidenced all my complaints to both police and landlord can they still
get away with it. If I had done anything to them I would have been arrested.
All this stress has affected the health of me and my daughter.
Then I moved and same issue, tenant upstairs has put down laminate flooring which is AGAINST the tenancy agreement i again tried to be civil and had no intention of grassing him up for laying laminate or smoking weed however he REFUSED to remove his shoes and denied he smoked weed, he denied full stop he made noise.
Ever since again making noise purposely, but this time this neighbour has scratched my car and wrote swearing on my door and kicks my door constantly. Police have done NOTHING.
AND AGAIN it is because he has claimed I make noise, so lets say he is correct and i make noise does that mean he is allowed to do criminal acts against my property?
and according to him i cannot hear him but he can hear me?
the fact he has brought up his problem with me is i make noise just makes it obvious he has been harrassing me, its like he is trying to justify his behaviour.
police only "talk" to him, they spoke to him and then he will wait for them to leave and jump up and down and stomp around purposely.
this is a 50yr old man. If i was male I know he wouldnt be so brazen to do all this.
police wait until someone gets seriously hurt or die to arrest anyone in these types of situations
Thanks in advance
I have called the police and they are coming out tomorrow I'm just really worried of her doing something once they have gone!
since then ive had abuse from them nails in Tyre's, Tyre's let down he parks as close as he can to my boundary making it hard for me to get out, thats when iam not blocked in by his car, i get the hand signs at the window from her, have informed the police several times had a pcso round that said the neighbour has been filming and taking photos of me for months and just keep a diary of whats going on. whats the bloody point the police dont want to do a thing so my life is hell and cant walk out my front door without being watched.
but hey iam just the single parent why should the police care that me and my daughter are living in fear.
Then I have started hoovering at 8 am. But still my neighbour came in morning and knock the door for that don't hoover that they want to sleep. I have little one I have to do hoover regularly but I do that only in 10mi
After that I am not making any noise and I have my own work. And after that my another child went school I have Drop her. My husband also went office at 8 am. Then I can't do hoover with my little one. I m trying very hardly to hoover later but I m worried for my small one if he get hurt when I'm hoovering so I have to do it early. I don't think 8am is that early.
Plz help me
So I asked if she was with the grocery store, she said yeah and pushed past me and walked down the hall. I mean she just barged her way in without being invited in. She flopped herself down on a chair in front of my friend's elderly Mother and started giving her some sob story. She said when I asked her, that her name was Charlene. I immediately had the feeling that she was trying to weasel some money off of her. I wondered if she knew my friend or his Mother. But then I asked his Mother, Do you know her? and she said NO. I asked the woman to leave because none of us knew her or why she was even there. She just sat there and crossed her legs. I said it louder and said You need to leave, NOW! She still sat there. Finally I walked over to my cell phone and said, Leaven or I am calling the Police! She really got up fast then and said NO, not the Police! and she left.
Months later, my friend was gone real late into the night and I was home alone. The next morning my friend noticed the back door lock had been tampered with, someone had tried to break in.
Then a few days ago, my friend was out delivering news papers and some woman named Charlene walked up out of nowhere and asked if he would start delivering newspapers to the house that they were standing in front of. He said okay he would try to arrange that with his boss. Then she started asking him questions like Do you smoke, do you drink alcohol? Then she asked if she could come to his house later on for 30 minutes. She had also told him she lived at house #22. She started telling him a sob story about how her boyfriend had left her. But I knew nothing about all of this.
That same day some guy with a business-like suit came knocking at our door when I was home alone. When I opened the door, I noticed he had tattoos all over his body and huge earrings in his ears which did not seem to go along with the idea of him being an actual business man. I started to feel uncomfortable and asked what he wanted. He said that he was not there to sell me anything.... which I thought was even stranger. I quickly said, I am sorry but I am really busy and have to go and I shut the door really fast. So he left.
