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What Should we do About Our Neighbour's Complaining?

By: Jeff Durham - Updated: 6 Feb 2017 | comments*Discuss
 
Noisy Neighbours Neighbourhood Noise

Q.

We have a flat within a 1930's converted house. Since we've had new neighbours they keep complaining about the noise from our flat (mainly the bedroom which is above thiers), but we didn't have any problems with the people who lived there before. We can hear the same noise from the flat above which we have put down to the fact that this is a conversion and not purpose built.

We have tried to rent out the flat but the neighbours seem to keep pushing our tenants out. We have tried to talk to them and put rugs down etc... but they keep knocking on the door and complaining to our tenants. What should we do?

(Miss Marie Rice, 11 November 2008)

A.

This would seem to be a case of a house conversion where sound insulation seems to have not been too high up on the agenda when it was converted into separate flats.

You say that previous tenants in the flat in question didn’t have any problem with noise from your flat and that you, too, can hear the same level of noise from the flat above, so it would appear that you have accepted that the design of the house conversion does not lend itself too well to good sound insulation. Nevertheless, there would seem to be some sort of problem in that you keep receiving complaints.

There are strict laws governing noise nuisance under the Environmental Protection Act 1990 but they are usually more associated with issues such as loud music, barking dogs, shouting and arguing and lots of banging and loud children. Certain other factors also come into play with regards to noise levels after 11pm at night. However, you’ve given no indication here that any of the above is the issue here.

You’ve also taken some steps to try to resolve the matter by putting down rugs to try to reduce the noise levels somewhat. Therefore, based solely on the evidence you’ve presented here, it would appear that you have fussy neighbours who would prefer to live in complete silence, in spite of the fact that they have chosen to live in a place with thin walls. However, without knowing the facts, that is difficult to say.

You also say that you’ve tried to reason with the complainants but that this hasn’t achieved anything. Therefore, to obtain a resolution it may well be that you’ll need to challenge your neighbours into making a complaint.

Tell them that in your opinion, you feel you are doing nothing wrong and that if they wish to complain, they should contact the local Environment Department and ask them to investigate the matter. If you or your tenants are truly not making excess noise and the problem is simply one of thin walls, ceilings and floors, it may well be that the investigation team will simply discard their complaint.

If that’s the outcome, then theoretically, if they are ‘pushing your tenants out’ as you say, then you may have a case to take action against them for harassment, depending on what kind of evidence you have of that. On the other hand, the Environment Department could rule in their favour and force you into taking action to make further Soundproofing Improvements To Your Property.

Ideally, coming to an amicable agreement or going to see a mediation service is the best way forward. However, if this isn’t an option, the only way forward would seem to be letting the Environmental Health Department decide if there’s a problem or not.

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Hollymoo - Your Question:
Hi im holly my family are in a struggle the neighbours keep lying to the council saying they are making too much noise when they haven't they are well know to lie and they done this to the previous people that lived there its driving them to be ill my family are not far from losing tge house please give me some advice because the council want to throw my sister on the streets and her boyfriend paul and she could die as she has asthma and she has it badly anything can affect it please help me ??

