Two common reactions to neighbour problems
When trouble arises with a neighbour, people often fall into one of two camps. Some assume their problem is too minor to bother the police with. They picture officers dealing with serious crime and feel reluctant to make the call. Others reach for the phone at the first sign of conflict, expecting police involvement to resolve the situation, though many disputes require time or additional resources to work through.
Neither approach fully addresses the complexity of when police involvement is appropriate. The police are a resource for specific situations, and knowing when to contact them can save time and lead to better outcomes.

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Call 999 if a crime is happening right now or if you feel you are in immediate danger. This is what the emergency line exists for. Officers are dispatched to 999 calls as a priority, often within minutes depending on availability and location.
Examples of situations that warrant a 999 call:
- A neighbour is physically attacking you or someone else
- Someone is trying to force their way into your home
- You have received threats and the person making them is present or nearby
- You are witnessing serious criminal damage to property
- There is domestic violence happening next door and someone is at risk of harm
Domestic violence is a serious criminal offence requiring immediate police intervention, even when the situation is not directly visible to you. If you hear sounds of violence or distress, call 999.
When you call, stay calm and give the operator your location first. Answer their questions clearly. They will send officers if the situation requires it.
Your situation may be slightly different. ask a question below ↓ and our editorial team will reply with our advice.
When to use 101 or report online
For matters that are not emergencies but still involve possible criminal behaviour, the non-emergency number 101 is the right choice. You can also report many issues online through your local police force website. Response times for 101 reports vary considerably and may take days or weeks depending on the nature and severity of the issue.
Use 101 or online reporting for things like:
- Suspected drug dealing from a neighbouring property
- Ongoing harassment that does not require an immediate response
- Criminal damage you have discovered after the fact
- Antisocial behaviour that happens repeatedly
- Concerns about illegal activity you have observed over time
Reporting through these channels creates an official police record of your complaint. This does not guarantee police action will follow, but the information may prove useful if the situation escalates or if others make similar reports about the same person or address.
Be prepared to describe what happened, when it happened, and who was involved. Specific details help the police assess the situation properly.
When the police may not be the answer
Not every neighbour dispute is a police matter. Disagreements over noise, parking, boundaries, hedges, or general rudeness usually fall outside what the police can address. These are civil matters or local council issues rather than crimes.
For noise complaints, your local council environmental health team is often the appropriate contact. They have powers to investigate and take action against persistent noise nuisance. For disputes over property boundaries or rights of way, you may need legal advice or mediation. Citizens Advice can help you understand your options when police involvement is not appropriate.
Many areas have community mediation services that help neighbours resolve conflicts without formal action. Some police forces also run community policing initiatives where local officers can provide advice on ongoing neighbourhood issues.
Keep records of incidents as they happen. Note dates, times, and what occurred. If you take photographs, focus on damage to your own property or incidents visible from your home without intruding on others' privacy or creating confrontation. This documentation will be useful whether you end up involving the police, the council, or pursuing other options.
Be aware that making false reports or deliberately exaggerating incidents to police is a criminal offence that can result in prosecution.
She can wake up find my clothes on the air line she will remove them despite the line being mine.
She can decide to cut all the air lines for airing clothes , I think for me to be stranded with my clothes ,claiming that the air line is at her door steps, though she wants to used it all alone .If i put my clothes on the very line which is mine when her clothes are not there she will remove them. If i ask her why she is doing that she does not responds to my concerns .
she will find me in the sink fetching water ,she will remove my jerrican before it fills up despite being the first in the queue before her .
These has happened severally for many years since she started living in the premise .I have reported her at the area assistant chief more than 3 times.
The first time she disappeared when the assistant chief summoned her, the second time she went. Then after that she organized with for the group or rough boys to come and threaten me in my own house as they smoke bhang and pouring water on my carpet .I have an OB number .
The only answer is move if you can becouse once there is tension and resentment over an issue it never gets better. Always strive to live in the best area you can afford with the least people around you that you can to improve the odds of at least limited sanctuary.
Most of us just want a quiet life, noisy family neighbours and the feral wasters that infest working class areas are an absolute nightmare. No help, no support, becouse police only deal with crimes, disputes often esculate as conflict and combat gets inevitable.
It is understandable that homeowners do not want to live next to rented social accomodation, you actually have no say becouse landlords always bat for the tenants as the properties are cash cows.
Who wants the hassle?. The key is buying or renting in smart areas where there are lots of older people who have respect and values.I am sorry to say in working class areas if you shuffle round you just run the circles as you import yourself into same situation with the same arrogant people running the show using the system to their advantage.
Best way to win is to not play. Best of luck to you all, we all need it.