Later that same night, suddenly there was a knock at the back door. I asked without opening the door, who was it? This Woman said Is Bryan home? Bryan is my friend I am staying with. So I just figured it must be a friend from his Church or something and I opened the door. They asked fo
I have been harassed ever since, ostracised and continual parking of cars making it difficult for me to get my car out. It came to a head last Saturday and ended up with the husband threatening to smash my face in. I did use bad language and apologised by posting a letter through their door.
But I fear it is not then end of the matter and I am getting very fearful for my own and my wifes safety.
We are both 76years of age.
If I go into my garden my neighbour or a member of his family comes out and watch my every move until I go indoors..The list of incidents is endless!
I split with my husband nine years ago, my 5 year old son and I live alone. Unfortunately I had to buy the house my son and I live in in joint names with my exhusband. I have not been in a position to buy him out, but then he paid very little into the deposit, nor has he made any mortgage (or maintenance) payments in 9 years.
My ex is living with a much younger alcoholic (he is also alcoholic) they live at the other end of the country but have been harrassing me by spreading around horrible rumours in order to force us to sell the property as the equity is quite high now, they cannot approach us directly via a solicitor as no maintenance has been paid. I am also very concerned (this may seem strange) about my ex as the woman he is with I firmly believe has mental problems, and has also used violence on him, my ex no longer speaks to any of his family as she doesn't allow it, any advice welcome.
Is there anything we can do about this tosser....clearly the man has issues to be so pedantic without any sort of validity?
He arrived 3 hours after I moved in - telling me he hoped I was going to get underlay for the carpets (he had just arrived home and is a bit blind, so tried the door handle, to see if anyone was in!) - He had NOT heard me making ANY noise, I was exhausted from moving.
Since then, he has complained that I lock my door even when I'm home! He goes through my dustbins to 'make sure' I have separated plastic, cardboard etc) He then nagged until I put up net curtains (I HATE net curtains, but to keep the peace, bought voile panels). Since then it's gone on and on to the point that I HAVE mentioned it to the Housing Association.
Neighbour told me he goes to bed at 7pm!!! This means, I can't even have a shower with getting nagged at the next day, if it's after 7pm - I HATE going to bed feeling dirty and there isn't a bath)
He is permanently coming back from the pub drunk and cooking!
Sorry to off-load - I am keeping a record of everything as he also told me, (he's right) that for the first year, you ' have to be careful not to breach any tenancy agreements' and yesterday, when the housing officer came (he couldn't see who it was) he said (like a jealous partner) Soooo WHO was THAT then?
I have to be honest - I have bought 'Fart Spray' on Ebay - and just waiting for the chance to spray his damned flat with it. Horrid I know and I probably won't do it, but he'd damned well deserve it for this harassment.
Thanks for listening.
I have never been violent or aggressive to anyone and keep getting reported for the most minor things I am now up being physically sick with worry when I have my one year old son to deal with in the morning, I don't know what to do and what my rights are. Any help would be much appreciated.
Should I be reporting this?
The husband is very territorial about his car and parks aggressively.
They complained to the council re diy noise. The woman at the council investigated and said she'd be delighted to have neighbours like us.
As none if their complaints have been upheld they have resorted to low level harassment. If I sit in my garden they get the power tools out, spread smelly poultry manure and most ridiculous of all put their radio on where I'm sitting and go into their house leaving the radio on. Kinda sad as I enjoy music.
They have also complained every time we cut the boundary hedge.
I am keeping a record as at some point I expect it to escalate. ( my sister had a knife stuck in her tyre when she parked outside their house one night)
Is there anything I can do legally to address the situation?
I have just moved in to my new home and would like to set the standards from the beginning.
They are now resorting to swearing filthy words from their home and challenging us to fights.
They have children and so do I and cannot understand how one can use such filthy language in front of children.
I cannot stand this tension and filth I do not confront them as I do not want matters to escalate, police and local neighbourhood agency are no help at all.
Is there any way I can find out if they are rented tenants so I could work towards a possible eviction.
If they are owners of the property I suppose I have no choice but to bear them.
One policewoman is obsessed with me. She even tried to get me asbo!!!!for what!!!
She has an itch to scratch....not the way I expect met.police to behave bout they do.