Our Response:
The council need to have evidence of any noise before they can take any action to evict someone. You should ask the environmental health department about this. They will explain their procedure and tell you whether they have been monitoring the noise themselves.
ProblemNeighbours - 7-Feb-17 @ 2:19 PM
Hi im holly my family are in a struggle the neighbours keep lying to the council saying they are making too much noise when they haven't they are well know to lie and they done this to the previous people that lived there its driving them to be ill my family are not far from losing tge house please give me some advice because the council want to throw my sister on the streets and her boyfriend paul and she could die as she has asthma and she has it badly anything can affect it please help me ??
Hollymoo - 6-Feb-17 @ 5:35 PM
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AB - 20-Nov-16 @ 11:36 PM
We live in the third floor of a maisonettebuilding. I am a midwife and my partner is a nurse. I start work at 7pm and the hospital is in zone 6, therefore I need to wake up at 4.45 in order to be there on time. My partner also has some shifts when he starts working atpm and finishes at 2 am. Since we started living in this property nearly one year ago, the woman living under our flat has been complaining about noise since day 1 ( when we were in fact moving) sending us letters all the time regarding how noisy we are. We have not invited any of our friends due to this issue or hosted any house party. I am copying one of her last letters in here, where she threatens us saying she has spoken to our landlord ( we knew it was a lie as we have a landlady). Please read it and tell me if there is anything we can do as I think she is harassing us but I am not sure who shall I contact: "What time did your day begin? Mine began at 2:49, when you came home, (quoted my partners name), and proceeded to stomp around the flat (with your shoes on) for the next 30 minutes, then wake (quoted my name) up for a chat. I am really at my wits end guys. I feel as though every 6-7 weeks I need to remind you that there's someone that lives beneath your flat. I feel you are terribly inconsiderate neighbours and as such, I've now raised this issue to my landlord, your landlord and your property management company. Your landlord is less than pleased. He is friends with my landlord and understands the value of a tenant (like myself) who is quiet and respects others in the building. I 've been in the building nearly 8 years-so the value of my tenancy is important to him and he doesn't want me to go anywhere. Rest assured, if this middle-of-the-night noise continues your landlord will SERVE YOU NOTICE WITHOUT HESITATION. (Quotes my partner's name), please-for the thousandth time... when you come home in the middle of the night... PLEASE WILL YOU BE LIGHT ON YOUR FEET? Why is not possible for you to come in the door, brush your teeth & go to bed? I AM WITH YOU EVERY STEP OF THE WAY ONCE WOKEN UP... so until you go to bed (:30 minutes later)- we are both awake together. I am open to a discussion about this but really I've said all I need to. NORMAL PEOPLE WORK NORMAL HOURS AND REST BETWEEN THE HOURS OF 11PM AND 7AM. Clearly you do not work these hours so therefore you must (please) learn to think about people living around you and underneath you" This just one of her lovely letters.The previous one thanked us for going on holidays. Could this be considered harrasment?? Thanks for your help.
Nerea - 19-Oct-16 @ 2:24 PM
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Alex - 7-Jun-16 @ 8:03 PM
Chezzle - Your Question:
I live in a maisonette on the first floor with my two children who are 4 & 7. An elderly couple live below us.We have lived there nearly three years. The couple speak to me amicably and have given my kids sweets and ice lollies on occasions. We live in a quiet cup Dr sac where there is a neighbourhood watch set up. I'm aware the road is full of relatively decent people and they like to keep the surrounding neat and tidy and I respect that. I rent the flat and before I signed the tenancy I asked the agent if the neighbours downstairs could hear any noise. She said no,that the floor is fairly thick. I signed up and have been here ever since. My 7 year old son is quite active,he likes to run and jump around alot. At weekends or after school he tends to jump about alot.He watches gymnastics and acrobats on his tablet ,so he tends to want to copy them and jumps off the sofa onto the floor.He does forward rolls and handstands.It's not excessive and its not like we make a noise late at night or anything. Anyway,today I was busy cleaning the kitchen and doing washing and ironing. My son's were playing making a den nicely and then occasionally there was jumping about.Also sometimes my youngest will get upset and stamp his feet.So I get a bang on the door.It was the elderly lady downstairs.She asked abruptly what all the noise was about. I said it was my son's,and was sorry.She went on saying it has been going on constantly and it is making her ill. She said the tenants before me would make a noise too by dancing and stamping their feet.She told them about it. She said the floor/ceiling is only thin and they can hear every noise we make ,that includes the vacuum and the washing machine. I told her I will try and keep the noise down. Now how do I do that? How can I live watching every move we make and not making a noise.I needed to vacuum today as the place was a mess but I put it off because of the neighbours. Not only that the man who does the neighbourhood watch came complaining about my son's one time because they left a few small toys outside and a bit of dirt they were playing with their digger toys.He said they were making the place a mess and it should be cleared up.I thought the cheeky so and so. I am to renew my tenancy soon and so do I tell the letting agent? Also could I tell the council about it and see if they could help me with finding somewhere else to live?