I have absolutely no idea why he went off on me like that..he obviously had mental issues and i could smell the weed/cigarettes from his door at times when coming out of my house. The two dont mix but either way this guy was obviously looking to do me harm in some way. Yet my landlord after explaining this to them yesterday and asking for a transfer or termination of my lease are basically saying sorry but tough, you signed a tenancy agreement but we'll look to get him evicted with whoever the neighbours landlord is..etc. what are my options for getting a move or cancelling my tenancy with my landlord.
I am unable to move quickly ,being a single woman without a steady job. I am affected by her vicious gossip and manipulations . She wants me out of t he parent' house so that she can 'live' in peace with her family. Started a pattern of gangsttalking and community harassment which was untoward in my area. I've moved 4 units in 6 months. Very unusual of the owner too ,Feeling unsafe everywhere i go. Destroying us(me,family) mentally,finacially. WHat should i do ? Feeling helpless.
what i should do ???
I’ve sought support to cope with unfair anti social neighbour behaviour previously on a different site’ but the housing association discovered my complaints and still don’t believe me!
I’ve had to waste my precious and limited time sending multiple recordings across various and many now lost and stopped working devices , I’ve sent in logs written and typed, I’ve had noise monitor out in by the council, I’ve attended in person meetings and tried everything other than acting with aggression or taking it to court.
But now I’m not going to be kind any more!
Today I’m in so much pain including dental and I am not coping. I can’t get outside even to a pharmacy and in Thai flat I don’t even have the liberty to make calls in peace because of fear of my neighbour sharing my personal details with others. He and his equally vicious and racist neighbours have already loudly banged and verbalised the most offensive things about me including of my single status, my unemployment status (not that’s it’s ANY of their business!),my ethnic minority status, my obviously not having any family or friends, so essentially they’ve preyed on the fact I have no one and nothing to defend myself with other than me!
I am a lone living woman, with multiple vulnerabilities and concerns, and currently not in work and I have been subjected
I’m in the process of trying to find a different living space but as you will know it’s not an easy journey for us all to simply get up and go especially with limited social housing availability as well as financial struggles.
Plus it cost me time, stress and money just to get into this upstairs, small, unsuitable flat which was an empty and dire state over which I’ve had to cover the ugliness, the damage, the obscene painting and graffiti (another graffiti was discovered recently in the locked front shed) and honestly you wouldn’t believe how horrid a state of flat the housing association gave me!
Carpeted, wallpapered, and somewhat furnished (still no dining table, sofa, cabinet, coffee table or other things I consider essential to a comfortable home) I’ve made this flat that I rent my home, my headquarters, my hideaway from the world … only I’m not safe, I’m not free, I’m not okay!
The downstairs neighbour whilst seeming innocent to others is a definite pervert and I don’t make such accusations lightly or casually. He’s sat at bus stops when I get off the bus and then walks behind me, when he comes back on his bike he stops behind me for ages even though his flat in front of the steps I have to get up , he bangs (doing it now at 08:58), he’s called me a clown, a c***, and other offensive things and I’ve recorded it and shown together housing and they still do nothing about it,
I know when to choose my battles and I’ve been to rough so many traumas in my life but just think of the trouble for a woman who left home , became homeless, went to refuges, waiting ages on a social housing wait list, and finally got offe
Dear sir or madam
I've got video evidence of neighbours either side of me maliciously gossiping about me . And over the past six years I have witnessed the same guy visiting lots of other neighbours and spreading malicious gossip about me. Please inform me of can I get them arrested and charged etc?--- or how much will it cost for me to file civil lawsuits against them? please ?? contact me asap. thanks.
Regards
Terry Connor
077 48 99 44 20
01744 63 62 63
Then the board of directors got an attorney saying mold ( coming from wall) and bad floors are my responsibility to pay for. My attorney says it’s not.
I have complained to the maintenance man about incompetence in regard to no returned phone calls, telling me they are too busy and not being able to speak at a board meeting. I have complained via text to him. Is this considered harassment?
I thought 999 was emergency
So I phoned 911 from a mobile in error and they said it was emergency services.
Just to confuse things further 112 in Europe or UK will put you through to Emergency services.
It turns out 101 is the local police number in the UK. I only got through to a voice system. Last time I tried to use the number was to report a left rucksack in a bus shelter. There could have been anything in it so I was not going to check it out. I was held in a queue for half an hour so gave up....
I live upstairs and I am african, my neighbor downstairs is Caucasian, she harasses me everyday and claims i am disturbing her, even after I switched off all my appliances so as not to bother her, my neighbors interceded for me by asking her why she treats me like that because she was calling police everyday and I tried explaining to her that I have no control over my movements to the toilet and she screamed at me this morning like she doesn’t even want to see me at all. I am emotionally disturbed…. im being bullied by her because I am african…I tried complaining to the landlord but they took her side….im trying to move out for peace sake but my lease was recently renewed. I need help…
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