2 weeks ago 3 policeman arrived. Then 2 woman and none so rude! Accusing me!!
The law she broke!!! !behaving like a demented. Dog.
It seems that a female neighbour that cannot reverse!!!!useless told them I scratched her ugly car.
But in 2014 she scrapped the backof my car. There were 2 white stripes on her black car.!
But I left it until recently So the twist and turn begins...so typical south London.
The police lied to me and said nice things to TRaP me!!!!!!!!but I caught them creeping into neighbour flat!!!
Liars.
Then I confronted the bitter female and wanted to see scratchomg.....omg.I got a mouthful of screeching
In foul manner and I could not talk
She is a liar...
Next thing her car disappeared...??returned with no scratches!!!!!!she had them removed!!guilty.
Then she got her boyfriend to follow me dressed in black! Then he got out of a car to attack me!!I am pensioner!!he is 30 ish...no respect......backward devious liars.
So I sent email to!police. Regarding police lying etc.......
Heard no more! Until. I Gwent out for 2 hours got back and fence broken!!!looks like someone tried to push open!!...he had told me. He has CCTV on me andbsees everything I do....so I suspect this angry nasty
Ugly revengeful male.
I have dealt with this for 5 years, never have had trouble with anyone else in our building and along move in these two ignorant mean ruthless individuals.
They dragged me through court a year ago falsely accusing me of defamation of character, slander and discrimination. Luckily the judge ruled in my favour and dismissed their case against me in its entirety.
They swore to get back at me and, they have. Recently there was an altercation(verbal) just after an AGM meeting and they attacked me and a few others while in the lobby discussing the meeting. When we ignored them they started to pick on me because I seem to be the weaker and more vulnerable one of the group. I tried my hardest to ignore them but one of the culprits turned to me and said something very hurtful and uncalled for. Told me I deserved to lose my father and she was glad. My father recently passed away, the day I won in court is the day that he underwent emergency surgery, I was not aware of the surgery until after the trial. That was the last time he was coherent. To say something like this to another human being is ruthless and damaging. I was so hurt and upset that I attacked her verbally stating how could she call herself a woman, her spouse jumped in and started swearing at me and calling me words that I could never repeat let alone call a woman. I was stunned as were many of the other unit owners. He lunged at me and my husband tried to protect me from getting hurt. That's when the one causing the grief called police and said we threatened to kill him and hit him. All untrue. Unfortunately the police pretty much only listened to what they had said and since it took place in an elevator they viewed the camera's and concluded since I stopped the elevator from moving I committed assault. Wow, incredible. So now I am fighting in court once again as they want me to sign a peace bond, something I feel is unfair and unjustified. If anyone should be reprimanded it is the two that have caused me stress, anxiety attacks and to be a victim in my own home. I can't move because I can't afford it, not just now. Soon I will have to go to mediation and can only hope that the judge or whomever resides over it reviews all the witness statements I have from the trial, the evidence of our injuries, she kicked me, he scratched my husbands face etc. Everyone in the building knows we are innocent but many are afraid to speak up because one of the two is known to show up at peoples work place and threaten them. I am so tired, so stressed that I'm not eating, I'm not sleeping and I've become a nervous wreck. The Crown Attorne
I recommend installing some fake security cameras (Blinking Red Lights) as well as investing in a real security camera set up. Post No Trespassing signs that say "Smile you're on camera."
Once you've ID'd the perps, then call the cops as well as your local news agency with your evidence. The news agency will enjoy a juicy story and it will force the police to do their jobs.
So! This is what. Corrup . Cops do?????they take your notes, twist them against you and they have the badge !and uniform. Then they cancel your complaints lying that you did!!!!!!!I am shocked that police do this........so it looks like. You changed you . Mind!!. Disgusting law....no justice at all.
You won't find a decent policeman with his own, mind. No! They are followers! Sheep!
Sad that. UK police stoop. So low. But they do.???????? so. Wear a camera!
2004:I reported neighbours, police took their side...for 10 years...and still do but 1 woman has left,
Gone back to her council flat that she let out for. 16 years.