Our Response:
It's terribly difficult to live in an upstairs flat or maisonette with small children. It may be worth applying to the council for alternative accommodation.
ProblemNeighbours - 6-Jun-16 @ 11:47 AM
I live in a maisonette on the first floor with my two children who are 4 & 7. An elderly couple live below us.We have lived there nearly three years. The couple speak to me amicably and have given my kids sweets and ice lollies on occasions. We live in a quiet cup Dr sac where there is a neighbourhood watch set up. I'm aware the road is full of relatively decent people and they like to keep the surrounding neat and tidy and I respect that. I rent the flat and before I signed the tenancy I asked the agent if the neighbours downstairs could hear any noise. She said no,that the floor is fairly thick. I signed up and have been here ever since. My 7 year old son is quite active,he likes to run and jump around alot. At weekends or after school he tends to jump about alot.He watches gymnastics and acrobats on his tablet ,so he tends to want to copy them and jumps off the sofa onto the floor.He does forward rolls and handstands .It's not excessive and its not like we make a noise late at night or anything. Anyway,today I was busy cleaning the kitchen and doing washing and ironing. My son's were playing making a den nicely and then occasionally there was jumping about.Also sometimes my youngest will get upset and stamp his feet .So I get a bang on the door.It was the elderly lady downstairs.She asked abruptly what all the noise was about. I said it was my son's,and was sorry.She went on saying it has been going on constantly and it is making her ill. She said the tenants before me would make a noise too by dancing and stamping their feet.She told them about it. She said the floor/ceiling is only thin and they can hear every noise we make ,that includes the vacuum and the washing machine. I told her I will try and keep the noise down. Now how do I do that? How can I live watching every move we make and not making a noise.I needed to vacuum today as the place was a mess but I put it off because of the neighbours. Not only that the man who does the neighbourhood watch came complaining about my son's one time because they left a few small toys outside and a bit of dirt they were playing with their digger toys.He said they were making the place a mess and it should be cleared up.I thought the cheeky so and so. I am to renew my tenancy soon and so do I tell the letting agent? Also could I tell the council about it and see if they could help me with finding somewhere else to live?
Chezzle - 3-Jun-16 @ 10:22 PM
I live in a maisonette on the first floor with my two children who are 4 & 7. An elderly couple live below us.We have lived there nearly three years. The couple speak to me amicably and have given my kids sweets and ice lollies on occasions. We live in a quiet cup Dr sac where there is a neighbourhood watch set up. I'm aware the road is full of relatively decent people and they like to keep the surrounding neat and tidy and I respect that. I rent the flat and before I signed the tenancy I asked the agent if the neighbours downstairs could hear any noise. She said no,that the floor is fairly thick. I signed up and have been here ever since. My 7 year old son is quite active,he likes to run and jump around alot. At weekends or after school he tends to jump about alot.He watches gymnastics and acrobats on his tablet ,so he tends to want to copy them and jumps off the sofa onto the floor.He does forward rolls and handstands .It's not excessive and its not like we make a noise late at night or anything. Anyway,today I was busy cleaning the kitchen and doing washing and ironing. My son's were playing making a den nicely and then occasionally there was jumping about.Also sometimes my youngest will get upset and stamp his feet .So I get a bang on the door.It was the elderly lady downstairs.She asked abruptly what all the noise was about. I said it was my son's,and was sorry.She went on saying it has been going on constantly and it is making her ill. She said the tenants before me would make a noise too by dancing and stamping their feet.She told them about it. She said the floor/ceiling is only thin and they can hear every noise we make ,that includes the vacuum and the washing machine. I told her I will try and keep the noise down. Now how do I do that? How can I live watching every move we make and not making a noise.I needed to vacuum today as the place was a mess but I put it off because of the neighbours. Not only that the man who does the neighbourhood watch came complaining about my son's one time because they left a few small toys outside and a bit of dirt they were playing with their digger toys.He said they were making the place a mess and it should be cleared up.I thought the cheeky so and so. I am to renew my tenancy soon and so do I tell the letting agent? Also could I tell the council about it and see if they could help me with finding somewhere else to live?