My health has suffered, and I. Can't. Sleep....
Police and council took.the side of the perpetrators. ! Why?
I want to move but finding. It. Impossible
Shocked to. Realise that the law are liars....take sides and law is a joke.??? in this area.
Council told me they are not interested in Owners! Only council tenants.DISCRimination
So the police are not interested. In the truth. I suffer racist abuse by all.
So unintelligent. So ignorant..??????
In 2011, I noticed that my laptop-that I kept in my vehicle because I didn't use it in the evening usually-was regularly being started up at 4:00 A.M. I reported this to the police after a couple of days and then noticed that several cruisers from then on would follow me out of my parking lot-sometimes making rude gestures. At the same time the person above me started jumping up and down for hours at a time at midnight. I recorded it for 2 nights then called the landlord and a large moving truck came and moved the idiot out almost immediately.
The cruiser stalking went on for some time so eventually I purchased a dash camera and started filming them--and it stopped very quickly. However afterwards, 2 of my vehicles were badly vandalized in 2 parts of town and a threatening note was put on my van that same day.
In 2012 I moved to one of my condominiums I owned as a rental unit. It was a comfortable unit so I went ahead and made it my home. I noticed that the tenant was in a big hurry to leave and appeared frightened. The neighbors downstairs were young men from India and were quite rude and noisy. They kept everyone up with loud music, a malfunctioning ceiling fan and talking on the phone all night long. I bought ear phones and ear plugs and from then on didn't care what they did. Eventually other neighbors complained I think and they left.
The neighbor who moved in next was far worse. Every night at midnight she pounded the closet doors for an hour. My response was to pound back harder. This went on for a year. I should have recorded her but didn't. At some point you become insensitive to abuse.
In 2013 I noticed that the workmates were getting a little crazy doing mimicry, trying to start fights in the restroom etc. At that point I was used to their sick behavior and was achieving a margin of success at the job-so I didn't care. On October 2013 I had a problem with an officer in my former neighborhood. He attempted to chase my bike out of a neighborhood by driving behind it menacingly with his cruiser. In the process of leaving the neighborhood I ended up riding beside our big local marathon event-right after the Boston incident. I went home concerned there would be retaliation.
Next day I got to work and noticed there was an odd ether smell in the office. In about an hour I was sick . In 2 hours I was hyperosmic and ataxic. However, I turned on a fan and got through the day. I noticed that the peop
I recently bought a small CCTV camera at ARGOS, you don't have to wire it up and this hAS HELPED A BIT.(£199.00)I have put it on my window sill.
WATCHES that take photos I must look at.
I think that the watch might record.
The police often refuse to see the truth, siding with who they want to side with in south London.
so THEY HARASS AND BULLYING like ignorant babies.
the neighbour does this on purpose and then LIES AND SHE IS SKILLED LIAR. BUT SHE HAS CONTACRS IN THE COUNCIL AND the neighbourhood, therefore sending about 17 "people" to destroy my little white car.
My neighbourhood manager went to see her and SHE ADMITTED she had knocked on my door to argue with me and that she banged on the floor at me. Yet they seem to think her knocking on my door is "neighbourly" and she is doing nothing wrong.
She has also racially abused me to which my housing said i need recorded proof, like anyone walks around with a tape recorder attatch to them.
They clearly dont believe me even though she had issues with the last tenant ironically she accuse him of harassing her now shes harrassing me!!!
She has been here ten odd years so they are bias to her, she admit what i accused her of but they do nothing.
I feel so sad and anxious here plus they wont even move me they just keep suggesting meditation which clearly wont help. I hate this woman i truly wish death on her.
Im two months pregnant the stress is to much
Harrassed 10 to 12 pm then 5am to all the time in here...almost.
I keep trying to stay away from these two individuals who keep confronting me and trying to build me into their stream of lifestyle. I want anything to do with it. They are persisting. I can tell police. Tell building offices. Tell community.
Until they come out in the open to arbitrate. There are proper channels.
I'm so glad that I shaw your comment because exactly the same
thing has been happened to me for year, initially I thought I was being
paranoid with the white noise thinking that I was going crazy but it's
a very smart trick because unless it happens to you you won't believe
it but it can be done with apps etc in my case when they're sick of running
me down either in the front, back, surrounding areas of my block calling me
a pros, hoe, lesbian fat tran or whatever suits them they use a foghorn
sound effect around my window where I sleep or they'll come closer
to wherever I am in the flat. They also either send the kids to abuse
me verbally non stop outside my window, they'll even accuse me of
saying something when the telly's on. They also comment if I have
a guest, must be a John! or I'm sleeping with every man that passes my
door even though I'm married! Same if it's a girl. Anyway I make sure I
I give them a taste of their own medicine but it's really not fair or a healthy
way to live. Hard to report without evidence and using kids is effective
for them, but what goes around must surely come around for these VIPERS!
I am considering selling this flat, but how can I, when on the form we have to declare that we have problems with our neighbour. He has physically threatened my dad and my boyfriend; neither of whom now feel comfortable about going to that house; and still the Police tell us there is nothing they can do about it. REALLY? I
What started as a simple child's falling out with each other has escalated in to adults trying to kick my front door in. The mother is constantly offering my 17yr old daughter to fight her and where my 17yr old has special needs this couple have really frightened her, to the point where she not able to leAve the house unless accompanied by either her 16yr old sister or either my wife or myself, she was always happy to go out until now, this couple have a 11yr old girl who is doing everything from physically assaulting them to stalking the children when they are out with friends.
Recently we were all told to record what family has been "doing"
To each other, and this has just given this family a licence to record my kids every time they leave the house to walk past their house to visit friends who live at the bottom of our road.
We have reported every incident up until a few days ago as we have now lost any trust we had in the police to nip their behaviour in the bud, and feel like we are backed into a corner with nowhere to go, we have video proof and witnesses to the abuse only for police to say that our witness can't be used and the videos could be recieved as provaction to start behaviour we are constantly being subjected to, my wife suffers from anxiety and eating disorders and with all this added stress, her condition is getting worse, people tell us not to get depressed over what this family are doing but no other neighbours other than the ones who have been told thT any evidence they give can't be used due to them not being in admissible due to us being friends
I will be phoning our local police tomorrow and demand that these poisoned half witted family be arrested or at least be questioned over their constant harressment and threats of violence towards us with a view for charges if they don't then I will seek a civil suit and in deed secure injunctions to stop this family in their tracks
The best way to get of a constant nuisance is to film everything they do and or photograph it. Get evidence and then get a lawyer and take out an anti-harrassment against them in a civil court. The police are usually useless. I would never trust a cop. They probably will be boastful and downright arrogant and think they could never be brought to justice, but evidence and cameras don't lie. Rottweiler lawyers should also be more than willing to be on your side, especially if you can find a no win no fee one. Remember the police are typically pants. And if you can find a decent copper, he's definitely got to be a transhuman or an interdimensional being - I've been reading too much David Icke or Alex Jones. No really, remember, the police are paid to think or do their job properly. They're just there to take the p*ss.
Even with firm evidence they will support the offender however serious it gets. You name it we have suffered it. Even got a police mediator who reported to the police thta the anti social family were intimidateing us. Axction by Darftord Police. As expected our fault. Even it appears after the arrests for drug dealing, criminal damage, threats of violence to a dying woman what hope.
regards keith
NO !, the police don't help.