Chezzle - 30-May-16 @ 9:42 AM
I live in a maisonette on the first floor with my two children who are 4 & 7. An elderly couple live below us.We have lived there nearly three years. The couple speak to me amicably and have given my kids sweets and ice lollies on occasions. We live in a quiet cup Dr sac where there is a neighbourhood watch set up. I'm aware the road is full of relatively decent people and they like to keep the surrounding neat and tidy and I respect that. I rent the flat and before I signed the tenancy I asked the agent if the neighbours downstairs could hear any noise. She said no,that the floor is fairly thick. I signed up and have been here ever since. My 7 year old son is quite active,he likes to run and jump around alot. At weekends or after school he tends to jump about alot.He watches gymnastics and acrobats on his tablet ,so he tends to want to copy them and jumps off the sofa onto the floor.He does forward rolls and handstands .It's not excessive and its not like we make a noise late at night or anything. Anyway,today I was busy cleaning the kitchen and doing washing and ironing. My son's were playing making a den nicely and then occasionally there was jumping about.Also sometimes my youngest will get upset and stamp his feet .So I get a bang on the door.It was the elderly lady downstairs.She asked abruptly what all the noise was about. I said it was my son's,and was sorry.She went on saying it has been going on constantly and it is making her ill. She said the tenants before me would make a noise too by dancing and stamping their feet.She told them about it. She said the floor/ceiling is only thin and they can hear every noise we make ,that includes the vacuum and the washing machine. I told her I will try and keep the noise down. Now how do I do that? How can I live watching every move we make and not making a noise.I needed to vacuum today as the place was a mess but I put it off because of the neighbours. Not only that the man who does the neighbourhood watch came complaining about my son's one time because they left a few small toys outside and a bit of dirt they were playing with their digger toys.He said they were making the place a mess and it should be cleared up.I thought the cheeky so and so. I am to renew my tenancy soon and so do I tell the letting agent? Also could I tell the council about it and see if they could help me with finding somewhere else to live?
Chezzle - 30-May-16 @ 3:48 AM
I live in a maisonette on the first floor with my two children who are 4 & 7. An elderly couple live below us.We have lived there nearly three years. The couple speak to me amicably and have given my kids sweets and ice lollies on occasions. We live in a quiet cup Dr sac where there is a neighbourhood watch set up. I'm aware the road is full of relatively decent people and they like to keep the surrounding neat and tidy and I respect that. I rent the flat and before I signed the tenancy I asked the agent if the neighbours downstairs could hear any noise. She said no,that the floor is fairly thick. I signed up and have been here ever since. My 7 year old son is quite active,he likes to run and jump around alot. At weekends or after school he tends to jump about alot.He watches gymnastics and acrobats on his tablet ,so he tends to want to copy them and jumps off the sofa onto the floor.He does forward rolls and handstands .It's not excessive and its not like we make a noise late at night or anything. Anyway,today I was busy cleaning the kitchen and doing washing and ironing. My son's were playing making a den nicely and then occasionally there was jumping about.Also sometimes my youngest will get upset and stamp his feet .So I get a bang on the door.It was the elderly lady downstairs.She asked abruptly what all the noise was about. I