in fact THEY TIWST AND TURN the truth to suit themselves
2004 female gets pleasure in harassing me, if I SAY ONE THING the Croyon police arrive and accuse me! THEY ARE LIARS. this woman told me that the police told her to HARASS ME/get other peopleto help her harass me..then when I react/call her (policewoman) on her MOBILE!!!! to get "evidence"to get me!!..so if SHE SEES ME, she lies to the police saying ANYTHING and the police rush to the building to blame me....NON STOP since 2004-she is only a girlfriend, she does not work.....I HAD TO HOLD DOWN A SHIFT JOB and then
I had to retire.....MOVE: HOW?////WHERE? so she "recruited" people to harass me and "trash my old car"......AND THE Croydon police are only on her side and anyone they can get to HARASS ME....throw eggs, stones.etc....CHILDISH IMMATURE POLICEMEN...who lie and lie. THEIR DREAM is to punish me....................AND IMMIGRANT.....disgusting
the female was insecure and JEALOUS AND I WENT TO THE POLICE IN CROYDON.! a very tall policeman came out and all he did was try t find out about me and my life...I was naïve and I left and 3 WEEKS LATER I HAD 2 POLICEWOMEN SHOUTING AT MY DOOR ALL NIGHT....all day accusing me
and I will get you deported, we don't want immigrants etc...I had to call 999 once to remove them..............SO THEY LIED TO THE COURT (POLICE) AND GOT ME HARASSMENT WARNING.......so then 3-19 people harassed me and the POLICEWOMEN non stop...I battled but I live alone and never had a hope...........NON STOP HARASSMENT THREATS....but I was blamed..
they left and the 3rd friend carried on shouting filth, sending men to my place BUT THE POLICE REFUSED TO TAKE NOTICE. (insp. cancelled 200 complaints without my knowledge so I never had a chance!!!no evidence..this woman badmouthed me and stalked me and I had 9 years of abuse NO HELP FROM POLICE......then another female moved in and all her relations (12)
STARTED AND STILL ARE HARASSING ME............not once have the police taken my side.................the one female left 3 months ago......? but the new lot (tenants) park in the wrong lplace and fight wirth others and shout BUT I GET THE BLAME..........my skin is a mess full of massive sores and I cant get on with my life.......I WAS ATTACKED 3 WEEKS AGO by a neighbour relation but I am told I am a liar..........THE POLICE TAKE THEIR SIDE never mine as the tall policeman was furious I would not invite him in!!!so he badmouths...I have spoke to over 100 policemen and put in many many hours reporting,making notes BUT THE POLICE ARE NO INTERESTED........I am immigrant...and the police are full of RETALIATION/LIES/ they are out to "get me"...as I have reported them and THEY DONT LIKE THIS ALTHOUGH IT IS ONES RIGHT..but no rules cops..............
The Police have let me and my family down to the point I have no faith in the system. I am a law abiding citizen and have done everything by the book- used the system, but to what end - NONE.
Best of luck to all you victims our their - lets hope the system doesn't let you down.
he annoys other tenants too, he started outside my flat and threatened me, my son came out and the male tenant called the police on us, so then my tenant officer thought we were to blame. We was defending our home and ourselves. Then again the other night his outside giving me verbal abuse and threats as I stood on my doorstep smoking and talking to my neighbor, so I came indoors and phoned the police, they went up to knock on his door but he left in his car and gone, I've informed the council, but to be honest I dont think they care.
It got so bad that I became afraid to come home after work. I kept all the harassment from my husband as he works long hours.
I would come out of my house and they would jump into their cars and roar off in front of me.
They even got their children to have a go at my son at school
It came to a head when I purchased a new car and I kept finding screws and nails in my car port,
I kept diaries of all the incidents and kept the nails and screws as evidents.
I called the police and reported them. He believed me and cautened the "men".
They have now put up cctv cameras on their houses and search lights which activates when my family leave our house as we live opposite them.
All I what to do is come home and get on with my life which doesn't include the neighbours.
I realise this will never change as they are nasty people who pretend to be nice
The police and my friends tell me they hate me because I am Black, Female and successful and they don't like it.
If you read this stay strong,
I am often a guest at my carer's inherited bungalow, which he has known and regularely stayed at since a young child and remembers with fondness the then friendly neighbours( we have friendly interactions with most here and anywhere ). I am retirement age , registered disabled with the severest level of fatigue ( which blood tests have confirmed ) that my Dr has seen. I also have a very serious condition which regretably the nasty neighbours also know about .
They pretend friendship only to then become the mouth for the neighbours that like to scapegoat me including via calling me nasty names worse than filthy b*tch, which she takes delight in calling me (he called me a bast***) and to try petty control including via baseless threats of calling the councel solicitors etc (whereas previously we have never complained about legitimate things like trees and bushes blocking light, tresspass, the removal of tiny treelets the other side of the garden to them or bush triming or fruit they'shown interest in and had the only veiw and access to that I'd planted as a screen to their overveiw if standind looking over down into the back garden which they do to critercise it some details they gave could only have been confirmed by tresspass ).
They complain about the curtains that had to be put up due to the level of nebbing( verging on peeping tom as when I leave my bed is gossiped about )and security when not visiting. The moss on flagstones that arrived in clumps when they had their roof water blasted . Cardboardboxes of the relatives belongings being sorted in the garage, the wooden security bars placed at the garage windows after he'd delighted in telling me burglers would find anyway in, when I was there alone. He showed his saddistic delight at causing wasps to scream when poisoning them, then denied it happened the dead wasps nest we found when going to attend to it ourselves confirmed it happened.
This pattern of denying something nasty said whilst lording it as if he is superior with rights over how others keep their gardens and inside their garages to his taste is typical of of an extraordainary level of arrogance that they both display. When they choose to hurang me over the fence when i am alone I do push back with such observations of their impossing negative and bullying attitudes .
As I can not enjoy the garden in peace I seldom use or theirfore maintain it , which I am under no obligation to do.
However seeing signposts up for sale, upon my last visit, I decided as this had always been the excuse given for their tiraids, to tidy first the front garden, which has always been tidier than some close neighbours anyway and then the back. That was when the last verbal attack started.
It was not good enough I was doing it then, the months we'd not been there doing it ( the garden parts that could only be seen if thay were standimg by the head high fence nebbing over ) as I explained was due to dying relati
and nothing has been done in Croydon
then the other neighbours that are renting and have damaged my car....
they twisted all lied and brought up the race card SO I GET BLAMED...
meanwhile my car is damaged...tyre huge hole in it...windscreen wipers pulled off........................................plus a lot more
as I am alone I have no witness
I also get told to go back to my country...............and the entire family comes over and INTIMIDATED ME, OFTEN.......................but they are believed not I.
truth is twisted.......I feel hopeless and upset I am suffering
Loads more but wont waste my time on them"
After a couple of months they started on me in the street threatning me, recently they have started egging my windows.
I have had to walk out of my house early in the morning to walk to my freinds to try and get some sleep. They have driven my mental health up the roof.
I have complained to the police and to local council.But nothing has been done. I love my house but now i feel like i am going to lose it because i cant stand my neighbours anymore. Im looking for a move but the council wont touch me for a year, i just dont no how much more i can take of this
I am,in a situation,wheras ,due to financial difficutlyies,and poor health.
I was put in a position,where i was unable,to pay my morgage/rent.
A so called angel came to my help,offering my morgage arrears,payed off,in court,to stop any further action, dont you believe it one week after,pack your bags,this is mine now.
charity stops here.
5 years down the line they are still wanting poll tax bills.
homeless person.
I didn't think things could get any worse but the new tenant that has moved into the top flat is a nightmare. She is very young, has 2 pit bulls, blasts music all the time & has a constant stream of people coming & going, slamming doors, thundering up & down the stairs & being incredibly noisy until the early hours. She has no garden so why the HA would allow her to keep 2 dogs astounds me.
I have since learnt that the man upstairs has been in prison for stabbing someone & has a long criminal record for violence.
I am incredibly angry with the HA. They should have told me about the man upstairs. Why would you put a man like that in a building with 2 single women? I wish I had never moved here!
Is it possible to sue your HA?
Fortunately the locals and the police around here can see she is mentally ill and take little notice.
Get a life!!
A neighbour an old lady has gone into a home. Her house is being sold by a friend with a pwer of attorney. Each time the property has a potential buyer another neighbour tries to put them off by for example shouting "Wales is not for sale!" We are now at potential sale number three. The objective appears to be to prevent the house being sold to English buyers and also to drive the price down. Please can you advise.
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