said it was my son's,and was sorry.She went on saying it has been going on constantly and it is making her ill. She said the tenants before me would make a noise too by dancing and stamping their feet.She told them about it. She said the floor/ceiling is only thin and they can hear every noise we make ,that includes the vacuum and the washing machine. I told her I will try and keep the noise down. Now how do I do that? How can I live watching every move we make and not making a noise.I needed to vacuum today as the place was a mess but I put it off because of the neighbours. Not only that the man who does the neighbourhood watch came complaining about my son's one time because they left a few small toys outside and a bit of dirt they were playing with their digger toys.He said they were making the place a mess and it should be cleared up.I thought the cheeky so and so. I am to renew my tenancy soon and so do I tell the letting agent? Also could I tell the council about it and see if they could help me with finding somewhere else to live?
Chezzle - 29-May-16 @ 11:15 PM
I live in a maisonette on the first floor with my two children who are 4 & 7. An elderly couple live below us.We have lived there nearly three years. The couple speak to me amicably and have given my kids sweets and ice lollies on occasions. We live in a quiet cup Dr sac where there is a neighbourhood watch set up. I'm aware the road is full of relatively decent people and they like to keep the surrounding neat and tidy and I respect that. I rent the flat and before I signed the tenancy I asked the agent if the neighbours downstairs could hear any noise. She said no,that the floor is fairly thick. I signed up and have been here ever since. My 7 year old son is quite active,he likes to run and jump around alot. At weekends or after school he tends to jump about alot.He watches gymnastics and acrobats on his tablet ,so he tends to want to copy them and jumps off the sofa onto the floor.He does forward rolls and handstands .It's not excessive and its not like we make a noise late at night or anything. Anyway,today I was busy cleaning the kitchen and doing washing and ironing. My son's were playing making a den nicely and then occasionally there was jumping about.Also sometimes my youngest will get upset and stamp his feet .So I get a bang on the door.It was the elderly lady downstairs.She asked abruptly what all the noise was about. I said it was my son's,and was sorry.She went on saying it has been going on constantly and it is making her ill. She said the tenants before me would make a noise too by dancing and stamping their feet.She told them about it. She said the floor/ceiling is only thin and they can hear every noise we make ,that includes the vacuum and the washing machine. I told her I will try and keep the noise down. Now how do I do that? How can I live watching every move we make and not making a noise.I needed to vacuum today as the place was a mess but I put it off because of the neighbours. Not only that the man who does the neighbourhood watch came complaining about my son's one time because they left a few small toys outside and a bit of dirt they were playing with their digger toys.He said they were making the place a mess and it should be cleared up.I thought the cheeky so and so. I am to renew my tenancy soon and so do I tell the letting agent? Also could I tell the council about it and see if they could help me with finding somewhere else to live?
Chezzle - 29-May-16 @ 11:06 PM
leigh - Your Question:
Please help we have recently layed New grass in our garden and obviously it needs to be watered. My husband turns the sprinkler on first thing in the morning at around 6.30 for about half hour and I put it on at night at around 8.30-9pm after I've made sure that the neighbours washing and everyone is indoors but they keep coming and knocking saying to turn it off as we are getting there path wet. I'm at my wits end it's not excessive just what the new grass needs, but to top it off they have complained about my children playing and making noise, but we have to put up with there children throwing stones over the fence which has hit me and nearly hit my 2 yr old balls constantly coming over damageing plants ext and there children hanging over the wall shouting at us to get there ball or just staring at us which aggravates my dog. I could really do with some advise please thank you

Our Response:
The advice regarding the water is simply to position your sprinkler so it's not spraying into your neighbour's garden. You can do this easily by propping a hose pipe on a stand and re-positioning it to spray different parts of your lawn at various times. At 6.30am on a fine day or after 8.30 or 9pm there's still a chance that someone will be outside or washing will be out on a line, so it's unfair to intrude on your neighbour's property in this way. As for the dispute over children's noise and dogs barking...is there a chance you could discuss this amicably together with your neighbours? Or perhaps consider using a mediation service? Unless the noise occurs at night times, there is not much the environmental health department can do about "family noise & activity"
ProblemNeighbours - 19-May-16 @ 2:20 PM
We live in an end terrace house with our 2 kids (5 yr old and 2 yr old). Our neighbours had a baby soon after we moved in about 2 yrs back. They have been complaining for the last 2 yrs about my kids going up and down the stairs, and disturbing their baby specially in the evenings. We have explained to our kids about keeping the noise down specially on the stairs and the neighbours even acknowledged that ie, that they hear us telling the kids about it..my kids don’t make banging noises or shout and they listen when we remind them about the noise. Also we have completely stopped inviting friends and family in the evening because we don't want to disturb the neighbours. We have apologised many times but what is frustrating is that they are still complaining about their nearly 2 yr old child waking up for the noise when my kids use the stairs..! I am very upset as we have tried everything we can and it is annoying reminding the kids about the noise all the time. Appreciate your advice.
Rose - 18-May-16 @ 11:08 PM
Please help we have recently layed New grass in our garden and obviously it needs to be watered. My husband turns the sprinkler on first thing in the morning at around 6.30 for about half hour and I put it on at night at around 8.30-9pm after I've made sure that the neighbours washing and everyone is indoors but they keep coming and knocking saying to turn it off as we are getting there path wet. I'm at my wits end it's not excessive just what the new grass needs, but to top it off they have complained about my children playing and making noise, but we have to put up with there children throwing stones over the fence which has hit me and nearly hit my 2 yr old balls constantly coming over damageing plants ext and there children hanging over the wall shouting at us to get there ball or just staring at us which aggravates my dog. I could really do with some advise please thank you
leigh - 17-May-16 @ 1:20 PM
Natroey87 - Your Question:
I have been living in my house for 8 years and never had a complaint. We had a new set of neighbours move in November 2014, since then I have had constant abuse from them! I got a letter of complaint about us having too many barbecues (my partner and I and our three kids) playing music too loud, kids being noisy. In summer, we do have bbq's outside but it's only our family, we like to play football in the garden and have a laugh. The music thing, we both work mon-fri 9-5, what's wrong to us listening to music on a weekend? But hear me out.we don't have it blasting out in the living room, right next to next door, we listen to music on my phone in the kitchen with the door shut! I try to be considerate, we're really not that bad. The neighbour has been round on two occasions and physically pushed me, told me I'm a terrible mother, that my kids would be better off without me!My kids all grew up in this house and right now I just want to move away to get away from it all! I think I could be a lot worse, I don't know why they think we are destroying their lives so much.If I have to move to get away from them, they are not just ruining my life, but my children's lives as well! Honest opinions/replies please!

Our Response:
This sounds like your neighbour being intolerant: the previous neighbours never complained; family noise in the garden during the day is not usually accepted as a noise/nuisance worth investigated; playing music indoors on a reasonable volume is fine; your noise is not between the hours of 11pm and 7pm and finally they have not right to push you or to comment and your parenting. If this persists, you might want to consider asking them to attend a mediation session with you as you don't think your behaviour is unreasonable but clearly they have an issue with it. The extreme response - but we don't think it's got to that stage - would be to report the neighbour for harassment.
ProblemNeighbours - 22-Apr-16 @ 10:46 AM
ducatirose - Your Question:
I have a neighbour who complains about everything my cherry tree drops leaves in his garden so he wants me to cut it down, sends over people to give me quotes! There is a long list of things he has done in the past which I consider out of order, but the most recent harrassement is today I just played a video clip of a song at 16:30 in the afternoon, a 3 minute clip the volume wasn't excessive but it was louder than normal but next thing he's at the door complaining about noise because he has his windows open, just to give a little history on this - he also complained about a cat meowing in my house when I was cat sitting while my brother went on holiday, I was was out at the time so he phoned my parents and left the complaint! How would you deal with this type of person?

Our Response:
The best advice we can give you is to simply ignore it and be as friendly as you can. You do not have any responsibility for the leaves that are dropping in his garden and as long as your music was not excessive, it's unlikely that any action could be taken with regards to this. The enviromental health servicves would probably not take his complaints seriously. If his complaining persists and is getting you down, you could suggest mediation or threaten to report him for harassment?
ProblemNeighbours - 19-Apr-16 @ 2:05 PM
I have a neighbour who complains about everything my cherry tree drops leaves in his garden so he wants me to cut it down, sends over people to give me quotes!There is a long list of things he has done in the past which i consider out of order, but the most recent harrassement is today i just played a video clip of a song at 16:30 in the afternoon, a 3 minute clip the volume wasn't excessive but it was louder than normal but next thing he's at the door complaining about noise because he has his windows open, just to give a little history on this - he also complained about a cat meowing in my house when i was cat sitting while my brother went on holiday, i was was out at the time so he phoned my parents and left the complaint!How would you deal with this type of person?
ducatirose - 17-Apr-16 @ 5:30 PM
I live in housing association house. It has been convert ed into 4flats, 2up&2 down. When you open front door of house it is still same as originally was, it is only converted by 1 wall straight Trough a large room and called 2 flats. I am by front door which has 4 buzzers and my bedroom is by front door. You can hear everything from people having sex to filling their kettles plugging in and out plugs and everything that is said when people are talking, loud music barking dogs creaking floors, and abuse when you complain to tenant and no action taken when you report to housing association.
Delirious - 12-Apr-16 @ 7:24 PM
I have a flat within a 1930's converted house.complaining about the noise from my flatbut when i made the same complaints about the neighbor above me the council said is built on regulation . I can hear the same noise from the flat above which they have new babynever complaints have put down to the fact that this is a conversion and not purpose built. I have complaint so many time about the neighbor dog barking and i have called the noise patrol and the neighbor still have her dog I have been living in the flat since 2003 and only the last 3 months has been constant visit from the police and the council about my TV which is very low, my exercise bike and me walking in my own flat i have ask the council to make some changes they have put the new carpet and new thick underlay and the noise still and the neighbors still complaining and the council are threatening me to take me to court to get evicted Please any help or any guidance will be appreciated the intervention officer is coming on Thursday the 7/4/2016 Sami
sami - 5-Apr-16 @ 2:14 PM
My son who is 37 is going through hell at the minute, he has an upstairs neighbour who has been constantly complaining about him the nature of the complaints are that he is slamming doors, but he is not doing this and also talking on his mobile phone, playing with his dog, and playing loud music ,we know there is a problem with the soundproofing in the property but the council are evading this issue. My son has been warned he is not allowed to do these things, it has got to the point whereby sound monitoring equipment is to be installed in the upstairs flat, my son has been constantly threatened with eviction over these complaints to the point where he is suffering very badly with depression and anxiety, he does not play loud music and in fact I have realised that he has actually been creeping around in his home which is not normal living but he is too frightened to do anything else. My son has had to call the police on a couple of occasions when the neighbour in question tried to kick his front door down and rip his window out of the frame one night after 11.30pm but he would not press charges and just asked the police to come back and see the man the following day and ask him to stop, he has threatened to kill him and still the council seem to be taking his part in the situation. Mediation failed when the neighbour announced that he works with people who suffer from mental health problems (autism) my son simply could not believe that the man could work in that field and yet behave so badly towards him when he is suffering from a mental illness at the moment. My son walked out of the mediation meeting in disgust. Being accused of anti social behaviour is literally killing him and the council are making matters worse. There is always going to be everyday noise in properties, doors do not always close quietly, dogs run around, dogs bark, music however low travels. However the real anti social behaviour is when someone intimidates, bullies, bangs on the floor causing electric light fittings to become loose and then constantly complains about someone elses normal living. This is harrassment and not just from the neighbour but the council as well. I just hope that the noise monitoring equipment proves that my son is actually the victim in this situation. My son refuses to enter into petty complaining but I do believe the neighbour has a medical problem especially as my son has barely had a nights sleep since the man moved in because his snoring is so loud and I also believe that when this man starts banging on the floor at 3.30am it is because he has in fact woken himself up with his own snoring. As for the threatening behaviour and threats to kill my son has this on video though the council are not interested in seeing this, now every time my son gets out of his car he puts his phone on record because he fears there will be some confrontation, some neighbours who live near him have spoken to him about what is happening but are not willing involve th
vi - 22-Aug-15 @ 10:30 AM
Hi Macca Are your rabbits thumping at night (mines do.. foot stamping) it's a predator alert!!. i have an old bag next to meand it's constantly complain complain to the copscouncil etc... old bag syndrome!!...apparently mine were seen using hammers at night.. DIY'ng their hutches etc... just ignore her!!..
wolf - 16-Jun-15 @ 8:06 PM
@macca. There's not much you can do about people like this unfortunately just carry on as you are and try and keep any unnecessary loud noises to a minimum.
ProblemNeighbours - 12-Mar-15 @ 11:48 AM
i am a Council tenant and have not long had a new Neighbour move in next door, she owns her house and for some reason thinks it is fine to complain about everything, i brought my kids 2 rabbits but i have now got one because she knocked at the door and complained about the rabbits making to much noise in the garden at night !!!!!. Now iv had her at the door complaining about an ALARM on one of my sons phone being to loud apparently it vibrated through the walls, how ever i never once got a complaint off the old neighbours. Iv always been polite and never complained about her doing works when she moved in even after hours but this is getting stupid. any ideas ?
macca - 9-Mar-15 @ 9:55 PM
@gynte. The police should soon "become wise" to these calls from your neighbour if they are unnecessary. If you a noise investigation takes place (e.g if your neighbour contacts environmental health), then they will establish that the noises are simply normal, daily events rather than excessive and/or inconsideration. Just carry on and try to ignore the complaints.
ProblemNeighbours - 5-Mar-15 @ 11:15 AM
i live in house for a year and next dor neighbour keeps calling police on my because i have partys and loud music..wich is not that at allone day i diside to change carpet at home ones work was done police came because off loud noises in house i explain them reason but neighbours still unhappy ewen if I'm cleaning house and usin huwer it's insane i can't live like this anymore. what i should do too stop them reporting or how i can make complain about them .
gynte - 2-Mar-15 @ 11:06 AM
Hi I have an 18 mnths old baby, and we stay in rented apartment since 3years. We never had any complain from the earlier neighbor.Though lately we have got a letter from agency that neighbor has complaint about us over the jumping and running noise from our flat.Out hall's floor is a laminate flooring, on which we always walk bare foot to avoid any kind of noise.but about baby we cannot do anything, we can not keep her confined to a single place. We are feeling helpless as our baby is too small to understand anything, and we can not refrain her walking or running in home. and she is active between mostly 8am to 9pm only, which we have conveyed to the agency as well.. Along with the point that, we donotplay loud music or party at home. I am worried and not sure what can i do .Kindly advice and what is our rights in this situation. THanks
ABC - 27-Jun-14 @ 10:09 PM
I have an issue with our new neighbours, we bought the house end of last year, we have not even moved yet as the house was in such a mess we needed to get planning permission to make repairs and improvements. Since our neighbours found out they have done nothing but complain and have now made it that I no longer wish to move in and wish I had never bought the house. I have two young children and it is always the husband that comes round which I find very intimidating and done for that reason. Their complaints are never based on correct information, they objected to planning making comments that were incorrect, despite it would not affect them in anyway. They complained about the hedge saying a hedge would be affected but at the moment their precious hedge has brambles sticking out of it causing scratches to my children, which they then suddenly decide its not their hedge.They wont accept responsibility for cutting it despite them claiming its their precious hedge, not that precious if its full of brambles! Planning decision was granted in our favour, and now they are complaining about other issues. They seem intent on making life miserable for us constantly complaining and we are now afraid to do anything to the property as they will complain about that too. Does anyone know how to put an end to this constant petty complaining? A friend said maybe they were used to livingnext door to a little old lady who didn't do much or make any noise and now they don't like it that a family has moved in, but surely this cannot be an excuse, they don't own the street. Advise is much needed, we are currently living withmy parents whilst the building work is done, but their constant interfering and complaing is causing longer and longer delays.
Roundthebend - 3-Mar-14 @ 3:39 PM
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